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My hair is falling out in clumps. I find it in my apartment, in my sheets, everywhere.
When I shower or just brush my hair it is worse. I find strands everywhere.
Is this a thyroid issue? I also moved across the country for my job a month ago. I don't feel stressed, I don't feel anxious, and I'm loving my new residence and job.
I'm also not overweight, although I do find it hard to wake up, even if I had 9+ hours of sleep. But when I stand up, hormones take over and I'm fine and awake.
Can I go to a GP in the US to get a test and find out how hat exactly is going on? Or do I need an endocrine specialist?
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I have thyroid issues OP and
>although I do find it hard to wake up, even if I had 9+ hours of sleep.
was one of the first indicators I had a hormone fuck-up. I only felt rested if I slept 12+ hours. Visit a physician ASAP.
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>>16553468
What exactly will happen if I am diagnosed with hypothyroidism or Hashimotos?
How does it affect your life? Was hair falling our another sign for you?
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I was balding when i finally went to the docs , it was thyroid. Now my hair is smexy again
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The guy who works the front office at my apartment complex is really cute. I dunno if I should ask him out though. I'm a bit of a loser and you can guess the conflicts of interest involved. I dunno if he's even gay. ...But he's so cute I don't know what to do with myself. Halp /adv/.
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Just start as a friendly individual, then move to more of a jokey type who you two see enough and then once you two are comfortable enough you make your move.
Also is that picture suppose to be your fantasy? Little kid kissing an fat lardass adult? Wait a minute is this a pedophile I am giving advice to?
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Just man it up (lol) and ask him. What's the worst that could happen? Him not being gay and you two having a laugh.
Ask him, or you'll regret it
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>>16553457
Him not being gay, feeling disgusted, and stop delivering mail to OP.
I feel so lonely I cry pretty much every morning. I don't want to kill myself but it's terrible. I have a family that loves me, friends that like me a lot, no gf (I'm not a virgin but I'm gfless since I can remember). Three days ago I asked a girl for a day to go on a date with and she said she'll check her agenda, sent me a kiss and never heard of her anymore. Should I tell her I'm desperately in need for a date? The date itself could be enough to experience something exciting once in this crap life.
I'm not even ugly, I'm 1.90 mt, athletic, face is average, /soc/ gave me 7 but I think it's a 6, whatever. The issue is that Tinder and the likes have too many 8,9/10 guys so there's no chance for me at all. And dating in real life... I wouldn't even know where to start, I'm 29 and I'm pretty much set with my coworkers and friends as far as social life goes.
Anyway, sorry for the textwall, my question is up there
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just a bump
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Don't tell her that you sorry sack of shit. Jesus christ the fastest way to make a girl running is to proclaim you are desperate.
You are desperate to get laid and feel that tinder has too much competition right?
Two solutions:
Plentyoffish (lots of ugly women but hey beggars like you can't be choosers)
Calling up a hooker
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Don't be desperate. Just tend the field. If you don't set reasonable standards then you won't get gf material out of any dates.
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Why do girls in relationships try so hard to become friends with me and single girls don't? Am I just ideal friendzone material?
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Yep. Girls will friendzone your ass if they don't find you attractive but like the attention while single girls will just flat out reject you.
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They feel safer with the prospect of suggesting friendship because they're unavailable for anything more which you might want. It wouldn't be a straight rejection with the attendant risk of confrontation if you make a pass at her. She simply whips out the "I'm already taken, sorry!" card and all is well.
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>Why do girls in relationships try so hard to become friends with me and single girls don't?
girls in (longer) relationships like male attention/slight flirting cause they're bored
single girls get enough of both unless they're hideous
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Hey /adv/. I'm dating a younger girl, She's 16, i'm 26. First time dating someone this young.
She was raped by her uncle at an younger age, who she regularly sees. She didn't file anything agaisnt because she didn't want trouble with family/ruin his life/yadda yadda. She just asked him to get groceries for her, he is going to her house with the stuff. It seems she asks him things like this often.
Thing is, i told her i was bothered by it, and she says he won't do anything and that he has a boyfriend. She asked for a ''kiss'', then asked why i was bothered. I told her ''That means nothing. Get some common sense, put yourself in my place, then re ask yourself that question.'' She said ''sorry'', and, minutes later, said, ''But what if he attempts/tries anything?'', in an attempt to either make me jealous, or see what i'd do, or both. She lives 2 hours away from me. I'm enraged. I didn't explode at her, i spoke very little, and excused myself to finish my work. I'm mad. I also know that i was a retard for engaging in LDR with an younger, stupid as fuck girl. specially this one. What do i do ? Is this a reason to break up? Asking that shit was beyond retarded for someone like me, who she knows is jealous. Not only that, i'm her fucking boyfriend, is this a way to try to make me jealous? Using her fucking rapist, which she sees much more often than me?
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You are fucking a child, and you're complaining that SHE isn't moral enough? Fuck you.
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Seriously, please be fucking trolling. If not, this is all kinds of fucked up m8
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You act like a 16 year old, so I guess she's a good match for you. Enjoy getting kucked by a pedophole, ephebophile.
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I'm a senior in high school. I know I am. I'm someone who's obsessed with instant gratification pretty much.
So its around the time to start applying for colleges, and I know I'm going to have to go to community college. I got abysmal grades in high school, I have no excuse for my academics at all. I was/am basically a stoner in high school, I don't and never really smoked every day and I barely do anymore but I'm still in that mentality. I do hard drugs occasionally because I am an idiot. I'm just a shithead who knew I was throwing my life away but didn't care. My doctor said I had ADD and depression and possibly a personality disorder, but none of that shit is an excuse to how I am. I know I can accomplish things I just procrastinate and fuck around and I just have no willpower. I basically have a D-average GPA wise.My family isn't rich. We're lower middle class and I'm a burden to them. My older brother is a fuckup and I was the smart one, but it all went downhill in 8th grade. Now we're both failures. My parents are immigrants and worked hard making our lives good, they came from third world shitholes. My dad never talks to me anymore and neglects his whole family, and my mom has horrible mood swings and is on SSRIs. We have a history of mental illness, so it doesn't surprise me I'm fucked up. But I know it's not an excuse and people get by in worst situations. I just needed to vent and provide some background info.
Basically, in Massachusetts we have a CC transfer program. Keeping a 2.5-3.0 GPA means you can transfer to any state school you want after 2 years and do the remaining 2 years there. State schools in MA are good because we have a good education program compared to the rest of the US, and it's cheaper for me due to being a resident. Community college is pretty much my only choice right now, I could go to some lower-end state schools but my parents don't have a lot of money. I know I can get through CC in general if I put my mind to it.
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But I'm worried about my major. I'm fucking horrible at STEM. Like, plain awful. I'm shit at math and was in the lowest classes in high school. I like some aspects of science but any of it is conceptual shit, and popsci bullshit like 'oh wow space and physics are coool man'. My good classes were history related courses and english. You can guess where this is going. I want to major in History but it's fucking history. I'm afraid I'm wasting my parents money... college is kind of cheaper for me because of affirmative action I guess, but my parents would struggle to pay the 4-5k for CC every year. I'm likely going to take out a loan. I have never tried doing anything with my hands, but I'm so clumsy and I feel like I wouldn't do well. Trade school isn't out of the picture though.. I'm just unsure.
I did a programming course in HS with C and struggled to wrap my head around it. I'm just fucking dumb I guess, I have trouble paying attention in school. I know I could major in something practical and minor in something I love, but I don't think I could finish anything practical or like the job. I didn't like my Business courses... I don't know. I'm scared.
I know a History degree is useless and to go far with it and keep going to college I need money, and I don't have any. I really do love History and I have an interest in it past pophistory shit, and I enjoy reading. But I know this degree is kind of useless... should I major in History? What should I do? I'm just so worried and scared. Please help me guys, I'm going through a rough time.
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tl;dr family is poor, I'm a failure, going to CC and worried about my major because my passion is History and I know that I could learn what I'm passionate about studying shit by myself and keeping it as a hobby.
I just want to be happy and let my parents die knowing that I sort of got my life together and their hard work wasn't squandered.
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Optimal solution is easily tradeschool. It isn't that hard to learn, you learn from a apprentice and you get paid a solid wage right after you get licensed.
After that you work for a number of years and then go pursue your history degree on your own time with no pressure whatsoever.
The suboptimal would be going to university getting a degree in history, taking a loan and not getting a job at all.
The optimal solution is the best. Trades is for people who like to get hands on but get paid nicely as well. You can read history on your spare time and tell your parents this is the best route for your.
University isn't for you anon, even history is very difficult once you get third and fourth year. The pressure is high and the amount of room for error is slim.
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How much do people actually cheat?
Beats would have me believe girls are angels but people like on TheRedPill subreddit say women are children with no conscience ready to hop on dick at any opportunity.
Is it worth trusting people and putting yourself in a vulnerable position? Or does everybody nowadays cheat and there's no point deluding yourself into finding a romantic and monogamous relationship?
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Somewhat less than half of all women have cheated at least once in their lives. Somewhat less than 2/3 of men have cheated.
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>>16553200
Studies vary but show between 10% to around 20% of people cheat. So they are the minority.
Ask yourself, have you or would you ever cheat? If they answer is "no, of course not", then that's good enough evidence to believe there are other people out there exactly like you.
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>>16553200
My motto is "Enjoy the ride but don't compromise"
Just assume whoever you are with is already cheating on you an don't expect any less of them.
Is it possible for a woman to piss during an orgasm? I've never had one, but I've gotten close, and always fear that I'm going to pee once the release is there.
Can that actually happen or is this an irrational fear?
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It's physiologically possible, but it's also very unlikely. You'd be amazed by the amount of muscle control you maintain even in the midst of spasms.
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Common problem. Whenever that happens play the pomf pomf song in your head and yell "onii-chan yamete kyaaaa" and then make his penis melt inside of you. You'll be golden but not the shower kind.
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Try peeing before masturbating/having sex if you're worried?
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First time sex HELP
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I had sex for the first time today, overall it was a good experience but there were three major issues that I need help figuring out.
1. We went at it for six and a half hours (I wish I was kidding) and at no point did I edge or cum, the girl didn't really mind it but I was surprised and disappointed in myself. I have two theories as to why I couldn't cum: I masturbated and edged for like two hours before I met her, or it may be due to my excessive porn consumption, I've been fapping at least once per week for the past seven years and I vaguely remember reading that porn desensitizes you to the real thing. Could it be one of those two things?
2. I was super sensitive while penetrating in some positions; when I penetrated her while she was on her stomach and when we were on our side and I was humping her thighs I was super sensitive. This wasn't an issue when she was on top. I'm uncut and wearing a cheap condom didn't change things, we also tried different lubes, after two pumps the sensitive would hurt and I couldn't continue. What's this all about and how can I prevent this sensitive next time?
3. She was really not into me wearing a condom so even though I kept insisting she pass me a condom (I was bottom for almost the entire time) I only wore one about 30% of the time. I know STDs are no joke so how do I go about getting myself checked and is it too soon?
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You are at risk for STDs and she's at risk for pregnancy. Have you had her take Plan B? It needs to be taken within 3 days after unprotected sex. Here is when you should get tested for certain things.
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>not wearing a condom
wew lad definitely get tested but she could also become pregnant if she's not on any birth control
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>>16553072
how do I "get tested" though? I never had to do it before. I live in Canada.
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What porn do you watch with your gf/bf/spouse? I want to watch porn with my wife and she agreed, but I'm not sure where to start... downloaded some xconfessions and I'm considering xart, but I wonder if there's anything else that's fem friendly?
I remember her eyes going wide when she saw Fassbender's dick in "Shame", but I wonder if women really do see huge dicks as a turn on... She's obviously be ashamed to admit it to me, even though I'm cool with it (it's not like my dick is small so I honestly don't care).
Any useful recommendations/advice?
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my ex liked watching anything where the women/women enjoyed themselves, no bimbo or hardcore stuff.
She mostly wanted to see lesbians or amateur stuff.
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Uh maybe her eyes going wide was just the fact that she was surprised? I'd be too, doesn't mean I like big dicks or anything I actually don't care about the size. What I like most about a man are his hands anyway.
As for your question I think Hegre-Art could fit your description? But yeah I'm not really well versed in that subject
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I personally like Dane Jones' stuff and also Babes. Where the girl and guy both seem to be having fun and its respectful but also hot.
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So I recently found out that my girlfriend identifies as a non-binary gendered asexual. I don't really have a good understanding of what that entails and when I try to read up on it I start feeling really anxious and terrible.
I don't have any idea how to brooch this with her (him? them?). I feel really great when we're together but when I think about all this I feel like screaming. I like to think I'm the kind of person who shouldn't be bothered by this but idk. Am I a bad person if it does bother me?
tl;dr: non-binary asexual gf, freaking out a little
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>her (him? them?)
Unless she says otherwise, her is fine. She's aware of her sex. She just doesn't feel comfortable with gender roles.
>asexual
Her interest in people is based on every feeling except sexual attraction. Think of all the other good feelings you have around her. She has them too.
>Am I a bad person
No.
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If she was truly asexual their wouldn't be a relationship. Tell the bitch to stfu and suck your dick.
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nice troll post
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This is pathetic but here goes.
Every relationship I have goes great until sex. I under perform and they break up soon after.
I go to 'body rub escort' and was wondering if I should go full service with her but ask her if she could teach me how women like to have sex. The goal wouldn't be for me to enjoy it so much as to try lots of positions and for her to guide me through doing it well. I figure if we do that a couple times I'd be more confident and prepared for the future
I know it's beta as fuck but how else can I overcome this?
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you just need practice. probably better to get that from fat/ugly girls than from a whore.
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>>16552827
This makes no sense. Don't learn from inexperienced land whales.
Practice with the escort.
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>>16552818
What do you mean under perform? You either have sex or you don't.
If they're breaking up with you after the first time you have sex you're probably doing something weird or being really weird. Or changing personality or something.
Practising positions is fine, but it's not really going to help you since you already know what to do. I'd suggest you fuck the escort if you're so concerned you can't have sex with a girl properly since an escort doesn't care no matter how bad you are. But I'd also strongly suggest just having sex with a few more girls and asking them what you're doing wrong or why they're breaking up with you.
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A person who I've been friends with since I was very young has grown to become one of the douchiest people I have ever met. Recently he's talk shit about me getting rejected by this one girl I liked and while normally I can ussually get over him saying shit like that he's also called my sister a bitch and a slut. He thinks he's funny and that he's hot shit when his girlfriend is a confirmed slut. (I realize I may be sounding like a hypocrite here.)
Yesterday was the last straw for me as he started insulting my sister in a group chat in front of some other friends and now I'm just fixing to bash this dude's head in. Am I wrong to wanna fight him? Should I let it go, cut ties and just leave it be? Should I go over and fight him?
I get that I'm sounding like a white knight beta but I'm not someone who takes insults to my family lightly.
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He called your sister a slut... I think almost anyone would want to smack him around a bit,if they were in your shoes. No one can fault you for feeling that way.
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>>16552871
The trouble with me fighting is the fact that I got a bad right shoulder. It's been dislocated twice and I'm not sure if I wanna risk that shit again.
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Have a chat with him, only you two, and bring the subject up.
"Dude, I understand you don't give a fuck, but please do not say shit about my sister. It isn't funny, it's gross and I feel mad with that."
If he is your friend, he might whine but he'll understand you. If he isn't, well, then you can beat him without fear of losing a friend.
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/adv/ how can I become a good introvert.
I'm just an awkward stoner. I lived in different countries so I don't know how to talk to everyone.
I like weed. Helps me sleep.
I actually hate my self every before I go to sleep, just for opening my mouth. Kind of sad.
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Have same problem hate myself cuz I talk to much and make people feel bad. It makes me happy. I feel like dipshit.
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>>16552779
Why would you think it makes them feel bad? If you can talk a lot and actually say legit shit wouldn't you be an extrovert?
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>>16552772
>how can I become a good introvert
>posts picture of what appears to be a woman in a mental institution
Sorry for being completely unhelpful, I just found that funny.
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long distance friend wants me to move in with him
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we both just got dumped pretty hard is he trying to get in my pants or something?
hes always complaining about being single and i usually ignore it
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Maybe? Is he a good choice for a rebound?
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>>16552800
this is pretty much my first major break up so i've never had a rebound BUT
hes a great friend and hes attractive
but i'm worried of ruining our friendship
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Why aren't you telling him that? Move in together if you want, then after a few weeks if you're comfortable with it try being together.
This board wouldn't even exist if people just communicated instead of being whiney wanna be introverts.