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I want to ask a girl out that I've known for some months now. The thing is I don't see her too often and I'm not always the most fun person ever when she's around. I think I can probably do well if we do go out but I'm afraid that she may reject me if I ask her, for the reason that I didn't make a great impression yet. Should I take some more time and try to prove to her that I can be fun? Or should I ask her out already and hope for the best?
I know it's my fault for not having asked her out sooner.
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>>16554163
>for the reason that I didn't make a great impression yet.
How long will it take you to make a good impression?
Now consider this, how long will it take for someone else she knows to ask her out and become her boyfriend?
Stop wasting time. You've made your first impression, just ask her out right here and right now. Every second you waste saying "I'll look like an awesome person to her tomorrow" is a second someone else could be asking her out. Just do it already.
Besides. Dates are for making good impressions.
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>>16554163
Does she looks like a girl who wants a girl that makes a great impression?
If so, you should probably make a great impression before asking her out. Otherwise, you should be fine asking her out now. Maybe just spend some more time with her before that.
is the girl in the purple asking for it?
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>>16554143
Just another shade of gray.
In my opinion, if she was just with her girl friends, then no. If she didn't consent to this photo, no. If she didn't consent to this photo being posted, no.
If she was raped the night of this photo when she was pretty drunk, that's pretty gray.
If someone saw this photo and was like "Yea, I know she's a slut, so Im gonna rape her when I get the chance." Thats rape
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>guy whips out his dick
is he asking for it?
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do you think that little string she is wearing is hot?
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I have this ex boyfriend who literally ruined my life for a year and a half. I didn't know it because it was mostly online, but he was lying to me about his name, age, workplace, where he lived, his family. My father died six months into the relationship, and I was on bad terms with my dad because of this ex.
He took my virginity and then a few minutes later, I found out all the lies. Even after, he continued to lie.
I also spend over 1000 dollars on him.
To say the least, all the deception and betrayal has fucked me up. He catfished me online. I don't trust anyone at all anymore. I have no money because of him. I wasted a year and a half on him.
Is there any legal action I can take against him?
Tldr;
> got catfished throughout a year and a half relationship
> dad died on bad terms because of ex
> spent over 1000 dollars on him
> no money, wasted time, and don't trust anyone.
>Emotionally fucked up because of ex.
> legal action against him?
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Bumping to tame my curiosity. Hope you get an answer.
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>>16554047
Thanks.
Bump again
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No, your an idiot.
Can a girl learn to orgasm from penetration only?
Why do some girls get it from penetration and some don't?
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>>16554007
no u can't learn to, everyone just gets off on different stuff. it's anatomy. i can only orgasm from clit stimulation but penetration in tandem makes it way more enjoyable. never in all my years have i come from penetration tho i enjoy it more. sucks man
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>>16554019
It happened to me one single time in 11 years of sex and I feel like I'm just doing sex wrong if I still can't get it.
Clit stimulation with penetration works every time, but I've always wanted to just let go and cum without having to touch myself.
I've tried to let my partner touch me during but it's like no matter how he tries it just doesn't feel right.
It's really frustrating.
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>>16554045
I feel you. I don't have as much experience but I always have to stimulate my clit. Feels bad because my bf wants to make me cum on his own and it makes him think he's not good enough at it or something.
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ok please this is gonna sound kinda stupid but bear with me
>be 22
>make friends with 19 year old
>girl1 introduces me to girl 2 (pawg)
>one night we drank too much wine and started to fool around and make out no sex
>this happened again some other night
>we have become friends
>lust over girl 1 and girl2 whenever we 3 hang out
>girl1 is more special than girl2 too mee.
>however girl1 and girl2 seems to do their own thing and i dont think i am in their plans
>girl3 appears out of nowhere and she shows interest towards me than girl1 or girl2
>start relationship with girl3...happiest man ever and i think i wanna be with her forver.
>but still lust for girl1 and 2
Fuking kill me. It is only lust. Wtf do i do. Girl 1 and girl 3 where already friends and in fact girl1 introduced me girl 3. So i cannot cut contact at all.
What should i do please? Girl1 and Girl2 might know my intentions but how do they see me now that they know i am in a relationship?
I dont want to make a mistake and surely dont wanna lose girl 3 but fuck this lust.
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Just be friends with them dude, don't act on your impulses like a faggot and you are golden.
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What exactly is your problem?
>however girl1 and girl2 seems to do their own thing and i dont think i am in their plans
Stop thinking.
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>>16553871
catch them all in your fiendish web OP, start plotting to get with all of them
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So I've been thinking for months I can make my gf come. She shakes, tenses up and breaths heavily. Then begs me to stop because she's too sensitive. She usually gets sleepy after it too. Last few times, she asked me to continue after 20s or so. When I do it this time, she says I need to stop before she "orgasms" because she feels like she needs to pee.
Both of us aren't that knowledgeable about it so she's looked it up. Apparently, the pee feeling signals the orgasm -- not the shaking, breathing and hyper sensitivity.
This makes no sense to me but it's bothering me. I guess next time we fuck we're going to try go for the "real" thing but do can anyone throw me a bone here? Have I never made her come or is this one going to be huge & she'll just squirt all over my sheets next time we fuck?
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Don't worry bruh. Alot of chicks do that. Or should I say feel that.
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>>16553763
so they weren't real orgasms or what?
she honestly spazzes out. a few times it's been quite jarring, looks like she's having a seizure.
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Femanon here, the exact thing happens to me.
My ex was super into giving me oral and using his hands, and I just wasn't a big fan of it. I got an icky feeling from it because I'm so sensitive down there, and I usally couldn't cum no matter how long he did it for. I would shake and get really into it for a while, but I couldn't get over that hurdle.
However I did cum once from it, and that was after I tried my best to let him keep going even if I was feeling uncomfortable. It really does feel like your about to pee in his face, and it makes you very self-conscious, which for girls is a big deal and will make them lose focus immediately.
It did take a while though, and I didn't really wanna try it again.
Maybe clit stuff isn't your gf's thing op. Its got nothing to do with you. Can she orgasm some other way?
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How has your time on 4chan affected you?
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I can't say it's been entirely positive. I've seen some things that can't be un-seen, and I don't even venture outside /adv/ under ordinary circumstances.
But on balance, I like to think I've done some good in the roughly two years I've been here. I wish there had been a place like this when I was growing up; I'm better now, but I see this as a way of reaching back.
And besides, giving those fucking redpillers a dose of what's coming to them is fun.
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I once asked for advice on /b/ (I think /adv/ already existed though) because I was too awkward to talk to my crush. I got good advice and after a while I asked her out and stuff. It was cool but it didn't work out a few weeks later. Still thankful for that and other good advice I've got on this site.
I don't come here too often. I used to come on a lot 4 years ago or so, then I took a break for no reason until a few days ago.
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I feel that all that came with this image board culture changed a lot of my views on the world, there is a lot of shit and bad vibes here but also a lot of honest people and god tier humor so I think it evens out.
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Been feeling attracted to my female besty lately. She's a bit younger than me and asexual. I respect her in every way and want nothing more than friendship...but every time I look at her, I get fuckin hot and end up taking mad, long glances. It feels so wrong...and sooo right.
I think "Damn she fine." She really is too.
Am I wrong for this? How do I fight it?
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>and asexual
everytime
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>asexual
BAHAHA
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>>16553706
Idk man...that's what she told me. I don't speak for her sexuality...I only know mine.
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redpill Fucked my relationship
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sorry this is so long, i really need the help
a year ago i was into that stupid redpill bullshit. I guess it got me laid a bit but for the most part i realize now that women are people, not mindless idiots. I recently got into my first real adult long term relationship. Unfortunately, my redpill ways still show, kind off. Im always skeptical about being more affectionate than her, and always kind of treat her badly. she puts up with me because shes amazing and im a dick
last night, we were arguing. although she was probably wrong, i hung up on her instead of talking like an adult. She called back later and we talked for 3 hours. Basically it ended with her explaining that im not warm enough, and that 9 months in i should be able to talk to her about all my feelings, even the clingy ones. I explained how when in clingy im afraid she'll take me for granted. She conceded this made sense but thought i was still stupid. I told her id improve but she said it wasnt enough, that tonight was indicitive of a lot of problems. Im going away for the weekend, and she wants this weekened to think.
Im terrified if i dont play my cards right, she will break up with me. Im going to try to be more warm and all the stuff she told me, but will that be enough? Please im borderline depressed. Shes amazing. I cant lose her just because im pretending to be a stoic asshole
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>Im terrified if i dont play my cards right, she will break up with me.
Look I know you're trying to ditch the red pill stuff, but you're swinging too far back the other way. Let's stick with a reasonable, middle-of-the-road idea: you shouldn't need to have to walk on eggshells to earn someone's affection. Isn't this supposed to be about your SO simply liking who you are and what you add to their life? If you want to be a better person for your own sake then go right ahead. But don't act like you've got a fucking gun pointed to your head. If she wants to leave then let her leave. Find someone else who is enthusiastic and hopeful about a future with you. Be equally enthusiastic about them. That's all.
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>>16553708
nah i wouldnt change myself for her, its more because im usually such a caring guy, but just not in this regard.
I see i am wrong now, but she just wont take me on my word that ill get better.
I know losing her isnt the end of everything, but i still cant stress how it would really fuck me up
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>>16553720
>it would really fuck me up
Dude you're swinging from one end of crazy to the other.
Maybe relationships aren't in the cards for you at this stage. You can't seem to level off on a healthy view of them.
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Female here. Is it normal feel turned on when you are sick?
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I'm a guy but if it's not too bad I almost always masturbate when I'm sick cause I'm so bored and can't stop thinking about sex.
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>>16553681
But I find myself more arrosed when I am sick. Am I some kind of masochist?
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>>16553694
I googled and it seems you're not alone http://ironshrink.com/2012/04/why-do-i-feel-horny-when-i-have-a-cold/
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I can't stop staring at men. How do I control my sexual desires?
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Start by removing the word "can't." You literally can. You're simply choosing not to overcome the desire.
Then practice. Lots and lots of practice.
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>>16553636
What? I don't want to stop being attracted to men. They're perfect. I just can't stop staring.
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>>16553632
Get a boyfriend, release your sexual tension.
Any Irishfags here?
Got caught in the luas during a mad sesh
Fuck do i do lads have no two pennies to rub together and im 2 inches away from becoming homeless
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>>16553613
The fuck are you talking about. Did the Gardai nab you for not paying or something ?
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>>16553620
Got a fine and I cant pay for it.
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>>16553648
What for?
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How the fuck do people afford apartments in decent cities? Seriously what the fuck I live in a small village and I want to fucking leave. There's no college or training here. There's nothing.
The cheapest option is like 800/mo and that's with roommates. Like what the fuck you have to graduate college and get a good job before just to own a fucking small room?! Bull shit. Some bitch told me she moved to Boston and she has to pay 1100 for a room in the ghetto.
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>>16553538
I live in Northern Virginia (DC area) and it's pretty much impossible to find anything under saaay $1,200/mo. If you don't have a degree, there's a good chance you're living at home into adulthood.
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>>16553558
Is that 1200 for studio apartments or for roommate situations?
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>>16553558
>into adulthood
Into your 20's I mean...
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My boyfriend and his roommate hosted their first college party last night and served beer to some minors. I told him he was stupid and could have risked getting a ticket and his response was just about him not needing to hear this from me because I used to get drunk and go to parties when I was under 21. Then he attempted to convince me that everything was fine because he doesn't drink, made sure nobody went home drunk and checked in with his neighbors, but I still think he is fucking retarded.
What do I do? He won't fucking listen to me
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Honestly letting minors drink in your house is more shitty for social reasons than legal ones. That being said, let him learn the hard way. Seems to be your only option.
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Anon you used to drink underaged? What right do you have to tell him not to sell drinks to kids underaged?
No wonder he blew you off, you have no moral ground to question his actions you underaged drinker.
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Your boyfriend is a massive loser by the sounds of it.
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I only have a few months before I'm done my stem degree.
I have a high paying summer job lined up and I can bank all the money.
I am doing very well with my start up business.
I am more fit than I ever have been in my life.
I am the most healthy I have ever been in my life.
But I feel nothing. I don't feel sad. I don't feel happy. I feel completely empty. Everyday is a drag.
Why?
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Talk about your social, romantic and family life anon. We need more info.
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>>16553493
>high paying summer job lined up and I can bank all the money
>Everyday is a drag
Yeah... I make $12/hr. Learn to appreciate what you have.
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>>16553510
>social life
I have about 3 really good friends, but see them at most once a week as I live in a different city for university
>romantic life
Dated a girl recently for a few weeks, she broke it off and I think it was because I didn't do to well in bed (?) before that the last time I had anything going on was 2 years ago.
>family life
Fookin love my family, best family ever. We all get along great and enjoy similar hobbies together and stuff.
A friend of mine committed suicide a few months ago and am bummed about that but unsure if that's what is causing it or if I've dealt with it properly (or at all). Sometimes I think of suicide but it's just followed up with no emotion about it whatsoever. No sadness or excitement regarding ending it, just nothing. If I think about what my family would have to go through if I offed myself though I get mad at myself and stop thinking about it.
>>16553514
Sorry mate, I don't want to be unappreciative or empty but it just seems how I've been feeling the past few months.