Is there a delicate way to tell the couple in the apartment downstairs that I actually love listening to them fuck and that I wish they would do it louder?
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no, there isn't. creep
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Leave a note in their mailbox.
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>>16556390
No.
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>someone is an irrespectfull douchebag
>not much happens
>you finnaly snap and beat the shit out of them
>somehow you are the monster, you get kicked out/fired and charged by the justice system
we live in a fucked up world, no one gives a shit about psychological violence but as soon as theres physical violence, everyone loses their minds
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>>16556308
Not sure what you need advice about but yah I agree. It happened to me in high school once, even my friends turned against me.
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Maybe you should have sorted your shit before it reached critical mass.
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>>16556308
Words. You assaulted someone over words.
>yeah but they weren't nice words in my opinion!
>i should be able to fight whoever i want because i am mad!
>my opinion is more important and justifies any action i take!
>I'm not at fault at all!
>i'm never at fault!
>if only everyone would only do exactly what i wanted there would be no issue!
You're about to learn a good painful lesson on what it is to be an adult, boy. Have fun
What should I do if my girlfriend and I are both 25, and she's basically ready to settle down and have a family in the next few years and I'm still working as a waiter and living at home with less than $300 in my bank account? She finished college, had a well paying, steady job, and I have neither.
She says maybe I'm holding her back, but she still loves me and wants to stay with me and just had hope I can "grow up". But I don't have any idea what I want to do, and plans or anything.
We've discussed before maybe we just shouldn't be together for her sake, but then she always comes back with "I just wish you could work on it for me instead of just giving up". This makes me feel like she's calling me a quitter, and it makes me want to stay and work on it because maybe I'm just being a quitter, not manning up, and I don't want to feel that way.
And now, I can't tell if I'm staying because I love her or because I am afraid of not.
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I don't know why you're trying to give up on someone who's willing to stick around while you try to figure out your future, most women would just drop you immediately but she's putting up with you.
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You aren't a quitter, you just don't have the same big plans like her, and she's insulting your ability to create wealth in comparison to herself as opposed to helping you out in any form to better yourself.
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>>16556246
She doesn't want to invest in you enough to help your weath problem so she can either take it or leave it, which she keeps doing because she's lonely. Once she's not lonely you won't hear from her anymore.
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I want more knowledge. What are some good things to know at 21 years old that will help me now and later in life?
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I've been told that if you like a girl you have to ask her out ASAP. Not sure if it always applies though.
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>>16556147
Knowledge comes through experience.
>be honorable
>keep your word
>don't take anything for granted
>take opportunities when they present themselves
>learn and read on a variety of subjects
>learn to, sew, garden and fix things
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Learn skills, life is a competition. Almost everyone who isn't a real close friend is a rival. But you must act as if you think they aren't while secretly knowing you must be better than the rest to accomplish things. Everyone is a vicious predator that wants to be better than the rest, and you either compete and win or you die.
I'm an eight teen year old, "male", that thinks of him/herself more as a female, but hers the catch, I like females more then I like males. What is happening to me, and how can I solve my minds agany?
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The only solution is to worship satan.
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>>>/lgbt/
there's nothing special about your situation no offense
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>>16556118
See a therapist.
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>re: setting up a threeway
The thing is, these two girls are super close friends - sisters basically - and have known each other for decades. They think the same, they act the same, they have their own incomprehensible communication language and they're extremely open and comfortable with one another. I've almost never seen them not be instantly on the same page about everything. So it would make sense for one to be attracted to the other's boyfriend, right?
The other night we were all stoned and they made a couple jokes about us being in a threeway relationship, first my gf said something, then my gf's friend. It could have been more like a "we're hanging out a lot" oriented joke, or it could have been a "I kinda want that" way. Am I crazy? Would you make a joke like that if you weren't sort of thinking about it though? Her friend is exiting a messy breakup and got shot down by a crush recently, so she's having a bad time and she's been crashing with us here and there. I said nothing though, being stoned/paranoid and naturally risk-averse. But like any guy, yes, that would be *awesome*. I've mentioned a threesome before in the context of a discussion or two about my gf's bisexuality (she's bi, btw), and she tells her friend everything. They have to know I think it would be sexy, right? My gf's friend isn't the hottest around, but she's pretty enough and she's a blast to be around. My gf and I are imo better with each other when she's around (but that might just be an "in polite company" thing). If I was being honest with myself, (and I -think- I am), I would say she is in fact sexually attracted to me. Wishful thinking? Can't tell. And my girl hides a certain amount of attraction to her friend, I believe, which is not reciprocated.
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But did I mention my girlfriend is cripplingly jealous? Oh yeah. She's kind of pathological about it, even though she's an extremely sexual person, which is sometimes difficult. Under non-jealous circumstances I would just bring it up, jokingly, and if it happened it happened. But there's risk, too - I like the friend as a friend, genuinely. I love my girlfriend and we're going to be together a long time and so her friend will be too, and I don't want to fuck that up. I don't want to make it awkward, or turn my gf into a blubbering mess which happens often enough as it is. But couples have threesomes, that's a real thing, it's not harmful per se, I think we'd all ultimately be down if we can calm our (foremost my gf's) insecurities. I'm awash in mixed signals. My girl has been pushing for us to spend a weekend, the three of us, rustic cabin in the woods sort of thing, in January sometime, in the snow, all cozy together. There's been a low level of push from her to her friend. Is it inevitably going to happen? Do I need to make some sort of display first, joking or not, that I'd be down? Or maybe I've only been trying to convince myself of all this, that she's even into me, that my gf has been pushing it, that their jokes while we were stoned were meant to burn my ears, and not innocuous?
I can't fucking tell.
Do you guys have any thoughts about, or experiences with, setting up a threesome in this kind of situation (bf-gf + bff)?
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Don't do it
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>girlfriend is jealous
If you love her and want to stay with her, don't do it.
If you value the idea of going to bed with 2 girls more tham your current relationship, do it.
No need to go so further in detail. Believe it or not, its that simple
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I'm lonely and due to various problems in my life unable to socialise. This means no friends or intimacy.
How do I get over this? I feel like shit 24/7. During my early 20s I didn't give a shit but now I feel fucking terrible and am constantly longing friendships and relationships.
Is there a magic pill I can take or something? Video games and anime no longer help.
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I only have friends because I joined a church group. You could try that.
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>>16555918
One of my problems is agoraphobia. I only leave the house when absolutely necessary (medical reasons), so I can't join a church group, unfortunately.
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Nothings going to change until you stop making excuses and actually deal with the things you don't like about yourself.
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Why do guys I like never stick around? What can I do to change this?
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>>16555873
Suck their dick 24/7.
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>>16555873
If they never stick around, the problem is you. Sorry.
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http://ask.fm/explisis
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Potential /r9k/ waspnest incoming. Please try to avoid it. (I am not and will never be from there.)
Why does it seem that trying to find women to have casual sexual encounters with, even to the level of manipulation, is more noble in the eyes of society than trying to find a committed partner? This is how it seems to me. I'm hearing this from men and women alike.
It doesn't make any sense because nobody will say one thing and stick with it.
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Because like gravitates to like. You're presumably young- in high school or college and you've presumably slept around a fair bit or used to. So your circle of friends and acquaintances reflects the view that big number = good. If that doesn't apply to you then for one reason or another you fell into a group of friends who it does apply to and you are now the outlier.
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>>16555777
Sweet double trips.
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>>16555777
Love hurts sex doesn't, nice trips btw.
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I had this idea for a tattoo, "Saoirse" on my forearm. *Not like in the picture.
I kinda want a general consensus. I've thought about it a lot but would this be something that is alright to ink on my arm?
Also, first tattoo general advice?
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So long as you plan on living in a trailer park or exclusively traveling in low or no-class circles, tattoos on your forearm are a great idea. But kiss the possibility of gainful careers goodbye and embrace working for the people who work for me.
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>middle class pretending to have money detected
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>>16555781
You're talking about tattoos in general? I don't live in a trailer park or even a trashy neighborhood. I'm doing better off than most of my classmates (with the exception of a few). although I do have a blue collar job. I am fully aware that I have little room to move up in the world already so I'm not really restricting myself.
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Gf just asked if she can go to a strip club with a bunch of her friends. What do
I know girls in groups can get problematic
Other men please give input thanks
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>>16555733
Politely say you're not comfortable with it.
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>>16555743
Tell that bitch to go and never come back.
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>>16555733
wait what is your problem with it? the fact that she's going to a strip club or she's hanging out with a group of girls?
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Gf stopped responding me out of the blue last night. Hasn't been online since.
It's the other day already here and nothing. No sign. Can't call her either.
I have bad anxiety and I'm dying here. What do I do?
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>>16555689
Is it possible to go to her house?
My gf blocked me and not even her mom is responding.
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>>16555689
>Hasn't been online since
Online gf? Not much you can do
IRL gf? Go to her house
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>>16555703
IRL, but she lives like an hour and a half away dude.
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I was molested when I was 8 by uncle and my best friend gave me the chance to track him down and kill/hurt him, his family's really rich and he's connected so I could actually do it. It took about a minute and every fiber of my being pulling in the same direction to say no as it's something I've thought about and played in my head for years now. I don't know how to get rid of this insatiable desire for revenge and I know that doing that was brave and good and whatever but I just feel weak.
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>>16555675
You could try confronting him with backup or going to the police. Killing is not the answer.
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>>16555675
Kill the fucker.
You didn't provide enough information to make a case for either of you so I'm just talking your word for it.
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>>16555701
Confronting with backup might be the best option to be honest, but I don't know how that would go
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I'm 22. Yesterday I learned that I have no sense of humor.
I don't really talk to a lot of people but my ldr girlfriend on skype.
She has said, a very nice way, that I don't have her sense of humor (implicit that others do). Yesterday she invited another guy to our skype\ call and he just seemed to fun, and she seemed t o have fun. He as not even that funny. He just made light stupid comments/observations/jokes about what he was doing and some jokes here and there that my girlfriend would respond to in kind. And he'd chuckle as he'd say those things and so did my girlfriend.
I ended up practically leaving myself out of the conversation because I have nothing to say, and I don't chuckle or laugh easily. And I felt slightly shy but I don't think that's the issue, I could say whatever if I felt like it.
I've never had a lot of friends so maybe that made me never develop that ability to be playful and make/appreciate/laugh at jokes. It's not like I never do but barely laughed in the call. Also I started out in a really good mood and there seemed to be plenty of room in the call for me to talk.
Can I still develop a sense of humor and playfulness? How do I become more "fun"?
It's not like I'm an unempathetic, uncaring douche. I think I'm pretty caring.
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>>16555604
A moment of silence for someone who got keked in a skype chat in a LDR
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If you truly had no sense of humor someone would have noticed that before you grew out of childhood.
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>>16555614
Who would have noticed it? As I said I don't talk to people too often. And who's to say they haven't? I think I used to be more playful though, I suppose I accidentally "grew out of it".
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Difficulties because English is not my mother tongue?
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First of all, I'm of Chinese origin, and I lived in Shanghai for the first twenty years of my life. Then I had an opportunity to study in France. I majored in English literature and minored in French. I liked foreign languages and I enjoyed my studies very much (during my university years, I also took Spanish classes, and speak it well enough). Now I'm twenty-five and I've just pocketed my master degree (with honours) in English studies.
At the beginning of this year, my university counsellor suggested that I should continue to do the doctoral degree, and basically I've been given a place in their École Doctorale. But I wanted to start working, so I didn't pursue it, and started to send job applications, mainly for a teaching post, but also for translating and writing position. I've got job interviews, but until now I've been turned down like a hundred times. Some interviewers were blunt enough to say that my English (and my French) are simply not good enough, even bad.
I'm quite astonished because at university, my lecturers never told me that my English was bad. And how could I graduate with honours if I don't speak English well? I know that I have a slight accent, but people never asked me to repeat myself. My French is at least C1 (I took the test last year). My boyfriend is French, as well as my friends, and we speak French among each other.
To be honest, how bad is my English, judging from this post?
Thank you
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Your written English is fine. Your accent may be thick, especially if you are mixing it with French-accented English.
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>>16555517
>french
>frog pic
Is this a pun or what
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Anyway, can you visit/study in an English-speaking country for a few months? That should help clean up the accent.