tl;dr girlfriend's best friend broke up. She has been talking to her best friend's ex about his emotions and about his failed relationship. He has talked
with her alone in her doorm room and my gf hasn't mentioned this to me when I asked about the ex. Should I be worried about my gf cheating or is she
probably just talking to this guy about his breakup?
I've been dating my gf for about 6 months. We live in the same doorm building and she is roommates with her best friend. Her best friend recently broke
up with a guy (lets call him Jacob). Jacob was pretty hung up over this breakup and was having trouble moving on even when my gf's best friend got a
new boyfriend. Once when I had a chance and felt very insecure, I checked my gf's MacBook and looked through some of her text messages.
I found out that my gf and Jacob have been texting frequently and that he has come to her dorm room to talk to her alone apparently
when my gf's roommate (her best friend) was away. She has never mentioned this to me when I have asked her about Jacob.
Am I wrong to worry that my gf might be cheating on me with this guy? Is it more likely that she's just
talking to this guy about his feelings and him moving on from his breakup? Am I too insecure?
Bump, help an insecure bro out.
>>16855198
Gigantic red flags the size of Texas senpai.
Evacuate immediately. Say it's you. Say you have the trust problems. You sorta do cause you looked through her texts.
Eh, sounds pretty sketchy to me mate. Though you can't really be sure. If she doesn't say anything about him, though, that's probably a sign. All depends on her type of personality.
I don't know if I can love someone
Your not missing out on anything, just like yourself.
>>16855201
I don't know what to tell my gf
I have diagnosed clinical depression, and it does not make me a special snowflake in any way, but it comes and goes very harshly. I get extremely sad and lonely and everything crashes down on me for about 3 to 4 hours, and as though from nowhere, my mood increases to where I forgot why I was hurting.
I'd like to say that it's caused by episodes of hurt in my life, but that's not true, it just makes them hurt worse.
I'm pretty lonely and I'm trying to get a girlfriend, eventually, and I don't think this is going away anytime soon.
(This may or may not have broken a previous relationship I had into pieces.)
Do you think this will be a problem?
It seems that strangers and newly-met people are sympathetic at first, but after talking to me about it, they become ghosts.
What is the healthy amount of talking about this with new relationships/friendships?
Bump please.
This sounds stupid, but I need guidance on how to talk about this. I don't want to not trust someone by not telling them, but I don't want to tell them if it makes me less attractive.
>>16855185
>new relationships/friendships
>new
You don't. Before people get emotionally invested in you overtime, they will back off if you aren't happy/chill 24/7.
>>16855646
Thank you. That's very reassuring and helpful. Thank you for this post.
Hey guys, I need help. I've finally got to meet and flirt with my dream girl. We both admit we like each other... but she flirts with others guys also. Example, facetiming another guy after I tell her goodnight and head to bed. I've been ignoring her, trying to figure out what to say to her about her flirt with other guys, whilst flirting with me also. I wanted to be more than just her third wheel... help me figure out what to say /b/ros, please.
>will be saying this in person
Just because she flirted with you doesn't mean you own her....
Have you actually done anything more with her? Like gone on an actual date?
Even if you did, she's still free to flirt with whoever the fuck because you still don't own her.
On top of that, some people are naturally flirty and you either come to terms with that, or you don't and you find someone else with whom you don't get jealous over every little thing about.
BTW, I do not want to be with her anymore
>>16855181
What relationship do you even have together dumb frogposter?
Is there actual dating involved or is this some woman you've only seen through a computer screen.
Had a date set up with this girl, she texts me this 2 hours before we were supposed to meet. Do you think it was just a bullshit excuse and she's no longer interested or do you think she'll actually reschedule?
>>16855176
Relax dude, take a hit off your bong and chill the fuck out.
If she is interested she reschedule if not than she doesn't, you just going have to wait and see. There are many other fish in the sea,
IMO if she said "txt you when I'm home?" it's a good sign.
But there's a good chance she could just be awkward and doesn't want to deal with an awkward text.
If she responds, cool.
If not, move on.
Tons of other girls out there m8
But whatever you do, DO NOT TEXT HER BEFORE SHE GETS BACK TO YOU. Do not text her "how are you doing?" "what are you up to" "did you get my text?"
These are all attraction killers. Do not come off as clingy or you will be forever alone.
If she's interested, she'll get back to you, and the fact that you didn't text her in that time to check up on her shows maturity.
Gonna try my first editable today. What should i be cautious of? Ive smoked 4 times in the past. The dealer said he used about 1g in each cookie. Any suggestions or cautions i should be aware of. My roommate said i should eat half the cookie cause its my first time with editables.
Thanks
My one experience with edibles was shitty, didn't feel a thing. But that was back when I was having trouble getting high at all.
Just go with half a cookie, wait an hour and a half. If they're crappy edibles eat the other half
Do NOT decide, "Oh hey, this isn't working. I guess I should eat more".
Edibles take MUCH MUCH longer to work. Basically they have to be absorbed through your stomach, so that means you have to digest them, which takes like 30+ minutes. It also means they last much much longer. So if 10 minutes in you decide it's not working, and then eat more, it's all going to kick in at once you're basically going to "overdose" and trip for HOURS after.
Ate one in amsterdam, it sucked
be cautious of it potentially sucking
Advice on what I should say? I originally planned to not respond. I take it she isn't into me anymore, and I'm fine if that's the case.
>>16855154
lol. Move on.
>>16855160
I have. When I asked what should I say, I meant more in the sense of shock factor or something weird. Not "bb i luv i".
>>16855163
Don't say anything, saying things for 'shock value' or trying to guilt them just makes you look spiteful and beta. Move on and stop all communication with her.
So me and my wife had a great thing. Sex a lot. her pussy was the best. she was small just like I like and let me play with her ass a lot. She started off sucking dick, but said it hurt her jaw (actually I have heard this from several women, so either a) lots of females have tmj b) my dick is pretty thick, c) they are using it as an excuse...my guess is all three)
Anyhow. that was great for about 1 decade, but a few years ago, it went to sex every other day then 2x a week then once a week and now like almost never.
She is tired, blah blah blah.
So anyhow, I am decently attractive guy in my early 40's and make good $$$ and have a good outgoing personality so I start to fuck around.
Its good and I was pretty sure my wife knew (I mean how could she not - I go out all the time and come home smelling of sex and never really bother her for it anymore).
So here's the problem...Today, she says the kids are at her parents and she wants to have a dirty time tonight. She texts me that she wants me to be rough with her and to shove my dick in her throat and cum in her ass.
Normally, I'd be all super boing for this shit, but I got the message as I was leaving a rental property I have. Its a quad and one of them was vacant, so I met up with this 23 year old I fuck sometimes and was fucking her. I cam twice already today and theere is no way I m going to perform for my wife.
What do?
>>16855150
Perform as best you can before your wife. Say you was tired das all. She loves yo ass. She'd do anything for you. You just chill hombre.
>>16855150
Tell her you're too tired.
>>16855150
its your own fault, if you get caught. just remember she had obviously been planning it for a while and you missed all the signs... because you was too busy getting your dick wet with other pussy.
only thing you can do it grab a cup of harden the fuck up.
she KNOWS your sexual appitite and if you fail to perform she will know something is up.
In California can i place someone under citizens arrest, placing them in a pair of handcuffs if they have committed an actual arrestable crime?
There's this thing. Maybe you've heard of it before. It's called google.
First result:
http://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Citizen's-Arrest-in-California
>>16855152
Sounds like a crapshoot.. If i put someone into handcuffs i would have to go to court with them... Fuck this state... Im moving to Texas..
>>16855207
I would also get arrested for unlawful detainment and possessing the instruments thereof..
Fuck this gay state.. Ide probably get 3 years..
What are the steps I need to take to become a computer hacker with the minimum effective dose of knowledge and skills. I'm willing to work hard but not waste time.
Utter novice, programming forays not even worth mentioning, maths unused for years. 21 in uni, all I have is limitless Wi-Fi, ethernet and $50K.
interest. which you lack, so give it up
ITS HARD TO ADMIT THE TRUTH TO OURSELVES SOMETIMES BUT LIKING THE IDEA OF DOING SOMETHING AND ACTUALLY DOING IT ARE TWO WIDELY SEPARATE THINGS
I'm working through Learn Python the Hard Way, but I know this is a years-long process so would appreciate some guidance. I thought a lot of the hacker ethos was to have community support. This is the only community I know of that could help.
I'd like to hack webcams, how do I get started??
>RELATIONSHIP AND TRAVELING ADVICE
I'll be moving into Baltimore, MD and eventually Phillie, PA in the next month. Already have a job and housing set up. this is shitty news to my gf of 2 years who won't be coming with me, She's concerned it'll be the end of our relationship, and I'm too logical of a thinker to tell her she's wrong.
How do you maintain a relationship from 1000 miles away?
Also open to any advice for living up north. never left the south, never seen snow. don't know what to wear, what to buy when i get there, or what to avoid getting into. so general traveling advice would be cool.
>>16855121
You don't. Agree to see other people.
Snow FUCKING sucks and actually going out in it is asking for trouble. Everything else is just common sense.
>>16855128
She'll never agree to that. I'm literally the only thing she has in this world and she'd completely crack if i forced it on us, getting back together would never work.
Also, why is going out in snow asking for trouble? see video's of people playing in it all the time. Also heard you can legit die in that shit.. is this true? I mean obviously facing an avalanche you'd get your shit wrecked, but I mean can you really die from extended snow exposure? or do you have to be naked in a blizzard?
>>16855149
bump
Moral dilemma when it comes to adopting a cat.
I visited a shelter yesterday and there are now 2-3 cats that are very interesting. However there is also a couple, adult one, that are very nice, loving and peaceful. Shelter has stated that they have been there for over two years and if they won't get a home soon... But then again, there is this 1 year old cat that really stole my heart. Shy, but still received cuddles from humans. Picture related.
I am just scared of taking two older cats because I do not have that much of money and if they do get sick, it will be expensive as shit. But I just feel like they die if I don't pick them and it's all my fault.
I really do not know what to think.
Animals die. That's life. Ha.
You don't need to worry about it if a cat is going to die. Take the younger.
I've become a meme. I dont know what to do, like i dont want my picture to be spread throughout the internet. What do i do? i've heard becoming a meme really impacts your mental health is it true?
>>16855064
fame is insane
protect your neck and your head while you're at it
Shut up
Pic related?
If i work while sick at a chain restaurant and others get sick am i liable personally or not
Holy fuck you are retarded. No.
Only insofar as your employment is concerned. It's the restaurant's responsibility to make sure the customers and employees don't get sick.
My boyfriend is a very sweet man, I love him very much and he supports me in whatever I do. He is the best human being on the planet, but his friends are really awful and I can't stand being around them. There is a couple that we sometimes double date with specifically, his friend, is large bearded guy who treats his girlfriend like shit, shes always cooking, always cleaning, he smacks her on the ass whenever she walks by, he'll pull her into his lap like shes a slave girl, and call her horrible pet names that are demeaning. She always looks like she enjoys it, and almost seems to get off on it, but I don't understand why. Is she just happy to be someone that shes willing to compromise so much of her identity or self esteem?
Another of my boyfriend's friends is this guy who literally has a new girlfriend every couple of weeks... often times dating one or two women at once. He uses them for sex quite blatantly then dumps them when he is bored, and women continue to fall over him. Hes a sleezy piece of shit who always makes fun of my boyfriend and his other taken friends, flaunting the backward lifestyle he leads.
And finally one who, desu, makes me cringe whenever I see him or am forced to interact with him. He is everything you expect to see out of a basement dweller. He is overweight, with a long beard and long hair, him and my boyfriend play a lot of video games together and he gets my boyfriend movies and video games incredibly cheap. My boyfriend invites him over and hes always so awkward and difficult to talk to... his girlfriend isn't quite as bad, though I feel she can do a lot better... shes a very independant, intelligent woman being held back by her greasy lump of a NEET boyfriend.
My boyfriend is socially far better than the people he hangs out with, and I feel like they are holding him back, hes come to the defense of all of them in the past and its caused problems in his life... what do I do?
>>16855040
tumbler get oUT
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
>>16855040
Get over yourself. I already know you are a 6/10 and your boyfriend talks about other girls he wants to fuck all the time. This dude will dump you for his cool friends in a heartbeat. Go workout or something. You aren't "thick" you are a whiny lazy entitled bitch. I hope you and everyone like you fail at everything you do in life. Your problems are fucking nothing. You are gonna reincarnate as a rat if you dont shut the fuck up soon.
You should take your own advice. You know how you keep saying that these girls in your story could do better and therefore should? Same applies to you. If you can find a boyfriend with a better social circle, do so. You've got no excuse, same as those other girls.