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How do you guys cope with getting out of bed when your head feel heavy as fuck in the morning ? for years I slept for like 10-12h and now I can't even get up I just fall asleep again every morning. If I could just get to the cofee machine it could be a victory but I rarely get out of bed before 2PM and it's killing my studies and work.
Ps:I have weird social anxiety even if everybody likes me
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No clue what to do about social anxiety, but I do know that it's easy to 'program' your body to sleep until certain times.
Do you have a job? Try to set a specific time each night and each morning where you MUST get out of bed. Set an alarm, set alarms if you have to.
Drinking, diet, and other routines can also interfere with sleep and energy. I don't know how much I can help with social anxiety, but I have found that setting 'sleep schedules' can help your body learn when to prepare for action.
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>>16857325
Ill try with a must get out deadline and a puzzle alarm. But it really piss me of I used to have no problem with waking up before being a neet for one year.
Really I feel like anxiety destroyed all my willpower. Worst part is that my anxiety is not critical. It just affect my willpower. I should workonit
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>>16857325
I have more than 10 alarms every morning but I can't get up.
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My new girlfriend won't even speak to me.
We've only been official for a few days, and yet it feels as if we're simply just friends. I know she's incredibly happy to be with me, but she makes no effort to make plans nor does she ever message me (and she's on social media all the time talking to friends, so I won't buy the "not good at texting" excuse). The other day we met up for a night out with her friends, she arrived with her group and didn't even say hi! I know she's shy, but this seems really extreme. I've taken a step back the last few days to see if she'd initiate anything and so far, I've heard nothing. It's gotten to the point now where I feel uncomfortable being in this relationship and am not happy with it.
What do? I want to talk to her about it but I don't want to come across confrontational or needy.
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Talk to her on social media.
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>>16857311
>I know she's incredibly happy to be with me
the most incredibly is that you made an entire post proving the opposite
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>>16857311
The girl in question isn't your girlfriend, OP. I'm sorry, but that's not how it works. A relationship is something you do, not something you say.
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Hi I bought a 4x blotter of lsd , and I wanted to take an half ( 2x ), but the guy who sold me that said that the quarter and the half dosages are bullshit, and he suggested me to take it all. What should i do anons?
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First time? Take a half.
It's probably not LSD. Dunno where you live but where I am it's always research chemicals. If it tastes of anything, it's 25i or whatever shit gets peddled these days.
Trip again next month with the other two.
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>>16857308
Yeah it's first time. Does it expire?
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>>16857314
I had tabs sitting in my drawer for months and they lost none of their potency. They'll be fine.
Girls, would you find this fantasy odd?
I want my wife to give me oral while she has a toy in her ass/pussy. The idea of all of her holes being used reallllly turns me on. Do I have any chance?
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I'm a guy. I'd like that too but I'd like it to be me who fills all of her very attractive orifice. Impossible, but I'd settle for dildoing her while she gives oral.
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Yeah that's right up there with wanting your wife to have sex with a dog
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kind of strange.. you should introduce that demanding fantasy with a diamond ring / sports car / something of the sort
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how do I fix this shit? 2016-02-28 13:19:22 Post No.16857284
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so I have had a shitshow for the past few weeks and wondering if anyone can give me advice on how to fix this shitfest
>gf has had chronic pain from endometriosis
>been like this since I met her 2 years ago but she didn't know it was that until 5-6 months ago
>gotten far worse over the past few months
>basically in ungodly pain and uses weed to fix the pain
>endo is causing her depression as it affects her life
>won't get surgery until after classes
>her pain has been fucking with me since there is no way for me to really help except sit and look pretty
>she is depressed as hell and having mental breakdowns at a rate of 2-3 times a week
>It got to me enough this semester that I am regularly skipping classes because I am getting depressed as hell too
>course work was fine initially but the projects and programming homework are hard as I am a senior
>shit keeps breaking randomly and even my profs have a hard time understanding why
>low self-esteem has come back even with anxiety medication
>my right knee cap is in a fuck ton of pain from sitting and coding
>feel like a failure constantly
>worried I will fail and have to add another semester onto my already 5 year long college degree
>stress causes me to flake off working on stuff as I feel it is impossible
>feel like more of a failure for not graduating in 4-5 years
>fell behind in my website for my boss
>my mood has been fluctuating as I get grouchy and sad more often
>gf is sad because when I am mad or grouchy I get mad at anything and everything including her
>now I can't sleep properly anymore
>starting banging my head on a wall because I have so much shit in my head
so what the hell do I do? go see a counselor?
do I just need to be less of a bitch? should I up my anxiety meds?
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>>16857284
Break up. Your future is more important than a woman. She'll drop you anyway, as soon as she gets better.
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How do you cope with change and the advance of time?
I just got a new job, On paper its much better for me. Its a good job, it's better hours, better pay, with better future prospects, but I miss all my friends from my old job. My old job was shit and boring, but also really comfy, I knew everyone and had fun with them.
Now I don't know anyone and I feel so cold and alone. Life scares me and I cant stop crying.
I want time to stop moving forward. I dont want to get older. I want everything to stay how it was forever.
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Change is part of life, anon. No transition is easy, especially when you've built up so much at your last job.
Firstly, don't neglect your old friends. Keep in touch with them if you can (are they far from you?) and don't fall into the trap of 'cutting yourself off'.
Building up new relationships will take time, but it's a great opportunity for you! You're the new guy/girl--that means you have an excuse to be weird around the new people. Ask about what they do, what their hobbies are, etc. You're the newbie so if you play your cards right you'll be laying foundation for new friendships really soon.
Change is pretty scary, but it's natural. Try to think of it as an opportunity for good, not a detachment from what you were originally comfortable with.
I believe my boss is actively looking for a reason to fire me.
What should I do?
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>>16857249
start looking for a new job, i mean its your boss what can you actually do?
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Fire him firstw
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Hey /adv/ it's anon from a few dats ago I will give a run down of what I need help with
So me and my ex were supposed to take a break (i have trust issues, controlling, unsupportive) the break was supposed to be so she could get away from the stress of that and work on her self in therapy. During her telling me why she was very clingy and said emotionally she would stay but logically she can't. I asked her about our future plans and she said she still wanted to pursue those. Anyways I went home and tried to hang my self, couldn't do it and I told her, I don't know why but I did. She officially ended it but I asked her if she would think about giving me a second chance if I worked out my stuff and she said she would consider it. Well recently I established contact with her (2 weeks nc) and apologised. She was on ther verge of tears and seemed happy to be my friend. She said she cared about the relationship and that she loved me. Then I started to text her again and asked her about the second chance thing. She said no. She didn't want another relationship (she has been pretty buddy buddy with some guy that lives like an hour away from where she will be going to uni) so I asked her if she had a relationship right and she said no. Then I asked if she legitimately cared about the end of our relationship in which she got defensive and said of course she did and that I asked a bs question. After A while she mentioned her anaroxeia (we had a blood drive but she couldn't go because after the break up she lost 14 pounds) so I told her that if I have to I will get her help, she said I don't control her anymore (i was being caring not controlling) and she said she had help. Well she got pissed and re blocked me on kik. Idk if I should leave this alone and stop trying or if I should try but not mention things about it to her until some more time passed (she also said today that she loved me and that she always has no "Cliché bullshit" as she said)
>pic related
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Anyone please help?
I honestly need it and the pic is of us from happier days
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Here's the cold truth. She doesn't love you anymore, she doesn't want to be with you anymore. Ever. Again. She wants to fuck this other guy and probably go on to fuck other guys after him. Get the fuck over her. You are supposed to be a man yet you are acting more emotional than a hormonal 14 year old girl. This girl wants to be with a real man, not some beta. Hit the gym, do your cardio, eat right, become big and strong, then go on and fuck better and hotter pussy. Or you can kill yourself and deprive yourself of all that fun you could have in this life. The choice is yours.
I'm pregnant with my bf's baby. Yesterday I had reduced fetal movements and was trying to reach him from the hospital since 11am. Eventually I messaged a few mutual friends (he studies abroad) whether they knew where he was. They had no idea, wasn't answering his phone for them either and wasn't in his form room.
After midnight he finally messages me saying he "feels unwell". Apparently he went to his parents place without his phone that he's usually glued to, popped sleeping pills (at 11am), then was out until after midnight.
Believable or dodgy? I vote dodgy as he's lied to me in the past but he's adamant that's "normal".
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I've done that before too, and generally I'm glued to my phone. What has he lied about in the past?
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Ha. Fuck that. Go with your gut, OP.
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He lies to his parents about where he is when he visits me. He was also messaging another chick in another city that he's had a history with. Years ago he made out with yet another chick and then kept it from me until a mutual friend told me because he thought my bf was a pussy for not owning up to it. When I confronted him he cried and said he loved me and was sorry, saw me off to the airport as I was visiting my family, then invited her over later that day. He just has a rep as being a dodgy character.
Any reason a (diagnosed) autistic loser shouldn't kill themselves
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Don't. Find a hobby like d&d or something cool.
I think I have autism but I don't want to talk to anyone to get disgnosed, how'd it go for you?
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>>16857210
What kind of autism though ? Because if it's asperger it's largely fixable if you're willing to get off your ass.
And you didn't give any reason why you'd want to kill yourself either.
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What is d&d ?
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How do I fall in love?
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I was going to answer. Then I realized I had no idea.
I guess I'm lurking now.
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Its not something you activley chose to do. It just happens.
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Meet people. Explore the world.
Then, if you're lucky, you find that person who makes your heart burst.
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How do I tell my boyfriend that I don't want to be in a relationship?
I just want to be a homebody, baking, pj wearing single person.
I hate going out apart from shopping, he likes going out drinking with mates etc and I really don't like the nature of males anyway.
Sex is good when we have it but even then I get more consistency from masturbation than I do with him. I also feel like I am better as a person when I am single; I am too anxious being with him.
I would love to remain friends since I don't have many, but I know that is not possible if I break up with him.
What can I do here?
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Break up, just tell him it's not working. Be honest so he doesn't have to be left dangling. It's simple, it sucks, but in the long run, it's probably better for the both of you.
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Break up with him. Be honest. Get on with your life.
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Blow his best friend, the rest will take care of itself.
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Ok, /adv/ I never post on here but today I come for you because I am truly in need, in love related matters.
This story starts like every other love story. There is this amazing girl [...]
And that is pretty much what it takes from every other love story.
She has studied in Stanford, Asia, and other places, and is an excellent student, and she is truly smart. I'm not talking here about a flipping burgers relationship.
She had had a boyfriend for about five years or so. The guy is dull as fuck, a total loser, antisocial, and beta. She was pretty much with him because of nostalgia and friendship.
We have been friends for about four years now. Her family used to treat me like a son, and we were great. Her family also used to think I'm gay (I'm bi but they are too conservative to think it is OK to be bi but are OK with gay). We started a software development business and are doing pretty well, about a year ago or so. We see each other every day for about 8~10 hours for work related stuff.
We started going out while she still had his boyfriend, and everything was good. We like nightclubs and dancing. Everything started going casually and smoothly. We started flirting and my feels for her started getting stronger and stronger.
One day, one of her overseas friends was coming over to get to know the country, and stayed on her house. We were traveling the next day, so I stayed over as well. That same morning we woke up at 4 AM and started our sexual journey.
We traveled with his friend for about a week, keeping the routine. Visiting nice places, fucking, kissing, taking photos, being happy and smiling. And next week we decided to go to a work related congress in one of the most picturesque towns in the country. Same story. Everything was beautiful. We talked and laughed a lot and used to dream about a future together. We went back to the city we live in and kept the gold work up, lots of office sex. (Contd)
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op here
Everything was so nice for about four, five months. We had lots of sex, had lots of laughs, and stuff.
She decides to travel to Asia for a month or so see some of her old friends, and it was OK. We were romantic as fuck in the time, texted a lot, sent nudes to each other, and used to talk about all the things we were going to do when she came back.
Her relationship was already dwindling. It was shitty. She brought me tons of presents, plushies, and was overall great. I got more presents than anyone else, even his boyfriend.
It was great. I was so in love. We did have our problems, like me getting jealous over a friend of her, and a little bit over her boyfriend. But we sorted them out and were great with it. Remember we used to be best friends.
We even dreamt of how beautiful it would be to live together someplace and travel around the world together. We decided to star making a fund to travel to Asia next year for about a month. As lovers or as friends.
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After she comes back from Asia everything was getting better as well. She even decided to break up with her boyfriend for me. So that we could try something more serious in between us. She had already set a date. February was the limit in which she would break up with her boyfriend. Things got messy and complicated afterwards, because of several family meetings where the bf's parents had invited her mom over, and vice versa.
So, it was getting to the date. She had said "next week I'll speak to him". And she was so sure of it. Of course she was a little bit saddened to let her boyfriend go, because she had sometime pictured her life with him and thought would never fall put of love. It was harsh for her.
They were supposed to talk things and call it a breakup this week. But they saw each other last week and had a fight, and she broke up with him amidst it. She cried a lot a was really hurt.
The guy was an ass, did lots of drunk texting, and stuff. After two days she started missing him. It was kind of ironic because they didn't even see each other anymore. Tops one day a week.
So she got depressed. And has been a rough week. Like a rollercoaster. At first she said it was all my fault, that I had been dishonest for being with her while on a relationship.
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Hey guys, I need to start a debate on the topic "Is going to mars more logical than addressing global poverty".
Can you guys judge my speech?
It's in the pic.
It's not too long, so pretty please?
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You need to get into specifics about the whys its good, scientific research etc. Mention the potential for big discoveries.
I think it is fucking stupid to go to mars, its too far away and the fact that 40% of the world live in abject poverty should warrant a rethink of ridiculousness.
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>>16857201
The speech as it is right now it's like 3 minutes long, I can still put 2 minutes on it, like 260 words.
Big discoveries you mean minerals, or something like alien life?
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I think it's trash :(
you say doubt so often that it evokes doubt.
a lot of your sentences have awkward structural problems.
on top of that, you waste half a paragraph on farming. it's tangential at best.
finally, you conclude your speech by talking about "the benefits" which you think you talked about but didn't. the benefits you did mention are moot in the context and just open you up for getting pushed into a corner you can't get out of.
it's shite, sorry.
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A roof rat made a nest at my balcony in an old flower pot. Two eggs and shit. What's the humanitarian way to get rid of him?
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>>16857187
shotgun
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>destroy the eggs
>destroy the nest
>?
>pigeons
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>>16857190
Living in EU so not an option.