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hi I'm an italian girl that moved to US 3 months ago (Gainesville). When I was in italy I had a lot of guys interested in me... now that I'm here I really get 0 attentions. I also put up tinder and the only match I had was to bash on my appearance ("your face looks like it's going through a mytosis" atleast I appreciate the fantasy). I feel so awful. What should I change to be liked by american guys?
in the picture it's me.
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Why would you ever move to the US
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Fill in your eyebrows a little closer together (it'll thin out your nose a bit) and use lipstick.
American men approach women a lot but make sure to smile (no teeth) if you happen to lock eyes so he knows he can go for it
American men also like to be approached and find it flattering so if you see a guy that's cute and you want to get to Inouye better make a move on him
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>>16868407
Don't worry, Ameeicans are mostly
Beta Cuck providers.
You look good and I would date you, qt.
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And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't. Our answers are not going to help you.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical act/moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
Most likely. Preferences differ.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking
>What is the bump cap/thread limit?
310. Stop preempting it just so you can spam us with your SOA shit.
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This is for OP: how long were you sitting there, your post already prepared, waiting for the other thread to autosage, so you could make this thread?
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>>16897243
Use the catalog and stop spamming. Guess its time to call in the mods.
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>>16897243
Guy here
Would girls prefer a guy (friend) tells her something like she has sweat marks or her thong is sticking out without it being creepy. I find myself not doing anything bc I don't wanna make girls feel self conciouse.
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Dear R,
Talk to me. Please. I know it sucks and I know you're hurting, but I can't do anything until you ask me. I hate seeing you suffer like this. You are such a wonderful person and nobody wants to see you like this. Why don't you just talk to me?
Dear V,
You are the most amazing person I have ever met. You're kind, caring, very smart, and really beautiful. You're the most important person in the world to me but I know you don't feel the same. I suppose we never could be together anyways because if things were different, I don't think we would be such good friends.
Dear E,
I'm sorry. I really am. I never wanted this, and I really did think we would have had a perfect life together. I guess it wasn't meant to be, or you would be here instead of a thousand miles away. I never wanted to upset you. I hope you're doing well and that you've moved on so at least one of us would be happy.
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hey VK
miss you dearly
thought i saw you last night
she looked exactly like you, it was crazy
thought i had imagined it til i talked to her
i miss you
i'm so sorry for everything i did
you left me, and i don't blame you
left my life, left my heart
haven't been happy since
it's been... what, 89 days?
89 days since we last spoke
i hope you're doing good, i really do, but i can't ask or know
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N, I'm sorry your boyfriend is such a twat, but it's your fault you haven't left him. You deserve so much better, and he's so fucking annoying and needy, and clearly doesn't support you since every single semester he pulls that same "wahhhh why are you so stressed, no one should be so stressed over college" like okay thanks, history grad. Try being in CS like we are and still having time to go to the goddamn beach every day. All that asshole does is chill and talk on the phone. He doesn't have to worry about anything because his dad has so much fucking money. N, I know your parents think money is more important than almost anything else in a partner, but you need to dump this guy on his ass. Like you said, you'll be the first woman in your family to have her own career. Why do you continue to be in a relationship with this asshat who isn't supporting you trying to achieve your goal? It's so ridiculous. I'm going to try to plan to have you over for dinner in a couple weeks so that you can to talk to my mom about, pretty much for the sole purpose of her kicking your ass and explaining to you why it's important to not chose a lazy shithead as your fiancee.
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15 minutes CJL
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Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't. Our answers are not going to help you.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
Most likely
>Shaven, trimmed or full jungle?
Trimmed. Shaven is for fags, pornstars and faggy pornstars. Full jungle is for gorillas and 80s pornstars. When the shaver hits the hairs just right, the balls sing.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking
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Women, Of the men you interact with, how many do you consider attractive and would go on a date with if you were available.
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>>16894566
What sort of stupid picture is that? No one's going to notice there's an Ask The Opposite Gender thread and someone else will going to make another one and then we'll get people whining like in the last thread.
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>>16894658
I have faith people can use a catalog
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For E.
For what could have, and should have, been...
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>>16885302
Wherever I go I must also shitpost
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>>16885307
Stay gold Pegasus Boy.
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Everything I do or say, I instantly regret.
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And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't. Our answers are not going to help you.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
Most likely
>Shaven, trimmed or full jungle?
Trimmed. Shaven is for fags, pornstars and faggy pornstars. Full jungle is for gorillas and 80s pornstars. When the shaver hits the hairs just right, the balls sing.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking
>Brandon, frogposters and tripfaggots
Fuck off
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Before anyone complains, I know there's already a thread up, but it's about to autosage in a few posts.
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>>16890027
Do I have to start reporting threads. Use the fucking catalog.
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>>16890029
Do make a new thread until the old one dies. Its the position of admins. Are you new to 4chan?
let me express to you why you deserve to be banned.
Like every other general on 4chan, there are people dying to start the new one. So what you get is a 'race.' To make a new one. Aka what you are doing. This is very common because it generally breaks down into the group of people with an anime image op and the group that doesnt.
Suddenly people start joining sides of the idiots racing and you get 5 threads made at the same time because everyone is racing.
Stop being a cancerous newfag and wait for the autosage
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Avoid asking these common questions:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't. Our answers are not going to help you.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
Most likely
>Shaven, trimmed or full jungle?
Trimmed. Shaven is for fags, pornstars and faggy pornstars. Full jungle is for gorillas and 80s pornstars. When the shaver hits the hairs just right, the balls sing.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking
>Brandon, frogposters and tripfaggots
Fuck off
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We have an active thread up.
MODS DELETE THIS
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>>16886988
>I'm a stupid idiot who doesn't know what the catalog is
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>>16887000
>>16886990
How to spot newfags.
>What is autosage
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boyfriend's dead ex... 2016-03-07 01:34:32 Post No.16885067
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my boyfriend got in a mood where he wanted to spill about some heavy stuff last night. the part that bothered me the most was about his dead ex. she died 2 or 3 years ago in a car crash.
he talked about how much she loved penguins and how he wanted to adopt one at our local zoo and name it after her. he also mentioned he gets teary or sensitive when he sees them. also, he told me his facebook cover page (a photo of him and her) is never going to be taken down. (though he has a photo of us as his profile pic) and he admitted that he nearly dumped me because he felt like he was betraying her. i know this part is a bit silly, but he made mention about how when we die and if there is a heaven, how he wouldn't know what would happen between him and his ex, and me. somehow, that made me feel so alone.
my past boyfriends always put me second to someone else no matter how hard i tried to be a good girlfriend to them... i've been cheated on and neglected and put aside as a "back up".
my current boyfriend however, has been nothing but the sweetest and most thoughtful and considerate guy. easily the best i've been with. i love him so, so much. and though he assures me that he loves me no less than he did his ex, i can't help but feel that he isn't really "mine." it sucks... knowing that on his deathbed, the first person he will think about is his ex.
am i just being a little bitch and totally selfish? i don't know what to do. he isn't aware of how my past boyfriends were like to me. he pressed me to spill anything about my past, but i couldn't. i didn't want him to feel sorry for me or make him feel like i depend on his love.
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>>16885067
So when are you going to cheat on him?
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>>16885067
You made this topic yesterday
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to add on to this, i have never experienced the death of someone close to me. i can't imagine how painful it must be and i'm trying to be understanding about it.
he did mention he had a girlfriend who died early in the relationship, but i didn't know how much it affected him and naively believed that he would one day move on. i don't know if he will, and i'm not sure how much of it i can take. we've only been dating 10 months.
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Guys & Girls, what is something you consider a positive trait about yourself, something you're proud of?
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>>16884661
I like to think I'm a naturally understanding person. Considering my friends compliment me about that, I don't think it's just in my head.
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>>16884661
I'm incredibly intelligent. Tips fedora
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I've got a few hours, giving some advice
try to ask specific questions so you can get specific answers
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What is the auto-ignition point of sodium bicarbonate inside of a vacuum?
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>>16884851
pegasus man you lurk like a motherfucker
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Evil never sleeps
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How do I get guys to notice me without dressing "sexy"? I'm 22 and I've never had a boyfriend. I'm skinny, I have pretty big boobs, not ugly, but I dress really conservatively, I don't show cleavage or butt cleavage or much leg, or really much skin at all most of the time. I like nice dresses and outfits with long skirts and cute designs. It's hard to attract guys though, most of my friends pretty much paint on their outfits and show every bit of skin possible without going naked and guys eat it up.
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Your friends are going to get attention from guys who are only looking for one thing.
You're doing fine by wearing dresses and skirts.
Wear make up too maybe. But be modest about it.
Also, pics?
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Have u tried talking to guys?
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I don't know, I am alone as well.
Do you go to school groups? Activities?
What sort of guy do you look for? Maybe standards are too high...
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>date girl since freshman year in college
>every thing is amazing
>almost 8 months after graduating
>wants to move out and try living on her own after new years
>wants to take a 'break' for a bit after graduating and explore herself a bit
>fast forward a bit
>says we really had something special and shes always loved me
>we get back together
>a week later now her friend lets it slip that shes been hooking up with a guy while we were on 'break'
>I confront her, call her a whore (a little harsh), and break up with her
Shes currently begging me together saying that shes always loved me and just didnt see that. We used to talk about getting married in college and it felt like the natural order of things, but now I dont want that. I know wed be great together because we were great together and she'd be a great mother, but I feel like I hate her now.
Am I being to hasty and throwing away everything? Only reason Im having second thoughts is because I dont know if Ill find someone as good as her in the future and when Im 40 and lonely I might regret this.
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Let me level with you as I've been in your position, if you get back together with her at 1am every night your going to hate her want to cuss her out and just scream every time it's brought up your gonna want to punch a wall just move on tell her she missed out on a great future and dip
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>>16881617
dont be a bitch
never speak to this woman again
you were seriously considering marrying her, and thats how she does you? fuck that
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>>16881617
I mean that is kind of expected of a woman on 'break' from her relationship. It is a way to explore ones options/try something without it technically being cheating. How long was it?
Is it possible to peacefully coexist with men without being submissive?
Besides moving into a monastery, is there any way to permanently avoid men for the rest of my life?
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>Is it possible to peacefully coexist with men without being submissive?
That depends partly on how you define "peaceful coexistence" and partly on what sorts of things you would consider "being submissive".
>Besides moving into a monastery, is there any way to permanently avoid men for the rest of my life?
Some villages in Africa ban men, but that's probably equivalent to the monastery thing. Other than that, no, not really.
If you don't mind my asking, what happened to bring this on?
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>>16882911
I am not nice. I don't like being talked down to, interrupted and belittled. Peafecul coexistence would either mean that men stop fucking doing that, which won't happen, or that I stop disliking being treated like that, which won't happen either.
I'm in a male-dominated workplace so I keep making enemies.
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You sound like a cunt.
Everyone everywhere gets talked down to from time to time.
Why you blame this on gender i have no idea
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Finding cheater on Tinder
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What should one do if they find that someone they know is using Tinder?
I saw my girlfriend's brother's girlfriend on Tinder today. She has been with him for a few months now. He had had 2 former relationships and they both made him super messed up when they failed.
Is it worth it to tell him, or should I just hope she doesn't actually use Tinder for sex? Is it better to ruin it now before he hopefully becomes even more attached, or just leave it alone and hope she doesn't break his heart?
Thanks for advice.
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Every chick from 17-15 uses it in a relationship or not, for validation.
Leave it and move on.
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>>16882717
15-25
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>>16882717
this. some women go on there for an ego boost, not to actually cheat.
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19 year old friendless virgin here, seriously considering dropping up to $1000 on a decent prostitute
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Losing your virginity won't solve the underlying issue that's causing your inability to have sexual encounters
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>>16881950
Spend the money on a personal trainer and get buff.
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>>16881950
Bruh bruh that's a lot money
Can't you just find some lonely ugly chick or something?