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Your first priority should be a job that is okay'ish and earns you the money. How about working in a café? Or assistant at university?

Since you have experience writing songs, could you give me advice on that part? I have no musical experience but like writing.

>>16903049
Get a part time job & amp up the frugal factor. That way you can sustain yourself and still get plenty of time left to try to make something out of your writing/music.

>>16903028
you need a laidback job then like some super market night shift job just something that doesnt consume you too much. Passion is important in a job, something that engages you but you don't have that kind of option to pursue a line of work like that i think so its just important you get a job that doesn't strain you or bring you down.

>>16903014
Change at work or wear a regular jacket and keep work jack in a backpack or suitcase

you must be over 18 to post here

Could be that your password is too simple, alternatively she could have googled "how to log into an account without a password," pretty simple to do desu. If you want to keep her out then you can get a secondary lock that will launch on start up.

But even that you can disable from start up in safe mode, then uninstall.

Can't really do anything to keep someone out of your computer if they have access to it at the end of rhe day.

Here's what you do.
Go on /d/.
Save every picture you see onto your desktop.
Enlarge the thumbnails on your desktop.
Then leave it out. The bait has been set!

Circle jerk

>>16903006
I would rather not ...

>>16902991
*had sex after her period ended

>>16902991
Traumatic stress, most likely.

Or, she can't stand having sex with you smelling like a ripe onion.

Take a shower, then talk to her in a serious tone.

Tough situation to deal with. Could be many things, could be good to let it go and could be vital not to. Communication is good but you know her better than us so you can probably get into her head easier. Have your interactions since been affected?

>>16902989
People are assholes including you embrace it and move on.

>>16902989
The world is full of degeneracy. These """people""" only do these things because they feel that being the biggest baddest dude will get them the most wealth and sex.

Usually they will die a cowards death with nothing to show for.

>>16903012
No I'm not I've never really done anything bad

>Get a rope
>Tie on end to something solid (bed, heater, door handle etc)
>Tie the other end to your feet
>Jump out the nearest window
>Wait until the blood gathers in your head and you pass out
>Eventually the rope will wear away and you fall and land on your head. But you will be unconscious by then

There you go, quick and painless suicide

www.justfuckinggoogleit.com

>>16902974
That's kind of a dumb question. All the instantaneous methods like jumping from significant height or shotgunning your medulla oblongata aren't gonna hurt.

>>16902971
Op, he's a cunt.

Just leave him and find someone else, someone that cares for you.

That or tell him how you feel so that some random shit will happen that will cause you to eventually not give a fuck, hopefully.

Well what's the last known location/regular activity? Sounds babby tier stalking but go down the list and you can eventually start asking people if they've seen her.

>>16903053
The worst part is that I'm in a 3 year relationship with my boyfriend already.
It's more of an obsessive compulsion than me wanting to be with the guy in question.
If he tried to contact me I wouldn't respond.
Also he moved to another state anyway.
I think it's more of a comfort to know he's there along with a curiosity.

>>16902963
Cont:

So ofc after our break up it didn't take more then a few days for her and mr.asshole to get back together.
>I was a wreck, I knew it was gonna happen but still felt like i got hit by train.
>I cut contact, I had no intention of being her friend if they're together.
They're relationship didn't last long just a few weeks before his evil broke them up.
>"Awesome she broke up a 10month relationship to be with that guy for a few weeks, something that I or anyone who's met this guy told her over and over, back when it still could make a diffrence but she wouldn't listen.

Anyways since then they've been together off and on, I've been in contact with her off and on, I don't feel like talking with her when she's with this guy, she's like a totaly different person.

Well then they had a big break from eachother for like a year, she was fed up with this guy's assholery and litteraly didn't want to at all hear his name.
>Nice, then I don't have to deal with him anymore.

Now to the actual issue then:
So after she's been hating his guts for a year, out of the blue they get together again!!
1st issue:
>Over this past year, we've become close friends, like real friends not the "ex's friend pretend"- Deal and I just have 0 intention of ever having to deal with this guy ever again.. He doesn't even deserve my politeness if we meet, he fucked way to much shit up for me to forgive him! And it's probobly gonna end up with him fucking up this 53rd chance with her anyways...
Bottom truth.. I just cannot support her relationship with him, I can't even pretend to support it.
>ofc I can't force her to break it off but I need to let her know that there will be no dinners or going out or bowling or movienight or whatever if he's coming along.
Issue 2:
>She did something really stupid this time.. she got herself pregnant!! After a year of hating his guts.. together for barely a month and they decide to have a child together!!!

>>16902987
Actually #2 isn't that much of an issue, I just had to air that idiocracy out!

So you hate this guy so much. And this woman loves him. Why would you care for this woman? Cut off all contact right now.

Ur whole life!

Well, she could get pregnant, which could be bad.

You could also get an STD, I guess.

>>16902936
>>16902935
Not too bad then

She just wants sex or to get back together?

>>16902927
>I feel like using her.
Badly enough that you'd let her use you? Because that's what she's doing, make no mistake.

In your shoes, I'd hit the social scene a little harder. Meet more people, maybe find yourself another girlfriend. That's worth waiting a bit longer, and certainly better than being used by an ex who thinks she can pull crap like this but still keep you crawling back.

>>16902927


DO NOT FUCK YOUR EX.

She's not over.
Nothing good.

if she didn't key your car I would have said "bang her one more time" but with this premise...dude no!

Hell yea. My eye sight was too bad or I'd be in right now.

(actually I'd be in the Army because I was an idiot).

>>16902905
The military is a really good choice for people like you. It will do all the work of controlling you for you so that you don't have to! Plus the money, job connections, respect, discounts, and girls for doing a usually pretty easy job for a few years is pretty nice.

I regret ever going to the doctor when I was depressed because now that I've been labeled bipolar they will never let me join.

Do you think you have too much freedom? Do you like getting treated like a bitch? Do you like doing pointless repetitive tasks?

If you answered these questions with a resounding "YES SIR!" then go to the nearest recruiter and sign away the next four to six years of your life.

>>16902882

You can't change people. Don't try to.

Leave her and find a new girlfriend. It's hard but it's the healthiest thing you can do.

Don't beat around the bush: Ask her why she is so hesitant with you.

Say you think it's because you are starting to feel like she has self esteem issues. Then say you can hear her out.

>>16902890
or try to work around it god are you people such fucking psychopaths that you give up on people that easily for fuck's sake

Steal bikes and rent them to tourist

I've only figured out the "save all you can" method. I only spent the essentials, and the expense of getting a computer and buying Internet. The rest I socked away until I had about 30,000 USD and no idea what I was going to do with it (it's not really enough to go crazy on or live off of for very long). So I started spending it on "socializing" (bars, meals) and clothes, and my saving grow very very slowly but still I'm not sure what I'm supposed to do with all this money. Buy a better car? Go to school to make more money...?

>>16902880
learn about investing / start your own business... Having 30k in the bank and seeing that grow is great. I would hate living paycheck to paycheck.

>>16902868
A lot of financial experts will tell you to take as much as you can off your income and put it into savings. I say start at 20%, but the true percentage depends on you. If you wanna start at 10%, that's fine too.

Based on your numbers, $100 from your $500 desposible going to savings would be a good start.