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Hey /adv/
I posted yesterday with the exact same picture so some of you might remember me.
I went on a first date with a girl I like, and I suppose it went pretty well. She said yes to a second date, but I'm not sure when to call her to make an appointment with her. As I have said our first date went well, but we didn't kiss, but I don't think that's a problem since she seems to like me and we talked a lot about our interests and such. So far we've talked about meeting up again, pretty much we talked about meeting up this week and having a few more drinks and maybe having a third date where we go hiking but I have no idea when is a good time to call her.
So I'm a bit drunk and all, but what I'm trying to ask is, when should I call her and whether is it a problem if I ask her for another date where we just drink beer and have fun. Also, I'd like to know if I should tell her that I like her(more than friends) on our second date our should I wait?
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>Also, I'd like to know if I should tell her that I like her(more than friends) on our second date our should I wait?
Haven't read your other thread but.
But do you actually?
I told my girlfriend that on our third date, but we became a couple that night also, and we had mad chemistry like nobodies business. Our first "dates" lasted 5 hours, 13 hours, and 120 hours respectively.
Do you ACTUALLY like her? Or just think you like her at this point?
I'm for waiting 'til you know for a fact you have something real so when you say it, it actually means something and it's not just some spaghetti dropping statement.
Stop worrying about this shit when you don't even know the first thing about her and consequently, how you really feel about her (because you don't know her)
And think about it, she needs to make her own mind up about you too. If you tell her you like her, what's that going to do? Just fuck with her head. Let both of yourselves figure that out first, and your ACTIONS (not your words) will then make it obvious whether you like each other or not (words should be a confirmation of what your actions are indicating--don't jump the gun).
Go ahead and call her to make an appointment when you've figured out a time/place/activity. She already agreed, no need to play games and wait around.
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So I should just call her in a day or two to invite her for another drink? And when we meet at the bar we should just have fun and all this shit should just come naturally?
Answering your question, yes, I do like her very much. I'm sure of it since I'm kind of picky, so when it comes to girls I only ever ask out a girl if I feel like we have a good chemistry and we both like each other.
Anyhow, are you telling me that I'll know when it's time to tell her I like her as a romantic interest?
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Yeah, basically.
and I'm saying that if you don't get in your own by overthinking this shit, your natural instincts *should* make you do things that make it obvious your interested, and make it obvious on her end too. The words should just echo the sentiments your bodies are voicing, not preempt and change the course of things.
"confessing" is for middle-schoolers, not for adults.
But, if you think you're too socially inept to actually follow through, go ahead and tell her you're romantically interested if you want. You know you more than I do.
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HOW FUCKED AM I??:
>Meet girl in my dorm before she goes out clubbing
>Hitting it off great, she has to leave in a hurry but says she wants my number when I'm back
>Tell my mate about this chick, he asks for a photo so I screenshot her DP and send it to him
>She comes back and we're hanging out. Going very well
>Give her my phone so she can add her number, accidentally clicks some button and the photo of her comes up on the screen, right next to a photo of my ex
>Says some confused sentence under her breath
>As I'm walking off she calls out and says goodnight
Boys, how fucked am I. I'm gonna talk to her tomorrow in person and explain the whole thing in truth and how fucking embarrassing it was, just make a joke of it and play it cool.
Or am I totally fucking done and do I look like a serial rapist/stalker
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LOL pretty fucked
Like the circumstance is normal but it's still creepy as fuck for some reason even after you explain it.
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>meet girl online
>be talking for awhile
>never met
>i'm in love
>she lives a couple hours away
>eventually get set up to meet her
>she's my phone background
>actually go to see her
>trailer trash
>obviously slut of small town
>made out with her not as hot sister infront of me, and her sisters bf
>ate her pussy
>hanging out in living room
>look awkard 'cause i'm a bit older
>pull out phone like most awkward people do in situtaions
>it's her on my lockscreen
>it's her on my BG
>she sees
>asks me why
>shrug
>end up pulling spaghetti from my pockets and leaving a trail as I go back to my car and head back home to try and forget everything
Pussy was really nice, wish we fucked while I was still cool.
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Haha fuck OP, you're last chance is to be straight up and tell her you sent an image of her to your mate because you thought she was cute. It's your only hope. If you're attractive it might work. Otherwise, bad luck mate and better luck next time.
My girlfriend suffers with clinical depression, and has had it for years. She took a turn for the worst last year and now she visits her doctor frequently to get help (meds and therapy). She has gained A LOT of weight (close to 70lbs) since the dip in her mental health last year, and although I love her, and want to support her. I'm no longer sexually attracted to her.
How do I get her to lose the weight, without making her depression worse?
I'm not going to post a pic of her, but the pic attached is almost exactly what she used to look like when I first met her.
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How much did she weigh before? And how tall was she? How much does she weigh now? .that's a tricky one. Maybe say you want to get fit and invite her to come to the gym with you. Did she gain because meds? Or overeating/lack of activity?
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To answer your questions:
She's about 5'7". And was a cute chubby at around 180lbs. She's put on about 70lbs since last summer ish. The reason being from both the side affects of meds, and from the depression taking its toll by overeating and minimal activity. She's currently got sick leave from work and barely leaves the house.
I'm continuing to support her and tell her it's something we both have to work on together. I'm trying to be particularly healthy and workout more, so that she follows suit.
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If she's depressed she won't just magically follow suit like that.
You need to encourage her, very very gently.
Go for long walks together maybe play a sport together.
It's a way of getting her to exercise more without it feeling like 'exercise'
She's probably v e r y aware of the fact that she's gained weight it's unlikely she'd want to go to the gym
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Main question: Realistically, is it easy to get into university? I see your run-of-the-mill university propaganda stuff and think that universities must only take squares with above average grades, but then it sometimes seems like anybody and everybody just simply goes to university, like there's no issue with being accepted, it just happens.
For some context, I'm from the UK, so I'm doing my A levels. It's pretty rough and I'm not fond of the environment or format by which I 'learn'. I also quietly have issues with authority. I get the feeling the way I'm performing is enough to stay in school but not get accepted into university.
Obviously I'm still young and immature and whatever, and I'm falling into my stereotypes as a teenager. But this is quite an important issue in where I go next with my life. I need to have a realistic idea of what to expect going forward rather than the one-sided nonsense that's spewed at me from universities themselves.
So any wisdom or personal experiences to go along with your answers are more than welcome.
Pic unrelated by the way. Just some stupid shit.
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I should also acknowledge the usual advice I get thrown at me like "Do well now or your regret it later when you have to get qualifications alongside shit work" or something to that effect. I appreciate this, but you have to understand that I can't really think that way considering there is no future me to regret not doing well. I could die tomorrow or some shit. I'm not really trying to get out of working harder, it's just hard for things like that to motivate me when it's just some arbitrary, vague, meaningless idea of the future.
Hey guys
I just moved back in with my parents from Asia to Canada .
I'm 24 years old, 25 in March. I've been thinking about hanging myself in my closet.
I'm not really worried if it will hurt or not, but I'm wondering if there is an easier way to do it?
Does locking yourself in a car with a hose from the window to the exhaust work better?
Any information helps guys.
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>Does locking yourself in a car with a hose from the window to the exhaust work better?
Um Anon if you'll be hanging yourself then please take a picture of yourself!
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>>16903678
Your parents will be sad and incomplete for the rest of their lives.
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Hey /adv/,
How can I stop comparing myself with my girlfriend, or any other person in general. We are both in an exchange program right now. Whenever she goes to a party, I feel like I should go to two. Or when she visits some country close to her, I feel like I should go to one. This is making me feel bad. I don't think this is a nice approach and it prevents me from being happy.
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Get out of your own head. Stop being so introspective. Just do whatever do you want to do.... whenever you want to do it.
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Any tips on getting over the post vacation blues? I live 850 mi from my family and just spent 2 weeks with them. This is the first day back and I've been trying to keep myself busy but the moment I stop doing anything I start crying. I miss them so much.
>Post-vacation blues (Canada and US), Post-holiday blues (Ireland and some Commonwealth countries) or just vacation/holiday blues or less commonly, post-travel depression (PTD) is a type of mood that persons returning home from a long trip (usually a vacation) may experience.
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>>16903653
Start your own family. You're more ready than you think.
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Looking to become a foot fetish camgirl - advice?
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After losing my job and being told I have gorgeous feet for the thousandth time, I'm considering becoming a camgirl foot model. Does anyone have experience with these sites? Is it viable to be successful?
I know my feet are more than perfect for the job, and I don't plan to show my face, but there's a lot of competition. What do you guys think, and what websites would you recommend getting started on?
Thanks so much!
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cammodels.com
chaturbate
Now post some feet
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So your into feet huh?
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Thanks!
I'll post a couple more if I get some more interest. OP are mine.
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So, recently my wife's boyfriend has finally taken the big step and moved in our house. I have been very dubious about this snce the guy in question has basically been evicted from his small apt for being loud and has already a pending subpoena, but my wife eventually convinced me, and so here we are.
The point is, since day one our house is a perennial mess. He refuses to do the dishes, to clean or to contribute to the house in any way, he just has sex with my wife whenever he wants and has no respect for my property or my money. I would like him to stop, but i understand that the issue is potentially sensitive since he is black. I would like him to cooperate, but i'm also scared of appearing racist (i'm clearly not, my wife's son is half black himself, tho different father, and i have never mentioned the thing).
Is there a sensible way to put an end to this and maybe find out a way for him to behave without upsetting my wife?
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>>16903635
>my wife's boyfriend
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third wheel huh
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>>16903635
>My wife's boyfriend
I'm really scared this isn't bait...
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I can't bring myself to get evaluated
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As long as I can remember I've felt like there has been something wrong with me, and for the longest time I've known I need to call my doctor and get some sort of mental evaluation. The idea scares the absolute fuck out of me, even know I know there's no shame in it.
How can I work up the courage to jut go do it.
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There's nothing wrong with you
Go outside
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>>16903625
Whenever I'm in doubt, I make a list of cons and pros. It doesn't decide for me, but it does help me grasp the situation a little better.
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Pros: I may be album to solve every shitty thing I've been feeling
cons: literally none.
I know this, doesn't help though for some reason. Thinking about it now it's more like the idea makes me feel crazy awkward and freeze up other than being scared.
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how do i become good with the ladies?
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>>16903624
scream like godzilla when they tell unfunny jokes
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>>16903624
>How do i become good with the ladies?
Tell how much you love her? Nah!
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>>16903643
thats beta
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1. I don't have a facebook.
2. Would it be autistic / unethical to create a fake profile (e.g. ELVIS PRESLEY INDONESIA FANCLUB!!!") and add the girl I like with it in the hope she accepts?
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>>16903621
Talk to her in real life you faggot
You might actually get laid that way
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>>16903622
This isn't an option.
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>>16903623
Then don't talk to her, its a waste of time
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Where should I study: Denmark, Holland or the UK?
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Where are you from and what languages do you speak?
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Denmark, bang 16 year olds
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>>16903600
From Romania, speaking English and Romanian.
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Bad advice thread. We ask questions and give bad advice.
This is different from all the other /adv threads because here it's on purpose.
I'll start. How do I encourage my girlfriend to be more interested in sex?
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Rape her and see if she likes it.
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>>16903577
Give her a bull
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>>16903577
Tell her you love her
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Are my living conditions normal? 2016-03-11 17:40:57 Post No.16903569
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Are my living conditions normal?
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I need help figuring out whenever my living situation is normal, or if I'm having a harder time than I should.
I'm renting a room from a middle aged woman. I think she's in her 40´s. She is working part-time due to burnout. I moved out from my parents about two months ago, so I'm not really used to this lifestyle. I mean, I'm still learning. And I do a lot of mistakes. I've broken a glass, sometimes I haven't taken out the trash fast enough, sometimes I've left my dirty dishes lying around for too long, and so on. I've made mistakes and she's had to tell me to fix things.
Lately, it seems like she has been harder on me than what is called for. To be more precise, when she's criticizes me, it seems like she is more interested in expressing her frustration than she is in telling me what to do differently. I'm fully aware that I need to grow as a human being, but I'm not sure that I should accept insults and degrading comments.
Some examples:
I'm supposed to purchase cleaning materials every once in a while. The other day she told me I hadn't done that and that I was being a "parasite" for using her materials.
One day, when I had been cooking and hadn't cleaned up in the kitchen afterwards, she had left an incomprehensible note, which was written in so few words and such strange grammar that it was unreadable. It had plenty of exclamation marks and the phrase "Clean up your own shit".
Today when I woke up and was lying in my bed I heard her talking to her son, saying that she was the only one in the household that was "doing her job", and that she had to clean up after me. She was aware that I heard her.
My question is: Is her behavior really acceptable? Should I expect to see the same reactions if I move in with someone else?
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She is being a bit harsh, yes, but she isn't entirely wrong.
Get you shit together anon.
Let's say you move somewhere else, you MAY get a roomie who is more tolerant of your messiness. At the very least, they more polite and diplomatic about how they handle your negligence but that is the best you can hope for unless you start being more responsible.
Be considerate of sharing space with other people - if filth annoys her, then don't be filthy in shared spaces. Imagine if she did something that really annoyed you daily?
It's okay to stumble a bit but honestly, being more clean is better for your mental health as well.
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Sharing housing is difficult. This situation will worsen if not checked.
A) is the other person ready to adult, ie communicate.
B) if so, set parameters and abide by them.
Calling names is not cool behaviour. Being frustrated when you want to cook or clean and you can't is normal. So discuss ground rules. GL, OP
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>>16903569
While i have no idea your age and financial status.
I would say you should consider getting your own place or beginning to prepare to get your own place .
I was in a similar situation as you and i ended up being blindsided when the women cut me off from everything but my room and had her extended family show up and try to for me to sign a hand written lease. I ended up having to rent a storage unit and stay at a shelter until i found a new place.