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Throughout my entire life, I've never fully understood music. It's just been background noise for me.

I've asked friends, family, strangers; why do you like music? The response is usually the sameā€“it sparks different emotions and reminds them of better/worse times.

I have spent countless hours, nearly every day, listening to music. Just trying to understand the appeal. I still **don't** get it.

What am I supposed to be feeling? It's just sound.

I also can't picture things in my head, so maybe there's a correlation there. My dreams are just touch/smell sensations. What's wrong with me, /adv/? I want to be normal.
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Sounds like you have some kind of legitimate mental inhibition. Not trying to be a jerk here.
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>>16904507
What can I do about it? I've considered taking shrooms to see if it'll change anything.
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>>16904503
Have you ever watched a scary movie and thought that the music contributed to how scary the movie is? What about other times when music is used in films, does it ever seem like the music matches the tone of what's happening in it?

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Been at work 4 years this woman shes been here for just over 1. shes 20 or so years older but i cant quite put my finger on it. Shes friendly and social to everyone.. but seems to never say hi to me. Always walks past staring straight... ive always gotta initiate a convo and even though she appears friendly and happy to talk her body language suggests otherwise. ... am at work now on break but 30 minutes ago i said" hello anon how ya goin" she responded generically but barely turned her head to speak to me.

Do i just leave her alone? Will be ba ck on my lunch break for /Adv/
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>>16904463
I wouldn't worry about it at all. Chicks are the boring people at work anyway.
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>>16904470
Do i just continue to be polite... its starting to feel like im being creepy.
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She doesn't like you.

(Perhaps it's because you're the type of person who refers to females as 'chicks.' Perhaps.)

How does one have/keep a stable relationship.
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The girl i'm with is a choleric, i just keep getting yelled at for smallest shit
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>>16904464
People with anger issues or any other emotional problems will not be able to have a healthy or successful relationship until they address and overcome those problems.
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>>16904476
How does one address their temper?

I feel like i'm just avoiding her most of the time now, i just don't want to get yelled at anymore

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So all my friends are busy, or out of town, and I want to go downtown and drink and hit on girls and shit.

Only problem is, in my 23 years, I've never been to a bar by myself - I'm always with friends who can drive me. How do people drink and get home without seriously endangering themselves?

I don't want to chance it at all - I don't get hammered, but even buzzed driving scares me. I can handle my liquor though. It's just like... I don't know, I want to go out and have fun, but without my friends to help me get home (or wingman me, hah) I don't know how to do it.

Tips?
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>>16904458
I got so drunk I got kicked out of a country western shitkicker when I first turned 21.

Dude, taxis.

Or Danny's if you're just a little drunk. They always build a Dennys in the bar district for that reason. Lol, there is a waffle house next door to the strip club where I live. Bouncers will help you get a cab if you ask them.
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Taxi or walk. That is also how you take girls home.
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If you're not a redneck you take the bus or the subway.

>Going to music school
>Have individual lessons with voice teacher I got set up with through the school.
>She's fucking hot as hell
>Am seriously in love with this bitch
>She likes me back a little bit. Stares right at me and smiles when I smile at her while she's singing during every performance of hers I attend. Also blushes all the time during our lessons and occasionally lets the facade crack.
>She has boyfriend.
>She knows I like her.
>I don't want to risk losing her as a teacher, she is seriously competent.
>But I want things to be comfortable
>As of right now, lessons with her are an emotional roller coaster. When I'm around her, I get all giggly, but then I feel like absolute shit after the lesson, sometimes for days, because the extenuating circumstances mean it would be really shitty of me to make any moves, and she would probably shoot me down anyway because of those same circumstances.
>I want to not love her anymore so I can keep her as a teacher.
>What do?
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Just go beat him. Take the girl and be a hero. Do it man!
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Don't get involved. Remember that if she cheats on him or is flirtatious with someone else, she might do the same to you, should you get in a relationship with her.

You're a student and having a romantic relationship with a teacher can be harmful. Depending on the school, she could get fired if you're found out. Or if you have a fight, lessons will be awkward.

It's worse than dating a coworker. Just don't. Wait until you graduate and then pursue a relationship if you want.
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>>16904449
Don't pursue it because if you have a relationship with her, and the school finds out, you'll get expelled, and she'll get fired

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This post is probably gonna stand out amongst the other questions here at the board, but I need advice and thats the name of the board, so here goes.
My landlord recently called me and said that the heater for the radiators (which are powered by water) has broken down.
My radiators are ice cold now, and its freezing outside.
I can get by, got some extra thick socks on and double blankets, but I wonder if I should turn off my radiators or not?
Are they just pumping out cold water now, making everything extra cold, or are they simply not doing anything at the moment?
I tried to look this up elsewhere but I think this problem is kinda unique/everyone else knows what to do except me who lives under a rock.

Pic related, what my apartment feels like right now
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>>16904447
>I wonder if I should turn off my radiators or not?
>Are they just pumping out cold water now, making everything extra cold, or are they simply not doing anything at the moment?

I'm assuming they're electric since you said "turn off"

Right now they're using up power doing absolutely nothing.

Turn them off. You're just wasting electricity and raising your bill (probably not by a lot, but why waste money?)
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sounds like theyre trying to save money. my landlord said her basement thingy broke and then she comes to us a week later saying she bet 2k on fantasy football. next time, (if you have a lease) tell her to shove a foot up her ass and give u heat or else u will tell the govt.

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I had a Marijuana Ticket from a few months ago that I havent been able to pay off. It was supposed to be due 2 months ago, but as it's $200, I either pay the ticket, or eat and pay rent.

I have about 100 saved right now towards it, what legal issues will this cause? Can they come to my home? Will I be flagged down in public?

I live in Milwaukee.
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They were monthly payments of $50, and technically only 150 is due as of this month.

I was thinking of mailing the 150 via check before the month ends.
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You could be arrested if you're stopped by law enforcement for any other reason.
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>>16904599
Im aware of this, yes. Luckily Im not hotboxing cars, smoking in public areas or selling it.

I was caught smoking at a concert along with a buddy, we each nabbed a 200 Dollar charge. Worst time in my life as I just recently moved out, quit smoking and barely scrape by on Ramen and Vitamins because all my cash goes to Food/Rent/Medical Perscriptions/Inhaler ReFills

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Anyone here take add/adhd medication? I know a lot of people take aderall like candy, and I have a friend whose been on every add medication under the sun since he was a child. My parents never believed it was worth the health risks associated with the medication, not that they kept me from it, they said it was up to me, but they pretty much said with hard work and less distraction, you can get stuff done without taking drugs that could potentially really damage you.

However, a customer at work today was very adamant about me trying vyvanse, since I have what most would consider ADD, because it worked wonders for her daughter and she regrets being anti medication when she was little.

Apparently it also significantly alleviated her daughters depression, which I feel like I also suffer from.

Anyone have any experience with it and can say if it was a positive or negative experience?
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insurance will ask you to try adderall first. second, adderall increases your energy in every single body part so that you can do everything you want but you have to plan on when youre going to sleep becuase youll be wide awake. third, it is not addictive unless you regularly abuse drugs. lastly, it wares off after 4 hours. more importantly youll need to increase the dosage after 6 uses. good luck. also btw the energy may make you a bit angry.
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I've been on aderall for over 10 years. I hate the person I am when I don't take my pills. Although it's helped me tremendously (I was able to focus in school, get good greats, have friends etc) I never learned how to focus on my own.
My doctors have tried to take me off it before but I was completly lost.
My point is, don't take the medicine if you don't have to. You seem to be managing fine without it. Starting a bad habit at your age would be no good. Plus it's frowned upon to still be on ADD medicine as an adult. I'm frenquently asked if I sell it.
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Concerta worked well for me, I was during my teen-depression period when I was taking it and it didn't help that, so not sure about the depression. Noticed it wearing off after around 6 hours. Kept me focused and stuff. I encountered no health problems. They talk about you not wanting to eat after you start taking it, but again teen depression so I wasn't eating much anyway. But yeah, it works bro.

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Is the process to change your first name difficult in the U.S? I basically just want to anglicize my name. (I heard it costs $435 in California... which sucks cause I'm a college student)
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There's no general "in the U.S." for this. It varies from one county to the next. Generally speaking, however, it's only difficult if you have something to hide or you come across a very grumpy judge.
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>>16904442
Basically this op. As for costs, look into waivers for your county. I know some of them will waive the fees if you make under a certain amount.
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Anon you don't have to change your name to Matt. You can substitute Matt for your real name.
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>>16904411

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I know most people would not care about this at all, and I have heard so many saying likes don't matter and they are not a clear indicator of anything YET I still feel like those who have more likes on their pictures and statuses on facebook (i don't use other social media with my real identity) then i, are having a better social life and reputation. Active and caring friends, fun social activities, popularity, endearing, fun, interesting personalities...
All of the things I had few to none of and am insecure about.
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>tfw I have a brain tumor and I see posts like OPs
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>>16904437
Lol.
Fuck this kid.
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You're about 12? The likes aren't directly linked to reputation or quality of life. I have lived with girls who are all about the likes, concerned whether they get 60 or 90 on a picture. They were quite insecure, all about the popularity but really lacking in real experiences, naive and annoying. Of course that doesn't mean you're better than them for having less likes.

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The girl I have a huge crush on just got asked to prom by a relatively unattractive junior. She said yes. Should I ask her now or what? What do?
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Also, we're all part of this group of friends that eats lunch together which just makes it even fucking weirder.
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Yusnoozyulooz
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I think the best advice I can give you is graduate High school. It's fucking high school. It does not matter.

Have you ever had sex with a long time friend ?
Did you stop being friends ?
Did you stop having sex ?
What happened ?
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>>16904340
Boned my wife this morning, I've known her almost 9 years now. Shit was so cash. I did not stop having friends, but I did stop having sex because I was finished and it tickles my weener to keep going after I'm done.
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I did and it was fine until my next girlfriend was insanely jealous and I stupidly cut off my friend when I shouldn't have

I guess the takeaway there is that it's going to look weird to your next romantic partner if they know you've fucked one of your friends (and the friend is still around)

>the sex was good tho
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He doesn't talk to me anymore.. Too uncomfortable is his excuse

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So recently I made the mistake of wiping down some old leather (or fake leather I can't tell) in my car with lysol wipes. Now it looks like pic related. What are some things I can put on it to help it not feel so shitty? Will human lotion work? Sorry if I sound a little dumb
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Meh, happens with age and wear. Lotion wont work, its not dry skin. Your best bet is to replace it completely.
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>>16904332
It's fucked at this point.

You should have bought leather cleaner.

Buy some leather oil, but it's already fucked. Looks like composite leather.
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Lysol didn't do that, years of neglect did that. Go look up how to make or buy a replacement. Preferably something hard and/or synthetic so that you don't fuck it up again.

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Hi /adv/,

I'll try to keep it short. My mom is inviting strangers over to drink and fuck all the time. They don't even bother to hide it and it's turning me crazy. When I confront my mom she tries to laugh it off. But I know that one of those guys might be a crazy one so besides hearing them having sex he might even try to hurt me. What do I do? Any advice on this?
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>>16904305
I'm an 18 year old female btw. I'm trying to move out of the house and leave it all behind but I have to find a better job first as housing is expensive around here
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>>16904316
Try to find a roomie you can live with and pay rent out of what you are making now. That shit's nasty.
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Breaking news.
Your mom is a hoe.

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>K, be me
>18 yr old senior virgin who goes on 4chan
>Average looking
>I've had girlfriends in the past, just not recently
>There are two girls in this story
>One is probably the most innocent, cutest, and sweetest girl in the world, has never seen a porno, or even dated a guy.
>One is a satanist goth chick who is super hot and is mad funny and is genuinely my friend
>Goth chick has openly said that she'd be cool fucking me
>She doesn't care about sex and has had it a million times, she even has a boyfriend who I'm bros with
>It would be platonic
>Cute chick and I are starting to hit it off and hang out after school and I think something is there

Basically the question is should I get my virginity out of the way with goth chick, or should I go about it in the usual fashion by being in a relationship and earn the right?

WHICH ONE DO I FUCK FIRST?!
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>>16904282
>she even has a boyfriend who I'm bros with

The fuck. Don't be an asshole.
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>>16904292
Boyfriend has told me he would be weirdly cool with it :/
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Fuck goth chick is her bf doesn't mind. Otherwise go for the other girl.

This situation isn't actually a problem, it just seems that way right now because you're a virgin.

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