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>>16921082
Don't tell them

>>16921095
Why is this the general advice?

I've got a similar situation on the horizon, and I feel like it'd be completely normal to tell them? I feel like it would relieve first-time anxiety and make it a lot easier for everyone if you both know what you're getting into.

I wouldn't. In fact I didn't. I lied and told my gf that I had sex one time previously and it wasn't a good experience. That way I covered my bases for being inexperienced and didn't come across as a virgin.

>>16921048

Pay the child support. Why be blackmailed into a relationship you don't want for the rest of your life?

Pay for your freedom. If she sees you are ballsy enough she might get the abortion, though not likely if she is this crazy.

Don't get back together with her, you'll be miserable and resentful of her (and rightly so) that's no environment to raise a child.

That said your current gf needs to know about this and you need to be prepared for the possibility that it could end your relationship. Maybe it won't idk what she's like, but for some it would.

BTW are you sure about that paternity test? I thought you had to wait until after the child was born...

Anyway you left her for a reason and now she's blackmailing you back into a relationship. Call her bluff then laugh when she "miscarries"

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>>16921048

>not using protection on a girl you aren't planning to marry

>>16921045

>tying your self-worth to pussy you don't have

Seriously don't date anyone anon. You'll see a hot chick with some other dude and probably cheat or at the very least get this obsession about them.

>>16921045
>Does this mean that she is just not the right one? When I find the right one, do you think Ill be motivated to do well FOR her?
No and no. This is a personality flaw, one that will make pretty much everyone leave you. It's not over when you get the girl. You have to work to keep her around.

>>16921050
I know. I am not dating her for that very reason. Its not fair to her and I need to figure my shit out first.

Ive been told that lust for other sloos never goes away, even after you get married. Which is understandable. I just dont want to get in a relationship, lose all motivation for self progress, and wish I could still bang other sloos.

Maybe Im still just really immature.

Friendzone is a term used to refer to a man who wants something romantic with a woman, but the woman only wants a platonic relationship.

It's considered a bad thing in the eyes of men because you empathize with the man wanting a woman he can't have.

>>16921054
Thanks broham.

The friendzone is in your head.

The friendzone is when guys stick around with a girl after being rejected, or without being honest with their feelings resulting in the girl assuming that said male just want's a platonic relationship.

It doesn't exist.

You can if you want?

I'm probably going to get a cross tattoo at some point. Not some time soon, though.

>>16921007

No, they are fucking stupid. Anyone I see w/a tattoo I immediately assume are below average intelligence.

Im going to copy paste my reply from the last thread

>tatoos
dont do this
im not even trying to be a straight edge loser when I say this: you WILL regret it. Unless its something like an army unit, a professional team you were a part of, or something that has a special meaning to you like a tribute to a dead loved one then all tattoos are mistakes.

Past teenage and young adult years people will either have a neutral or negative opinion of them and it only serves as negative status symbol, kind of like a reverse rolex. Again, im not trying to be a no fun faggot im just warning you that permanently marking your body with stupid shit is going to come back and haunt you.

>>16920997
dude wtf they will give you the fucking pill for free just about anywhere

you two are probably just too fucking scared to get it and are thinking irrationally

Go to a clinic you fucking idiot, it's free at most clinics.

Don't have her overdose on an off label yahoo-answers-endorsed "treatment".

>>16921201
if you can then I have no idea where to go. I called planned parent good and the women's center where I live (Florida) and was told by both of them that it would cost between 600 to 500 dollars for the 5 pills that she would need for the process. I know some places do a free day after pill but we are at the 6 week mark that does no good.

>>16920996

Most women don't care, some will. 3 inches is below average, but again most women don't care.

Find a woman that doesn't care.

Sluts and shallow bitches will care. I've been laughed at before.
Sluts and shallow bitches make up about 50-60% of the population.
Are there plenty of good girls out there, yes. Are most of the kindhearted girls on adv in this category, and going to tell you it doesn't matter? Yes.

Are you fat? Losing weight helps a bit.
Just don't pursue trash bags.

>>16920996
Unless you use a strap on one night stands are out of the question, but as far as a relationship goes you should be okay.

You're over thinking it. She must think your sass is a part of your charm.

She was teasing you man, girls don't often think about how effeminate some of their adjectives might seem to a man..

Don't worry about it.

Also, is it a bad sign if she never texts me first and I'm always the one that has to get the conversation going?

>>16920962
Can you be anymore fucking vague about what you're selling?!!!!

>>16921501
I didn't think it mattered?!!!!
Regardless of what I'm trying to sell, any advice on boosting sales as a new user would apply.

>>16921594
Send $180 to my account and i will share these 5 jest tricks for boosting your sales!

._. how can a weaboo reject another weaboo, arent you made for one another?

>>16920918
she's not a weaboo, she's a popular girl. I swear I'm not lying, not even I understand how did it happened

This is some high school shit, mane. Are you in it for the love or are you in it for the sex?

I'm being open about it. I've come out as BPD on facebook so everyone knows. I let every guy who comes on to me know.

Oddly, it hasn't effected me as much since I decided to own it. I have good qualities. And I do manage to keep friends real friends for long periods of time.

I was diagnosed bipolar about a year and a half ago. I felt the same way at first. I was worried about the stigma of mental health, and how to deal with it. Over time, with help from my therapist, and just the passing of time those feeling have gone away. You learn you are the same person after diagnosis that you were before. The label just helps explain some things.

Most people with BPD are asymptomatic after six years of dialectical behavioral therapy, according to my psych teacher in college.

Get into treatment asap.

So what if you are? You're human. Our greatest trait is our ability to adapt and be flexible to suit our circumstances. You can grow and change from worthlessness. In being human there is always potential. However that does not mean it can't be squandered, which is the part you and you alone are in control of.

I'm sure some woman loves you. But you just don't love her. And believe me that sucks worse.

Well you have to actually put yourself out there and go on dates and things in order for women to realize you exist in the first place.

>>16920843
Its too late to change it so how about you stop being a little bitch and deal with it.

All you can think about is circumcision?

Damn, that's neurotic.

>>16920843
dude its way better being circumsized

dont have to worry about cottage cheese and cumming too early

women prefer circumsized peckers, it's a know fact that un's are fucking filthy zoo animals

>>16920768
I know this doesn't necessarily imply whether or not a girl likes you (I had an ex that did it all the time) but jesus christ I fucking hate it when women use traditionally male bro terms like "man" and "dude" and "kid".

Drives me fucking nuts.

>>16920782
OP here,

I know what you mean. There was a girl in my junior year that had a major crush on me, and always called me "bro" and that was one of the biggest turn offs for me. She was cute and had an alright personality, but the "bro" was one of the big factors to me.

Don't act desperate and well i'm 18 and Don't go out play survival like you do but I think it's better to ask her to do something else. For example going to the city centre watching a movie and diner after that.

>>16920767
My sister had it pretty bad (don't know specifically what stage) and the cut both of them off, she did chemo and stuff, they built her some new tits, and she's ten years in doing fine.

As an aside, there was a picture circulating in the family of her new tits (some sort of being supportive and open bullshit, my extended family is all women and weird) and I saw them and they look pretty good. Amazing what they can do.

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No idea, anon but I honestly hope you and yours all the best.

I love you

>>16920792
Do you know what stage she had?