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I feel like I'm always being attacked by people for me just being me im alone becuase of it and im starting to contemplate suicide.
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>>16922238

>suicide

Go for it, why not?
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>>16922238
I wish everyone who ever contemplated or attempted suicide could talk to a person who succeeded in the act, and see if that actually made things better for them.
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>>16922246

>who succeeded in the act

We-ll they are fucking dead, unless thats the point you were trying to make?

>and see if that actually made things better for them

How do you know it didnt? How do you know they didnt end in some type of Lovecraftian paradise/world, reincarnated, became omnipresent, went to heaven or something like that?

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She might just be curious. This means nothing. You need to grow a set of balls dude.
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>>16922227
For what?
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Fuck your shit
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>>16922225
You asked this in another thread, what the fuck?

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okay guys need serious backup

>GF of 5 years tells me shes pregnant with my bestfriend
>She wants to end it with me
>feelstothemax.webm
>'Bestfriend' comes over to see how things are going
>punch him square in the face, breaking his nose.
>I get kicked out of my own home

5 years pass

>I'm working at a shitty job
>I see my ex and her new boyfriend
>They walk over and say hi
>Their kid is grown up now
>kid calls me uncle
>Kick the kid as hard as I can
>Ex's hubby beats the shit out of me
>Gets fired
>Wtfiswrongwithme.kms

Im now living my life as a street cleaner, what do i do to get my shit together?

Ps. pic sorta related, looks like her
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Revel in the fact that you escaped a disgusting cave troll like that then become king of the street cleaning conglomerate
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>file name
1/10 almost believed.
Would smash tho
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>>16922221
>kid calls me uncle
>Kick the kid as hard as I can
>Ex's hubby beats the shit out of me

kek'd

seriously though, while i'm not in the same boat i'm in a similar position where I feel I need to "restart" life. i'll tell you more, but i need to know what you're currently doing with your life/time. give me a breakdown of your daily/average schedule.

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So at my work, I get along well with almost everyone. Everyone is nice to me and seems to like me except for one other girl. She won't talk to me, and won't even look me in the face, and she was promoted recently. All she does is bark orders and makes back handed comments about me and tries to hint that I'm fat. I know I'm not fat, I just got big tits and a big ass.

I'm not sure if she's jealous or what, but I don't know how to deal with a superior being so petty. What should I do?
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>>16922204
Flaunt it. Post pics :)
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>>16922204
>>16922204
She's probably pretty insecure by the sounds of it.

You don't know what shes been through, so try to treat her as a friend first, if she keeps rejecting you, then youve done all you can. Don't hate her though. None of what anyone says 99% of the time is personal.
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>>16922601
Naw. Fuck dat bitch. Flaunt it. No empathy. No mercy. Post pics;)

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i was thinking about the possibility of creating a forged high school transcript to get into a really really good college (ivys, Stanford, etc)
I can't believe that this isn't a viable option/some people have done it
is anybody aware of anything like this happening or would know of somebody i could contact?
thx guys ur the best
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>>16922155
Do you really think top colleges are stupid enough to accept any old transcript?
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you're better off lying on your admissions essay
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>>16922155
If you're stupid enough to get bad grades in high school, you won't last a semester in an Ivy League.

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if you've experienced something shocking or tragic, how do you ever go back to a certain level of happiness you had before that occurred?

when i was 17, my brother died and i saw him at the morgue with his head cut open and his face flat because his brain had been taken out for an autopsy. i remember stuff like this even though its been over 10 years and it still nags at me even when i'm trying to have a good time.

would really like to hear anyone elses experiences with something like this. thanks :)
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>>16922136
I have a suicidal younger sister who is in and out of mental facilities, and tries to cut herself on a daily basis. Whenever I'm hanging out with friends or having a good time in general I always picture her sitting in a empty white room and it just fucks with me. The only advice I can offer you is to either get therapy, or fake your happiness for those you care about. Time is not your friend in this situation.
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>>16922148

lol i always imagien him too. i burst into years at one of my birthdays, my boyfriend had taken me on a winter hayride for my birthday and i cried the entire time because i kept picturing my brother there, really ruined the day haha
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>>16922148

also, do you go to therapy?

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Soup.
This may be long, but i'l try to keep it brief.

Girlfriend and i been together for 5 years going on 6. In the beginning after about 6 months she started showing signs of jealousy and control.

It got to the point where she was asking me to not talk to female friends... i refused but eventually said 'm happy with what you ask of me so long as you can give it in return." So i stopped talking to my female friends and she did with her male friends.
Things went up and down in the relationship. She asked me not to speak to the females at work... i again said that's fine, so long as you do me the courtesy of not speaking to the males you work with.

OK, heres where my concern comes in. About a year ago she got a new boss. I immediatly knew she was attracted to him because she used to come home and talk about the shit they both said and joked about and how much better said boss was to the previous one.(this pedestal talk still happens to this day)

Now when i confronted her in the beggining about her flirty behaviour, she said " oh it's different because it's my boss and i have to be nice to him" Which was utter Bs cause she didn't treat her previous boss this nice.

Now She got invited to a dinner party for all the team there, her boss and his "wife" were meant to be picker her up ( i didn't want to go)

then at the last minute she says " i'm going to wear these knickers what do you think"
They were lingerie, and i said you barely wear that for me, who are you trying to impress.

She got angry and defensive.

I'll stop there as theres more stuff but that gives you an idea.

i know she thinks he's good looking... but uncertain on her actually cheating.
So whats an easy way to catch her cheating if she is?


TL;DR Girlfriend being acting different, constantly talking about her boss and wearing sexy lingerie to work functions. How do i catch her cheating if she is?
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>>16922007
If you gave a shit you would have gone. Face it, you're with her for convenience or pussy or something, just break it off before she fucks her boss
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>>16922017
True but if she has already done it or plans to do it while were together i'd like evidence to forward onto his wife.
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>>16922007
as soon as she got her way in making you ignore females, you resigned your manliness.. and the thing that was making her attracted to you.

Heres what i would do:

I'd sit her down and say

"look.. i have some very important female friends in my life that i am ignoring.. im not going to anymore because its super retarded to be ignoring people because of your insecurities, obviously you can talk to guys. Its completely retarded preventing you from talking to anyone.

(if she doesnt agree)
Im not ignoring my friends for you anymore, you can leave if you want. This is how it is now."

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Exit bag
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Gun
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The most effective way is to marry someone you hate.

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>know this guy who was getting married
>asked him how he knows she wont cheat on him
>He blows up at me, starts giving me a lecture on "trust", "it will never happen" and telling me how amazing this woman is
>3 years later she cheats on him, is filing for a divource and is trying to take everything he has
>so tempted to tell him "i told you so"

How do i avoid meeting women like this?
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>How do i avoid meeting women like this?

Stay away from women
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>>16921851
/thread
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It's a literal fucking grab bag for the inexperienced OP. After a long time of interacting with women though, if you're brutally honest with your own thoughts about a person (i.e. think analytically instead of emotionally), you can sort out most of the women like that after just a short conversation. That being said, there's always the potential for that sneaky one to get past your hoedar. I'll admit it, I've been burned (first love gone wrong), but after awhile it's like night and day with these chicks.

Or you can do what this anon (>>16921851) said and spare the trouble and shitty life lessons.

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Ask her out and you'll find out...
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but how
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words.
use your words.
how do you know this girl?

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Is it normal that antidepressants don't work? My doctor tried to put me on lexapro, which I don't think did much at all, so then she ended up switching me to Zoloft which I also think didn't work.i think they just made me slightly space out and have me interesting dreams and made me eat like crazy.I was working night shift hours and had horrible sleep, did this play a role? The doctor seemed confused by it and suggested I try Effexor but at this point I'm so reluctant to try it, should I?
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>>16921794
Yeah. Antidepressants are basically alchemy. No one knows how the fuck they work.

Keep trying.
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Lexapro gave me the worst gastrointestinal symptoms of my life. Not that it's terribly relevant to the discussion.
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Yes, you should keep seeing the doctor and letting them change your medications.

I had to go through at least four different antidepressants before my doctor and I found one that worked. And THEN we had to find the right dosage. It takes time figuring it out, but it's worth it.

Hard truth is you'll always deal with depression - I do - but the medications make it quite manageable.

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>>16921784
If she really liked you she wouldn't give you such a bs excuse.

I guess she doesn't want to hurt your feelings and I think you're too nice with her (or women in general).
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how would i go about the rest of it then?
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Move on. She isn't into you.
The last thing you think about when considering entering a relationship is ending it. that's retarded.

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What is it like to be a teacher ?
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shitty
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Hell on earth
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First year really sucks since you're coming up with all your learning plans and there's no real Downtime to catch up on your work. The more years you go through the easier it gets since you have more to fall back on (even though you're not supposed to).

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What's a good country to move to, for a 23 year old American?

A moderately safe one, with diversity, lots of thick women (no place infested with stick tier basic bitches please), and won't hate me just because I'm American. Also, easy to live only knowing English

Please give me serious answers, ideally I'd move the beginning of next year so I can save up some more cash, I have Paris and Sweden at the top of my list
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>>16921716
Germany!
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switzerland or australia
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>>16921716
>Paris
Very diverse and accepting of most people regardless of color, hard to get around/live without knowing a lot of French though oh and they hate anything ISISy and Americans

Honestly the best place to go would be somewhere in Canada or England

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I'm in a really bad spot right now. I was in a mental ward for almost two years and I missed out on a lot of stuff. I'm way behind on education and I feel like I can't function at all. They said I had autism, but for some reason I can't accept that fact. I feel like I'm responsible for my situation, but I don't know how to get out.

I'm thinking about going into some kind of stationary treatment again, because I'm afraid of what I might do to myself if this continues. Is this a good idea or will I lose even more time that way? I feel like time is just slipping through my fingers, while I waste my whole life away.
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Do you have any skills, talents? Anything you can do that you could do to get paid? Maybe academia isn't for you but there are trades, artisanal work, you can teach yourself computer programming, video editing, arts...

There are a lot of ways to make a living that don't require a college degree
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>>16921715
That's not even my primary concern. I can't even get the most simple shit done. I feel incredibly slow.

I want to progress and learn something, but I'm stuck and I don't think I can fix this on my own.

I need to get some help and I need to do it soon.
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>>16921768

What's your current living situation?

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