>tfw had a chick really into me and blew it
>acted uninterested even though I really was
what should I do?
>>16922797
Don't learn relationship tips from girls magazines and just bee yourself next time.
>>16922797
playing games like that is for the bar/party/club scene
next time just show her you like her back, its what she wants more than anything
This is okey at the start. But not after she has shown interest herself.
Show interest in her. Tell her. Go on.
Not a native speaker. There are about 60 to 100 words I must memorize and I can say that using memory cards really works well. There are apps that you can make flash card sets for memorizing stuff. But you have to write all the words and English definitions by hand.
Is there any way (an app, a program, a site etc) I can just pick, say 60 words, and it will ask me those words and show the definitions; like memory cards?
Anki
Quizzlet
>>16922753
I checked it, it's pretty much the same. You can to download a deck of cards or you have to create each card one by one in anki
What do you think about girls who had some scars on their body due to some big surgeries when they were a kid?
I'm not even talking about self-harm.
I got two through two big surgeries when i was a kid and one from an accident. Really makes me insecure about it. I always feeling embarrassed by the looks of people when they saw it.
So,do men even care about it? I've never actually asked this question to all the guys I've dated. So I just tried to be cool with it but deep down I want to know the thought of men about this kind of thing.
>>16922741
Depends, are you dating a child or a man?
>>16922741
Personally, if you're attractive? Awesome. Just my thing though. Not sure about others.
>>16922756
A man I guess? He the same age as me. >>16922758
This is the point. I even think about if they seemed like they're cool with it,i still never know whether they thought about they deserved to have someone else better than me.
it happened recently about 2 weeks ago and she told me that she couldn't deal with my temper, although i did nothing wrong and i always gave her time and was always comforting her and always cheering her up in times of need and was always by her side. i found out that shes been planning to break up with me via fb because she left it open once on my pc and shes been fucking some other dude that she met in one of her classes. i have been and i am currently in a state of shock so please folks can you tell me the ways for a revenge? also she started it after breaking up with me within two days. Tell best ideas for revenge
>>16922731
just murder her dont get fancy
>>16922731
>she told me that she couldn't deal with my temper, although i did nothing wrong
>can you tell me the ways for a revenge?
I think I'm starting to see what she meant.
The best revenge is to move on. If she finds out you're trying to get revenge then she's won.
How do I cope with life if I literally never did anything? I was born in the country to a really poor family. I've been on a few vacations but not much. My parents never took me to a beach I never went on spring break I never did anything. I'm 23 too lazy to work because of all this depression and I don't see a point when I missed out on everything.
just do it
Dont think of it as work, just think of it as something you do
>>16922689
0-23 were the good times, the rest of your life is going to be shit now.
I believe I maybe one of the most boring people on the planet, ask me questions to test this theory.
>>16922669
FORD
family occupation recreation dreams
>>16922669
From your own perspective, you currently are boring, from others perspective, you are interesting.
Just because you think you are boring, doesn't mean you are, but if you come to believe that you are boring, then you probably will act that way.
I would rather believe and act in an interesting way - that is the way I think.
Family: brother, sister, mother father, live alone
Occupation: IT architect/programmer
Recreation: sleep, weed, movies
Dreams: sleep, to have a loving gf
Ok so i'm trying to stop jacking off made it 2 days caved last night. How do do I get past the hump of having a rager in my pants 24/7. That shit makes it impossible for me to sleep. my goal at this point is a week.
>>16922650
flex your thighs
if you do it right it kills your boner dead
Get a life. If you are busy all day you won't be considering fap.
When you can't drop an activity, the secret is to replace it with another activity. It's common for young males to masturbate when they have excess energy. Your mind/body will find it uncomfortable to stop unless you spend that energy elsewhere. Try working out. Something physically exhaustive that will make you sweat.
Should I go to the heart of South America to Argentina's wilderness to escape facism disguised as capitalism. Or is it too late, and some jerk is always going to bother me no matter where I hide? Should I stay and fight you fucks through civil disobedience or radical means. Goddamn it...all I want is to be completely left alone with a woman with some crops and some animals to hunt. Why did we leave the garden? We had it good.
>>16922570
Wake up $heeple
>>16922570
Cut the soles off your shoes, live in a tree, and learn to play the flute, why don't ya?
Even rural nomadic cultures attributed deep importance to communal interactions, even if they were far between one another. What you're describing is a way of life that has never really existed for anyone
I feel as though my personal preferences for myself make it virtually impossible to find someone compatible to be in a relationship with.
My preferences aren't even exotic - I'm not religious and I don't give a damn about kids or marriage. All I really want is a longterm partner. It makes dating difficult as I feel guilty that I'm wasting their time. I've had more than one relationship come to an end because our goals were very different.
Am I being unreasonable?
Broaden the topic if you like - career, school, lunch menu. What do you do when there isn't a whole lot of room for sacrifices/compromises and your choices are incredibly limited?
Wait what? Most people want a long term relationship when they date.
If you cannot go into a relationship without being assured that it will lead to a long term relationship then yes, what you are asking is not reasonable.
The crux of the matter is that you can't jump steps in relationships. It needs to follow a simple pattern. First you have a short term relationship and then, if you are compatible, you develop it into a a term relationship. There is no other way it can work. You can't pressure people to commit to a long term relationship when you haven't proven that you are pleasant to be with in the short term. It is a demand that puts on other people all of the burden of making the relationship work. The reason is because humans are lazy and we always seek the path of less efforts. Once you have pushed someone to "agree" to a long term relationship then you can be as unpleasant and unfriendly and demanding as you want, and even abusive, and if they say anything bad then you can guilt trip them into saying that they lied about committing to a long term relationship.
You can also see it like this: asking someone preemptively to commit to a long term relationship is just as bad as asking someone to promise you will have sex on a first date. Once a person is pressured to make this promise, their partner can lose all interest in being sexy and attractive or even attempting to make the sex mutually pleasant. That's why you can't ask for sex in advance. The same goes for long term relationships. In either situation it's something that needs to naturally develops after dating for a while and having mutually pleasant fun. If you cannot have a relationship unless it is promised to develop in the long term then you are purposely hurting yourself on purpose and have no one else to blame.
>>16922516
>>16922567
That's not the issue.
I don't want kids and I don't want marriage. That's the central point here. If a girl wants these things, eventually, she's not likely to invest the time being in a relationship with me
How do i get over the stress of college? I get stressed over papers to the point i end up with a mad scramble to finish them and just want to cry the whole night over them, instead of actually writing them.
Then i get stressed over my gpa, which makes it worse which makes me more stressed. Im almost done second year and i'm not sure if I can take more.
>>16922503
You don't?
You either develop a really strict work ethic or fail so many courses that you eventually drop out.
Either way, life is shit and I can't wait for the sweet release of death.
>>16922503
Discipline yourself to work earlier
Problem solved
>>16922503
Sometimes college is just not for you.
I've created a monster. What do I do.
I've been married for almost a year now. She had been with one guy before me that did not fulfill her sexually. She, also, was raised Catholic and is still strongly Catholic. I've been overcoming her guilt relating to sex for over four years.
I have been coaxing her out of her she'll. She never masturbated until I bought her a magic wand and used it on her, the. Transitioned into her using it in front of me, to her using it without me. She had never orgasmed before me, and now she'll piss all over my face while I eat her out (squirt, piss, same shit). I've also been prodding her to be a sexual being and explore what she likes. Since we got married she has really come out of her shell.
She likes slave and master play. We have spent hundreds of dollars on ropes and whips and flogs and toys. I don't enjoy any of this shit, but I do it for her because she does. Now she has been wanting to fuck where we get caught, and it's continuing to progress to be more and more brazen. I am not into this either. At first it was exciting to go in the bathroom and fuck when we went out to dinner, but now it's going to the beach and her spooning against me and fucking with people around. She is wearing short skirts with no panties.
Again, I'm not into this shit, and she is continuing to be extreme.
How the fuck do I slow her down--without killing her sexual progress? I want her to have the sex life she wants, and I don't want her to feel insecure, and I've put a whole lot of effort into that, but peeing in my face is one thing, her wanting us to get caught fucking is totally different.
Do I even stop her? Or do I just continue on with it? Thoughts?
>>16922495
Just talk it out. Since you have been able to do all this already I'm sure you'll find a way to communicate she obviously is comfortable enough with you.
Just tell her like it is, you're not into that and you're too afraid and it just kills your buzz, you are different people and that's how sexuality works. Find a compromise if need be, like... no beaches, yes bathrooms.
Good speed
I think it's important you tell her when you aren't comfortable with a sexual activity. You don't have to agree with everything. You're allowed to have an opinion. You shouldn't be having sex that is 100% aimed at pleasing her, try to aim for a 50/50 deal. It's alright to indulge in her favorite bed acts and then ask that she indulges in yours. If you prefer sex of a more tame variety, tell her. She can't know what you want unless you speak up and address the matter seriously.
>>16922495
Divorce her. And send her to me
/adv/ How long is it socially acceptable to endure anal rape before falling in love?
0 seconds
This is not acceptable, you're giving away your self respect. Why do you endure it?
Roughly 3.6 minutes, +-4.75 seconds, depending on the current season and the alignment of mercury and saturn
Hey guys I need some advice, I did a bad thing and snooped a little through my girlfriend of 3 years phone, she had fallen asleep and it went off with a facebook message, I saw it and got curious but didnt open that specific message, instead I went to a conversation with one of her guy friends that she sees once or twice a week with her other girl friends, they are all somewhat close and chummy and she has talked about him on occasion and has even said he's unattractive and that one of her other friends is always with him instead of her own boyfriend and my girlfriend has said to me that she "doesnt see the appeal" so I never had a reason to worry.
However when I quickly skimmed over her messages they seemed a little off to me, she had a work gathering a few days back and had sent this guy a message while she was there and had a few drinks saying something along the lines of "i love ya <3" it seemed like a friendly gesture but I found it strange that she messaged him that out of the blue whilst under the influence, it was the first message in the chain. It followed with him just laughing and she responded saying "aww no love for me?" he then responded with a kiss emoticon and she finalized it all with a smile face.
That was it... It doesnt sound like much, but it hurt to read that, I have never gone snooping like this before and pretty disappointed with what I found. I don't know what to make of it, or whether to even bring it up, I believe it meant nothing but it was still hurtful to read as it reminded me of our earlier days of messaging. I feel she just wanted some validation or "friend love" but it still worried me somewhat and I cant seem to get it off my mind.
Should I bring it up? Or just drop it, it's such an awkward situation.
Drop it. Girls are girls. Manipulative and flirty.
Tbh OP seems like he's just her pet guy friend.
Think she just likes having a guy friend who she can act with like he is a girl friend. Seen it b4
>>16922445
>>16922455
You dont know how much this means to read, i've been thinking about this all day but don't really have anyone to talk to about it.
I guess what I felt hurt me the most is that she could have message me instead of one of her friends who happens to be a dude, not really the things she said to him. I mean if she had sent me a similar thing i would have just thought she was in a loving mood and letting everyone in her life know but it seemed specific.
Have a date with a qt tomorrow, how do I not fuck this up
>>16922277
chill out and don't give a shit if it doesn't end the way you'd like to because you've got plenty more qts2date
SMILE!
>>16922277
>, how do I not fuck this up
Fuck her down, not up - unless your into that of course.
halp
Check this out really helped me once. Add a dot between btfy and tw
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>>16922257
I'm callin' bullshit, clicking those links never ends well; couldn't you just hijack the thread like a normal troll?
>>16922266
http://lmgtfy.com/?q=How+to+kill+myself