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So I just came back from an escort and after trying to get me hard by blowing me (3 attempts) she gave up and I left. Ask me anything.....
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How much did you pay. Why did you go to an escort?
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plzgive tips on how to hire one/get in contact with them.
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Paid $120 for half an hour. I havent gotten laid since 2011. Wanted to break the streak. LOL. I still can't believe I couldnt get hard
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Premature ejaculation 2016-03-19 20:45:27 Post No.16935378
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I've been seeing my girlfriend for nearly a year, and originally our sex was amazing. I would last 10-20 minutes, cum and 30 seconds later be able to repeat and last even longer. My problem is now whenever we start to initiate anything I'm hard instantly and within acouple seconds of having sex I cum. My confidence has started to take a real hit and although my girlfriend has been patient with it I can tell it's frustrating her too. Any anons have similar issues or know how to deal with it?
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happened to me too. take more time to get her/yourself in the mood and slow down a bit
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Have you been seeing her less often than in the beginning?
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Put all your energy into foreplay and round 2 of penetration
There's no reason to stop fooling around just because you came a single time
How do men grow their hair so long?
Whenever I let my hair grow it bunches up into a big bowl. Hair also gets in my eyes and I can't seem to cut it in a way to get the hair out of my eyes and not look even more ridiculous and like a bowl.
Also it plateaus around neck height. It never grows down to my shoulders...
I want hair like pic
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>>16935344
>Whenever I let my hair grow it bunches up into a big bowl
What the fuck
Have you tried combing it?
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>>16935344
You cut it as it grows You condition and blowdry. Go to a salon not supercuts.
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I've grown my hair past my shoulders before -- more than once, actually. I look terrible that way though, so I don't do it on purpose anymore. (I used to be kind of a metalhead.).
>>16935354 is right, fucking brush or comb your hair brah.
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Lol installed a second hardrive and my pc is not turning on.
>tfw 1550$ spent on it
Any ideas ?
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Have you tried removing it?
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>>16935335
Does the system still POST? Are there any error messages?
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>>16935339
It literally didn't turn on
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>be a neet for 2 years
>get into group therapy
>become wageslave
>now im almost 30
>there is this girl at work
>she's probably 20
>i look like i'm 20 too
>she's constantly poking me
>or bumping into me
>or calling me bubbles
>im scared that...
>she's making fun of me
>so i want to tell her
>that i will prolly fall for her
>so she should STOP
>cause im damaged
>and i didnt ever had gf
>and its a waste of time
>so maybe she will find
>someone more healthy
>cause im neurotic
>and narcisstic
>and bordeline
>or some other thing
>basicly a looser
What do you guys think?
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Just sounds like your standard attention whore that isnt into you at all desu senpai
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>>16935320
get that rusty sword cleaned up op, sounds like your in for a bumpy ride
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That's not how greentext works.
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Is being an over-sharer a thing?
I've noticed recently that I've been sharing some really private things with other people that probably shouldn't be shared except among really close friends. I feel really guilty about that as a result and a little bit embarrassed that these people probably think I'm a bit loopy or sad for sharing them.
Not sure what advice I'm looking for. I just know I have to stop doing it.
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stop being insecure and think more before you spill out personal stuff
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>>16935304
i tend to do that too, anytime i have a problem i feel the need to talk about it to a lot of people, even people that i'm not really close to and probably shouldn't know about that stuff.
I guess that if you feel the need to talk about some personal stuff, you should just stick with talking about it to your closest friends, the ones you can trust and that actually care, not your casual friends from school/work etc. that probably don't even care and won't help you.
try to think "do they actually care ? is this too much personal informations for them ? would they share that kind of stuff with me ?" before opening to someone
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>>16935350
Not OP but I have this problem. I end up spilling my guts to older women because I simply don't have any close friends.
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I'm having some relationship troubles and I'm not sure if I'm in the wrong or not. I've been dating my girlfriend for almost a year now, and shes very nice and we get along well. We live 3 hours away from each other so we have to drive to see each other sometimes, but the issue I'm having isn't exactly about her.
She has three kids and she still hasn't been able to move out of the same house as her ex. The father doesn't help her or the kids much at all and she hasn't gotten the money or daycare support to move out yet. I'm in no position to move out and take care of kids right now because I have doctor bills and a car payment I'm still trying to pay off. I don't really mind the kids, and I've tried to sit this through to see if it could work but I'm really starting to think it won't. The more months pass the more I feel like I put myself in a bad situation and I have to help fix a mess she made. Should I break up with her and try to find someone closer to me, or should I stick through with this relationship?
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>>16935289
This sounds like a really horrible situation that will only get worse if you move in together. It's going to be a burden on the rest of your life.
What are the positives to this relationship besides "she's nice and we get along well?" There should probably be a lot more to it if you're willing to anchor yourself to this the rest of your life.
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Is it an ex boyfriend or ex husband? Does he know you two are seeing eachother? I've known quite a few baby-daddies who have purposely caused problems for baby momma's new family... not paying child support, taking baby momma to court for no logical reason (To the tune of around $1500 every time, almost every time right before the Christmas season), and making unexpected visits to the house to cause trouble/drama. If she can't support herself and her kids, and their father does not contribute, you will be picking up the slack for baby momma and baby daddy. Doesn't sound too great to me.
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>>16935303
I used to have a huge fear of driving and wouldn't drive anywhere besides work and back home. My parents didn't really teach me how to drive well and what I did learn I taught myself. When I started dating here, she would ride with me for 3 hour trips just to learn how to get to her place. She was very patient with me and I appreciated her for that, and I looked over her problems because I had my own. Now that I can drive better her problems seem way more apparent than they did before.
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ex boyfriend. he's usually out every weekend seeing his girlfriend thats in town. I think he's just kind of a manchild because from what I hear he doesn't take care of his car and blows his money on video games. I honestly feel like it's a bad situation that I've been ignoring for way too long.
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Anxiety for 48 hours straight... Help? 2016-03-19 20:06:06 Post No.16935265
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Anxiety for 48 hours straight... Help?
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So I've been experiencing some pretty serious anxiety the last few days. The reason isn't that important, but it's related to a breakup. But I don't really want to talk about that.
I was wondering if anyone had general advice in dealing with generalised anxiety. Over the last 48 hours I have felt extremely panicked almost constantly, sometimes it gets a lot worse and I need to focus as hard as I can to not hyperventilate. I also need to force myself to eat or drink and I can't find enjoyment in anything I normally can like video games or TV or music.
Other times it's not as bad, like right now, but I still feel generally very stressed even though logically I know there's nothing to be stressed over currently. I went to a therapist for the first time today, and while it was good to talk it out and I have another appointment soon, it didn't help much with the feeling of panic.
The tl;dr and general question is: Does anyone know how to calm generalised anxiety I've felt for the last 48 hours that won't go away? All I've been told to do is focus on my breathing, which is a very temporary fix.
On a slightly related note, as stupid as it sounds, is masturbating while anxious a bad or good idea? Before the breakup I would do it once or more per day and it's been a couple days now, so I don't know if that's making it worse. But lately I've only been able to get off to my ex, so I'd have to use her pictures... So I don't know if that will make it harder to get over her.
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Also, I don't know if I kind of downplayed it here, but I don't think it's just "normal feelings after going through a breakup". I'm a 20 year old young man who needed to ask his mom to hold his hand and calm him down for 2 hours the night it happened, and even last night I sat silently with my mom for hours before I could sleep. And I'm usually very independent... This just is REALLY rattling me. I've never been this constantly anxious/scared before.
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Please give me advice?
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Bumping out of interest, I've had this happen to me before and it just sucked for a long time. Hope you find someone with better advice, OP. Breathing is all I've got too.
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Hey /adv/ I've been NEET ever since I finished highschool, my parents left me an apartment and some money and I haven't been doing anything with my life but browsing 4chan and jacking off. Money's just about to run out, I can't sell or rent the apartment because of some legal issues, and I'm too lazy to get a job. What should I do?
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>>16935234
Marry a rich dude
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>>16935234
There's literally only one option, and it's get a job.
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Get a fucking job you lazy piece of shit
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why is it still on my mind?? 2016-03-19 19:54:28 Post No.16935220
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why is it still on my mind??
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i broke up with my first gf like 7 months ago at the time i was really sad about it. but within those months she would randomly appear on my minds and been kinda been messing with me at times in my dreams and i just didnt want her on my mind at all to just move on and forget forever. this happens frequently and im tired of it. recently i saw i picture of her that someone put on instagram and when i saw it i felt hurt and its i honestly couldnt give a shit but it hurt why does this happen to me??
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>>16935220
if you really loved someone the feelings will not go away that easily if not ever. Im in a similar situation but the break up was a year ago. You have to exept that you still have feelings
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atleast you had a relationship with that person...
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>>16936293
>at least you had sum1
Topkek, virgin
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I'm getting an ICL in a few weeks. Next Monday I'm going in for the ECC and ASCAN. I'm not supposed to wear contacts for two weeks prior. I haven't worn them since January, so I'm good on that.
However, yesterday my glasses got smashed. I'm damn-near blind (-5.25, which is slightly worse than 20/400). Is it okay for me to wear my contacts long enough to drive to the store and back? I'd take them out as soon as I get home.
I ask here instead of calling my doctor because I don't want my appointments dismissed/pushed back out-of-hand for asking.
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What do you need? can you ask someone else to do it for you?
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>>16935137
Pegasus?
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>>16935145
Groceries. None of my friends know how to cook, let alone how to navigate a grocery store. They wouldn't be able to find half the things on the list, and a third of what they did buy would be wrong. I literally had to teach one of them how to cook rice and spaghetti.
Stoner thread
Smoked for the first time yesterday. Smoked too much and could barely walk straight and function (half a joint). No idea it would hit me THAT hard, I'm not a lightweight either (250 lbs) and I'm a nurse so I have an understanding about how drugs work.
Good thing I made a plan of what I was going to do (didn't help much).
Still have about half a joint left. Any suggestions on how many hits to take? I'll be inhaling to full capacity each time.
Any advice would be much appreciated.
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Half a joint? If you can, smoke 4 or 5 full hits and put it down while leaving the joint re-lightable. You're a lightweight, no reason to waste the weed since you'll just green out.
Drink lots of water while you smoke. Being dehighdrated is awful
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>>16935147
Alright, I'll try 3-4 hits. Thanks for the adv. any more words of wisdom?
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>>16935165
Not really, just enjoy yourself. You probably already did huh
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How do you stop comparing yourself to others? I can't stop and it's driving me insane. I'm not a NEET or a do-nothing or whatever, I go to college(again, after some time off) and I have a job too. But I can't stop comparing myself to literally everyone else. All I can think is how I don't have a car, or my own place, or how I don't have awesome grades, and how I don't even make that much money because my current job sucks and literally no other employer will respond to my applications. How do you even find peace? It's like if you missed a beat in life you can't regain it.
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all you can do is try to do the best you can. it's not a completely negative thing. that you're comparing yourself as critically as you are is basically your ambitious side. do you want to lose that too and become a drone?
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>>16935161
I don't want to be a drone. And you're right. I am ambitious. I hate myself for being a fuckup and basically stalling my life when I could have my Bachelor's degree already.
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I compare myself to other people all the time too. I hate it and wish I didn't but it's so ingrained a pattern of thought that I can't help it. I think low self-esteem is at the core of it. I wish I had some advice.
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Fuck /adv/ I just had a wake up call yesterday
>be senior in high school
>be kissless virgin faggot
>just, "waiting for the right person to come along"
>no girl comes along
>backstory
>be me in English class
>sit next to moderately cute girl, sleeps around a bit
>friends one day get on my ass for not having qty gf
>laugh it off
>girl overhears conversation
>sit down next to girl
>class starts
>girl speaks something to me under breath
> didn't hear it, ask her to repeat herself
>"Anon... are you asexual? Because if you are... I wont judge you"
>holy frosted fucking bananas
>people think I am some special snowflake shit
>act like she is just kidding
>give fake laugh
>contemplate life for rest of class
What do /adv/?
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Are you asexual?
If not, then why care if some random girl thinks so?
Because of the way I act and make jokes sometimes people will think im gay, tho I'm a 90% convinced heterosexual. Screw people's opinions.
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>>16935088
Don't know man when I was in highschool there was no such phrases like asexual.
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>>16935088
Nice copypasta
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Treating a feminist IRL 2016-03-19 19:11:56 Post No.16935086
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So I met a girl, we hanged out. She's pretty inteligent, funny, but a typical tumblr SJW feminist, albeit not too radical and dumb. I tried arguing with her, but I'm not that good at bringing up arguments and honestly, I guess I can handle her being a feminist. How does an alpha behave himself in a situation like this? Does he argue with her like an MRA fedora man or say that he doesn't really have a strong opinion on this topic?
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>>16935086
An alpha doesn't give a shit about this, or waste his time thinking about it. He treats the other person like a human being, and doesn't feel the need to argue, because he's above it, and it doesn't matter.
At most, he acknowledges that everyone has some troubles and the best we can do is our lives to the fullest, helping out if we can.
Shit, at least that's how I'd deal with it. Nothing good comes out of people that try to convince each other who has it worse.
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>>16935099
Wow, that's a good answer, thanks, anon.
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Don't argue, but don't pretend you don't care either. If you have any strong opinions express them, but don't try to justify yourself all the time. If she does or says something that bothers you tell her.