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I really love and value this close friends friendship.
Weve helped eachother through break ups.
Weve been single and poor art students together.
We have great history and trust.
Then we both got gf's and his moced in with us and there was a small drama where his gf yelled at mine and I got pissed off, but we all talked it out and decided itd be best if we lived in different houses.
Fast foward to now and were still great friends and his gf has warmed upto me. But I'm starting to fear that she has warmed upto to me too much.
Before she was cold towards me.
Then she was warm and friendly.
But now...she touches my arms sometimes, makes excited conversation and sometimes even says some kinda mean stuff (not awful just critical) about my buddy.
How do I tell if she's trying to get with me or if I'm just being paranoid?
Because I would rather die than betray a friend so I need to figure this out.
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How exactly does she touch your arm? That sounds kind of weird. Other than that, nothing wrong with friendly conversations.
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Well like when I say something and she laughs.
Or there was this other weird moment where my friend was jamming with his band downstairs and I was playing upstairs in the living room on a guitar.
I found this really nice chord and just thought out loud "Wow, that's beautiful"
And I don't know what she thought I said, but she blushed and said "thank you"
And I screamed internally.
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>>16936219
Danger, danger
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Hi /adv/
I'm currently running in a student election in my college. At the moment i have just nominated myself, and I need about 150 online signatures from people in my college. I have a good few friends etc but a lot of them are mutual to the other guys running so its hard to get the numbers. I know i can change lives for the better if I become president. I know i can beat these guys.
But, i need to get over the nomination hump before I can get my campaign underway. Is there a way to be ruthless in asking people for nominations?
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I'm sure if you just ask people will sign whatever paper you need
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>>16936165
See that was the plan, however it's all done online (only student at my college can vote) and they can only nominate once. So if they've nominated one of the other guys, they can't nominate me. Is individually messaging people weird?
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Take over what? Nobody cares if you're elected as a "president" of students. Focus on your studies instead. You're there to learn, not to change the world from the grounds of your college campus.
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How do I tell my girlfriend that her only purpose in my life is being used for sex at my own convenience? I've cheated on her before, but she forgave me and I regretted it too since the other girl wasn't as good in bed as my girlfriend. Is there a way I can let her know this with the least negative side effects?
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>>16936112
You sound like a fun person with great opinions, OP. Let's be pals.
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What is, in your mind, the best realistic outcome you could possibly receive?
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You just tell her that exactly. Do you want her to leave you after she hears it or no? You sound like a sociopath either way.
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Should you flirt with coworkers? 2016-03-20 00:18:38 Post No.16936103
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Should you flirt with coworkers?
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>be me
>24 year old female
>think 19/20 year old male coworker at crappy retail job is cute
>think he might be interested
>want a boyfriend but would be cool with just hooking up
How should I approach this if at all? This isn't going to be my career obviously, so it's not like I'm stuck here forever. Probably another year at most. We technically work in different areas, but I see him a lot and he comes to my area to work sometimes. My friend hooked up with a coworker and he ended up blocking her from everything and being a dick, but he was an ass in general. The guy I think is cute is really nice.
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>>16936103
Don't. On work follow this rule: only go for all-ins. You can't back out. You can't fail. Otherwise it can turn ugly very fast.
So just go for it if you are serious, and if you are, its completely o-k
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>>16936245
But wouldn't I need to start something in order to figure out if I was going to be serious? Like flirting or a date?
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It's like eating in the bathroom
don't eat where you shit
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Over the past year I've lost ~60 lbs, with 22 lbs coming in the past 6 weeks during a particularly intense diet/exercise regimen where I've been eating under 1,000 calories daily.
I am now just about to the weight I've wanted to be all along, back to where I was in college. I'm ending my diet in two weeks.
That said, due to the diet, the foods I've been eating haven't been particularly normal or exciting. When I go back to eating normally, and not sitting at this insane deficit, what's the best way to ensure I don't binge and gain anything back?
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>ending the diet
can't
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>>16936078
I also can't sustain eating under 1,000 calories a day for the rest of my life. I'm running out of weight to lose before I break into "too skinny" territory.
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Just eat whatever you want at maintenance calories, like 1500 or whatever it is for you.
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I'm so full of shame
I really like this girl. I mean, I had (still do) dreams about her. She's my other half. This is my first time feeling like this. We don't even know eachother. Like, close to at all. I added her on facebook twice on 2 seperate occasions, both times ignored. After that I asked her out, and she says she has a boyfriend. I can't get over that, she knows I like her, so she's avoiding me. She's still on my mind, and I can't not think about her.
I'm too ashamed of myself, considering i'm in special ed, i'm a mess, i'm fat, acne, little to no friends, low grades, and now i'm a creepy stalker guy.
I'm a senior in highschool, and I want to make the best out of highschool before I leave because I have so many regrets that need fixing. Like not talking to people I haven't talked to in a long time. I'm just such a fucking mess and I just want someone to fix it for me.
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>>16936011
Get your shit together before you try to drag someone else into your life.
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>>16936026
True
Nobody is going to console you, understand that she has her own problems, and she obviously DOES NOT want to deal with yours.
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>>16936011
alright ladm8fam listen to what i have to say. highschool relationships are the worst and they probably wouldnt survive college (assuming you wanna go there), so its useless anyway. Trust me, you will meet lots of pretty chicks in college. In the meantime, work out, lose weight, try to do soemthing about that acne, basically sculpt yourself into the person you want to be. You have an entire half a year to do it. Good luck.
Source: I was you a while ago and believe me it got so much better
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I texted a friend "Hello" and i got a reply!
"Hi".
What do I text back if I want to hang out,chill do whatever?
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>>16936004
just ask him how he's been/what he is up to etc. and then ask him whether he wants to grab a few beers or something
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>>16936004
>What do I text back if I want to hang out,chill do whatever?
"Do you to hang out, chill, do whatever?"
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>>16936034
Not actually close friends, we just know each other. Also I dont drink. I might be a little weird but im social once I meet up. I just suck at the first step
Hello /adv/.
I am having trouble with friendships. Just tonight I had two friends over, and the friend-in-question's girlfriend. We had dinner and whatnot and then he left. Yet I feel troubled.
It went well, or very average. Yet despite liking him before this, I have coolled on him majorly. The usual friendly manner I have with him seemed to be rejected - and though friendly, he looked at me, seemingly with annoyance. This annoyed me slightly, for, with a combination of other factors, I just seemed to dislike him almost, despite being one of my best friends.
The man in question has a wide array of friends. On asking him (jokingly) who was his best friend, he said he had friends for different purposes but I was in the 'first tier'. As always, I seemed to be sidelined whenever he meets one. Not really great. But he beats me in college work, beats me socially, economically - though not in my pet subject and one he pretends to follow, though I don't think he does.
With that story out the way, what strook me after is that I don't want to be friends with him. I don't want to associate with him. I have an inferiority complex - I acknowledge it - and always have. But I am struggling in any friendships where I have little real contact to not become inferior and reject them immediately. How do I deal with friendships? How do I develop them or even companionships? Because whilst I don't believe I will be alone forever, I still can't envisage me ever having a sole companion. It seems completely beyond my reach. Never have I been able to retain a friend from all the stages of my life. Only when in forced contact do I ever seem to succeed. But even in that I feel inadequate! What to do?
Sorry for the long post. I appreciate any support.
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>>16935975
I don't like the picture you have chosen. Reminds me how ugly and base 4chan is.
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>>16935995
And I thought I was picking a plain picture to ensure focus on the thread! Oh well.
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>>16936014
No, it's a nice painting, it just annoys me that I spend most of my time here.
As for your problem of connecting with other people, this is a terrible place to look for advice. I don't think I've seen any advice regarding socialising that wasn't some vague "go out there and....do something".
You're still in college why not join a geek/anime club? (Unless they are composed of chris-chans)
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Texting in Relationships 2016-03-19 23:43:23 Post No.16935948
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So I've been liking this girl. I asked her out and we got coffe, then we had a second date. They both went really well; I can tell she really enjoys talking to me, and her body language is good. The problem is that she doesn't text me unless I text her first. I know she's usually pretty busy, but is this a bad sign? I mean, these dates we had were great; could it be that she just doesn't text much in general?
Also, should I wait and see if she'll ask me for a third date, or should I initiate that too? (I've initiated both already) I'm really eager to go on another date, and I'm a bit impatient because I'm pretty in to her.
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you should be good.
The girl I'm dating also is like that. Some people just dont live glued to their phones and/or are very bad at texting. Its kinda sad that online conversation has gotten to be as important as face to face in so many people's minds.
As for the second question, a girl I know is madly in love with her bf and she says that for the first month they knew each other, he would always be the one to start texting first.
Just ask her out man. She probably wants you to.
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>>16935948
>she doesn't text me unless I text her first
Vagina confirmed. Congratulations.
Women are shitty about making any kind of first move. Wait on them and you'll die alone.
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>first month
>Vagina confirmed
good responses guys... deep down I knew this, I just needed some confirmation
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How do I stop being so sweaty?
I get sweaty palms, armpits, and feet all the time and no way to stop it. It's happening now. Help!
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>>16935937
This may not be as easy for hands and feet, but ask your doctor about aluminum chloride solutions. I had a majorly bad case of armpit sweat in my high school days and my doctor prescribed me this roll on stick to use before I went to bed. It was irritating at first, but it worked, and after about 6 months, I didn't have to use it anymore. 12 years later and I sweat like a normal person.
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>>16935937
Lose weight.
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>>16935937
>Lose weight
>Wear antiperspirant
>Wear clothes that don't retain heat
>Get a hair cut
>Trim your body hair
And bonus round
>see a doctor and get them to run an allergy test on you, as this might be contributing
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Im about to go to a DBZ themed convention by myself, gonna be there a couple of hours.
There are some qt3.14 girls there, at least there was last year. My goal is to have some fun and to get to know new people, preferibly girls.
What should I do, adv, how should I make new nerd friends, what arr some of the best introductory lines?
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>>16935884
The only people most attendees want to talk to at a con are people they met months ago on the convention forum. Strangers are creepy.
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Offer senzu beans (rohypnol) to them
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>>16935907
Truckerfag you're back. Why didn't you kill yourself?
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sucking dick >what do 2016-03-19 23:15:07 Post No.16935837
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okay so ive never sucked a dick im not a male and i need help/advice/whatever
if youre a man, what do you want/like?
women- what do you usually do?
tldr; i really want to suck dick but idk how to
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>>16935837
Deepthroating is really the only shortcut to being good at it, but that's not an option for most. If you're brave/lazy, just put his hands on the back of your head and let him fuck your face. He'll get the job done.
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>>16935837
>don't use teeth
That's pretty much the only universal I can think of.
Just ask the guy to tell you what he likes. Every guy is different. Rule of thumb though, I'd say start off with licking, and kissing before you go to sucking. Also, a little fondling of the balls goes a long way
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>>16935837
I've found that every guy is different. Some guys love certain things and some will freak out and go soft if you try. Generally, use your lips, keep your teeth from touching the peepee at all costs, don't touch his eurethra it usually feels weird for them, lick up and down, lots of saliva
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I just see girls showing interest in me just like I would see how I win chess on my computer. It raises my ego and kinda makes me feel good, but I stay there and don't do anything else about it. They obviously end up losing interest. I've never been rejected because I never even tried.
What do?
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>I stay there and don't do anything else about it.
Then do something about it.
>He talks about chess and uses oblomov cover to seem like an intellectual but he's actually just a retard.
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>Then do something about it.
What?
I used oblomov cover because I ain't got much images saved in my computer lad
Could have posted this other one
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>>16935849
Reciprocate.
How can anybody be this dense?
How do I succeed in my universitiy's introductory geology course? I'm finding it to be incredibly difficult and I have a little under two months to get from a D-/F to a C or above.
Factors involved:
>sophomore, no roommate
>Have ADD and hypoglycemia; don't have brainpower to focus on hard subjects for longer than an hour
>Have class three times a week, plus labs once a week
>Miss no labs, but miss 25% of lectures because of anxiety
>class notes suck because of absences and inability to determine what topics are important
>Don't know what the most effective studying method is
>Don't have any classmates to form study groups with
>Afraid to ask professor for help because I'm intimidated
>Study 3 hours per week for this class, recently increased to 6 hours per week
>Starting to not want to try because I just don't think that I'm smart enough
I'm tossing some ideas around, but I really think that I need input on this situation.
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>>16935751
Do your meds not help?
I have ADD and I'm literally incapable of focusing on subjects that don't appeal to me without adderall
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>>16935759
My meds do help, but I just seem to develop tolerance to them after a year or so. My doctor isn't willing to increase my dose of Concerta, so I'm sort of stuck with this.
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>>16935751
I don't know what to tell you, OP. Geology was the course that anyone that couldn't handle biology or chemistry would take to get their science credits. You probably just need to join a study group and possibly repeat the course. 6 hours a week is pretty skimpy. Up it to 10.
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A bunch of my friends died last year and now I don't want to get close to anyone anymore because I know they'll die. Even my grandparents, I've been avoiding them. What do?
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stop murdering your friends
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>>16935734
Become friends with Trump.
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>>16935734
Eventually, the emptiness from not seeing people will bear down on you greater than the sorrow you fear.
Look at it this way.
You have the option to be lonely or not be lonely.
But you cannot avoid eventual sorrow, because it will come through the loneliness anyway.