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Pic related? I would not marry Putin kids or no kids.

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True.

also why would anyone do this? i dont wanna raise someone elses child

>>16940906
i doubt it is pic related

I am living in canada by the way

>>16940867
you could suck a married dude off for a few hundred bucks, provided you're good looking enough

Well I was going to help you, but
>shit i will even steal some stuff if i have too
makes me think you're an idiot, which is why you probably can't think of a way to make money.

>>16940845
sounds like a heat problem

>>16940855
First post best post

>>16940855
explain pls.

Did something overheat and break? Too much dust?

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do you think you did the right thing? Thats all that matters; your life not anyone elses. Do you want to be with someone who does thosr things or not. That is your choice.

>>16940836
I think you did the right thing. He didn't have your best intentions in mind. He was taking care of himself.

How old are you....?

Just lie. When I was younger I would just say they're from school. And if you're not in school just say its someone from work. Shouldn't be hard unless your family hardcore snoops or something.

>>16940853
I'm 20 at the moment.
I'll be done with school in 1 semester and hopefully I'll be able to find a job and get a place of my own.
Its only my Mother is the one that freaks out. My Father and Older Sister acknowledge it but don't think much of it.
She sees it as a "invasion of privacy" more or less

>>16940874
What are pedos going to do to you at 20 for Christ's sake? You are an adult you can make your own desicions online.

>>16940801
Las Vegas? Card dealer?

>>16940822

sounds appealing, the idea of working with people who are on vacation is pretty cool

Not a good idea had a cousin who was stationed in Alaska who was technical nocturnal since the sun doesn't have the same patterns as it does anywhere else,he came back messed up needing pills to fix his "cycle" in his brain.

I love the night but I wouldn't disregrade the sun,too many negatives

>>16940788
people come to me to fucking vent

because i'm a silent guy they love earfucking me with shit i don't care about

it truly is the worst feeling

The struggle is true, friend. Checked btw
>inb4 "this isn't /b/"

>>16940795
I'm the opposite. I love hearing people's problems and they love to vent to me. It's become like a drug to me desu

Mate, it sounds like you're better off.
If a person can't understand that they will never find a carbon copy of themselves as a partner, then they need serious growing up to do.
It's a very immature and selfish desire to have, and I think you're probably getting the better deal here, because you don't have to make the difficult choice of leaving her for pressuring you into her ideals and beliefs.

>>16940787
You don't want to be with a woman who can't accept your point of view. Not even a woman like your girlfriend can accept that deep down.

All that will happen in the long run is that she will become insecure and anxious because you can't control her. And that'll be real bad for you in the long run as you could end up losing everything.

Find yourself a girl who dotes on your every word and man up man.

>>16940787
>I can't help but thinking it's my fault

Fuck off >>>/reddit/

do you have connections to a law firm?

being a lawyer is not a great idea these days

>normal bachelor's degree
>job at starbucks and $40,000 debt

>law degree
>job at starbucks and around $120,000 debt

the market is bad and the education is ridiculously expensive. Not a good time, although as the other poster suggested, if you have a guaranteed opportunity when you get out you could still do okay.

>>16940770
I do not.
>>16940799
Well, I'm using the GI bill and VA tuition assistance, so student debt doesn't worry me much.

See a psychiatrist, talk to them about the issue, and see if they'll prescribe you some anxiety meds.

Or meditation. Helps me with almost everything.

>>16940730
Meds are for the weak.

>>16940730
If you talk to a psychiatrist they'll probably start you on an ssri. Or tell you to fuck off. Depends on how you explain it and your life. If you can get it out that it's a reoccurring theme with random girls and you want to do something but just really can't then yea. You'll get something. If you say it's just about ""her"" youll get kicked to the curb.

But it might not be a benzo if that's what you want.

I almost passed you up op, but I felt bad. I got my first apartment when I was 17 so I have some tips...
Apartments aren't crazy complicated.
If you live near universities they get a lot cheaper especially with roommates.
My first apartment I paid $240 a month including utilities aka water, heat, ac, electricity.
That apartment came with wireless Internet and furnished so all I had to bring was bed sheets and whatever.
Some apartments won't come furnished and they might be a little cheaper that way
Work yourself up to furniture. You can live without a couch, or get a futon and live without a bed.
Generally apartments will help you set up your Internet if they are decent too.
You just need a modem and an Ethernet cable to hook it up and it's all online from there.
Do you have any specific questions?
There is a lot of budgeting involved if you really want to make an apartment work.
You need to account for food, emergencies and whatever when deciding how much you can afford for rent...
After you get a realistic budget it honestly gets easier from there.
And once you get your own place you'll be so free. I'm excited for you haha.

>>16940849
Thanks a lot for answering! Honestly wouldn't have blamed you for ignoring me lol.
I have a massive list of practically all the utensils i would need. Toothpaste, silverware, shampoo, etc.
my biggest concern is that the apartment renters will 'hide the truth ' from me. Or pull the crap a car salesman will pull.
They would tell me stuff upfront right?

>>16940872
>my biggest concern is that the apartment renters will 'hide the truth ' from me.
About fucking what? An apartment is a sink, dishwasher, AC unit, four walls and a roof. If any of them breaks you call the maintenance guy or fix it yourself.

t. renter

Dude,I had the same problem.However I'm trying everything to improve myself better.In your case vidya isn't fun anymore because you're growing up.Besides that,you should learn guitar or another instrument,that will help you increasing your creativity.Trust me this works

Exercise a bit every day, you might want to start on the creative pursuit first or do them simultaneously. Make games a "treat" once you've done things that are good for you.

>>16941725
It's not fun anymore because he plays them so much now. It has nothing to do with "growing up." Plenty of healthy, functioning adults play games

the same way everyone else does, temporary distractions like alcohol, socialization, hobbies to help you momentarily forget the crushing reality of human mortality

Do something about it. Stop being a fucking loser by always asking and waiting. Do it. You don't need to change the world, but you can change yourself, you fucking idiot. Learn to animate. Start making music. Do something. Stop being a fucking loser when you have as much opportunity as you do.

I became a selftaught animator and developed a career and living from using a shitty laptop that could barely run Flash.

Do something.

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>>16940656
You'll die like everyone else, and anything anyone has worked for doesn't ultimately matter. So stop comparing yourself to others, they mean just as little as you do. Just take what you have and can get, and have fun with yourself, mate.

I'm on unemployment. Does that count?

>>16940631
>am just getting by.

wtf are you wasting so much money on?
I could "get by" working a few hours a week

>>16940809
>lol op how are you so poor haha poverty
>I earn a proper wage myself why don't you eat cake too kek

Cool thing, bro. I have to remember always asking people with little money how they can be so poor while I am not.

>>16940618
coffee, cold water, and the need to take a piss keeps me awake.

you don't. either you have a deadline where you'll be able to sleep normally and soon or something's gotta give.

>>16940632
Aby i dont? Others somehow manage to do it. I mnie cuz i can see their messages on facebook, sent aroun noon and somewhere around 7 oclock in the morning almost all week.