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talk about your girlfriend! always emphasize how much you love your g i r l f r i e n d. tell about all the stuff that is great about her and how hot she is or sth.

>>16952844

I speak about her often. She even lived with us for a couple months. She's in an open relationship herself, so I don't think she sees this as an issue.

>>16952839
Tell your roommate to stop that shit. Tell your girlfriend what is going on. Don't cheat, you will have pain you and your girlfriend but your roommate won't. Bitch like this never has pain

In a similar boat anon, only I don't chill with my dealer and I have some fair-weather friends around.

Best tip that I can give you, and this is from personal experience, is not to use drugs as a means of making your shit life not so shit. Trust me when I say that it's not sustainable, even with weed. In the long term you'll still feel shit while on them and even more depressed about your social situation when off them.

I wish that I could tell you more on what to do to improve your situation, but aside from generic advice, along the lines of "put yourself out there with people", there isn't really much that I can say, as my situation is similar to yours.

>>16952821
>Drug dealer
Faggot.

>>16952836
I don't know whether I could ween myself off.

I do feel great when I'm on them.

From the way to talk about her it seems like you have no respect for her and probably are more into yourself than into the relationship. For her own sake, end the relationship you ego-centric dick.

how long are you dating?

>>16952813
Its an /mlp/ troll
>>>/mlp/26849535
Sometimes i feel ashamed to be an brony

In the same boat as you, only it's also coupled with an MDMA comedown. I'd get some melatonin for sleep and some L-Theanine to help with the anxiety. Unfortunately, you'll mostly have to ride it out for a couple of days.

The good news is that the point that you're at right now is the worst that it will probably be. I know that whenever I go on a T break it's between the 3rd and 5th day that I get the worst of it.

Godspeed.

I have smoked weed multiple times a day for almost 2 years, I know exactly what you're talking about when you quit. Make sure that you are staying hydrated and eating well, since your body is probably used to weed with meals and you might feel weird for a couple of weeks. You probably shouldn't but alcohol or zzzquil helped me on some nights where I had work and I could NOT fall asleep. If you want to go more healthy I'd just take some melatonin before bed. I'm sorry that I don't have more advice to give, I hope that you feel better soon.

>>16952818
>>16952818

Thanks, guys. Melatonin sounds like the best option. I'd rather not replace a drug with a drug, but this lack of sleep is really interfering with my daily life. The anxiety is enough of a headache. I never realised just how lazy my mind really was when I was smoking habitually. I feel very different already. . . .

Probably USPS. Go to the post office and just talk to one of the people at the counter.

>>16952769
1. Go to post office at a not-busy time.
2. Ask the nice man or lady at the counter what's the cheapest way to send this.
3. Believe them.

I did, I'm sort of affected by it still?
Tried to kill myself, obviously failed and have tons of friends and family that were angry/sad/scared on how it could've turned out this way. In the hospital, I thought a lot. Obviously I had failed and perhaps (although I'm not believing in God or anything of that) I felt entitled to live. Like I gave it a honest shot, it was not my time to go, so stop wasting time and get a life instead of pitying myself. I wrote a list about everything I hated in myself, both physically and mentally, together with goals I wanted to achieve. Broke them down in small pieces so they were manageable to achieve. In the end I came out with a sense of clarity, but it's fucked up that one person needs to literally be in on the edge of dying before one gets what one should do with life.

What's affected me; well first I saw how much people I got around me that cares. So now I'm in a constant fear of making them this sad/angry/etc again. I'm constantly planning for a future so I'm keeping myself busy from suicidal thoughts. I have reasons to wake up in the morning, although I may still not be society's most functional human being, I do have purposes. Because my goal/change list gives me that.

Do I have suicidal thoughts? Yes, especially when plans do not turn out as I want and I feel worthless. But I'm not actively self-harming or killing myself because of it. I know that there will come a better day, and honestly, why does it matter if I fail? I got my life, and that's all I need. If I'm still alive, I still have the ability to change what I don't like about myself and my situation.

Kankerdraad.

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>>16952766
If you want to kill yourself, it is harder than it looks like. Four failed attemps, last time I tore off the knob I was hanging my belt on from the door, and i gave up

Feels bad and I wish I had an easy, painless AND free way to do it, but there isn't. I often dream of dying, I feel blood on my mouth and how I lose my breath, it is really sad when I wake up

So, dont do it don't obsess over it and live a happy life etc

yeah you can def get caught for this

holy shit it's real!

really? im fucking scared guys, no screwing around...
i didn't dload anything

>>16952723
Tell her no when she asks you out.

That kinda shit is redic.
I don't keep men as a backup plan- it implies a dependency.
Never be someone's second choice- they'll always leave you if they find someone who they think is better

>I think a woman I love
what makes you think you love her? what do you like about her? anything that makes her special? How can you "love" someone who's doing something you absolutely disaprove of like keeping a backupguy.

>>16952735

I still think about her all the time :P

My chest gets tight when she speaks to me, I get nervous when she's still around. It sucks.

She got super ultra pissed when I deleted her off all my social media. It didn't matter that I told her I needed space. She started showing up at my job more to see me, wearing sexy shit despite dating him because she obviously cared about me but fucked it up with me.

The thing is. I still feel that way towards her. That I would do mostly anything for her.

I'm just terrified I won't have the resolve to reject her when she breaks up with this guy.

Say to her: Wanna cook together?
She will then take a look in what do you are doing while cooking. And you can even pretend you are a chef like TV, example:
You: "And lets put a bit of sugar to make this sauce a little less acid".
Her: Is that true?
You: Yeah, it works and it makes the sauce more tasty.

Just a my 2 cents

>>16952740
Alright I'll try that thanks.

I would just be like don't take this the wrong way but I'm just being honest your cooking isn't too good.

Why would you want to change this? I'm asexual myself, and I think that's pretty great. Not having to worry about getting laid gives you a load of benefits.
If for some weird reasons you actually want to be more sexual, try taking the pill, some women get more horny from it, some less. (Mostly less)
Alternatively, try to reward yourself whenever you do get slightly aroused. Simply thinking to yourself "Wow, I'm horny, that's great" does the job.

>>16952763
It just seems like a hindrance relationship-wise. Most people aren't okay with not having much sex.

>>16952888
I guess as a girl that is indeed a problem. Then again, people are more acceptive of all forms of sexual deviance if you're female, so maybe you should be more open about your asexuality so if someone's interested in you they know what they're getting into.

If it's that important to know, just ask the guy.

>>16952739
Hahaha I second this. Don't be afraid, it's only your physical safety at stake

You should get out of the beta VS alpha train of thought, that is a really shitty way to view guys and is extremely unfair for the long term. Instead of freaking out about what he might like why don't you just take it as flirting until you are comfortable to talk and learn more. All he said was that he liked it, he didn't push or get rapey, so I don't get what your deal is? I don't know why this question is even here or why you know what his older sister is into.

>>16952688
Parenting is not an instinctive skill, nor is it taught. You pick it up as best you can. For any number of reasons your father is not very good at it. That doesn't make him a bad man, or even an unloving one. He just doesn't know too many ways to express his feelings toward you.

Accept him on his own terms. I can assure you that for a man like that a goodbye hug and kiss is a VERY meaningful effort. Instead of wishing it was more, accept it as a real effort to express his love, and appreciate it.

Meanwhile, gradually try to guide him toward more. When he ;picks up the phone, don't immediately ask for Mom, but engage him in conversation, as awkward as it may be. It will get better with time.

In a similar situation my own father used to shake my hand whenever I left. I made the very awkward move of hugging him instead, and eventually we both got better at it.

>>16952688
Don't stress about it.

Sometimes people are just not compatible, even if they are related..

He loves you. He raised you. paid for your upbringing and tries. That mean something.

You can't choose your parents.

>>16953118
This poster has value info.

Let me tell you something though. I am a guy in the same position. Youngest of two sons at uni (20), can say I'm the more successful one atm. But, my dad and I have never exactly been friends and we both kinda realized that over the course of visits etc. Though I played sports and was decent at them I never liked playing, he loved playing and watching though. Alot of unfamiliarity comes from his absence at childhood with business trips.

Our problem is similar, we actually just don't know our fathers too well. They've been good parents, we just need to make them friends. My advice, have genuine interest in him. Ask questions, relate yourself, try to establish your common ground. Good luck to ya

>>16952641
hair is ugly to most people but occasionally some girls like it

its neutral to bad

>>16952641
Get big and strong like a lumberjack.

Back hair is nasty, but fuck it who cares?

If you are looking into breaking into Silicon Valley go to UW. If you are looking for better co-op go to UW. If you are looking for better scholarship take UofT cause UW gives shit for scholarships.

> UW Grad and I hated it there

I'm currently taking the AP Calculus AB course. If I get a level 5 on the AP exam, I will be exempt from taking calculus 1 at UW. UofT does not acknowledge your results on the AP exam, so I would need to take calculus 1 at UofT even if I got a level 5 on the exam. I'm confident that my math teacher has covered all the concepts needed for calculus 1; I've read books for calculus 1 courses and I haven't come across any new concepts.

In terms of SE vs CS, everyone keeps hating on SE. I have no idea why.

Everyone keeps saying SE students are pretentious faggots who are just CS students with an iron ring. Many people I've talked to argue that CS is more "flexible"; you have more electives with the CS program than the SE program. They imply that CS students can take all the courses SE students take through electives. Is this true? If so, what gives SE an advantage over CS? If a CS student can potentially take all the courses a SE student takes, what's the point of SE?

People often claim that CS is more theoretical while SE is more practical. Any thoughts on this? I fascinated with algorithms and enjoy problem-solving, but I also want to make efficient programs that be used by a large demographic (e.g. the average consumer).

I enjoy working on large projects that involve creating things. I want to dedicate my life to creating programs, websites, games, applications, etc. I’m “experienced” HTML, CSS, JavaScript, Visual Basic (taught in Grade 11 CompSci, not my choice) and C++. I've toyed with PHP, mySQL and C, but I'm mediocre at best with those languages. I am currently learning Java in my Grade 12 CompSci course.

I'm leaning towards SE at UW at the moment even though UofT engineering has offered a $6000 scholarship. What do /adv/?

Also sorry >>16952621 for the second post. Grammarly ruins the undo function.

>>16952627
late second post*

You might just be about to get your period or just recovering from having your period. Sometimes your uterus will just lose it's shit and starts clearing out all that old blood, so sometimes you'll bleed brown or even black shit, don't worry tho, your probs fine desu. Though what the fuck do I know, you could have horrible vag cancer idk, if you do get vag cancer message me senpai cus I think we're in the same boat.

You might be hitting your cervix and causing a scratch or tear, or maybe just being too keen and not lubed enough.. But I'd say if its dark blood you might just have a bit of old blood from a period or the start of a period you agent expecting and it just happens to come out on the toy.

>>16952624
My period was 2 weeks ago, no blood before or after the incident. Just when masturbating.
>if you do get vag cancer message me senpai cus I think we're in the same boat.
Suicide pact?
>>16952625
It didn't hurt at all, just suddenly when I was done blood fucking everywhere. Wouldn't that hurt?