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He met someone(s). It didnt work out. He's lonely and cycling through/reminecising about old contacts

>>16954628
So should I answer to the text or not?

>>16954635

Why the fuck are you asking us?

Do you want to?

>>16954590
It correlates.
Maybe cut down on the drugs famslice.

>>16954590
Something like that happened to me almost 8 years ago. Still getting over it now. I think human brains are just fucked up

>>16954590
Might as well try cutting it out, right? If that's the only difference you can think of. Rule it out, and if after a few months you're not normal, go see a doctor if you're worried about neurological damage or something.

I deleted my FB 4 or 5 years ago.
It's a datamining device and no one says anything important there. All it is is drama you don't care about, political trash and mundane fucking bullshit. People will post about the burger they had for lunch like who gives a fuck?

Don't make one if you don't want one.
Calls, texting, and real life is friendship and "keeping contact". If you only talk to someone on facebook then they aren't really a friend to begin with.

>>16954573
I don't think too many people use FB anymore, so I definitely wouldn't make another.

Honestly, the reason I've been considering making one is because I met a dude at a party a few weeks ago and I feel like we really hit it off, but I had to leave unexpectedly so I didn't get his number. I know creating social media isn't a big deal, but the thought of making one gives me anxiety. I don't know why, but it always it always has.

>>16954564
I've never had a single social media account and I'm very happy with that choice. I don't think you need it at all and often it's a big waste of time and an unnecessary stressor and distraction.

Yes
Yes
Just try.

You normally wouldn't jump directly to introducing a guy to the family would you?

I mean at some point you'd think your relationship would develop to such a degree that you'd want to introduce him

That's not something you do right away anyway, but after a couple of months.
Having said that, what exactly are you expecting here? You're not going to find a steady BF, marry him after years and also not ever have them come in contact with your family.

>escort
>doesn't have sex

bahahahaha

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I refuse to help you from a moral standpoint.

You are dating a prostitute who is having sex with other men on the regular and has clear deep-seeded emotional issues that derive from such a lifestyle.

I can't in good conscious give you any advice because you shouldn't be with this woman.

You know that. I know that. She knows that.

I refuse to feed your delusions. You know you need to leave her, but you are too weak.

You deserve to suffer for your weakness as you aren't willing to make any effort to improve. You merely want to subsist.

You disgust me as both a man and a human being.

>>16954527
you can talk to me if you want

Go to /soc before when I felt really alone i found plenty of people there to chat with.

I am also willing to listen and give some wisdom. I know what it feels like to have nobody to talk to when you really needed it.

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>I'm brutally honest to the point of rudeness, I'm also incredibly realistic and don't live in a dream world

Maybe you should consider the idea that you aren't as realistic as you think and should learn to shut the fuck up or make a joke instead of point out some edgy truth.

>>16954547
>>16954541
I'm confused about what you're getting at. People like to hear certain things, I don't say those things because it plays up their ego, instead give them an honest opinion and explain my thoughts, usually to their disdain. That's what I'm talking about Idk what kind of "edgy truths" you're talking about.

I mean "Hey, I just drew this picture(that obviously looks like complete shit), what do you think of it?"

"It looks like shit, maybe you should try......". Nobody likes hearing that though because people already have preset responds that they'd like to hear.

>>16954519
https://www.mturk.com/mturk/welcome

Can't get any more legit than Amazon.

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>>16954553
>>16954553 I've actually found that one, I am currently waiting for the approval of the account. Thank you kind sir/mam

you're fucked OP, sorry

here's the solution:
>get liposuction
>practice acting confident
>lie about having a job

I didn´t go to college, I learned *insert here* in high school and I focused on *insert here* (but be honest with what you focused on or are good at)

As for jobs, again truth. Searching for something that will interest me and will be sufficient or searching for something until I decide the best carreer path....

If you don´t want a job/career, I don´t have an advice - not a good way to live, not a good thing to tell...

Anyway, just be honest, but try not to seem like a slacker/leecher. Be honest and act on what you say afterwards...

>>16954489
How much fatter is way fatter? because thats not fair to the girl if your like 30 pounds or noticeibly larger then the picture, think of it from her perspective she might be trying for a relationship while your lying and trying to fuck her. Doesn't sound like a good thing to do if your a decent human being, if not then fuck it go for it

Why wouldn't it be a date?

>>16954461
This, explain anon

I think the clearer question is what her feelings are toward lunch and toward you in general. I don't know yet. There's no way to tell from the details of a meal that hasn't happened yet. What I do know is that you can joke, tease and ultimately flirt while you're together. If she jokes and teases and--most importantly--flirts back, she's probably trying to get to know you better in a romantic sort of way.

>>16954385

Thanks for your post.
The next time we need more gibberish we'll be sure to get back to you.

>>16954385
What the fuck did you intend to convey you illiterate?

>Instead, i keep on clashing with the question "why?
Stop that and move on. Sometimes its not worth it. Good thing she was just your gf, and not your wife of 20 years who you have 2 kids with.
You got off easy man, just let it go

She's convinced herself she is right because the alternative is to confront the truth and admit she fucked up. Her ego cannot handle that.

>>16954286
>why would somebody betray me like that
She sounds like a lunatic
>I keep on hoping she would finally say "listen, i fucked up, i'm sorry"
She won't, she's a fucking lunatic.

Sorry I know it's hard, but its best to just let it go. You'll never get what you want from someone like her.

Oh, by the way, she totally did mean to send her friend after you. They always do.

>>16954284
Why haven't you shut the up? Why do you think we care? Why haven't you chugged a gallon of bleach so we don't have to deal with your retardation?

>>16954298
Lol. Watch you don't cut yourself on that edge there ace.

>>16954312
>Implying I'm edgy
Seriously, why haven't you killed yourself yet? Why do you think we care that you're an 18 year old virgin? Shut the fuck up.

> Why?
I just love the idea of making her slutty cute girl and its my fetish.
>Inb4 find already slutty girl
NOPE i love her in every way and i know she has that inner slut in her she just need some courage etc

>>16954278
Is the aim to have her eventually cheat on you?

>>16954458
yup yup
main thing i want is make her to be obsessed with sex. Not with sex with me, but generally. Im not into cuckold but i just love slutty girls, Im not turned on by any of this cuck humiliation shit but hotwife is pretty nice and I would love to know that she made out with some random guy. I dont feel worried about of her having sex with someone else and YEP it turns me on. Its because Im really fucking turned on by girls who are addicted to sex and cant live day withoout it

Yeah you are, and no there is not. Up to you if it's worth the risk.

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>>16954240
110% luck.
I'd reccomend you not trying to seek it out because it's an unfulfilling lifestyle and you're very likely to get preyed on in the process.

>>16954240
I work with a gay twink with daddy issues too. At least my other gay/bi friend gossiped that to me after work once. I work fashion retail at the mall atm. He got two cars (one got wrecked) and a place to sleep out of it. I think you just hang out in the gay parts of town. All the gay guys I know live in thd gay part of town and go out to the gay spots in that part of town. Too bad I'm not gay and don't gossip that much at work or I could tell you more.