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My problem or my curse is I seem to be attracted to short hair tomboys, who end up either lesbian or feminist man haters, idk wat to do, I'm not attracted to any other types.
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What's the problem here? Become the kind of guy that they like.
You say "feminist man hater" like it's a bad thing... but the truth is that more than anything else, every girl just wants to feel like a girl.
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>>16975019
We're going to make it, brother.
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Friend, I understand your feel, as I'm also in the same position as you. There are a few short haired tomboys at my university, but they're either with another guy, into chicks, or feminists. To make it worse, there's very little porn with cute short haired tomboys.
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Hey /adv/
I was in Israel this winter and I was about 50 yards from a terrorist attack on a Cafe. Look up Dizengoff cafe shooting for video if you want.
I did not see the shooter but I heard the gunfire and ran to safety in a house down the street.
This was the first time in my life I didn't try to help someone in need. A few years ago I pulled a man from a burning car that had been halved by an 18 wheeler.
Sometimes now I feel like some people died in that cafe because I didn't run towards the attack. Many people bled to death because the ambulance took a while to get there. I know first aid and emergency trama care as well.
I know next time I will go right in to help, but should I feel guilty?
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No. It wasn't you who opened fire on random people at a cafe. You protected yourself, and that's fine. You don't have to be a hero, and not rushing to the sound of gunfire isn't something to feel guilty about.
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>>16975011
If you didn't have a gun, there's nothing you could have done. Running towards the gunfire without anything to defend yourself would have gotten yourself killed. Running towards safety when you hear gunshots was a natural thing to do.
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>>16975011
>Sometimes now I feel like some people died in that cafe because I didn't run towards the attack.
Running towards the attack only works when you are already VERY close to the attacker: close enough that he can't get his bearings on you before you're on top of him. If you were across the street, you were too far away. The only thing you'd have accomplished is getting yourself killed.
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I need some financial advice, /adv/. I'll try to make it as tl;dr as possible. Anyways, I'm 22, my bf is 26 (hopefully soon to be gf).
The plan is my gf (just to keep it easier typing, not for some sjw bs), wants to get facial feminization surgery so she can finally feel like a girl. This is literally the only thing holding her back from being happy at this point, she doesn't tell me, but I know she's very upset and depressed about it all the time. I want to do anything to make her happy. Last year we were trying to plan out and have the surgery done by sometime this year, but things happened and changed, and now it looks like it's going to take a while longer.
The surgery costs 24k, and I can get a loan for 9k. As of now, she makes 10.50/hr or around $1400/month take home. I work off a commission and make anywhere from about $1000/month - $1800/month take home. I'm working on programming so I can become an entry level software developer, but until then me and her, we both need better jobs.
The gist of it is, how the hell do I make this happen? She was very sad today since we both realized that we need to make more money to make this work. As of now with what we make, it might even take another whole year and she really, really wants to get it done asap because of not feeling comfortable as herself now at all. I always try my best to make her happy, but we need to get this done.
My question is, how? What kind of jobs can I get that pay well? How to save? Side work I can do? How to budget? If you anons were in the same situation, what would you do?
I'll answer any questions needed if it helps, I'm extremely desperate to make this work.
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>>16975004
Kill him, then yourself you degenerate scum.
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I would say some shit about fucking degenerates but I am new to da 4chans and am afraid I will be banned, so here is a legit response.
Your bf should learn to make the most of his situation and accept that he won't always get what he wants. Try and make him feel happy in his own skin, and don't harm yourself trying to accomplish something he might regret (most trans people regret surgeries they have).
IF he really loved you he wouldn't force you into a situation where you had to live uncomfortably just so he can have his little fantasy.
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>>16975025
>new to da chans
go wherever the fuck back to where you came from
I just got out of a relationship about a month and a half ago, my best friend and her boyfriend have been my exs' rock through the whole thing mostly her. I just found out two days ago he was threatening suicide. So he went to her apartment, her bf was at work on midnights. They drank all night till like 8 am He kissed her neck, she pushed him away. I still feel like it should never have gotten to that point and blame her, I could give a shit less about him, he just did it to hurt me, because he knew I wouldn't care if he moved on. Also he did Coke after we broke up and she was trying to hide that from me too. Am I wrong in throwing away a friend ship of like 20 years
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>>16974988
you are a shoe
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>>16974993
Shoe?
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>>16975002
yes. you are a shoe.
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My parents are wealthy. My boyfriend's parents aren't. I started to give him things, and he was very reluctant to accept them when we first started dating. He even tried to break up with me over some stuff because he was certain there was an agenda on my part, some sort of scheme I was concocting, because he grew up poor and people don't give things freely unless it's food or supplies or whatever. I just like to give him things, try to help him relax from working all day, and I try to encourage him to go to school but he refuses to take out student loans.
Two and a half weeks ago my parents agreed to pay for him and I to go to Europe for a toured vacation. He flat-out refused because it would mean losing a whole paycheck, but I finally coaxed him into going with pokes and prods. This is where my problem is.
See, when we first landed in Germany, he started speaking German. Fluently. I'm not talking him and I being two Americans stumbling over a thesaurus, I mean people thought he was a native. When I asked him how he knew German, he said he studies in his spare time. And as we kept touring Europe, more skills he had I didn't know about kept appearing. He's also fluent in French and Italian, he help the captain of a ship by tying knots or whatever and working in lieu of one of the workers not showing up for work, he debated philosophy with a bunch of French friars while we went through France (they liked him so much we got a free tour of their church grounds), he even milked a freaking cow without batting an eye AND THEN DRANK IT.
I should be impressed, but instead I'm very startled... How is it that he doesn't have a university education, and yet he's somehow smarter than me? At first I wouldn't let him help me with homework, but I let him take a glance at it last night and he started explaining things to me that I couldn't get despite being in class. What is going on? Why does he intimidate me?
Pic related is his favorite book, if it helps explain his behavior.
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Pretty good book, anyway what was your question? How do you get over the fact that he's smart? Well idk, but the fact that you think that's a bad thing says quite a bit about you.
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>>16974888
I'm not sure what your problem is, OP. You have a boyfriend who you seem to get along with greatly, and he's also smart and educated.
Enjoy it.
Maybe you feel like you should be "better" because you had a more formal education and/or are wealthy? I'd take it for what it is, a nice surprise, and be excited.
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Are you more intimidated by his intelligence than he is by your wealth? Why is that?
Why are you even with him? What do you see in him? Do you, on some level, think you're better than him? And now find that being challenged because you've been brought up to think money buys intelligence and education, while he has it in abundance through effort and ability?
None of your post makes any sense unless there are many insecurities underlying your person.
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There's nothing inherently wrong with me, and I am grateful for what I have been given in life.
There is one issue though, I am pretty lonely.
I want to sound as modest as possible, but in the last two years I have had a good amount of female advances (I've been told I'm decently attractive/funny).
But when an opportunity comes my way, I have lose all motivation or interest to pursue.
I either don't find a specific girl to be interesting/I don't see myself forming a connection with her, or the girl is just throwing herself at any decently looking guy at a party in hopes to hook up (which is also something I am not interested in).
I've been told to not look for anything in specific (don't pursue a relationship so hard), but that's literally all I want right now, as a 20 year old college student. I just want a girl to talk to at this point.
My friends all have SO at the moment, and every other night I am literally lying in bed dreaming of cuddling up next to a girl.
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>>16974885
I can't wait for you to be disappointed as fuck when you realize women aren't all they're cracked up to be.
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>>16974885
you have the opportunities, but oyu dont seem to pursue them.
girls are often in your position. they got guys lining up but dont give em a chance and/or assume they only want one thing.
my advice? ask for a first date. give a girl at least one real first date to prove shes not right for you.
given your situation thats literally all you can do cuz ur basically saying
>i want a relationship but i dont want literally anyone who ever approaches me
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>>16974890
>I can't wait for you to be disappointed as fuck when you realize women aren't all they're cracked up to be.
This is my issue though. I feel uninterested in a lot of female advances because I know how horrible the majority of them are. Same thing goes for men, the human race in general is shit. It's actually making me go full on waifu claiming mode.
>inb4 edgy
How do I make the most out of my 20s?
>turning 20 in a few months
>unemployed
>still living at home
>terrified I'll still be 25, living at home, and wasting my life
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>>16974813
Get a job
Move out of home
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>>16974822
This. Doing it right now. No friends. It's hard but it's better than doing nothing
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>>16974813
people who have this fear have it because they have no plan. if you dont have a plan you wont move out and 'getting employed' isnt a plan unless you knwo exactly waht kind of job you are going for and how it will help you in the future.
people think 'oh ill get a job and then go back to school and do this or htat and the third'
but they enver set a REAL schedule. if you want to go to school why arent you? money? how much money do you need? can you get a part time job to fund that, or a full time job to save up for that?
decide what you want to do, figure out how you have to do it, and then do step one today.
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What should i do.........
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Will try to make this short to the point.
I'm 22 male,seeing a 35 year old woman.
Dated for awhile and are together, we get along perfectly. Like soul mates.She wants kids and marriage soon. I love her alot. What is your opinion of this,long term? I'm thinking of long term would this work or is this weird,or this is perfectly fine.
Thanks for the replies.
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She just want to satisfy her biological clock urges.
After that it will be hell.
But you're probably just a silly virgin who can't see that.
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ok.
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why would it be hell?
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Push back down as they will curl upwards.
Its the same principle as curling a gift ribbon.
This curled look will last for like a week or so, and if you continue doing it, its gonna last a lot more :)
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As a guy all I can say is I appreciate the amount of work women put into their looks even though they ain't doing it for me.
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If I was required to put this amount of effort into how I looked I'm pretty sure I'd just be socially ostracized instead.
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Though as it is I look like this and I can't say "socially ostracized instead" is much of an improvement.
I have curiosity of know why the people prefer this web page:
>Have alot of bullshit
>Is so faggy
>9gag watermark to all the imagens
>Repost from Reddit or 4chan
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9GAG talk a lot about Bullshit Media
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Because some people are twelve that's why.
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The watermark is very annoying because other page have the same image
>But 9FAG wants to have the fucking logo
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raped my dog when i was 12, been fucking me up ever since. what do?
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Past is past, can't change it and worrying about it is pointless.
Accept that it happened and don't do it again.
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>>16974308
Buy it dinner
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>>16974308
>been fucking me up
seriously though how is it fucking you up? I could see it bugging me if I raped a person and I knew they were still dealing with emotional or physical trauma as a result of that. But is the dog even still alive?
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I checked my weight and BMI on a scale in a gym, where I had to take off my shoes and phone and hold these handlebars. It told me that I was just barely at a healthy weight. The guy operating it told me to see him (he usually guides people on workouts) to gain muscle and fat. However, when I see myself in the mirror, I see pic related. I still have huge mantits, a shrinking potbelly, and noticeable love handles. Why is this machine and this coach telling me I need to gain weight when I should be doing the opposite?
By the way, my plan is to cut all fat and then after finals and all this bullshit is over I'm going to the gym to get buff. Also I can usually hide most of it pretty well through my clothes (although you can still see the tits and a bit of the lovebars), but it's still killing my self esteem.
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>>16974174
post a pic of your torso. dont be embarrassed you are anonymous. also they are talking about you gaining muscle mass which is good.
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You'll gain weight during intense muscle building because muscle is denser than fat. However that muscle will be deep to your skin; the tits, belly and handles will melt off super fast. Right now that's pretty much all you have apart from your bones to give your body structure and it's why you look like a dumpy mess.
If you're serious about hitting the gym hard then everything will sort itself out, at least at first. Maybe after several months you can nitpick about diet. Right now you just need to lift like a motherfucker.
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>>16974179
That is my torso.
>>16974196
That's what I've heard too. I've been running everyday already, but I won't hit the gym til May. Any tips til then?
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So today I had sex with my girlfriend and everything felt off. She has been quite relaxed these past few days. More relaxed than she has been for years.
Normally we have sex maybe once a week or so and in 4 years of our relationship she never initiated it this hard. Sometimes she would show interest, but she was always very shy about it.
Today she just went full out. Being loud, talking dirty, trying some new positions. Even foreplay barely happened. And she never wanted to have more sex after we finish. She would always want to cuddle, but this time she wanted to keep going. For some reason it made me feel very off. As if shocked, confused. Like I was having sex with a different person. Why do I feel like this? I always dreamt and wished for her to be like she was today and yet I ended up being upset. Why the fuck would it make me feel bad that I got what I wanted/
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>>16974166
is pic related a man
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The guy she was cucking you with probably dumped her so she had no choice but to release her frustrations in you.
I've had this exact same thing happen to a friend.
She'll probably leave you in a week or two if he doesn't come back to pursue them again.
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>>16974166
My ex started doing new shit in the bedroom, that's how I knew she was fucking someone else.
If she's changed overnight that means somethings changed for her.
Has she been acting differently out of the bedroom?
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Literally today I was told by my mother that my father isn't my biological father. I've been told that he was a student who donated sperm years ago. She is unwilling to help me locate him and so is my non-biological father. I live in the UK so what are my choices? I was born 1997 if that helps.
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>>16974140
why on earth would you even bother
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Call a solicitor numbnuts.
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>>16974147
I primarily want to find this guy so I can know if he has any medical problems that run in his family that I need to be aware off + to know if I have any half siblings
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My crush's birthday is coming up, what should I gift her, /adv/? She doesn't even know of my existence in this world yet, so I don't want to spend too much, but what's a decent present for like <$20? She is into reading and writing if that's of any help.
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A nice moleskin notebook.
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You're setting yourself up to be called a creep.
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>>16974075
Get that bitch a 1911