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Go to sleep.

have you tried asking your dealer?

Tor

Either doesn't like the other person or is jealous of you spending your time with them..... which could mean she's into you.

But if she is into you and is jealous of you spending time with other friend then being in a relationship with her won't work cause you'll be expected to give up friendships left right and centre.

>>16975795
Because having female friends is the most betabucks thing you could do.

>>16975795
holy shit does the girl in your picture have a name?

Catholisism is not based 100% on the bible, Roman Catholisism is sort of a spin off from Roman Paganism, where they adore different gods for different problems, instead in catholisim they do it with saints.

So many have looked and looked into the bible not finding anything fucking interesting and then becoming protestants just because they did not get this point.

Catholisism is not a dead religion, every single word form every single saint is "the word of god". A lot of catholic believes are based on Aristotle and Socrates and Plato. Read "The Repulic" from Plato and "Nichomaquean Ethics" from Aristotle, and find in them the seven sins that the catholic church teaches you to respect.

Also read "The City Of God" from Saint Augustin the founder of the Church as we know it today, and be amazed. Also Saint Thomas Aquinas "Summa thelogica"

I was born in a Catholic family too and I decided to distance myself from that religion. I believe it is not necessary to have a label at all to live your spirituality and organized religion as a whole seems too brainwashy and powerful to me (inb4 fedorafaggit). Also, I don't want nothing to do with a belief system that says that my divorced parents should suffer eternally because they committed "adultery". Seriously, don't affiliate.

when my grandfather died I wasnt able to grieve him

things I used to be really turned on by now dont affect me at all

there are very few points in my life when I felt strong emotions and they always made me feel alive
one being when my dog was about to die, for some reason I still care for him

I dont have any real hobbies or things that I can do effortlessly
I feel like im going through the motions all the time

im not able to think of a thing that could make me happy other than drugs

I dont have any existencial problems and nothing scares me

I care for people but I dont fucking know why, there is not a person in my life that I wouldnt get over if they died in less than a week (except family maybe? I honestly dont know)

>>16975635
Me as fuck. I think about personality disorders sometimes, and I feel like me(and you) either have major depressive, avoidant, or schizoid personality.

Whenever I try to reach out to people (whether it be to a girl/co-worker/whatever) and get a negative result I get a ton of negative feelings. What most people wouldn't hold a grudge over, I do.

I also never cried at my grandfather's funeral and I have trouble expressing emotions. It's almost like I live to just respond to people

>>16975673
I dont get that, I used to get really reaaally affected by social discomforts and stayed at home a lot because of that but after my medication I kinda just dont care anymore in that aspect
life is boring as shit

If you're ok with being involved with a cheater then I don't see why not. Personally I think it's not cool but what matters is what you want.

>>16975612
Hold yourself to higher standards. How would you feel if you were her boyfriend. Plus it's just sleazy. How do you even respect her now?

>>16975612
There are two ways you can go with this:

One option is to decide for yourself who is in the wrong and let the other know. If you feel she is in the wrong, let him know. If you feel as if he is in the wrong, let her know. Do it when the other person is not around. When you act in a way that favors one of them, do not make your intentions apparent to anybody that is associated with the other one in this relationship. This is the riskiest and most complex path to take.

Then again, the implications of this could backfire on you because you are the one that hooked up with his girlfriend, but you have the option to stay silent, as long as you are sure that the boyfriend does not have violent tendencies and will not inflict any sort of physical harm on you. Then you can just keep your distance and say anything about what happened. This is easiest route.

It's up to you. Either way will put you under fire, because please keep in mind that you did fuck this guy's girlfriend and girls can be manipulative.

In what context? Why try to be funny if you're not funny? I'm sure you have lots of other nice qualities, anon

>>16975506
It's for a class, I'm funny, but my funny is more situational ya know? And thank you.

>>16975517

>It's for a class

dude we're not mind-readers. I have no idea what your fucking assignment is, what class you're in, what kind of humor would be appropriate, or really any information I'd need to help you. Learn how to start a fucking thread

>>16975490
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HbTAmN4m2lQ

It doesn't matter if you believe or not. Just watch and relax. Enjoy the story.

Try going to a good psychotherapist, I highly recommend you to go with one who applies Albert Ellis therapy (psycho-cognitive therapy), I mean, psychoanalysis does not work for these sort of problems.

you can use your lifetime trying find the cure of some disease, just saying

>>16975475

you ahve nothing to lose except for a co pay by getting a second opinion anon. even if they are cysts, they soudn like htey are something that needs to be dealt with. how does she believe these cysts were developed?

Post a picture

I've found, through my own experiences, that doctors are weirdly dismissive of issues like this. They'll treat the symptoms but often they don't even want to talk about the root cause, or how to prevent.

>>16975475
I would get a second opinion. That sounds pretty serious to be honest.

>>16975452

have you considered trying the middle grounds? as in, asking her to come with your OR finding a new job in the area.

>>16975469
I would never ask her to come with me, she needs to stay here and graduate
The jobs in the area for the most part aren't ones that would be enjoyable for me, and the chance that I get one of the select few that might be is rather slim

>>16975478

id move then. relationships tend to... well, end. then you are stuck there with a shitty job.

you spend more time at work then you do wiht your gf even if you live together. if you have the chance to do soemthing you like, then do it.

may i ask though
your job now?
what your new job would be?
pay differences in the two?
how long til she graduates?
how long you been dating thus far?

By knowing that all that shit from social media and just in general is bullshit, I'm referring to love, a "special person" bla bla, is a person more, move on m8, is not like you need to hate a person but just don't be clingy.

>>16975403
You don't.

>>16975437
But cool people do it all the time

Run into an asshole in the morning and you ran into an asshole. Run into assholes all day and you're the asshole.

Take a look at yourself first before you blame everyone else.

>>16975332

this

>where do i go to make intenret friends

the internet. specifically meetup.com but if your place is too small for that then cragislist discussion section.

>>16975332
I get along with most people everywhere else. For example, when I travel to Lousiville for family, I get alog with almost everyone I come across excluding family and friends. I just struggle here because it's a small town, and everyone is a farmboy who lives in the country

>>16975298
Only if she's seen the text.

>>16975310
how do you know if she's seen it?

It's bad if you're this needy.

She didn't reply because you reek of desperation.

If you're a guy: "I like your music"
If you're a girl: "can I suck your dick"

Only the girls get responses

>>16975273
I'm a girl but i don't want to seem fucking thirsty as fuck

>>16975297
Then just give him compliments and be slightly flirty

Smart people can be insecure about their intelligence. Dumb people can be insecure about their intelligence. Insecurities can be based on real or imagined faults. If you ccouldn't sort that out, you're probably on the dumber side. Sorry.

>>16975111
First part of this. Being insecure about something is related to personality, and the trait doesn't really matter much.

>>16975111
I disagree, most dumb people are not that introspective, I believe it requires a certain amount of intelligence to see how others see you.

If you are insecure about something it is more likely inexperience vs unintelligence

id like to know this too im in the same exact situation

>>16975040

>how do i move on

by moving on. whatever your life was before, just do that, but without her.

>i completely cut her out of my life
>Except all her social media
>i fall to pieces

cut her out of your life. you know... block her.

>im depressed cuz a girl rejected me

life is full of relationship turmoil. if you arent mature enough to handle it when you were never actually 'with' that person then you are not emotionally mature enough to date. put in extra effort and catch up.

>what i did wrong

not maching does not mean someone did something wrong. i hate lasagna. my mom cooked the best lasagna according to everyone else in the world. she iddnt do something wrong. i just dont like lasagna.

you are lasagna. probably delicious to other people. but not to her (or me).

go be the best lasagna you can be.

I am bad at motivating depressed individuals but here is what I would do :
1. Go and tell her exactly what you're feeling and why you feel like you fucked up, it doesn't matter if she forgives you it's just to get it off your chest.
2. Get a premium pornhub pass and fap the day away.
3. Get some friends and do something that might take your mind off it or something man idunno.
If all else fails, when you kill yourself make sure you leave a note saying it was her fault. Revenge from beyond the grave...