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Are you a male? If so, you have encountered a wild third wave feminist. This is a relatively new species that has seen a huge population explosion in the last 25 years. They are dangerous, keep your distance and do not look in the eye.

I see possibilities. The first one is that she is overly sensitive and the second one is that you are a little douchey. Since real life is rarely black and white it is probably a little bit of both, not enough to be a problem but enough to leave you with a bad feeling. If these interactions bother you on some level then I suggest approaching the person and saying the following.
>"Hello! We only talked twice and I feel I annoyed you both times. In turn it makes me feel like a jerk. Is this how you feel about it and if yes, can you give me a suggestion on how you think I could be less of a jerk? Maybe it's not about what I say but it's about the way I say things? I'm just trying to improve myself that's all."
Alternatively I suggest that you hate fuck each other. High impact sexual violence.

>>16977241
why do you even care? if you aren't going to fuck then what the hell does her opinion matter? Stop being such a beta-male, feeling-driven faggot.

Just be up front and let the cards fall where they may

>>16977153
How so? Really like this girl and kinda nervous that I'll fuck the friendship up if I let the cards fall

>>16977146
the best "move" you can make is establishing that you have feelings for each other openly. the rest falls into place. you two already sound attracted to each other.

Under 18 doesn't belong on 4chan. Go home, sweetie.

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>>16976659
Im 20 nigger

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>>16976659

It's an interesting question, but if you think you're 100% protecting yourself from shit by getting that history up front--HA!

Personally, to me, you're saying you aren't willing to truly be a part of someone's life. I didn't my SO would have a recurring illness. But would I trade him for someone without that illness? Fuck no. He's so much more than an occasional bout of illness and hospitals and doctors.

What's your plan if someone with a clean history gets into your life and then gets sick?

>>16976637

Support them of course, it's not like I'am total robot. It's just something blocking me from being with someone I know has a unclean history, like I'll always go around thinking about it. This all is mostly due to that if I get kids with this girl I'll know that they might get cancer or shit.

That's a huge range, OP. You'll learn a lot by asking this as a series of questions on Google.

>going into military
Research different branches. Read blogs. Ask questions.

>going into monastic life
This is one I considered myself. But the choices are limited. You need to have faith in a diety. You need to know what you want, what to expect, and what you would be sacrificing.

See what I mean? That's just two of the options.

Peace Corp
Missions
Orphanages

Serve others locally and start to see what floats your boat.

>>16976617
Having no real friends nor success in college or work for the past 2,5 years has worn down my psyche to this point where I am at now.
Today has been one of those days. I spent all night wrestling with suicidal thoughts and plans, called in sick at work after not even an hour of sleep and now I'm roaming the internet to find the answer that will save me.

I can see myself and how pathetic I am acting. I am totally convinced that I need professional help. At this point, I even look crazy.

WHAT THE FUCK CAN I DO
THIS IS GOING DOWNWARDS SO FAST
HELP PLEASE

I can see myself and how pathetic I am acting. I am totally convinced that I need professional help. At this point, I even look crazy.

WHAT THE FUCK CAN I DO
THIS IS GOING DOWNWARDS SO FAST
HELP PLEASE

>>16976657
Hahaha you sound just like me man

Can't give you mich advise though, I've failed my fair share of stuff and everytime things look good they find a way to turn around

But thats the thing, you can think about going to the extremes (but you wont)
You can think about suicide (but you wont do it, everyone has someone they care to much about)

My only advise based on experience is to just ride it out and not care to much, things'll be good sometimes and sometimes bad

Sounds like your relationship has moved a bit too fast. Also at 6 months atm and it feels as if we just started dating. Maybe spend a bit less time together and instead go on proper dates again? Take the pace down a notch

>>16976561
Actually we broke up for 2 months after being together for 4 months and now we're back to being on again. So basically we were just picking up what we started. Yeah, I've considered spending less time together but we're colleagues so we see each other often and sometimes eat lunch or do our homework together

>>16976592
Sounds like this isn't the real deal dude... Why did you break up?

There is no speeding the process. It's hard. Keep moving forward--you can push yourself for steps you may not be ready for, but that could easily backfire down the line (like a new relationship, etc).

Feel the feels as they come. Appreciate what was and how you've grown.

>>16976556
Thank you, I really needed some words

>>16976533
Find something to occupy your time, but not something that simply gives you an escape. I highly suggest refraining from rushing into another relationship, as it will most likely end quickly, and only delay the healing process.

Get a hobby, or find some way to better yourself. Learn an instrument, try a sport, or -my favorite- start lifting weights. It will keep you busy while allowing you to work through the emotions as they come. And believe me, they will come soon; the shell shock phase is temporary.

Godspeed, OP

>>16976474
It's different for every couple.

We lost our home in a fire. Had to totally start over. My mom and my wife's mom both died within 1 yr of each other. We have a child with a disability. And I have to travel and sometimes relocate a lot for my job. I started having issues with alcohol and depression, was and still am an asshole. Almost cheated once. My wife is wonderful though. She's the glue. I would have never gotten so far in my life without her. I truly believe that. She knows how to handle me and she always picks me up when I get down or start on the wrong path. She's stuck with me through all my bullshit. I love her more than anything and the love I feel for her now is much deeper than when we first got married.

>>16976496
That's a wonderfull story anon... Thanks for sharing it. Do you think a couple can be as deeply in love if no hardships come up (for whatever reason), as a couple that went trough a lot of trial?

>>16976506
Absolutely.

>>16976424
Get rehab, drop your "main gf", and be a good parent to that poor soul, if it's too late to abort.

Shit happens, if you really didn't want to have kids you could use better protection or avoid fucking. Be responsible.

>>16976424
Well you need to find out if she pregos first off.

>>16976424
Nothing you can do. The chips will fall as they may. All you can do us them up as they fall and react accordingly.

As for the drugs, you're a fuckwit. Get cleaned up. Please.

>>16976149
Ask them about anal.

>>16976151
Both stay away from butt stuff

who says you have to?

>>16975979
Met my gf on tinder 6 months ago. Will be married in 5 months.

>>16976005
That's ironic, I met a girl I'm plowing a few days a week / all day, that will be getting married soon, to a guy she met on tinder.

ANY girl that goes on tinder is a whore, EVEN if the girl is "just looking for a platonic relationship", just code for "I'm thirsty af and I want 5 dicks in me, just shopping for some new big dick".

>>16975979
If you're looking to put ur dick in a hole, go to tinder. If you're looking for anything serious, tinder is the LAST place you want to look. But to be fairly honest, serious relationships are done man, you can't find that anymore.

Had roughly 100 matches. Went out on dates with 4 of them. The last one ended up being my gf. (now ex gf btw).

So it worked for me, and I know a fair amount of people that obtained serious relationships from it. I will re use it as soon as I'm over my ex.

threesome with the boss

take notes

do what the boss does when youre fucking her

>>16975940
divorce her.

op i suggest you fuck her boss

>>16975925
>How to DECREASE sexual stamina?
I'm 18 and have had 3 partners, all of which have had varying problems with how long I last. I wanted to know is there any way to reduce the time it takes to ejeculate and if there's any tips I can get. Thanks in advance

stop fapping

>>16976728
Wrong
Start fapping more

I don't think being wronged is your issue. You sound like you have a tremendous amount of paranoia. Associating things that are likely not connected at all...

>>16975923
I think you're mistaken, myself and others have been being used in this bizarre sickening story which proves total mind control and we're being treated as robots as an excuse for violating us.

https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6sDqmRjzkJFckxLQXV4eUdJeDQ

The Canadians know damn well god exists but sit back like pigs in a pen of shit waiting to sexually violate such people while Americans make cryptic entertainment singing about us being violated.

Like I said, being wronged worse than any other by a sickening civilization.

>>16975915
This is a new high in mental illness even for 4chan.

Romantic movies are filled with flirting. Its just playful banter.

I don't know how to flirt either. I can only remember one woman in the last two decades to even look like approaching me to talk. Relationships are a waste of time. If women won't approach me then I'm ugly so I won't approach women just to get rejected. Fuck this world!
Why even bother

>>16975927
Calm down there bub