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I'm in a similar situation. However I've never been in a relationship. I've just recently started seeing this girl and have been using /adv/ a lot lately for this exact type of thing. From what I've learnt is that you have little to no control over this type of situation. You must simply let the ebb and flow of life take you wherever. I'd give you more specific advice but my experience dating is less than minimal. But you can't look at your current situation as if this is how it's going to be forever. For instance; she gets another job, or you get another job, your schedules change, someone starts going to school. Keep at it basally, if you think she's worth a shot. And to know where it's going, you should probably tell her where you want to be. That way she has an idea of where to go with you. That's how you find out where the relationship is going. But you can't just throw it on her like "do you want to be in a relationship?". Like I said patience and consistency is probably the best policy here. Sorry, I'm being pretty vague, but I don't know what to tell you. Good luck anon. Best of luck.

>>16979137
Thank you, I appreciate it.

Thats kinda what Im doing now.

Like I said, we have been on one date and have already planned for another so she must be interested. I am interested.

But on the flip side, me and my ex was so much more exciting at first. But we had been flirting and building up a intimate friendship before we went out. And it exploded into this burning passion.

This girl is a girl I had talked to just a few times before asking out. There is no fire, and that makes me nervous.

I dont wanna waste over 3 months on something that might not be...especially when I dont know where its going

>>16979158
Dip your feet in before you commit. The beauty of your situation is that you're not committed yet, nor do you have to be exclusive. Date around if you're unsure. And once you find the one you think you're going to go the distance with, drop the others. That might sound unorthodox, or messy, but it's not like you're cheating on anyone yet or are you exclusive with anyone yet. I image you're young, use your youth to explore whats out there.

hahahahaha

>>16978865
They stand out in the crowd, shouldn't be hard to find.

You think that women are looking for a particular kind of man based solely on their own height and fitness.

100% guarantee that you're going to die alone at this rate.

>>16978743
Its only overrated when you can have as much of it as you want but when you're thirsty it's the best thing in the world.

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Sex is the most overrated thing in the world.
Our culture ascribes so much importance to it.
It matters if we've ever fucked or not.
It matters how many people we've fucked.
It matters how many times we've fucked.
It matters how long we've fucked.
It matters how well we've fucked.
People wanna know and control what other people do in bed. They want to judge them based on the sexual acts they have or have not committed.
They judge their partners based on how many other people they've had.
They judge straight and gay people, cis and trans people, men and women by different standards.

And the truth is, it doesn't matter. None of this matters. It's just sex. Do yourselves a favor and stop asserting so much meaningless importance to it. Just fuck people you wanna fuck and don't fuck whom you don't wanna fuck. Don't judge anybody because of their sexuality. Stop thinking about beauty standards, about nude pictures, about pornography, about religious norms concerning sex. Just do whatever you like.

Yeah its overrated, heroin is far better.

Seek out some mental health providers and explain to them what you told us. Take their advice very seriously and apply it diligently.

The alternative is going to be a horrible life :(

>>16978526
nah

>>16978511
Look dude, nobody is equal. Be the better person. Teach your children: your sons and daughters the truth and teach them discernment. You can't save everyone, but enough people who understand the importance of genetics and finding proper mothers and fathers for your children will make all the difference in the world when the time of reckoning is at hand.

Fear not. Stand tall!

what?
you look in the mirror and think of black people assaulting a non-exisiting person?

Well it sounds like you're going to fail either way

Are you sure it is the correct exam paper? If so and you all get 100% you're going to have to re-do the exam anyway.

What kind of retard steals the exam paper and then shares it with the entire class? It's one thing finding it from a legitimate source, but stealing it and sharing it?

Does he want to get kicked off the course?

You should inform the instructor and dean of the associated college. This is a very serious matter that puts your integrity on the line.

Cheating in school is never okay, and should be punished.

How about you just write it down physically and carry it with you everywhere or put it somewhere you know no one will ever look?

its a trap
dont do it

>>16978346
thanks for the fast response. I don't know i live in a house with roommates and have my own room. i could hide a book in a place yes but is that 100% foolproof probably not. If there is a safe digital way i'd prefer that

>>16978316
The girl in the picture is called Miyu. I think she also goes by something like Lauraraptor. I believe she's super into bodybuilding and whatnot now.

>>16978316
Is it just me or is the bottom 8 inches of a girl's back where it starts to ramp up to her ass like the sexiest thing in the world.

>>16978325
Or it could be Elleraptor. I can't remember, but I know her real name is Laura

Get them addicted to heroin

You become better than them

>>16978121
This, but probably OP's image sums up his persona so that will never happen.

Stop living in poor countries.

>>16977952
Why did you get denied?

>>16978148
>United States
>poor country
>lol
The amount of financial aid correlates with the amount of taxes. So while you idiots praise countries with "free" healthcare and college you forget the tax rate is 40-50% of your income in those countries.

>>16977787
....

>>16977787
Squidward and Lenny Loosjocks

>>16977787
thats me in the picture btw

I don't want to just flat out end it, but I don't want to control her. We have different philosophies. She said that true love is unconditional, and that I should love her no matter what choice she makes. That love is letting someone roam, but my philosophy is that if you love someone you'll try to keep them away from danger.

Your gf sounds like a pathetic crack whore. I would dump her in a heartbeat

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>>16977731
Ok, but is this crack smoking negatively affecting her life? If so, you can leave and have her learn to get better on her own or you can stay and try to get her help.

She crossed a line and you told her to stop. You're not the dick here. Better to establish boundaries than just take shit all the time. If she continues to push your buttons tell her she's a dick and stop socialising with her.

>>16977480
She's testing you.

This is a mental battle. You can win. Fake it if you don't feel it. You'll get it right someday.

Remember: 'con man' is short for 'confidence man'

The only reason I talk to a guy like this is if I know I can get away with more or less abusing them, I have to be around them, I don't like them, and I don't value them.

So...maybe try to be less of a desperate-seeming weirdo?

>>16977465
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NPkglvtdOuw

>>16977475
oooh, i love that song

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>>16977465
What gf?

https://youtu.be/wv-34w8kGPM

>>16977357
>told me that she found out it was mine
How the fuck does she think she "found out it was yours" without you knowing? You realize you can't just tell these things by magical powers, right? It would require a paternity test, which can't be done without you knowing.

>>16977362
She could have tested the other bf and got a negative. Unless she's a turboslut and has a third possibility, process of elimination leaves OP as the daddy.

Why do anything about it? You were not asked to be a parent to this child, so leave it alone. If that changes, I would expect a judge to make that call, after reviewing the necessary proof and documentation.

>>16977339
Do you mean only fat girls actively pursue you? Because if that's what you mean, you're going about this 'girl' thing all wrong.

>>16977339
Get away from the fatties. Or make one lose weight.

>>16977346
Agreed. You do the pursuing. Chase the girls you're attracted to, nothing else.