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>>16990629
Well, just be sure to bring water if you can and I mean a pretty good amount, drink it all.

I'd suggest looking up some stretches for your legs, upper and lower back, shoulders, and neck do those as much as possible after work.

Eat as much as possible and you will be fine.

I do similar work and have seen people your size do fine btw. You'll get used to it after a week or 2 and notice it just keep it up.

Also please be safe and follow the rules if you get hurt your out of work you have no idea how important your body is until you work jobs like this you know?

>>16990658
Oh yeah cut off your phone after work and get as much sleep as possible.

I know this is all common sense but trust me you'll thank me and it'll make your first time doing so much work easier, and you wont be cramping pathetically in your bed (as much),from the days previous work.

I've worked a ton of different labor jobs for years.
Get there a few minutes early and stretch. Drink tons of water, and bring snacks on top of a large lunch. Eat things like clif bars during your smoking breaks.

You don't have to impress anyone especially since it's your first day. If you need to slow down, slow down. Don't ever stop and just sit there, but it's alright to slow your pace if you're starting to hurt. Stretch after lunch.

You'll be sore as fuck every night for the first week or two, but it will go away.
Also, you'll want to drink after work, but don't, because working while hungover is the worst thing ever.

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>>16990616

>tfw no anons to cuddle and experiment with

life is suffering

>>16990623
>tfw no qt3.14 slender aussie gf to bear huggle
life truly is suffering.

>>16990623
>>16990635

thanks guys <3

my live-in exbf (who i met via 4chan) moved out today

im a sad little koala bear

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This is /adv/ but anyway. If you love her, you should get her an abortion. I don't know how much they are, but whatever, if you love her, then you love her.

>>16990528
Fuck I'm retarded. I meant /adv/

>>16990520
Wow. I am honestly surprised this girl is the only girl in the world that doesn't like to be mistreated.

>>16990510

>jealous of people who are having kids at 21

Unless they were born into money or are both intelligent individuals the odds that they are welfare couple is very high anon. The answer to your question isn't universal. If you live with your parents with nothing going on for you otherwise it can be pretty bad. If you do it while you're in school/saving up for a new place or vehicle then that's a little better. Why are you so eager to be out on your own OP? Unless you have a good income you're going to earn your freedom but pay for rent + food all on your own.

>>16990510
I think its a lot more accepted these days than it was before. I'm 29 and currently still in my parents house, but I've finally made a committment, that no matter what my situation, I'm moving out at 30.

My advice, save up a little bit for a couple of months rent and get out of home as soon as you can.

I think I would have been a lot better off leaving home before the age of 25.

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30 is basically it. You're a wizard. Kill yourself.
Anything below that is acceptable... I think?
25< is cutting it close though...

Wow I wish a cute girl would stalk me OP. I say stick your dick in her, careful though she might be a yandere

>>16990446
Nah my dude, something is seriously wrong with this girl.

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>>16990454
I'd suggest you lock your doors and windows at night. As a matter of fact check to make sure you have no hidden cams in the shower or in your toilet.

Of course you could confront her again but you might be raped.

Are you super tight with your family or have you moved out?

Prob gonna have to keep on down low if that's the case. Stick up for yourself and bf if your family finds out. Cut them out if you need to.

Love yourself and your man. Fuck that shit. If it's the real deal. Let love take you guys to where you need to go.

It's really unfortunate, and super shitty to think of, but you're going to eventually have to consider who to choose to stick with, your boyfriend or your family, mostly because your family is going to put you in that fucking horrible position. If you've been dating for a while--and if you're serious, this is important--then strongly think of when and how you'll reveal your boyfriend to your family. Because you can't hide him forever.

I'm sorry it has to be this way. It's unfair. But it is the reality of your situation, so learn how best to adapt to it. Plan ahead, anticipate what the reaction will be, and think on what you can stand to lose.

>>16990389

first of all, congrats for recognising bigotry regardless of its source. However expect that you will run into problems because of it within your ethnicity more often than not. and it won't be limited to your family, minorities have a higher percentage of people believing they are okay to hate any race and it doesnt count as racism.

are you a mostly self sufficient person? or do you still live with/rely on family for any direct assistance?

>>16990381

>how do i cope

are you sreiously asking this question? seriously? are you really asking that question?

>>16990385
Yeah, like i'm in any state to be logical or eloquent.

>>16990393

then delete thread and go to /pol/

>tfw no qt depressed anon to nurse back to health

What state do you live in now?

>>16990339
Commiefornia

I'd probably choose Brown although I can't give you a good reason. The networking miight be a little better in the Northeast. The thing about going to Duke is that you're probably going to have to deal with that "Yankees and Commiefornians suck" bullshit that southerners like to spit out.

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>>16990317

>I've developed an interest in chicks with dicks
>But I know I'm not gay

Stopped reading there.

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>>16990317

>>16990210

they say medication doesnt really go bad it just becomes less effecgtive. that being said, 5 years is a bit extreme.

google has the answers you are seekign tho.

>>16990217
Google does not, I have received mixed opinions from supposed pharmacists and I'd say a fair amount said don't and a fair amount said go for it. A fair amount of articles from reputable sources provided similar results. That being said as well, I checked several drug (user) and drug (addiction) forums and there were reports of people taking the same class medication 10+ years after expiration with minimal to no bad reactions. But for all i know they got lucky. Those who overdosed, died etc... Are no longer with us to write their experiences or provide any outlook. Those are die hard users though, recreationally and from an addiction standpoint and they know damn well their life is on the line. I'm just in pain, don't want to be in pain but don't really feel like putting my life in danger.

>>16990217
Although, I will say thanks for your insight and thoughts. Cheers mate.

not sure what to tell you. sounds like you're doing everything right. though its vague so its har to know for sure.

i tend to get my romantic loneliness worked out by fast flings that last a weekend.

>>16990209
I just feel so empty hooking up and am burnt out dating. I was hoping I was doing the right thing by continuing to focus on myself but lately even my own friends seem so alien to me.

>>16990274

still ont sure what to say, cuz its all so vague, you know. i was gonna suggest exploring new friends.

tell me what is this hobby?

>>16990181

i broke up with a girl cuz i found out she'd been going to the gym with her ex (who i often clashed with). she had been doing this for months and never mentioned that they went together, and often just talked shit about him.

she tried to make it up to me, she did soem weird hand engraved mirror thing, where the mirror is sandblasted with a certain design.

the design was specific to me, and had the quote 'ever have one of those days' which i was famous for saying back then, i intended to give it back to her and say sorry but it wouldnt work out. i accidentally stepped on it the day i was supposed to return it, so gave it to her in pieces. as you can imagine everyone hated me for that.

it was a silly highschool fling, i was moving at the end of the year anyway, so it was no big deal. but i regret not just getting over it. girl was hot.

>>16990189
Oh, that is genuinely upsetting.
I would take the fact that you stepped on it by an accident as an actual, psychological end to the relationship. I dont know, I believe in these things.

>>16990207

maybe. i lived in really tiny military housing so had placed it on the floor by my backpack while i reached for something else, then heard a crack and realized hat i had stepped on it.

either way its not a big deal. it was an art project for school she just happened to use images specific to me.

>>16990146

if you want to make a move, go for it. if you dont, dont.

>>16990155
I am gonna do something soon. Just trying to gauge her interest though, and she seems to be somewhat interested, though not as obvious as others

>>16990146
for sure a missed opportunity.

Wouldn't necessarily say oblivious but have you ever talked with her. Do you know anything about this girl?

It's not too late to take a chance with her. Just pay attention to her next time if that's the case.

Yes. No, but it probably marked the downfall of the relationship.

>>16990109

yes and yes. but i probably would have regretted it just as much if i hadnt, because thats also a big life changing thing.

its like trying to decide which hand to chop off. one of them has to go, but i need my right hand for most things. so id choose the left.

might regret that hwen i realize its my masturbation hand.

all that being siad, you have to remember that you CAN have a kid later in life. you cant undo the kid if you decide to keep him

>>16990109
I didn't but I watched my old roommate and his girlfriend freak out and drive down to PP to get one.

Guy was 35, she was 17. It was a chaotic mess. I don't think they regretted it cause less than 5 hours after they did that, they were back to fucking.

I'd dump her ASAP.

You hang out with some real classy ladies.

>>16990011

>mfw i dated a spic named edgar who goes to raves

but unless your gf has a penis i dont think its the same one.

that being said
>my gf saw a guy she knew
>he made a move
>she turned him down and went back to friends
>IM SO FUCKING MAD ABOUT THIS

wow what a tool you are