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>I think i made the biggest mistake of my life
>I've met this girl on Tinder


no

I think you don't know what "red pill" means.

Also, what's the advice you need? "Don't fuck up things for yourself intentionally"? Or maybe "Stop being such a huge fuckin' idiot"?

>>16993539

i'm sorry, there's something wrong with it? She didn't seem the kind of girl that uses tinder, she even deleted it.

No, not really

Closest you can come to is dating other women while maintaining some variance of friendship.

>>16993186
Fuck her friends. She'll inevitably get jealous and come back to you. Then you make her lick your butthole and move on to the next slore.


Or you could follow the toxic SJW/feminist rhetoric that's plaguing this board and be forever a cuck, your call.

Just approach her and tell her that if she doesn't like you that it's ok and you can still be friends. Don't try to force someone to do something they don't want to.

Just have a conversation with her I think. You might regret not at least giving her a chance and just because you talk to her once doesn't mean you have to have her back in your life completely.

I wouldn't. My dad left us when I was 1 for another woman and he kicked us out of the house. We had to live with my grandma and my mom worked 2 jobs. 10 years later he came back to see us said he was praying for us and he loves my sister and I but I told him that when we needed a loaf of bread he wasn't there and now that he needs me he wants to meet me. I told him he's a stranger to me and to have a good day. But I don't know how you feel so IDK.

Talk to her. Lay it on her that you think of your aunt as your real mother, the person who supported you financially and emotionally.

She's fucked up, and hopefully realizes it by now. Be open, but be cautious.

too vague, what advice are you looking for? You should put your hand on her vagina next time she sits next to you.

>>16993268
It should be somewhat obvious that I am looking for some level of interpretation as to her actions as she is quite outgoing with alot of people put shyer when it comes to me.

>>16993293
Ok, that makes sense.

Hand on vagina. Also, you sound like an asshole

>>16992799

you look for any place that will take you. worst case scenario you get fired and claim it was 'seasonal' on your resume.

>>16992819
Yeah but I'm saying, is it wrong that I'm only looking at part time ? I guess the best analogy would be slowly going into some water to be comfortable vs jumping in not ready to handle it.

>>16992869

>is it wrong

there is no sense of mmorality in hunting for a job. is it a bad idea? yes. cuz you are preventing yourself from getting a job.

but you made this thread before and kept arguing the point against me so you arent looking for advice, you are looking for someone to agree with you.

She wants the D. Thats no lie. Bipolar girls are a handful. My mom is bipolar. Go for it if you think you can handle it but it will require patience and and self awareness that her mood can change at any given moment.

If it helps, how I shrugged off her advances/how the conversation went is (I'm not posting the entire convo, this is the jist of it):

Her: This is gonna sound like really really unusual tongue emoticon but you're like really really nice, one of the loveliest people I know. How on earth are you still single?

Me: I think it's because I look like a magician. No one likes magicians.

Her: I don't see that

Me: I do. Look at Derren Brown when he did the russian roulette thing. Plus I'm happy being single at the moment, especially as I'm starting a Masters degree in September and want to get that out of the way before I settle down with anyone (incidentally, this is a bit of a lie, as I would date someone during it!)

Her: So if anything comes up you wouldn't take it until the Masters is done?

Me: I haven't thought about it, why?

Her: I'm just nosey!

Me: Well I'm pretty boring, there are more exciting people to be nosey about!

Her: I find you really interesting, and like I said you're very nice.

Then I basically said thanks, and that I needed a nap (which I did). So as an additional question:

If I DID want to pursue it, with all I said to her, do you think I'd even have a chance to sort of backtrack, or have I basically ruined any chance that I might have if I wanted to pursue it?

a) Pretty obvious she's into you.
b) Go for it. Not like you have to be head over heels for her to have a great time.

>>16992662
Is pic related? Cos damn.

Just keep ignoring her, or just tell her you're no longer interested, you have to crush her hopes with either silence or bluntness just don't do it in a mean-spirited way.

Girls do that all the time.

Today I slept until noon. I was having a dream about being in the Harry Potter universe. It was very dramatic and exciting. When I woke up I lazily masturbated for a bit and then I checked some of my phone apps like Miitomo and my messages. I'm waiting for a guy I like to accept a friend request on Facebook so I can talk to him about greek mythology. I might only be interested in him because I'm lonely though. I got out of bed and I made myself lunch. Gardein chicken on white bread with hot sauce, havarti, tomato, and greens. I had some white cheddar cheese puffs also. I'm avoiding doing laundry. Well, the laundry is actually done, I'm avoiding folding the clothes. I'm taking a hot bath right now.

Today I finally came down from taking ecstasy with my boyfriend. I've been falling in and out of sleep all day in a nice clean and warm bed. This afternoon we had wonderful sex as we did yesterday, celebrating our three day break from our hectic work schedules.
He went out to see his dad this evening and left me a cigarette with a note that said "you are beautiful".

I'm so tired but I need to bathe, clean the kitchen, prepare dinner (burritos!) and wash his work clothes. I've also got a big stack of forms to work through over night, I was anxious before but now the idea of zoning out to filling in forms with a blanket and an espresso seems really neat.

>>16992663
Thank you I read it multiple times. I like the Greek mythology part (not being sarcastic btw)

You know what were gonna say. Dont talk to her, distance is what you need.

>>16992591
dont do it.

id be saying: bitch please, you cheated on my ass and now you are out of options... click. thats the end of that.
she knows you will take her back thats what she is counting on. jokes on her when you man up and find somebody new.

>>16992526

>i have trouble holding a conversation

this probably comes across as a lack of interest. for best results, try holding a conversation

>BUT HOW

if you really need help try reading books on conversation. look for modern ones, nothing before 2005 ideally.

also
>everyone talks mediocre shit but im passionate

nope. nope. stop right there. no one wants to be friends with a pretentious fuckwad who thinks he is better than them.

different than you =/= worse. if you cant get that out of your head then you are just a douchebag.

>>16992545
Guys in my class gave orals very mundane personalities.

I guess from someones view I really do come off as looking down on them, I've read alot into Aurelius, I don't really think like that but I guess I need to work on how I come across.

>>16992562

the smartest people dont act like they are smarter. just like they have specific interests.

you'll notice its mostly just douchebags with very very barely slightly above average intelligence who look down on people.

you are in the same class as them discussing the same materials. if they are 'mediocre' then you just labeled yourself as the bottom of the barrel of smart people. you are the cut off point if everyone on your level is good, and everyone below you is bad.

do you really want to put yourself at the bottom of the smart people because everyone else is too mediocre to hold a conversation with? and with that, anyone who is even just slightly more intelligent (or rather, has different interests they deem more intelligent) should shun you and call you mediocre.

moral is, there is always someone out there smarter than you. but you think you belong with the people smarter but not with anyone even a sliver of a point lower than you.

its ironic really cuz your ego has also labeled you as not very smart at all by your own definition.

1. speak english
2. what?
3. no
4. fuck you
5. >Boy confronts (in a way) (by her friend) asking if she has feelings for him.
5a. fag

>>16992447

>boy confronts (in a way) (by her friend)

thats not confronting. thats being a pussy.

>at the same time she decides to close those feelings. (fear probably)

those feelings she said werent real? SHE MUST BE LYING! after all, who could resist someone who asks her best friend if she has a crush on you.

>>16992453
If you understand what it says then you must be the fag here!
It's advice thread not /b/ fucktard!

>>16992400
Also has anyone had any experience with quitting/getting fired? How shitty does it make you feel? How does it affect your job prospects?

>>16992400
When I applied for the current job I'm in, they wanted my previous employer's email address so that they could ask 'a few questions'. Yeah. Fortunately I left my previous company on good terms.

A good reference is worth its weight in gold.

Also being fired sucks. I was fired from a burger flipping job for being slow at flipping burgers (I'm terrible in the kitchen, don't judge) Got a much better job now so it worked out. Took a while though.

>>16992648
so then someone is still screwed if one of the questions in your example was "how well did he work?" and the answer was "he didn't perform as quickly as we wanted"?

I don't think I want to work in catering again.

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What do you want?

>>16992399
We are all nobody to everyone.

Nobody will see you as special as you see yourself and the sooner you realize that the sooner life gets better.

Also wallowing in despair with music and sad thoughts is comfy for a while, but one day you will suffer true despair and realize its mental masturbation.

>>16992399
You got Steam? I'll be your online friend dude. Snapchat? I'll send you funny shit to cheer you up.

You're not alone man. I'm just some anon but I feel you. I'm here for you. For anyone reading this for that fact.

>>16992392
Don't be unattractive.

>>16992392
Go outside more.

like everyday.

not just for basic needs.

Try to make friends.

Be uncomfortable with it.

This is how you meet girls.

How often do you leave your house? How often do you meet/hangout with girls? How often do you meet new people? How often do you shows interest in women? Start doing all of these things more often and you'll get a gf.

>>16992377

CONT.

>She says yes, asks if we can do what we used to no strings attached, Im horny so why not

>She comes round mine, within 2 minutes of her being in the door we're fucking
>Watch a movie, have dinner, fuck again before bed
>Next day
>Shows no sign of wanting to go home, despite what she said about getting the bus back the day before, means I cant get anything done that I want to get done

>Plays sympathy card and promises sex if she lets me stay again
>Do so

>She finally goes home when I leave for work the day AFTER
>But forgot her mums phone round mine (hers is broken)
>Forgot to bring it with me to work today, she asks if I can drop it round and stay round, dont want to, she says she'll pick it up on the way home
>All is good

>Goes home early coz shes "sick" and "threw up 4x"

>Messages me when I get home
>"Can you drop the phone off and stay round mine tonight my mum really needs her phone"
>"Im waiting for your answer.. im feeling it today"

>Finally reply to her
>Tell her Im too tired to come over, I have stuff for uni and my own shit I really need to get done tonight and tomorrow morning
>Ask why she cant just come over and get it, she can even stay round
>"Im already in my pjs"
>Tell her Im out and about in town tomorrow, she can meet me then and pick it up
>"I dont wanna go out tomorrow"

Twice. Twice shes forgotten shit at my place and then asked me to take it back to hers when she could have picked it up. Claiming she cant "do the busses they make me feel sick"
Trying to tempt me to run all the way over to hers (over an hour on the bus) to drop her things off with the promise of sex

The sex aint even that great! Its passable, but shes really fucking selfish in bed and shes not my type that much physically, too tall, I prefer smaller girls

What do I do? I told her Im not coming over tonight (was tempting, sex would be nice) and if she wants the phone back she can pick it up any time or I can give it back to her at work next friday

>>16992408
>>16992377

Her claws are digging in. And its only gonna get worse if you keep letting your dick drive.

>>16992408
>What do I do?
learn how to use the word no, if you fuck her again and she wont leave kick her ass out