>19
>m
>lost friends due to pessimism
>it's part of my humor
>lowest of low rate girls on /b/
>lastcigar.webm
>current longest friends only hangout with me for an hour before ejecting
>is avid gamer/4channer..¿?
TL;DR
How do I stop being pessimistic?
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How do you build trust when people ever wish to see you an hour every other day..?
Certainly I need new friends... But most people I meet are always extremely uninterested.
>I have been told that I am boring
>expect me to know what fun is when no one wants to around *pulls trigger*
Kek. Avid gamer and wtv tf s a 4channer. Kek.
Death comes at price, but it sure ass hell is fun! You should try it OP.
>>16994647
RIP OP. If dubs faggot OP does a flip.
I'm 19, live with my parents, suffer from what's likely genetic anxiety, or PTSD. I don't want to talk about the PTSD. My symptoms have been on and off really badly this year, and I don't have a clue why.
I just got done crying, and I'm on that very thin line between getting temporarily better, and getting annihilated and being completely unable to function or even possibly feel happy for an undetermined amount of time.
I think the worst part is that I'm alone from 2am to 4pm. I work at 5pm, and I don't get home until around the time my parents are already long in bed. It's awful, I have nobody to talk to.
Anybody try medication? I had Sertraline(Zoloft), but it stopped working, and only gave me the longest period of anxiety/depression of my life.
Build muscle, it will help even out your moods.
>>16994623
>I had Sertraline(Zoloft), but it stopped working, and only gave me the longest period of anxiety/depression of my life.
I hope you talked to your psychiatrist about this instead of just going off the meds, there are many different medications to treat this and they can try different ones until something works.
>>16994758
No, my PD tried putting me on 10mg of Paroxetine, and I said fuck that. Eventually, I did get better, but now it's back.
I'm mostly afraid that I'm not going to be able to stand being at work. Depression/anxiety makes time crawl something awful. If I go back, I'll just bs it and say it didn't work. Hopefully it doesn't get to that point. What meds have helped you handle the symptoms? I'm trying to exercise, but it couldn't stop it this time.
Guys I'm really lost in my life
I don't really enjoy going to uni, I get really bad waves of depression, I have no friends and am slowly distancing from my family. No job either even for the summer, I just don't really know what I should do. My grades are abysmal but my past semesters should keep me high enough to not fail out this semester. But I am REALLY lost and I just don't know what to do at all. I just spend every day trying to escape with videogames, movies, music, reading
I just don't feel any purpose or passion and haven't for years.
Does anybody who has been in a similar situation have any advice or help? I've tried making changes before but that never works without responsibility.
I'm in a similar problem, but not too exact. Someone give us their thoughts =)
>>16994600
50-60% of the board, the post
That is why I'm here right now; you sound like where I expect to be in 6-8 months. Everyone tells me I'm smart and I can usually learn anything I want as long as it interests me (I usually absorb myself into something wholly and completely). Problem is, nothing interests me and I'm going to college to "figure things out". All I guess I want is for people to get off my back and to feel like I'm living life, free. But the few jobs I work make me feel awful; I don't just want to grind to live to sleep to grind and etc.
Probably just came out as tldr bullshit, but I felt like venting.
I like that my partner looks at loli. I look at his history and get off to the things he's found.
It's turned into somewhat of a kink in and of itself...how awful am I?
I suppose it'd be better if I just asked him to share pictures he likes with me..
>>16994591
>how awful am I?
You're not harming anyone.
>>16994591
Why not? Just tell him you like it too and you get to connect over a shared intimate interest.
>>16994591
This has to be bait.
If not, just talk to him about it. If anything, that'll turn him on even more. He can't tell you that he's disgusted or whatever because he does the exact same shit.
How do you not be self conscious of C-cup saggy tits when youre having sex? Holding them to my chest or making sure I'm lying on my back is always on my mind and I can never feel sexy, only very ugly.
I can't afford surgery.
>>16994589
leave your bra on
duh
You are beautiful as you are, anon.
tfw no qt pie gf to tell this to
Noodleboob level of saggy?
C cups are perfect and a little sag is kind of attractive to me at least
Anons,a brother needs advice.
Tl;dr Girlfriend's period is 13 days late,didn't happen at all last month,should've been around 23 March but nada.
We took a test on 30 because we were already worried and it came out negative.
But she still isn't on her period yet and I'm starting to worry. I know it's possible for a woman to miss a period completely,unrelated to pregnancy and she has been under ALOT of stress lately and even though she says that she feels like she isn't prego,she still is scared by her lack of period?
I can't be a daddy,not yet..We used a condom too,didn't break,put it on alright...So what the fuck is going on ?!?
if she took a test and it came back negative it probably is
have her take another one
there's a lot of reasons why she would be missing her period, stress can be a factor in that
have her go to the obgyn
>>16994565
Periods are typically every 28 days but can go as far as 45 without being considered abnormal. If she's stressed, overweight or has some underlying issues, she will have abnormal periods. Worrying about being pregnant certainly isn't going to help her get it any faster. I had similar issues with my guy early on in our relationship. The time between my periods suddenly got very long, but a mix of being overweight, stress, and poor diet threw everything off balance. I was almost on the verge of having endometriosis and was later diagnosed with PCOS.
If she's pregnant, then talk about your options. It'll make it easier to face and reduce stress, likely inducing a period.
>>16994565
You're safe. Seriously, stop worrying.
How do you know when a relationship is truly over? As in, no coming back.
>>16994553
If you're asking, then it's too late.
>>16994558
Thats so depressing holy fuck
You don't. Life is like a box of chocolates.
I need some advice guys, and I really don't know who to talk to it about. None of my friends can really relate.
It affected me way more than I thought it would. My Dad had previously said that the reason he got a divorce was because my mom never tried to understand him. Recently I found out the real reason
So for a whole year or so before they got a divorce, he had been taking long trips for "work" to their storage facility. A co-worker of his literally told me today that he had been seeing another woman and couldn't stand seeing my mother get hurt, so he told me.
I don't know what to do.
Should I tell my mom and let her get even more depressed?
Should I confront my Dad?
Or should I just stay out of it?
>Tl;dr
Parents got a divorce; Found out the reason was because he cheated on her; what do I do
Pic unrelated
Your mother probably knows already.
The cheating was a symptom, not the cause of their relationship problems.
Just remember that it's not your fault.
>>16994543
not your business
no good ever comes from meddling
What do girls like in a guy? It seems like no matter how hard I try no girl is interested in me. I don't know what I'm doing wrong...
>>16994436
>What do girls like in a guy?
No you, obviously.
>>16994436
> I don't know what I'm doing wrong...
> It seems like no matter how hard I try
this basically. lol
stop tryharding, chill, and let her tryhard for you.
>>16994443
Okay. Thank's.
>long term bf had female friend, they're still friends on facebook, but she moved away and is also married now
>he hooked up with her, but like ten years ago, way before we got together
>she hated on me from the beginning, even if it was several years after her and bf did anything with each other
>the month bf and i went official she tried to hook up with him at a bar
>she was also engaged to the guy she married at this time
>bf got upset with her, stopped hanging around her for a long while
>she brought her fiance out to our state about a year after that incident
>they and some friends went out for drinks
>that sad fool bought my boyfriend dinner and drinks and shit, trying to be bros with him
Even now this bitch is still throwing shade at me any chance she gets on facebook. I don't understand her deal, man. I know there is nothing I can really do. I've "won" whatever game she's trying to play. I mean, my bf is with me, not her. She's just fuckin attentiony man.
I don't know why she's always throwing little jokey insults at me if my boyfriend tags me in things on facebook. I don't understand why she is outwardly being mean to me when she's the one that's trying to fuck people's boyfriends. Is she just deflecting? Man, what I know could ruin her life.
Why are women like this? I'm not really going to do anything. Like what would a facebook message do? So I just ignore her, but it always happens. I just need some insight, man. How do I deal with this?
My bf hasn't seen her in a couple years or hung out with her, or even text or call her, just keeps her on facebook. He never responds to her comments. But just, what is this psycho's problem?
Why does a girl who basically isn't even in your boyfriend's life anymore make you so jealous and insecure? I mean, you are jealous and insecure, right? Otherwise it wouldn't bother you and you wouldn't have made this thread
>>16994393
I feel embarrassed mostly. Like she comments about me on his posts. Then it's just awkwardly left there for everyone to see.
I just don't understand what her problem is with me. I feel more defensive than insecure about it. She isn't a threat to my relationship, but I feel bullied. Like personally.
>>16994404
So just block her so you don't have to see her activity and comments and be done with it. You don't have a problem, don't pretend you do. Don't act like you pity her when you just want us to tell you how she's a jealous whore who's trying to steal your boyfriend because she's in love with him because you want an ego boost.
There's a couple girls I fuck on Sunday nights and Thursday nights. They always show me pathetic texts from these poor saps that think they have a chance with them. one of them called a girl while she was riding my cock. I asked one of these girls 'if he creeps you out, why do you keep talking to him' to which she replied 'cause it makes me feel good and i don't want to be mean'.
I can't believe the current generation of girls are going to be mothers and business leaders one day. What fucking chaos the world will be by then.
I am assuming you are the poor saps that was friend zoned right because a player could careless about the other variables as long as he gets his dick wet.
>>16994392
He probably had this happen with his oneitis and he's fucking these other girls to show how 'alpha' he is
>>16994392
It just amazes me girls can pull their shit with a straight face. I fucked a married woman once and she had 0 hang ups about the ordeal.
I'm 20 years old and married I do nothing but work and sleep. Once I turn 21 I want to pack up my shit leave my wife behind and go travel and party across America. I have no money in my bank account and I usually don't have more than $40 cash because bills are insanely high every month. How to I travel and do what I want but be able to make money along the way to buy gas food and alcohol? I have no problem living out of my car instead of motels.
Move that time table to 22 and then save up enough money to live off your travels.
Read this thread OP.
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=154073641
>>16994373
That is a great thread but I have to make money as I go saving up isn't an option
OP here. This is why I can't save up for travels
Rent: $450
Food for 2: $100
Utilities: $160 (no heat or A/C ever used)
2 cell phones: $120
2 loans taken out to keep from being homeless: $140
I only make around $800-$1000 a month
How to dominate a girl:
So my girl want "to be treated like a sex object". She likes it rough. I do the whole hair pull, light slap, pussy pounding, call her a good little slut bit but it's not enough. She told me it turns her on to be completely dominated and treated like an object/sex slave. I'm admittedly kind of vanilla sexually. I guess I just need tips/tricks of what to do and say to give her what she wants. Almost every time we have sex she say something like this and I try but what I'm doing isn't enough for her
Pic related: it's her
>>16994290
it'd be easier if you didn't give a shit about her though, then you could spit on her, slap her hard, fuck her in the ass, call her a filthy whore etc. but it sounds fucking awful though man, idk what i'd do in your situation
>>16994290
Treat her how real men did back in the 1940's
They love it.
Both hand on her jaw and kiss hard. Tongue and make it sloppy. Then kiss her neck and start stripping her and let her take your clothes off. Fore play (I won't give advice) but be powerful, confident and don't second guess yourself. I like to suck on the nipples and pull her nipples. Then working on her pussy via kissing her thighs and denying her pussy. Kiss and lick everything but the pussy, when she is wet...deny it. I won't give advice on eating pussy but make it consistent.
For hard sex.
Squeeze both her wrists and plant them beside her head. Fuck light slaps, give strong slaps and insult her. Call her dirty slut used for your entertainment and that you are her cum rag. Call her a disgusting whore who is into this kinda of stuff. When you grab her tits, really grab it to the point you feel it would be painful. Slap her tits and suck her tits, while looking at her. More insulting. Spit on her pussy and make sure it is wet. Finger her and choke at the same time. Tell her to lick your fingers.
Anal, pull her hair, smack her ass and finger.
Be creative and do whatever the fuck you want. If she says you are being too painful, let her know you will give her more of a thrashing.
Can you guys help me pick a course for college ?(im already 18 cause i started a bit late)
At this point im between Law or Medicine,
I find law appealing cause im interested in politics and got good in English and ok in reading
but i like medicine cause my Dads a doctor and it gives me the possibility of working abroad, also human anatomy is pretty cool
So far everyones been leaning to medicine,
what do you think?
We can't answer this for you, they're two completely different things. I will say that if you're basing law of what you've seen in pop culture and the media, you're going to be sorely disappointed
>>16994262
Fuck that. You won't care about the subject when you do it every day all day. Ask yourself the important questions.
Do you want to work in office all day?
Do you want to work on something technical, or spend all your time talking to people?
Do you want to do something manual with your hands, or something that takes a lot of thought with very little moments of action?
That is far more important than the other shit, believe me. I love computers, but I fucking hate my current job because I work in an office with no windows and there's not enough work for me to do in a day. Don't end up hating your job just because you thought it wouldn't matter what you did for eight hours every day.
>>16994271
i guess thats true, i would the same applies to medicine but my Dad tells me how he's seen some weird shit in his career.
>>16994286
So is this siding towards law or Medicine?
Honestly i think with both the answer is yes to all of those questions
how do you find friends and people that you can really trust? what kind of people are typically the most trust-worthy?
if it matters, i'm female and would prefer finding female friends.
Simple reminder... Keep your enemies close, and your friends closer.
If you want someone to be open with you, you must first be open with them. I'm not saying you should emotionally barf on people, but when someone says, "Hey, how are you?", answer honestly. Or, if you're having a rough time then you should ask if they are willing to listen to you. Most people love it when someone confides in them, it shows that the person is willing to trust them.
>>16994160
Keep meeting new people. The more social you become, the easier it becomes to weed out the good from the bad. It takes time though, obviously. The introverts usually tend to be more trustworthy, especially if you coax them out of being total shut ins - then they become loyal and more fun in addition