Why is there no female equivalent of millions of young men dropping out and giving up on society?
>>16996915
Same reason why the meme is "TFW no gf" not "tfw no bf"
I love sitting through these adv shitfests because it's a window into a world I have no understanding of. It's almost hilarious how much you westerners suck.
See I'm Muslim, raised in the US, never dated or had any part of this sexual liberation crap.
>all women are whores!
>stop choosing bad women!
>good girls don't exist!
>all men are pigs
>stop choosing bad men!
>good men don't exist!
That's all this is, round and round.
What the hell do you even want from each other? What do you honestly expect? Because all I see are directionless people who are vaguely angry at the opposite sex about... something.
Seriously, I'm courting a few women for marriage right now. I see guys every day upset that they're still virgins at my age, and I'm proud of it because it means I have the right to a virgin wife. You think I even bring up what my hobbies are or ask about her interests? I don't give a shit. I don't care what she looks like, she doesn't eat American poison so she's not fat so that's good enough. Is she moderately religious and does she want to raise kids the same way I think kids should be raised? That's all that matters. The point of marriage is to have kids, raising kids is a hard fucking job, and I'm looking for a quality coworker not some hot slut that gives me butterflies in my stomach. Trust and love comes when we swap virginities.
All I can do is laugh while the west falls apart, you idiots did this to yourselves, both men and women.
>>16996978
That's rich coming from a culture where women are basically property.
>ugly eyes
>stupid looking nose
>black hair
>short
>no one likes me
>no friends
>asian girls will not even give me chance
>nothing but a college degree to look forward to
>must impress parents
>did I mention how stupid my eyes look?
Pardon my poor english.
You're not ugly anon. Maybe a different hairstyle would help. But you are by no means ugly ^-^
I actually think Asian boys are cute.
you are not ugly you assfuck, stop showing off douchebag
SE Asianfag here. I'm 100% Vietnamese but look Indian/Arab/Hispanic/insert brown people here. Your looks aren't your problem.
>no one likes me
Pick up a hobby, you'll eventually find people.
>no friends
>Pick up a hobby. Even local Magic games.
>Asian girls will not even give me chance
This should not be a priority at all. Focus on yourself, nigga.
>nothing but a college degree to look forward to
You're bettering yourself. Keep at it. Everything else will follow.
Stop being a lil bitch nigga, step up, and focus on yourself being happy.
Write a letter to someone who may never read it
K I'll start,
I know that we're very far from eachother and that we agree to not let that stop us from meeting new people, but it just might not work for me. Yes A is cute and she seems into me, but it wouldn't be fair to her because she's almost like a place holder for you. This situation is painful, but it feels like it will be so worth it
Remember hearing Tell Me A Tale on the late night playlist. Searched for a couple of days and couldn't find it.
A few days later you sent it to me out of the blue.
I held your hand too much. Felt like I did.
I wasn't an easy person to be around a lot of the time. I'm sorry for how things ended, and I'm sorry for the things I did. Took a good deal of time to accept that you really did try.
Not sure what kind of person I am. I don't know much of anything anymore. I'd presented myself as something I wanted to be but was too afraid to be. I'm trying, now.
I got used to loving you and not wanting to. I'm ready to move on, which is why everything is starting to feel real and scary again.
Take care.
Hey
I hope youre doing well with your music career. I remember the first time you played and sang to me, i will forever cherish that moment. theres a lot of things i havent forgotten and i hope you still remember. Like the night on valentines day when we were walking alone in the streets, holding hands while it snowed. Thank you for giving me good memories. I hope to meet you again very soon so you can see that i didnt break my promise
sincerely m
I had a huge fight with my boyfriend cause he wants to talk to this chick he used to like years ago, he has never met her in real life, he liked her but she rejected him when he was around 22. He's 27 now. A few months ago he ended the friendship because i asked him to but now he wants to talk to her again.
Around the time this girl was engaged he sent my boyfriend a text saying "i have sexual feelings for you" to which my bf replied with "shut up brat" and that was the end of the conversation. My boyfriend said she was just joking, that it wasn't a big deal. This girl cheated on one of her boyfriends with one of her friends. I told my boyfriend i didn't want him to be friends with her, but he still wants to talk to her, i asked him if he misses her, he said yeah and that he felt bad for having to end the friendship because of me.
I told him if he wants to be friends with her, he can do it, but he can't have me as well. I'm tired of this, I can't understand how someone he has never met in real life can play such an important part in his life.
You're in the right
You did the right thing, if he thinks its worth fighting for her, you should consider dumping him. He is clearly attached to the romance
>>16999730
ur not wrong. she crossed a line. you didnt give an ultimatum in my opinion you just said what you can and cannot deal with and left it up to him
Ask a guy who has literally tripled his kill count in the past year anything. A bit of background info:
>have high school sweetheart
>pick a specific university just for her
>she is planning on joining me there in a year
>remain faithful all year, despite the opportunities in residence
>she moves there with me
>dumps me almost immediately as school year begins
>tfw I wasted my first year being faithful to her
>spend 4 months depressed, drinking every day
>lose all my gains, grades start to slip
>fast forward to now
>pulled myself out of slump, went from 170lbs to 200lbs (15% bodyfat, starting my cut next week)
>start going out and talking to women
>every day, and every night
>literally. EVERY day. EVERY night.
>get rejected so many times that it stops mattering to me
>it all become a hilarious game in my mind
>developed a skillset
>become pimp
When my ex broke up with me two years ago, I had slept with 2 girls. Now, Ive lost count, it must be somewhere in the 30s or 40s by now. Some of you wont believe me, but Im drunk and dont really give a fuck. I want to give back to the community that helped me out of my slump, I want to help you guys make these social gains. Ask me anything.
>>16998860
>literally tripled his kill count in the past year
0x3 is still 0 OP
>>36650575
Its come in cycles for me. Ive had relationships that have lasted a month or so before I got bored and wanted to whore it up again. At least now I know what kind of personality traits I look for in a girl because Ive sampled so many
How do you not feel bad about hurting girls' feelings when you dump them?
That's always the hardest part for me. Makes me feel bad to make them cry.
serious question :(
>>16998529
Yes
serious answer :(
>>16998539
this is not good.
now what? suicide?
>>16998529
are you transgender?
>anon and girl been together for 6 years
>1 daughter
>i am 20 she's 21
>She left to work on a different province which is really far but good pay.
>Anon is now paranoid
>she's been there for a year now. ( We used to have sex a lot when she goes home/before she left. )
OP here, But now we only go for a round. and i really have this gut shit that she's dating / seeing anyone.
Where's the cheating evidence?
Sounds like you dont have evidence. Dont confront her unless you have solid evidence.
So I live in a pretty dangerous city, the crime is extremely high here and there are a lot of gangs roaming the streets. A year ago my friend was gunned down in the streets who was a comic book nerd, he was in my club and seeing his mother cry really set me off. I saw a homeless man being beaten and defended him/scared off the guys. Yesterday, my girlfriends moms car was stolen and I went to look for it. These prostitutes almost got in a car accident with me because they were speeding with their lights off. We found the van filled with junk and wood. We knew it was the drug house by our house. They started dumping it back there and they came out and took pictures of us. Then they said it wasn't them and that they would move the trash for $80.00. My girlfriends family paid it but I was pissed off. My city is becoming gentrified with the tech boom in our area coming in. But I want to do something about it in the meantime. I wrote a letter to city hall/district person and they said they will personally handle it due to my story. I reported the drug house and told my land lord who told me to not mess with them. She fears that our house is tapped, and I am trying to figure two things out now.
1) How do I battle this dilemma, I have city connections and some influence?
2)How do I check if my house is being bugged ? I know I can use some electric device to do it but I am not sure what.
There's really only one answer dude.
>>16998320
If only I had bullet proof armor and a mask. If only.
Literally become pic related. Be the actual Punisher. Get big and learn how to shoot a gun. Clean the streets of the filth and scum.
Girlfriend left me because I kept on getting this gut feeling she had cheated on me. Every time I brought it up to her she'd start crying. I never caught her in the act. Once we broke up she never talked to me again, it's been 5 months. We dated for over a year.
Do you people think she cheated on me?
lol no
>>16998289
Come on, why was she crying then? Why won't she ever talk to me again?
Dumbass
No one will believe me but I'm gonna have sex with a married woman very soon. I have to confess here because I can't keep it in me and need advice.
>>16998261
>No one will believe me but I'm gonna have sex with a married woman very soon.
Why will no one believe you? Married women cheat all the time, as do married men.
>>16998261
You are a peice of human filth and should kill yourself for not being alpha enough to find a single woman.
Hopefully the husband comes home and shoots you both.
You are honestly whats wrong with society, on teir with rapists and pedos
>>16998279
>You are honestly whats wrong with society, on teir with rapists and pedos
You're dumb. She's an adult, so is he. You don't know if the husband is already cheating or not.
If she wants to cheat, she's in a shitty relationship that had nothing to do with OP.
It was already shitty before OP, it will be shitty after OP.
Guys, I slept with a girl on the weekend, no condom, I didn't cum, and she has an irregular period. Last time she had it was like middle of last month.
How fucked am I? I'm sweating fucking bullets over here.
1/10
Beside the obvious "You should use contraception", I'd say you need to chill out and just wait. She could get the morning after pill. It's not as efficient after a few days, but it could still work. It is possible to get a girl pregnant without cumming. I do think it's more rare.
With irregular periods, it's hard to know when your danger zone is. It happens 14 days before her next period, and you don't know when that is.
You fucked up the second you touched her pussy with your dick without a condom . You won't know, have fun worrying about it until then ;)
How to you broach the subject of height with a guy you met online?
I'm 5'6". The guy I'm into is Chinese. I don't want to meet him in person before he is aware of my height - his wouldn't be a deal breaker for me unless he is like 5'3", which I highly doubt from his pics. He lives 20 minutes away, so I feel like it's going to happen soon.
I had a guy I was madly in love with online refuse to meet me because I was taller than him. Another guy I met online and met (flew 5 hrs) lied about his height, ended up being as tall as me, and made things hella awkward.
So sick of Asian guys being uncomfortable / lying about their heights. :(
Stop talking to manlets.
It's that simple.
>>16998163
How do I know if he is a manlet? I would guess from his pic he is somewhere between 5'5 - 5'10, but I don't feel awkward being like "hey... How tall are you?" And explaining how I'm tall for a girl.
>>16998156
>Meeting a guy online
That was your first mistake, why don't you go out and be social and meet people you don't have to make physical guesses and estimations about. If you want to know how tall they are, ask them. If you're tired of dating Asian guys, don't date Asian guys,
>I am not obese
>yet
>sleep schedule is out of wack
>don't know when or if hungry
>eat because I have to
How do you fix sleep schedule? Without relying on pills? I have tried music/tea but that just keep me awake..
Tfw this site disregards insomnia entirely..
My solution has always just been to not eat unless I'm hungry. If that means I only eat once that day, then so be it.
>>16998119
How..? I mean how do you supress the headaches..?
Can a 26-27 year old guy going to college do well socially? Like developing friends or dating women?
>>16998091
Does anyone else have personal experience with this?
26 is not old dude. Plenty of people your age and up in school.
But I'd just like to add that despite the early 20 year-olds and their youthfulness they aren't all making friends or even socializing that much.
I'm 20 years old and a few months ago I had an abortion on Valentines Day. I would have kept it but my SO didn't want it so I did what I thought was best. We're in a LDR at the moment. It all happened so quick and ever since then I've been an emotional wreck. I can't talk to my boyfriend about this since he pretty much lacks empathy and just doesn't understand why I could be upset about it, I get why though. I'm not doing great in college anymore and I just feel so alone. At the time of the abortion I was in his city and before I left I tried to commit suicide by overdose since we got into a heated argument and told me I killed this baby for a stupid reason. I had never felt so low in my life. I don't know what to do now. What should my next step be? I'm lost.. and I just wish to be a happy girl again.
A therapist? They exist to help people in rough times (including me).
Therapist for sure. You are not alone.
You're going to help an emotional wreck because you got and abortion and your pregnancy hormones are still in your system. This is experience is traumatic enough to some people and still being loaded on the hormones doesn't help. You need to seek help, but most of all you need to either get rid of the boyfriend or fix the relationship but to keep it sounds like a very toxic relationship. I mean really what would happen if it happened again? You chose that time not to abort? I'm sorry if i sound conflicted or mean but i truly am sorry for your lose but honestly I'm happy you didn't have it so you can truly see what a terrible person your partner has been towards all this. Please seek help and reevaluate your partner, I don't think this relationship is very healthy to start with.