Archived threads in /adv/ - Advice - 5650. page

Go to any uniform store and buy a back brace (the kind with straps that Velcro's around your torso, not the kind that looks like armor) if there are none near you buy online. It'll suck at first but it does get easier after a few weeks. Try to keep yourself busy.

>>16984878
You could suck it up and stop being such a little bitch. Pain is a part of life, get used to it.

Don't take the ibuprofen, it will hurt even with it and it is not good for the internal bits.

Those back braces will ease the pain a bit, but don't wear it forever. Your back needs to learn to support itself with muscles. The pain will go away in 3-4 days, maybe a week if you have been sedentary for a very long time. Wear the flattest shoes you can find (no heel), this will help you while doing prep. Heels are inherently bad for the spine (even 1/2 inch is bad).

Source: Former chef, now med student

Yeah, all the time. I ended up venting with a friend, helps talking about it. Sucks having to keep bottled up feelings.

She's a god damn knock out, I know when she's at the bar she gets hit on alot. She said she'll never cheat on me, but there's that nagging feeling in my head that she lies to me. I'm trying to keep it strictly physical between us.

>>16984828
My stance on it is that it's her loss. Just makes her a whore and I won't keep seeing her.

>>16984828

im in an open relationship so not really 'cheating' but yeah i think of her getting railed by other dudes.

>>16984732
You're still young and has had sex before in your life. I'd understand your concern if you were a 30yo kissless virgin.

Go out, pursue a relationship with a girl you find attractive. You have plenty of time, just don't waste it.

Only older girls are susceptible to settling down. If you don't want to be the one they settle with, then stay away from the older ones. Try hanging out near high schools more.

>>16984732

>How do I avoid becoming that guy girls settle down with after they whore themselves out?

Geez, I didn't know I had to be anxious about that too! I'm in a similar situation 24, broke up with my (first and only) girlfriend last year after 4 years together and I'm still single.

Dafuq is that english m8?

I'm 20 right now, and when I was like 17 I had a lot of depression problems, I still remember how I closed my self for like 2 years, without going anywhere and not talking to anybody except from family members, when I turned 18 I decided to continue my studies and finishing them. After all that I'm still working on my self, I'm not depressed anymore, but alot of things changed on my personality and beliefs, I read a lot on those dark times and it helped me, I also resumed contact with old friends and I'm going out more, I don't have any appearance issues myself, but you should care if people are going to laugh at you or something, go out your house, ia the only way you can find interesting things to do and also grow a more social personality, without that forget to ever get girls, you can't be a neet and have girlfriends. Right now, although is going to sound corny, I'm not afraid of anything anymore, I'm going to try whatever I want and won't care anymore about what people think, although I'll respect everyone.

I was gonna help but the thing is, there's so much to write.
I was the same, beta fag, wasnt fat but I was legit normie shit, listening to casual music, wearing casual cloths, casual style, interests everything.. I was basically a casual beta faggot, then I went psycho alpha. It took 3-4 years but I changed A LOT in every aspect.

so you gotta do the same, you gotta survive, become greater. after all it's a survival of the fittest and being a fat beta faggot isnt the type that survives.

Why do you grills wear makeup?

>>16984749
Because I feel prettier like that. I think it improves the way my skin looks and it makes my eyes look prettier.
Plus I do like putting makeup on - It's one of those rituals that makes me feel like I am taking care of myself, looking more feminine and pretty.

I usually don't wear much stuff, just a very light foundation and mascara.

>>16984749
To try and hide imperfections and feel less ugly.

Stick around, faggot. Its better then most other girls who've taken 20 cocks already. Depends on your preference tho, experienced or shy types.

Does she have big titties?

>>16984648
OP here, she doesn't have big titties from what I can tell. She hasn't worn any particularly revealing clothing. I'd guess average B/C titties.

I'd say stick with it. Hard to find people that have good conversations.

As you said, she's probably just shy and I imagine the more you get to know her, the easier time you'll have of holding her gaze.

As for the kissing, for most it just takes practice.

Make it clear that you do want to be married and with kids in the future.

>>16984602
Keep your opinion steady and don't falter. Some women try to test the waters with their bf by saying they're not interested in having kids whatsoever when they actually want them.
In the next year or few years she may change her opinion, but if she doesn't it's time to leave.

>>16984607

I did try to make it clear that I want to be married at some point when she brought it up a while back, and after I explained the legal benefits of it she seemed to come around at least a little bit. I think some of her thoughts on marriage and the like may stem from having divorced parents.

>>16984594
Computer science is way more employable

Thanks anon

>>16984594
Wtf is cyber operations?

Just an edge master

Women are objects though. Just find one you like that'll give you kids and stick with her. You'll change into a well adjusted normal male after you fall in love with her.

You sound like a bored human being, OP

>>16984468
Okay, so nobody here thinks it's possible to be happy without a woman and nobody gives a fuck about this subject, right ?

>>16984743
Fuck you /adv/ is a slow board you twat. If you're this impatient and intolerant with everything I can see why you're unsuccessful with women. Of course it's possible to be happy without women, do you know how I know? Because aside from even my own personal experience men have been living without women for thousands of years. You think you're the first man women have passed over? Get some fucking perspective.

You find something worth living for and you use your time to work at it. Like yourself? Work on your body and mind, lift and read books and all that other self improvement. You like helping strangers? Invest your time in volunteering and doing good things with tangible benefits. You like seeing other people suffer? Figure out how to make that happen. It's your fucking life and it's ending faster with every second that passes.

And even if you find a partner it does not negate from the importance of being happy alone. No one was in your head along with you in your childhood, or there with you when you have your first kiss or when your parents die or when you're living on the streets. It's just you, until you die. We all walk our path alone. It's unavoidable. So you can either bitch and moan to yourself the entire time or you can take pride in being yourself and accomplishing the tasks and bars you set for yourself. You achieve happiness by synchronizing yourself with the thought of your self - by finding inner harmony. And before you ask me how that's possible when you hate yourself because of your situation or what you've done or what you do or how you do it, all I can tell you is you don't know yourself,and you must. Spend more time alone. Prod and search your own mind in solitude. There are more mysteries in your head than can be found in all the world.

File: btfo.jpg (225KB, 682x600px) Image search: [Google]

225KB, 682x600px

>>16984468
>>16985144
This, OP you faggot.

I don't see the harm in it, unless you think they'd have reason to still hate you for whatever you did...

Don't expect to be their friend again, but yeah, wouldn't hurt to apologize and try to reconnect a bit.

>>16984388
Why not? Though don't be apologizing just so you can be friends again. If you genuinely sorry then just apologize.

>>16984388
Contact him privately (email or letter, not FB). Just say, without being too gushy about it, that you regret losing contact and would like a chance to learn what's new with him and to share some of your own stories.

Take your cue from whether he responds, and how friendly he is.

>>16984336
>I don't want my naivety exploited by less-than-reputable women.

Trust me, you kinda do.

>>16984381
C U C K
U
C
K

File: facepalm[1].jpg~c200.jpg (7KB, 200x200px) Image search: [Google]

7KB, 200x200px

>>16984403

>Fucking kids these days using that word when they don't even know what it means

>>16984326
Should have stayed in halls if you werent sure you'd stick out your course. Nothing you can do about it sorry.

>>16984326
Use craigslist to set up a stealth sublet.
>pro: might even earn a little more from the sublet than the cost of rent
>con: if you sublet to a shithead and he trashes the apartment, you're on the hook for his damages

>>16984326
Why'd you drop out? I take it you're American?

If you wouldnt be that type of person which posts that shit you just wrote on a random website like 4chan she probably would have less reasons to dump you fella

Tell her that you are afraid, and tell her why. If she wants to break up with you, she will do so, and you won't have to die a thousand deaths like this anymore: you can get on with your life. If she doesn't, she will reassure you of that, and then you won't have to die a thousand deaths like this anymore: you can get on with your life.

Either way, you won't have to die a thousand deaths like this anymore: you can get on with your life. Wouldn't that be nice?

>>16984821
>Tell her you're afraid

If you wanna be dumped do this especially.

What the fuck is going on with /adv/

am I the only one seeing this

>>16984270
Found the newfag

>>16984272
>newfag
not even close. I've been browsing 4chan on-and-off since 2006.