Hello /adv/
I'd like to ask you, how do you keep moving forward even in bad times in your life.
20 y/o
Im studying 3rd year in Electrical engineering. Things going pretty well there.
Kinda poor i guess but can afford to go out with friends.
Had gf year ako was with her for 2 years. Things didn't work out and we Split up im hooking up with random chicks ever since.
When im alone going from parties i feel to be empty inside.. Sometimes thinking about suicide like an easy way out. Dont want to talk about this with friends since i dont wana show that I have those kinda of depresions.
>>16985346
what im getting from this is
>my life is absolutely normal, in fact its even fine
>but when im alone i wanna kill myself
dont be that guy. this kind of 'depression' is imaginary, and its caused by over stimulation with other people. basically you are so used to being around people that its the only way you know to have fun, its the only thing you think of as fulfilling. so when you are alone for any reason even for a little while, you think you are depressed and need to kill yourself.
if you have money to go out with friends you arent poor btw. at all.
>>16985346
Talk to your friends. They're there to HELP you and SUPPORT you. It's a burden on them, but I can assure you that if they're really your friends then they'll take it willingly. Also maybe take a break from purposeless sex and spend some time pursuing a meaningful relationship.
>>16985355
Yeah I might be overthinking things.
But what should i do when im alone. For example going home from the bar. Got one hour left till im home. Got no good book around. How do i stop this kind of stuff. (phone games getting boring)
I just split up with my gf of 4 years. It hurts like hell.
I keep thinking about her and how hurt she must be now. I want to go back and say how much I love her, tell her sorry and try to make her feel better but I know I shouldn't and that it'll just make things worse. I'm in tears all the time. What hurts the most is that I helped this person come out of depression and trust people, she said I was her life and soul and now she most think the worst of me, maybe she'll never trust again the same way and it's my fault.
I just went on fb (my mistake I know) and I just saw a post by her that wrote something along the lines of "Some people are just cold and emotionless and aren't worth it"....it was a sting and all her friends agreed, people I used to hangout with, I feel like a monster.
What is the best thing to do at the moment? I can't stop thinking about her and I am in so much pain. I feel like I let down the person who loved me the most even though it had to happen.
Well why did it have to happen? Remind yourself of those reasons by posting them.
>>16985328
Well Tammy, the first thing you should do is nothing.
When we make a hard decision our first impulse is to go back or fix it with the least damage possible.
You must have had good reasons to break with her. Think about them without any judgement and, if you still agree with them it is time for you to seek distraction.
Medical operations hurt as hell when you wake up but they can save your life.
>>16985328
i always fantasize about one of my male friends coming over to mourn the loss of a recent relationship. id get him a beer, we'd play some mario kart, somehow id end up rubbing his feet and then sucking his dick.
then tomorrow we'd pretend like it never happened.
Alright u cucks, I'll need your help.
Recently I started to plan out the work schedule for a group of 5 for the month. Starting this month we are switching to a 8Hour Shift, but with 3 people in total a day, meaning 6-14;14-22;22-6.
How the fuck do i schedule it so 3 people are there daily out of a group of 5 but everybody still comes to ~160hours a month. Would love the help, ill post some infograpfics in the meantime
>>16985311
>alright u cucks, help me weith basic math
no.
>>16985311
Plsrespond.jpg
>>16985314
Come on bruh help me out here .__.
What's the point of working for a girlfriend if you have a tiny benis
Serious question desu
>>16985285
if a girlfriend is only sex to you, then just go fuck hookers and sluts. how tiny is your penis though? 4 inches is average and its about clitoral stimulation so there is that.
i-i mean... BAIT.
>>16985301
4.5 length x 2.5 around
>>16985305
Just hold your breath suring sex, Isaac.
Is there any other place besides saudi where stupid chicks aren't allowed to drive?
Fucking sick of their shit here.
>>16985257
North Korea
What advice were you looking for exactly?
>>16985257
I think Dubai, basically most sandcountries
Generally a fairly experienced casual smoker, but never smoked after studying.
Currently studying for an upcoming Stats exam. About to finish a study session and am feeling really drained - cannot concentrate any more.
I plan on smoking half a joint just to unwind before going to sleep. It is late, so going for relaxing walk is not an option.
This would be a one-time thing, not something regular.
>Does smoking (a small dose) of weed (skunk) influence your ability to retain the things you just learned?
IIRC, any type of chemical effect on your brain while it's trying to process and cement memories links those two together. That makes later recall associated with that chemical and it's more difficult to remember the information without it. So unless you plan on smoking before or during your exam as well, I wouldn't advise smoking now.
>>16985252
Does it affect my ability to retain information acquired earlier in the day? No.
Does it negatively affect my ability to retain after smoking? Yes.
Will it affect you the same way that it does me? Won't know tell you give it a go.
I'd smoke the full J unless you're trying to conserve.
>>16985268
I have studied some psychopharmacology at uni and according to my knowledge, associations (conditioning) does not happen from that quickly (smoking once) and so little (half a joint).
So that is not something I would be concerned about.
Have you tried smoking after studying before?
>>16985279
Studying while high is not possible, that I have tried. That is why I would do it after studying and before sleeping, so there is no important sensory input smoking.
Furthermore it is only half a joint (I just want to finish it - skunk smells when half smoked). Normally I'd go for a walk, but I cannot do that atm.
Any military or post military anons?
I have a question. About 2 years back I tried joining the military and mentioned to the recruiter that I experienced depression as a child along with suicidal thoughts, not to the point where I needed professional help, but that prompted the recruiter to ask me to get a psychiatric evaluation just to make sure everything was fine before continuing with recruiting me. I was convinced to give college a shot by my parents, so I ended up not going through with the recruitment process. I'm wondering if there is still an opportunity for me to join the armed forces? They did take my SSN at the time I went to the recruitment office.
>>16985206
nope. the military refuses to take people after your situation. you are fucked OP. wow what a dumb question. whjy would they take you
If it was documented you may be fucked, if it wasn't then you still can. This time be smarter and when they ask about your medical and psych history just say no to everything. They only know what you tell them or what shows up in a physical.
You have two options, if you're serious.
Your first option is to go to another recruiter or branch and deny it. This may put you at risk for fraudulent enlistment and getting kicked, or punished I believe.
Your second option is to be honest, get a psychological evaluation and a letter of good health, and go through with the process.
If there's no record of this happening, then you have a better chance. Think carefully about this. Especially if you go into a combat MOS. If you've ever had suicidal thoughts, the military won't help with that. At least not for the first week or two.
Wtf with all this names its cring, bring back 4chan anonmity all names giving me cancer
Happy April 1st faggot
>>16985172
Bazinga
testing
>gf is at shcool, im on internship (2 hr flight away)
>at school (when i was there) id go out 1 or 2 times a week, she would go out every other week
>now she goes out like 2 times a week
>She is invited to stoplight party (go dressed accordingly: red for taken, yellow for complicated, green for single
>tells me she wants to go in green to get free drinks
>i say no you cant do that
>she apologizes and says she wont go
also, i know she has my facebook password (somehow, never gave it to her.) cause one night on facebook i sent an insta model to my friend sayin "oh look how hot she is " etc. then the next day, my girlfriend mentioned her name and said "im not h like x" (i used the term 'h' for hot) when we were having an argument
i love her but these few things have been on my mind alot lately and its starting to get at me
pic related
>>tells me she wants to go in green
You are an adult. Date women who know how to act like adults as well.
Have some fucking standards.
>>16985129
Wow OP
The moment a girl would legit ask me for permission to pretend she's single is the moment I tell her that she won't be pretending.
Like, fuck man. It doesn't take a genius to sort this shit out.
>>16985129
Did nobody ever tell you how early 20s girls are all cheaters?
Can someone explain to me why 4chan suddenly looks like pic related on my browser, and each name field is filled with some randomly generated name? It doesn't look like this on my phone, and catalog/home page still look normal.
>>16985113
Because it's April 1st, moron.
APRIL FOOLS
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>>16985113
Well Cory, you may have downloaded a virus by accident. Try wiping your cache and local files. Also try using another web browser.
hi everyone, the new design on here bothers me alot. How can I get rid of it?
>>16985098
Idk I think its here for good. Also what is with all those names?
>>16985098
It's April 1st you fools
>>16985107
seems like 4chan got a new owner :/ This makes me sad somehow omg or it maaaybe got hacked. Who the fuck knows.
How do I get rid of it
I was involved in a car accident and am currently scared of driving. I called out of work yesterday but am shaking at the thought of working today. My employer has a policy of not calling out more than once as a new hire. Should I accept termination to stay home?
>>16984948
You're going to have to get behind the wheel again someday, anon. You're also probably going to be kicking yourself if you let this job go so easily. Be brave! Be careful! Use what you've learned from being in the accident to do better in the future. It can make you a better driver, if you let it.
>>16984961
Thank you. Will try to go to work at least and see if they'll let me go early.
>>16984974
>let me go early
Do you mean go home early this evening? Any reason?
new thread view with rounded preview images seemed to come on since last visit. it sucks.
the style setting doesnt seem to change it.
any way to turn this shit off?
No it's the cool, fresh and new look of 4chan :-)
>>16984906
>any way to turn this shit off?
I asked myself that the instant I saw it.
>>16984911
just what I want. even less information.
What's the most horrifying thing you've heard someone say?
I hate giraffes
"I like consensual sex in the missionary position for the sole purpose of procreation"
>>16984895
>tyrone, my ex is at the door
what are the optimal pics and order for a 6'1 /fit/ male to pull booty calls on tinder?
Shirtless pics
show off your best features
>>16984886
The first picture has to have only you for clarity
The other pictures should be good pictures of you with other people / in social environments, a party, whatever
Maybe throw in a picture of yourself somewhere. The beach, vacationing, etc
You probably want to avoid giving the impression that you had to take a bunch of pictures of yourself to set up your profile
Guys who try too hard are usually a turn-off, just pick flattering pictures that make you look like a fit, social, and cool guy
imo