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>Sitting in class
>Overhear some girl say "You support the faggots?
>Literally could not believe my ears

Shit guys she didn't even act embarrassed or lowered he tone or anything.
I legitimately like her so much after this, she seems so fucking based
Guys how the fuck do you start a conversation? I want to see if this was legit and if yes go on from there
Any advice on starting a conversation with a more or less stranger?

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So I've gone to see my current psychiatrist a total of 6 different times and of all those times I doubt I've been with him in his office for even an hour.

I usually go see him, very briefly describe how I feel and then he gives me a prescription in like 2 minutes.

Is this normal or should I go see a different psych?

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What is your opinion on the reacher/settler concept in relations?

When thinking about it I've been reacher last time. This time I feel like the settler and I'm feeling like going after a bigger catch after some time.

How can you be at peace as a settler? I'm not used to this feeling.

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I feel really guilty over this. My dad is a great guy and has never been inappropriate, I just keep fantasizing about treating him to me or having him want me bad enough to have sex with me.

He and my mom romp around a lot, they aren't gross or anything but it's obvious they see each other in a sexual way.

I keep fantasizing that he'd ask or that I would catch him staring or that he'd just start touching me and that it would go from there, but at the same time I know that would be bad and wrong.

Does anyone else feel this way about their dad?

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This class is a smaller sized lecture hall, about 80-90 people. I recently started bringing my laptop to class because most of the class is bringing theirs. I've seen several people with headphones in flat out watching Netflix during his lecture, and he had never said anything.
Usually I would work on an assignment from another class, because his lectures are extremely slow and it's hard for me to just focus on what he's saying without me doing something else in the background. Yesterday I didn't have anything to do so I was just on my laptop (in the very back, with sound muted), just on the web browser.

He then stops the entire lecture, walks over to me and slams my laptop down and then got in my face and told me to leave if I wanted to watch videos in his class and that he doesn't want me there. I don't know why he thought I was watching a video, but I guess it doesn't really matter.
About 5 minutes after he started his lecture back, he was transitioning to a new topic of his lecture and he asks if everybody understood the material he covered. He then points at me and says I obviously don't because I was watching a video.

Since the class was pretty large, I've heard random people talking about it around campus. I ended up sending him an email apologizing for disrespecting him and that it wasn't my intention, but I am afraid he is going to fuck with my grades now. The weird thing is that he didn't make the other 30-40 people put up their laptops.

I don't know if I need to do anything. Should I be worried about him targeting me?

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White, successful guy here.

How come I find it so easy to be confident and alpha around asian women, yet I can only rarely muster the same confidence around white women of my own race?

Dont get me wrong, ive slept with women from every background (which is behaviour im now ashamed of, but thats a different story); but I dont feel like I can be anywhere near as confident around white women. Maybe its just me, but they seem a lot more unapproachable.

How do I overcome this /adv/?

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What are some things I can do in my spare time t become a better person?

I have a lot of spare time this semester, and I would rather do something productive rather than play video games all the time. What are some things that I can do in my spare time that can really improve my life? I already work out.

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How do I relax? I dedicate almost all of my time to either studying, working on some project, or shitposting on 4chan (I don't consider this relaxing).
I feel as though I need to take some kind of a break. But how? What are some ways to just relax and rest for a few days?

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My girlfriend dumped me after months of me paying for an apartment for her and food for her (she paid internet and electricity) and now she wants to sign a new lease together just as friends.

she dumped me because "we're not right for each other and you trigger my mental illness when you get angry about things that have nothing to do with me" and that we want different things.

We had a fight because she wants an open relationship and I kinda don't, In the end I submitted and said "we can have a open relationship if its just about fucking, i don't want you to be romantic with anyone else but me"

i'm going to sign another lease with her because shes my only friend or person i even know in the whole fucking world.

I don't want to be alone, i'd rather anything than be alone. Everyone left me. I don't want to be alone again I literally cannot do it. the very thought makes me want to off myself.

am I a cuck? should I do this? I don't want to leave the city i'm in, but i'm not well enough off to sign a lease here alone.

we're lesbians if that makes any difference in your opinion

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Hi guys, was wondering your opinion on something.

Recently i think someone found out a secret of mine, and everyone may think i have a very weird fetish or no one at all. I'm literally so worried i feel sick. Would normies tell me if they knew? How could i test the water to find out if my friends new etc? Should i delete my facebook?

Thx anons :(

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Having a hard time /adv/
>Have best friend of 5 years
>we both get gf's
>still hangout regularly, but not as often, still best friends
>he dumps gf, I don't, I'm still totally in love and sure of my future with her
>he becomes social superstar and I have plenty of time with my gf, life is good
>he fucks up with a friend and looses his social life
>starts hanging out with me a lot more, making less and less time for gf
>I have college, work, and plenty of other obligations, I barely have enough time myself
>plans never work out with gf anymore, friend always makes it hard for me to leave when hanging out
>at the end of each day I've dissapointed one or the other, my gf understands and isn't upset about it anymore, but neutrally accepts that i'm an unreliable person.
>both sides are throwing guilt at me, and I already have a guilt complex, but neither side is verbally giving guilt, just making it obvious with body language and attitude.
>speaking with my best friend and telling him I need time with my love would make him feel betrayed
>my gf is the love of my life and that's the actual person I want to spend most of my time with

What the fuck do I do? I've been wrestling this problem for 6 months now, i'm no longer the same person. I have high ethics on not letting anyone down, and I don't know if I could talk to my best friend and tell him that I can't hang out as often.

I'll give background if any is needed. Thanks.

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Do cops use /soc/ to bust degenerates like me because I'm going to be purchasing MDMA from a guy that I gave my kik to on a /soc/ thread
Is there any chance it will be a cop
>sorry I'm a paranoid person

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why dont girls maintain eye contact with me in public? we normally lock eye contact for a second and they look away. they usually look down.

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Girlfriend texts me right after I jerk of telling that she's drenched from thinking about me inside of her all day and will be getting off work soon.

I am not horny in the slightest. We made plans yesterday, but I just wanted to chill, not necessarily fuck.

What do?

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I'm old and poor as fuck. Started to get my life together very late and that's an ongoing process. Currently work as nursing assistant in old folk's home and enjoy it a lot, so kinda thought nursing would be a logical next step. Made it through a lot of prereqs but this semester dropped anatomy because it was fucking ridiculous with work and everything else going on (like sometimes severe depression). I'm wondering if maybe I'm too lazy for school. It's kinda rough having things to do 7 days a week. Work, school, work, work, school.

And A&P is rough as fuck, but prof keeps saying if you can't handle this you're not going to be a nurse.

Wondering if maybe I could be an accountant or hospital chaplain or librarian or something. Maybe just become a nun?

Anyway it's time to register for classes and I feel lost as always.