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She is probably just saying that to make you feel better but at the same time blaming you for something she did ( Friendzoning ) you.

she just wants to keep you in her life as a back up plan, a lot of women do this, not sure though.

How the fuck are we supposed to know if you changed?

>>17004755

>back up plan

sounds like this. women never go through with hit though. when they break up with a guy they still dont go to their 'backup' they just go to the next guy, and the next.

you are there so that if she gets to 30 and people stop asking her out, she has you to fall back on.

i guess no one saw this, im gonna bump it a bit

Last try? i guess

All my friends are workmates. Have you tried getting a job?
Don't sweat it too much

>>17003464
>I know fat cells are more easily re-triggered
BULL FUCKING SHIT


>>>/fit/

>>17003469
It's true though. Once fat cells are formed, they never go away, so once fat it's much easier to become fat again. Literally the same with muscle.

>>17003464
I feel your pain but remember that even if she gets fit now it'll only buy you some time, once you settle they tend to not give a fuck anymore and get fat.

Doing what I enjoy and cutting out things I don't enjoy.
It's a constantly shifting thing.

Cycling in the sunshine.

Giving obscene amounts of money to charity.

Hanging out with friends and family.

Getting chances to prove how smart I am.

>>17003435
Meeting a girl who I deem dateable and getting on with her like a house on fire.

Playing videogames that provides a newish experience. (Hopefully No Mans Sky will).

Going to the gym and realising i can do exercises I couldn't do a year ago.

Welp, you said it guy, looks.
How tall you are and how strong you look matters a lot.
Also, how you act, talk and what you do has some sayings in what girls want from you.

If you REALLY are interested in how this stuff works,
I have only one thing to say that will change your life;
Red Pill

Good luck

>>17003401
Okay I am starting to get it, so stop acting like the funny guy and act more mature, don't always feel like I have to make a joke to move conversation on, I think I get your point anon

>>17003409
Yes, it sounds like you kinda do.
BUT! Being a funny guy is a great trait if you're actually funny. Girls usually love funny guys, but everything with moderation.
And there are of course many factors to take into account in these matters

Just wait m8, she probably cheated on her bf or some stupid shit. Don't over think it man.

Thats probably the last thing you want to do. Not an expert though. Seek legal counsel maybe?

You stuck your dick in crazy.. You're fucked.

He just wants a good time with the lads so let him have it.

Oh boo hoo. Driving for another two hours is baby shit. Plus it's only one day. Suck it up and just do it for the guys birthday. You seem like the girl who hates blowjobs but loves getting eaten out.

Plus it's your fault for commuting to a 2 hour school.

>>17003487
Can you give good advice in a more unpalatable way? I'm here to learn desu

>>17003348
>I have to see her everyday and hear her talk about how cute he is right in front of me
>she doesn't want to talk with me anymore or have anything related with me

coworkers ?

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>>17003348
Hi brother,
I have found myself in a similar situation to yours actually.
4 years ago, I lived in the same building as her, same workplace etc..
I saw her everyday, and she dumped me for a former friend,
also working and living in the same place.

It was the most difficult 6 months of my life, not joking.
Every new day was worse than the last, with watching them
being all gf+bf in front of me.
It got physical at some points with the former friend,
but it didn't make anything better or worse.

To get over it, you have to be OK with the fact that you're not together anymore,
and never will be. And I mean by that, you have to rid yourself of all the shitty
thoughts you get when thinking of her.
Now this isn't easy, and not something you can just suddenly do.
That is the psychological answer.

The other answer sadly is time.
After my horrible 6 months were over, it took me 3 more years to finally be alright
with everything that'd happened.
Venting to her or complaining to other people in general will not help much.

What have you tried doing so far?
There are of course some do's and don't's
Talk to us instead :)

>>17003360
Yes.
>>17003380
I don't think it's going to take me that long, she never was a good girlfriend.
I'm moving to a new place by the end of next month and I'm pretty exited about it, also I'm picking healthier habits, like doing exercise.
My girlfriend was very important to me, I never wanted to feel any physical contanct with anyone until I met her, we developed very strong feelings for each other, and I compromised with everything she wanted, and suddendly everything went downhill. I don't like blaming people, but it has always been her fault.

Reading your experience made me have some hope back, so thanks a lot :)

why would we want to know anything that a beta faggot has to say?

don't think of yourself as a beta faggot. that's what beta faggots do.

Which is the worst?
Beta faggot or Beta-turned-omega faggot?

It's just your biological desire to mate anon. You're a dude. We're built to pump and dump to some extent (more to it than that).
Treat your gf well and have sex with her and it passes.

>>17003307

You'll get over it. Or maybe you won't. All I know for sure that if you seek out that other girl again it'll be nowhere near as good as you imagined.

>>17003307
First of all, if you have been together 2 years and are living together, you should be doing things like that rrip as a couple. If your parents don't think of you as a couple, something is wrong.

Second, you will ALWAYS see other grils and be tempted. Growin up involves not acting on temptation.

>>17003273
There's no easy way to do this, it's a shit scenario. All I can recommend to you is stop doing their dishes, instead get a box or something that you can put in your kitchen, and when they leave dirty dishes around move them into the box. When they ask why say it's because it annoys you when you can't get to the sink/counter because of their stuff. They may think you're weird but whatever. Good luck.

p.s. don't know how you found these people, but if they are your friends then you could try working the guilt route, i.e. 'look guys, I don't want to be an arsehole but I seriously hate living in a place this messy, please help me out.'

>>17003283
I may try this. But that doesn't help the fact that the kitchen is a fucking mess. The stove and floor is covered in patches of oil because they don't clean up after they cook. They don't respect me enough to listen when I ask them to pull their weight.

Don't clean their dishes. Get your own plates, cutlery etc. and fill a tub with hot water to wash your stuff in.

welcome to real life kiddo

>>17003208

it's not getting better unless you like your job

but you've got a chance to develop a good work ethic, so take it as a challenge

can you not ask them questions? I always ask when I don't understand something, because it benefits both me and my employer - little less speculation, little more action

how old are you?

haha anon, why do u think people kill theirselfs ... fucking life sucks unless u are healthy, rich and good looking...

>>17003187
>a reputable source
and that would be?

>>17003187
>How do I be forward without overdoing it?
You don't have to be if you have game. It's all a feel thing. It's really not that hard to tell if a woman is into you. If you think she is and the right opportunity presents, you go for the kiss. Worst that can happen is she rejects you.

>>17003205

Okay dial it back a bit there bro, I need to be more forward when trying to convey my intentions but I don't want to be so forward that they freak out.

Yes it's illegal. If you are not dependent on him and you knowingly give your SS to him so he can get government $ fraudulently then you can be convicted of a felony. WTF has he ever done for YOU?

>>17003165
You're an adult. Stay the fuck away from his antics. You don't want to fuck up the beginning of your life with the mistakes of his past.
Don't let him fuck up your track record, what he's basically doing is identity theft. And by complying you're just as guilty of fraud.

>>17003165
Yes it is illegal. He has to be able to prove he provides more than one-half of your living expenses for the full year.

And believe me, when he suddenly develops a college-age dependent that was never there before, the IRS is going to be curious.

Things were so bad with the old gf that you left. If you go back to her, further down the road you won't have either one.

That's what I though. My friends tells me that since a long time, I think I just don't want to accept it inside my heart..
You're right, thanks

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>>17003159
Simple, ask them to duel each other in a boxing match, the one left standing will get to be with you.