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The way your metabolism works, eating at a controlled very regimented diet is always better than trying to eat noting at all.

But I guess you could always Christen Bale it (he a genetic freak and has an absurd and very malleable body type though), but there's no guarantee it will work.

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>>17133662
One of the fastest method of losing body weight is to not eat. But this will switch in your body "starvation mode" on and it will be very unpleasant. You will lose muscles first, probably your teeth will go worse with hair and other symptoms will show up as well.

There are even more dangerous ways *cought DNP cought*, but don't even thing about it anon.

Why do you need such a act anon?

DNP ALL THE WAY BROTHER

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This thread looks promising.

She'll get over it.

>>17133610
Just tell her your friend was using it and he left. He left it on to make you look like a pervert.

>>17133440
Either people are open to the idea, or they're not. You can't force them to change their mind.

>>17133512
This. There is no way to "open a person up" to something like this. You're wired for it or you aren't, and most people aren't.

>>17133440
you should break up with your girl friend if you are cheating on her, you feel like a dirtbag because you are acting like one. find a girl who is into polygamy or open relationships, then have all the open sex you want.

Well... technically you cheated. If she takes you back she's never going to trust you to flirt with other girls again.

Let her cool off and give her space while she decides how she feels about your fuck up.

I don't know, I'm pretty suspicious of people who don't mind flirting and stuff. I guess she was only pretending to be a "cool girl".

>>17133383
Was she actually okay with you flirting with other girls? Maybe she only said she was because she was afraid of losing you if she seemed too controlling. Then you kissing another person crossed the line.

nervous and tired

think I'm going to go for a bike ride and try to chill out for a bit

I feel very calm, but I'm not sure it's a good calm

Calm before the storm type shit, or maybe it's nothing.

How are you, OP? Did you go outside and feel the breeze on your face today? Ask your mother how she was? Let us all know.

>>17133323
I finally got a phone today after not having one for years so I'm pretty excited.
My mother is quite well.
I live in texas so its hot as fuck outside.

>>17132172
By practicing, obviously. Try to surround yourself with people with whom you can talk out loud as if you were putting things down in writing. You'll eventually end up building confidence. :-)

>>17132172
idk, i have the opposite problem though, I'm a decent conversationalist in person but online communication is difficult for me. and forget like tinder and shit. i can write a paper though.

I have the same problem. Double bachelors (one in English, one in an actual major) under my belt but most of the time when I talk I sound like a dumb bro.

Not thinking about what I'm going to say before I say it helps. Turns out that if I shut off verbal filter I say sound way less stupid.

>>17131889
i say u r a moran. dat girls are the best! i gave my gf dnp so she could lose weight and boy do i regret it.

>>17131889
>How am I an asshole?
Well you left someone because of conflicting standards and preferences of appearances, to start. Your standards of attraction clearly didn't match her standards of attraction, which means you must be the superficial asshole who can't be attracted to someone despite their physical flaws and disparities.
You have standards that you adhere to, and she didn't match that, and you look like an asshole for not accepting her regardless of her physical appearance, because she believes you should appreciate her no matter what she looks life. So sad. Not a complex issue.

Assuming this isn't bait: you're not in the wrong for not finding her attractive, but you certainly didn't handle this like a mature adult.

I am probably loosing it, but I have followed my gut to be friendly and invite her to hang out with some friends. She is busy then(Bros graduation and finals, just a bad time to arrange stuff.) but we agreed to do something soon, but it ended with me telling her to text me when she wants something, and she replied telling me to do the same.


I am probably a bit hopeless though as I am kinda still hoping that she will reach out to do something. Though I know it won't happen

I'm talking to her and it doesn't seem like it's going well. My body is cold almost to the point of being numb. Fuck, this sucks.

Reading all these articles on the USD collapsing on the 28th has me feeling like total shit and i'm not sure if it should.

>>17131091
Because they want you to stick around to fluff their ego

no contact is the only counter rejection. They're telling you they don't want to have sex with you, but want you to still want to have sex with them.

>>17131091

because it ruins the validation aspect of being asked out. if you were part of their life to any degree beforehand it makes them think/realize that all they had going for them was being a potential romantic partner. men dont need much in a romantic partner other than someone to be attractive.

while tihs isn't entirely true or real or logical, it boils down to them thinking you only cared about their looks. they cant understand that men just dont have time for 10000 casual female friends. it would make finding an actual romantic partner nearly impossible. so even if they are the coolest most fun girl in the world, it just slows men down.

they see it as you thinking you were only afte rtheir looks, and as much as girls love being attractive, it makes them feel (or 'realize' in some cases) that they have nothing good to offer besides their looks. they arent a wholesome person. they arent an interesting person. they arent worth being friends with or being relied on. (or in some cases, they realize they arent that epic teen movie queen Bee girl that all guys pursue endlessly)

>>17131091
Aren't you the one acting butthurt by going no contact? Unless you've told her straight forward that you're going no contact then fuck her she's a child.

"People can't be trusted."

I think that's the root of your sadness right there.

>>17130770
just talk to random people on the internet. This is a good start but IM apps are better.

Why don't you trust people?

>what's your honest opinion on a 19 year age gap?
There's something wrong with one or both of them.

>>17128554
you think so? care to elaborate?

bump?

>>17134348

'hey hows it going' is how most people do it. then wait for her response. then respond.

>>17134354
Anything else that's normal like that?
Every time I try this or "what's up" I ALWAYS get a "nothing hbu" or something similar.
I'm just sitting on 4chan giving anonymous people advice, do I lie and say I'm doing something interesting or what

>>17134348
Get to da point "If I'm being honest I really enjoy talking to you, what are you up to?"

>>17134278

sounds like all your focus is on your brother.

my advice would be to break up AND move out.

Moving out should be your first priority

Your girlfriend sounds like shit, but she is right about you paying too much. I mean jesus, I own a 1 bedroom apartment with utilities included for $850. I know there are different currencies, but that still sounds expensive to rent out a room occupied with kids already.

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>>17134106
>is only 25
>thinks he's old
>thinks not having been in a relationship at this point in his life is anything other than an advantage.

>>17134117

What are you talking about? Once you turn 30, you are basically dead if you aren't fucking wealthy.

>>17134106

i think the issue is you want a 'relationship' which is kind of an abstract vague almost imaginary concept, especially to you. you are wanting something specific it seems and dont realize that what you should pursue at best is just natural human contact.

>what woman would want a guy who whasn't had a relationship by this point?

do it right and she wont even know til its too late.

>is it possible to catch up

im gonna vote yes. i ahd a roommate. he was an 'okay' looking guy. the most '5' guy i had ever seen in my life. maybe even a 4 (definitely on a bad day) but never a 6.

he had literally never had sex before, and had only ever made out with a dude. i think he had a 'gf' in highschool but htey only held hands so do with that what you will.

anyway one day he brings home this really hot chick, a legitimate actual model (theres a lot of those around here) that you've probably seen if you've been to the mall in the last 3 years or so.

she was an 8 on a bad day id say. she met him at a bar, they hit it off, dated for like six months.

i have a large copy pastable text of hwo to meet girls and hwo to deepen relationships etc. but first thing im going to need is a picture or two of you and a realistic answer of the quality of girl you would 'settle' for.

Do some home exercises until you build up some muscle and experience so that you don't feel so out of place at the gym. Maybe read up on how to use the equipment or stuff like that.

>>17134095

have you had a free PT session? most gyms offer them when you sign up. perhaps also consider just saving up and paying for a personal training session (50ish dollars give or take).

>BUT ANON I DONT HAZ MONEY

in 4 months you could have saved 50 bucks (12.50 a month) so just make the effort to save 12:50 a month for the next few months.

you can also try to find a gym friend that will waste more time than not.

having a PT show you what to do helps. i wouldnt have been able to go without that guidance.

If you're uncomfortable about your body, trying choosing the least busy time to go. I go at 5:00 a.m. and it's usually dead in there. And remember, no one really cares about how you look; they're trying to work on themselves. It's only an hour and it will pay off immensely.