I was friends with him for a long time. We don't talk anymore because of some misunderstanding and because we're both have big egos that neither of us wanted to say sorry first. I met him again two days ago and I felt so heart breaking. I don't know I never considered myself to have any feelings for him so let alone loving him. So what is that? It's just like every where we went together reminds me about us and recall all the memories.
We met up with our friends days ago and when he said good bye I just couldn't look into his eyes.
Why so?
He's leaving the country for good (he got a good job) soon and our group was meant to meet up to say goodbye to him.
I don't know what to do now I'm feeling like I'm losing something that I don't even have?
Bumpppp
Be the one that says sorry first.
>>17138037
Dude it's not as easy as it sounds
>tfw 5'6
>5'7"
>5'9" gf
>gf likes pointing out when I'm getting checked out
>people have literally told me they respect and look up to me
Your height is not your problem anon.
Stop buying in to bullshit memes because you're too lazy to fix everything else in your life.
>>17137986
What's wrong with 5'6? I felt offended
I'm 6'4". You jus need confidence breh
So an acquaintance of mine wants to sell a vehicle with fucked transmission, carmax wants to give him 300 but he wants 1000 out of it. What should he do
BUMP
What the fuck kinda advice thread is this
fix transmission
/endthread
>A guy around the age of 18 is having a bad day
>He comes home and a 5 yr old family member is annoying him
>She annoys him to a point where he yells at her and pushes her with force and she falls on her back.
just sibling love.
>>17137907
Anyone who is capable of turning their physical aggression onto a 5 year old child has some serious, serious problems issues.
not completely related, but when i was in the last year of primary school ( i was about 10-11 i think) one day i went to go to the bathroom as normal but while i was taking a piss 2 kids who were much younger ( probably 6 or 7) started trying to open the door of the cubicle where i was pissing. cus my school was retarded they didnt have locks on the cubicle doors so my only option was to push the door.
this went on for a minute or so until they almost got the door open (by this time id finished my piss) so i kicked the door as hard as my young self could.
long story short when i kicked the door one kid had his hand in the door frame trying to get in to the cubicle. like 2 of his fingers got broken and supposedly he had to get plastic surgery on gis hand or something.
my punishment was i had to miss end of school prom ( but fuck that anyway lol)
so yh personally i still feel i was in the right, what else was i supposed to do lol
Hi, I'm 20 years old living in florida and I was wondering how it would be possible to move out of my house and into an apartment by myself. I do not have a job yet, but am searching for one currently. Is there anyway I could move out the moment I secure a job? I want to be out of here ASAP.
depending on your reasons for wanting to be out of there asap you might be able to find some government/state assistance with it. Unfortunately a lot of places want a security deposit and first months/last months rent up front so getting one as soon as you find a job likely wont happen until you get a few paychecks.
>>17137861
You can only move out if you can afford to, can you afford to?
>pro tip
>if you can't answer with a yes then you can't.
>doesn't have a job
>almost definitely doesn't have any sort of savings
>probably doesn't have any simple skills or knowledge like cooking and cleaning either
>basically nothing to indicate that you'd be a good tenant
>wants to live on his own
Okay so I have been talking to this guy for about 6 months and have been dating for maybe about 3 months. He is 23 and I am 24. Everything has seemed fine until today. He didn't text me till later in the day and it was a response to something I had said.
I saw him yesterday and he said he noticed I seemed more affectionate and I asked if it bothered him then and he said no. I said last night through text that it seemed he was getting less. He said maybe and then said he didn't know if he liked me enough to continue. He said his feelings weren't growing for me anymore..
I don't understand because last night he said he liked me and he wanted me to meet his parents yesterday. I asked him if he would let me know what he decided and he said yeah.
I don't know what to do I don't want to lose him.
He is the nicest guy I have ever been with. I'm really torn up about it. We have so much in common.
Any advice?
>>17137851
Stop over analyzing.
Either he's fucking with you or he was busy.
>>17137897
But how would be being busy make him not able to grow his feelings toward me?
>>17137897
Also he's really honest with me so I think he would just tell me he's busy.
I completely lost any sexual desire, my libido has been annihilated. This happened slowly and gradually but even at this point my most depraved fetishes don't do anything for me.
What do
>>17137827
How often do you beat off to those depraved fetishes?
Stop with porn altogether. Never fap unless raging boner. Don't worry about it. It'll come when you need it to. Your penis just needs some time off.
>Go get your heaviest belt
>Lay your nutsac on the table
>fold the belt in half
>whip your nutsac 40 times as hard as you, beating it like you would to kill a rat in a sack, filling the room with the sound of the leather cracking down over and over and over
Is this mold?
>black mold
you're already dead niqqa
I think its a wall
>>17137841
But it was not fuzzy and doesn't smell like black mold does
Hi /adv/. I've been going through some really stressful times these past few months and i've gained 15 pounds within a month from binge eating. I can't control myself. I used to be 160 pounds and thought that was overweight, but now i'm actually disgusting. How do I stop and what can I do to keep the weight off? Preferably a month from now? Thanks, and sorry if this was the wrong place to post, don't know how /fit/ would react to a post like this.
Oh god... Gonna hang here out of interest. 5'7" 180 lbs reporting in. I should be 140 though...
are you male or female?
>>17137820
Make more time to walk, the easiest and least time-efficient way to burn calories. See reddit's bodyweight routine and once you get sorta fit, get a gym membership.
If binging is hard-wired in you, look up the warrior diet. Basically it's binging once a day, and not thinking about food at all most of the time.
I've had my throat filled with phlegm for 3 days straight, haven't slept at all from uncontrollable coughing/gagging. Have tried everything, even drinking vinegar.
Anyone know how to get rid of this damn phlegm?
You have ebola.
Eat acidic fruits
>>17137807
been drinking only orange juice for three hours
What advice do you have for a poor, stupid 18 year old who doesn't know what to do with his life?
Basically, from a poor family. Been poor all my life. Recently got a job, working part time making $8 an hour. Graduating high school in three weeks. Now, I just barely met the requirements for graduation. Just barely. I have a 1.4 GPA and my ACT/SAT scores are low as shit. School was hard for me. I was accepted into a community college which my parents will help me pay if they can, but all of the money from my job will be going to it. I feel like I'm too stupid and will fail classes in college.
College starts in three months and I have absolutely no idea what I want to study. I've been thinking about it for years, nothing interests me. I have no hobbies. I've played sports and I hated them. I tried to learn guitar for years, never got the hang of it. Could play the violin as a kid but it bores the hell out of me now. It amazes me how most of the people in my grade already know what they want to do with their life, and have multiple hobbies that they enjoy and are good at. I just feel like nothing's for me.
>>17137734
If it helps, nobody your age knows what they want to do. Most of their career path decisions are completely impulsive and they will almost certainly be changing it at some point (maybe even several times). I know that wasn't any real advice, but I hope it helped in some way.
Try a trade school.
HVAC, welding, plumbing, auto repair, etc.
>>17137755
Pretty much this.
Started working at UPS during high school and while going to college. Two years of college decided after 3 major changes that I dont like school. Now im a driver.
Lifes strange after high school but not definite. Find yourself in a positive way in the coming years.
I've been carefully picking my words for the last years and it got me nowhere.
I was always silent. I lost all friends.
I'm trying to be more open and meet new people now.
After some time the notion that I have nothing to say was gone but now I feel like sometimes I'm a little awkward because I'm not very skilled in conversations and still pretty weird.
Is this the right road I'm heading down? It's better to communicate and be a little bad at it instead of saying so little you can't make friends right?
Or will it scare people away?
You'll get better at it the more you communicate with people. Communication is a skill and like any skill, practicing it improves it. What good is wit if no one can hear it?
Seems like you'd benefit more from being social. Just keep at it and it'll come naturally.
Witty but silent only works if you have a lot of confidence.
Outgoing but awkward gets more sympathy than silent and reclusive.
If you're trying and just trying to be honest with you are (In other words, don't put on some fake ass facade you ripped off from some movie or some shit.. and yes... I've legit remember a kid try to do this back in highschool... he literally got thrown in dumpsters becuase of it... I met him again like 5 years after... he got ripped and got all dude-bro-ey, still the biggest tool i've ever seen), most decent people will see that you're trying and will cut you some slack/sympathy.
And communication is a skill you pick up over time. Just keep forcing yourself to do things you're increasingly uncomfortable with, and eventually you'll gain that comfort and do them as second nature.
It's just like working out your muscles, you need to keep things diversified and always ramping things up, otherwise you're going to stagnate and never actually improve.
How do you deal with being disappointed, abandoned or betrayed by almost everyone you know?
You care to much.
>>17137500
You have two options.
Either yell at them so they understand why you're disappointed in them, or bottle it up and drink.
Hello, total newbie in the neighborhood, but a newbie killing for some advice.
You see, I used to date this one girl, pretty nice, pretty cute, we chatted daily, and shared a lot of common intrests. She was so great that I started crushing on her and the I confessed her.
That was a huge mistake, it all turned into a really toxic relationship that didn't even lasted a month, she even ended by replacing me with my best friend for some reason, and tortured me for a while because she still wanted to be my friend for some reason, but was constantly distching me.
Now, my issue here is that, after a month or two, she has started messaging me on my phone, and not little, friendly messages, no, THIS ALL STARTED WITH HER SENDING ME 29 GUILT TRIPPING MESSAGES.
She says that she wants to be my friend, that she still cares about me and the stuff we used to be, but I don't buy it, I hate her, she has hurted me a lot, she's a monster of a person.
I tried to tell her very nicely that I wasn't up to keep speaking ot her, but, no, she sent me other 20 messages, wanting to call me so we can solve things "like people".
How do I tell her that I'm tired of her bs without hurting her? Because, I'll hate her with every particle of my body, yes, but I'm not a huge jerk like she has been with me all this time.
I've got many more messages from her this last hour, even if she told me that she was tired of speaking to me too. Am I the only one who has the feeling she's going full psychopath on me now?
PS: Again, this is my first time around, so, in case I screw up a reply or something, I suck @ forums!
Tell her to go fuck herself. Then stop replying.
Stop being a bitch. It's time to sack up and tell this bitch to fuck off. She is manipulative and a cancer in your life. Also, your friend is weak for dating her. Cut her out of your life completely.
>>17137499
>it only lasted a month
Why does she care so much?
What eye color do I have?
I've always been told I had green, but this doesn't look green to me, does it?
>>17137484
Its blue-brown, you almost had brown eyes.
>>17137484
It's every color in the lighter shades an eye can be.
I wish I had eyes like this. You can make either color more apparent by dressing in colors that complement it.
>>17137522
>>17137522
Under every brown eye is blue, that's how I determined it was blue-brown, if you check out the results for the new brown to blue eye surgery the "after" usually have a bit of brown in it.