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adopt a child

In the mirror.

>>17140880

Not what I meant, and I doubt they'd let a single late 20's dude adopt a child. That's asinine. And even still, the legal shit that requires is ridiculous

anybody?

>>17140672

It's always a tough situation when your mind has got you all messed up.

Sadly you won't know if she is cheating, or not. You'll just have to trust her for the week that you're gone. Realistically she would continue to cheat on you when you return, so just wait the week.

However follow your gut. Your gut usually does not lie.

>>17140724
the first month we dated she broke up with me and fucked someone the next day. ( i got revenge, not the issue) whenever i bring it up she says she has changed and that shed never do it again and she knows that im who she wants.. but im just not trusting after that happened. if i say something she calls me insecure. i know that i cant know for sure but i feel confort knowing what shes doing and when she texts back all day but im still worried. and its only my second day away and it makes my stomach hurt it bothers me so much.

Depends on what do you want to attract

Step outside yourself.

Care about what people have to say and actually be interested. Some people like "weird" but not everyone will.

Dont say anything until she does.

If its just a link to goatse wiyh nothing that identifies it as something you wrote then blame it on a spambot.

Otherwise find a new job lol

>>17140594
I wrote it on a list of anime recommendations for her. Maybe she hasn't looked it up yet. I can just apologize. Maybe?

>>17140609
I'd probably lie and say someone helped me compile it and they slipped it in and I didnt catch it until afterwards

Im a liar tho

On the internet

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>>17140552
i used to have a gf like that
some nights i still see her in my dreams

>>17140566
Shy girl or social butterfly?

b

>>17140516

>"I don't do relationships" .. then tells me I'm the "best person he's ever met"

He is either playing you to get between your legs or maybe scarred from that past relationship. But as it stands you're just a fb.
First thing is what do YOU want out of this?
Was he seeing someone when you two kissed and hooked up? Were you?

He sounds like a total douche.
>Exclusive
>Love
>Can't commit because don't "do" relationships lol
And then he feels apologetic so he knows he was in the wrong. The onus is on him to correct wrongdoings. If you crawl back to him after he was in the wrong following his being an asshole, then he'll lose all respect for you and you'll probably lose some self respect.

If he contacts you, fine. If not, well, there are other cool guys out there without fucked up ideas about relationships. Tons of normal guys. Thousands. Guys that won't sucker punch you at the last second with bullshit like he did.

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>>17140482
fap and then decide who u see ur self marrying, and who u see ur self fucking for fun.

>>17140505
I don't have enough pics of girl from far away to really fap to her without having to use my imagination to fill in what I don't know. I could honestly see myself with either, and I guess fucking my current gf for fun more but only because I have no idea what new girl is like sex wise. She could be more into it than my gf, she could hate it for all I know. Either way, sex is a second priority.

>>17140425
>friend with benefits
proceed to bang her as usual
after bang hold her and ask her
Baby, I think I accidentally have fallen in love with you? What are you going to do with me now?

In the worst case scenario she will call cops and claim you raped her :-)

>>17140469
Whoa, omg no don't do this
Pro tip: communication. Don't just drop hints. Don't act like that. Lay it on the line.
Say something like "hey, have you ever thought of getting serious with me? It's unexpected, but i really like you a lot. Otherwise, we can just continue on like this." Idk tweak it to your strengths, whatever

>>17140469
confessing love after sex is the worst fucking thing you can do.

>>17140424
Would you really want such an ugly girl that nobody flirts with her?

What do you want her to tell him? "My sophomore/junior boyfriend doesn't like that we're texting"? Is that really the non-cuck alpha male impression that you're going for here?

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>>17140424

>how do i NOT be a cuck?

"Cuck" is a 4chan meme. Its not real life. Real life is not a meme. Stop.

>what's the best step to take?

If she is a smart, mature, trustworthy girl she will set up strict boundaries with the other men that try to hit on her. She won't need your help with this.

If she is a shitty, attention seeking immature girl she'll let these guys continue to hit on her and will probably try to hide it on you so she can ride the high for as long as possible. Maybe even cheat on you.

That's it, dude. Its not your job to drag her back to your cave and fend off the other men hitting on her.

Its up to her to commit to you and if she won't then you're wasting your time.

Tell HIM to stop doing it.

>>17140239
Yea, it's time to break up. Do you see yourself carrying this mans children?

If you're having fun for now, by all means, continue. But this is going nowhere.

That's weird. Never trust a guy with fetishes. Me, I have no fetishes

Weird. I have a foot fetish and that's just gross. Jesus man.

>>17140158
smoke meth

>>17140160

Tried it. It just gave me really bad anxiety so I occasionally take ephedrine + caffeine whenever I need a boost.

Have you been properly diagnosed with it? Had a brain wave scan and everything?

What are your usual excuses? You can always say things like "my mom is making dinner for me at home, sorry" or "I have a lunch date with my (family member) today, I can't". People might be more understanding if your excuses include family members.

If they start getting mad over how often you blow them off, maybe you should tell them you're actually diabetic? I'm sure they'd understand. Best of luck OP!

Why not just go to the bathroom and inject insulin real quick?

The better question is why are you ashamed of it? Being a type 1 diabetic isn't like being a heroin junkie or someone who got lung cancer from smoking. This is a disease that you just happen to get.

>>17140116
This.

I am a heroin enthusiast; shooting up in a bathroom stall is easy, and only takes a minute, or two, if you prepare.

>>17140075
Go.

If you feel like a faggot, go get a new haircut, go buy a nice suit and some shoes and just go.

>>17140075
go, obviously. just make some effort and be prepared to answer the "what are you up to" type questions

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>>17140107
Why go though? What if its another bad experience for me? I already did all that stuff anyway just in case, but it still didnt not make me an ugly pos

>>17140047

this isn't technically 'advice' but what you are going to realize is that literally everyone loses their parents. its rare to out live them. its not the natural order. you are not goign through any thing unique. you are not going through any thing that everyone else doesn't go through. you go through it earlier than many. later than some.

that isn't to say i dont feel for ya. i was in the inverse situation (lost my dad) and it sucked the sucker for sure.

but something isn't beautiful because it lasts.

your mother didn't raise you hoping you'd stop living when she died. she fully expected you to move out soon and live your own life and just try to let her be a part of it. to give up on life becuase a parent dies would be a mistake.

and it would stop you from achieving what you learned most from her, which is to be a good parent. you still have that to look forward to. and one day you'll die and your child will be as sad as you are. its bittersweet. but its what makes life so interesting.

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My case is different because my mom died when I was so young. She passed away from cancer when I was 6. At the time it didn't hurt me too deeply because my parents were divorced, I hardly spent time with her and at the time I couldn't even process what was happening.

But as I grew older, it was clear how much it tore away at my soul. My dad also shut off from us to cope in his own way. He went on business trips often and left us (2 brothers and me) to fend for ourselves. When he was home, he played video games all the time and rarely cooked for us or ate with us even, just left us to play games or play outside. Over the years the death of my mom processed slowly. So, it hit slowly over time rather than all at once like it may be for you.

All I can say from my experience is, it hurts and it will stay with you forever. But you will recover in time. Like they say, time heals all wounds.

Try to also take a lesson from this. Remember to appreciate life so much more because of this. Make sure to not get involved with unhealthy coping mechanisms like drugs or alcohol, just let it hit you and learn to effectively cope with it on your own. I promise it will get better in time

>>17140076
>its bittersweet. but its what makes life so interesting.
I was with you up until this, lets cut the crap. People die because they're forced to, not because they want to make life interesting.

I dig crazy chicks yet I have no idea how to meet one.

Most likely that they're already at or near full capacity, so they'll ask you a few questions or get you to fill in a questionnaire.
They'll only take you in if they think you are posing a serious threat to your own life or to damaging the lives of others.
Also bear in mind these places aren't comfy recovery clinics, they're a hell on Earth full of people running around naked, eating light-bulbs and shit.

>>17139891

what are these issues and why do you think you need to be locked p for them? mental hospitals like this arent for treatment, they are for imprisonment as you said. why not seek therapy?