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How do I stop obsessing over a girl? She's married and normally I get completely turned off when I find out a girl has a bf already, but I can't stop thinking about her even when I tell myself she's married and there's no way anything would happen and I wouldn't want anything to happen.
It's completely fucking me up right now, I can hardly think of anything but her and I'm constantly keeping track of what she's doing and I get jealous when anyone but her husband talks to her
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>>17146645
You're completely emotionally involved with her. You need to distance yourself for your own good. Nothing good can come of this situation and it's obvious that you can't be just friends with her.
Does she have a history of infidelity?
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>>17146661
I don't think she does, I haven't known her for too long really and I wouldn't want to be involved with her while she was still in a relationship. Hell, I try to tell myself that I wouldn't want to even if she split up.
I guess distancing myself would be the best/easiest option, but I'd really not like to lose one a friend when I don't have that many to lose in the first place
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>>17146673
She's not your friend anymore, she's a romantic interest, and she's married. If she's got you to this point she's obviously has issues with her marriage and needs additional orbiters around to get the emotional intimacy she requires. In my opinion she is already being unfaithful to her husband and if she can do that to him she can do that to you.
Guard your heart anon.
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How to deal with jealousy? It's making me so anxious that all I want to do is sleep and I feel like puking and I have uncomfortable feeling in my heart. Speaking doesn't help since I have already asked about the person I am jealous and I was told that nothing is going on so I don't want to drive my SO away by being overly jealous. I just don't want to lose them to this other person.
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Pls halp ;_;
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What is it you're actually jealous about?
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Always trust you gut feeling.
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the most effective way to attract women
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About 2 years ago, I was mostly invisible to women. I had to walk up to girls, start flirting and work hard to get any date at all.
This has changed dramatically now. After 2 years of heavy working out, girls often come up to me at clubs and social events.
I've had multiple occasions a girl that is a complete stranger come out of the blue to kiss me or grope me.
Following a weekly regimen of heavy compound movements is the most effective way to become attractive to women.
To achieve this, I went at least three times a week to the gym to did series of machine free compound movements.
Focus mainly on swats, deadlifts, bench press, dips, over head press and dips. Combine this with at least 1 or 2 one hour heavy cardio session.
All this will be useless without a proper diet: I gave up all soda drinks and fast food and exclusively cook my own food except for special occasions.
If you have the time and patience, the work will pay out and reward you with a much richer sex life.
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>>17146617
Thanks I needed this. What do you do to accelerate muscle healing?
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>see tall /fit/ dudes constantly where i live
>they all have flat-as-flat midget gfs/wives
lmao get gud
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>>17146685
take one day rest between working out days.
the first days it will be sore as fuck
So me and my gf had sex and when we finished she realized she was 45 minutes late taking her birth control. She took it but was still 45 minutes late from the daily time she usually takes it.
We did not use a condom obviously and I came inside her at full force as deep as possible after a week of no fap or sex.
What are the chances that she's now pregnant?
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>>17146462
She'll be fine.
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>>17146462
Relax. The "same time every day" rule is just there to make it a regular habit so she won't forget and skip a day. 45 minutes doesn't matter.
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It's fine. Half-life on birth control is around 30 hours.
>gf complains about ex-bf's friend hitting on her on fb
>she says he asked her to tease him
>told her to show me a screenshot because it sounded funny
>she sends me pic related
>she blacked out an area
>ask her why
>'dont worry, its nothing bad'
im currently studying for exams and have a job interview tomorrow, have no time or energy to be arguing so i said 'whatever'
to which she replied 'ok goodnight'. i didnt respond.
relationship has been good, so far, 5 months in.
so here i am, wasting time, not studying, asking what the fuck is this shit?
biggest problem here is, she knows something like this would bother me but still does it?
how to proceed from here? is this just a shit test or something more?
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>>17146400
What she blocked out is irrelevant.
The fact that her ex writes her he's horny and to tease her and she didn't ignore/block him says all. Good luck op.
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You don't need to talk to us about this, you should be talking to her. Your guts right. Tell her you'd like to see what she blacked out. If she keeps protesting say you want to know what she's hiding from you and if she doesn't show you you'll lose a lot of trust in her.
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So tell her it bothers you that she blacked out part of it. What you should question in this situation is yourself. Why are you getting upset ? She didn't have to take a screenshot and send it to you or even tell you it happened. You sound like a needy beta virgin neet fagweiner.
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Yo, I am going to London to look for a job there. The point is that I dont have any experience in work. I have just finished highschool. When I get to the centre of London - what should I do? Search for the job or for a bedroom first? Also where should I search for the best results? Thanks in advance ;)
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How much money are you coming with?
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600ish pounds
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>>17146367
Forgive my Amerikkkan ways, but your choices seem totally backwards to me.
Maybe it's an EU thing. I don't know.
Why the fuck would you not line up a job prior to going to london? Right now you seem very "La de daaa, let me piss away my money floundering around in London staying in hostels and try to get a job as a dish washer or bus boy or manual laborer..it can only take a few days...or weeks."
Line up a fucking job first. Find someone you can stay with on the cheap. Not only will you be safer, but your job will be a hair better than a dish washer
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Yo /adv/ is it time to shave my head yet? pretty sure I'm receding.
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take to to
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Yup
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>>17146356
Not yet, when the hair is thinning on top then yes. You are just getting a male pattern widow's peak and that's still good for a few years.
Would this method of suicide work?
I'm a 23 year old female who has struggled with major depression and anxiety since about the age of 14 and I really just don't feel like living another day of it
I'm tired of being a burden on others around me I just want to end my existence
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>>17146293
Just bumping to see if it works, I'm interested too.
Don't kill yourself by the way, it's bad.
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>>17146300
Why is it bad? People die everyday in much worse circumstances
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Yes it would work but you should know that you aren't a burden. I've been in that exact situation and only found out after years of medication that my view of everything was so distorted from what it really is. You should stick it out, you're only 23 and there are advancements everyday in mental health.
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I need to know how to identify and treat genital herpes. I'm worried. inb4 mylifesucks.jpg
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I've heard there's this thing called the Internet
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>>17146005
Me too, I also recently learned that there is something called doctors, It's a brave new world for OP!
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>>17146005
I've been looking, but can i use coldsore cream!? Really just need general advice from someone that's been through it.
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I'm in my late 20's. I've been running myself into the ground as of lately.
I've been a social outcast as long as I can remember. My parents divorced at age 11 but I would cry myself to sleep as early as age 7 over the arguing and physical abuse I could hear my father inflicting on my mother in their bedroom. Obviously, my mother had custody of me and she raised a sensitive, pathetic young male. I was rejected throughout school, my birthdays were nothing but an 'expensive gift' in lieu of a birthday party because I had no friends. I also grew up poor as shit, we got donated gifts for christmas and I ate hotdogs and bread throughout my adolescence. I was also partially deaf and I was taught some sign language because the doctors thought I was going to be fully deaf by adulthood. Aside from that, my childhood was a blur.
I had a case of 'Senioritis' in highschool but it was merely a lack of desire to exist and I barely scraped by with my HS diploma. I went to a community college but failed at everything except indoor archery because I showed up. I joined the military because I had nothing else going for me. I pulled some mental gymnastics and managed to hide my social ineptness and sadness behind military bearing. I left after 6 years of being hazed and being borderline suicidal (honorable discharge, I stuck it out until my time was up). My last year in the military, I had an affair with a girl I worked and fell in love with. She saw the empty husk of a human being I was behind my defenses and left me for her 'former boyfriend'. She took my heart along with her.
I had developed savant like skills in electronics repair and I thought I had a shot at engineering. I've been going to another community college for the past 2 years and was doing great. I had also started a relationship with another girl I was off and on with for about a year.
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She was the closest human connection I had since the previous girl and ultimately left me aswell, taking what little heart and spirit I had left. I stopped going to my classes because of the overwhelming feeling of futility.
The past two weeks I've had intense internal mental dialogue with myself; mainly about my hopeless future. My roomate has been wrapped up in this dialogue and I almost question if I'm living by myself and some form of psychosis has set in.
What should I do?
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Don't ruin this for yourself. Get your shit together and fucking live
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I like you, anon; you sound like a good person.
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>Make some friends, let's call them B and C
>They know each other already
>B is a woman, C is a guy (you can probably see where this is headed)
>After a while it becomes clear that B and I have chemistry. We have a lot in common and she clearly likes me
>I have been getting along with C pretty well too
>Things go on like this for a bit with me and B hooking up a couple of times (no sex though)
>Eventually find out that B has been sleeping with C since before I met them, I'm drunk at the time so I say I don't care
>C doesn't like us spending time together without him
>B still wants to see me though and says she likes me a lot
>I don't like her being with C (obviously) but I like her way too much to just let her go
>I don't know what she would do if I made her choose between us now, she's known him for longer but I'm pretty sure she's more attracted to me
What the fuck do I do in this situation, I just want her to myself. I can't go on much longer like this, it makes me feel kind of pathetic. What's going on between B and C isn't a relationship and I haven't known them for that long so I only feel slightly guilty towards C.
inb4 people call me a cuck or something
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First, you're a cuck. Second your whole involvement with that group is cuck friendly cuckdom
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>>17145937
C might say that whatever is going on between you and B is not a relationship either. You have not known them for that long so there is probably some history there, that neither of them has told you.
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>>17145956
>C might say that whatever is going on between you and B is not a relationship either.
That's true, but the difference is I don't think they want a relationship together or it would have happened before I met them. You're right though I don't know the exact situation.
So my eye went lazy about 5 days ago, im assuming due to complications from a disease im currently fighting. Since then, i have taken to wearing an eyepatch like pic related over my eye to hide my shame. Im really overwhelmed right now, and im afraid I'll never be able to see normal again. Any advice, tips, or experience would be very helpful as I really don't have anyone to talk to about this.
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Get a cooler eyepatch
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Suggest one
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Does you eyelid become lazy or your actual vision is getting bad?
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>meet qt guy
>we share a friend group
>get drunk and go out one night
>go back to friends house
>heavy make out session
>be me, "I can't sleep with you anon, I have just split with long term bf and I need more time"
>get back to fooling and then sleep
>next morning, part ways and say see you later
>fastforward 2 days and get a fb message
>"hey anon I had fun the other night, great to meet you"
>fastforward a week, we chat regularly
>warns me that he isn't very attentive to phone and that he's not ignoring me
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TL;DR guy barely ever messages me back, is he avoiding me
>basically messages me non stop and then stops replying for hours/days at a time
>he asks me out on dinner date
>cancels on the day
>mfw he goes away next weekend for 3 weeks
>mfw he asked me out and bails
Tl;dr guy hardly ever messages me back, what's this bitch playing at?
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>>17145902
Please ignore the middle tl;dr, I typed this on my phone and forgot it was there
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You tweaked his nose!
Needing more time for a long term ex.. For shame OP! For shame! You tweaked his nose!
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>>17145902
>warns me that he isn't very attentive to phone and that he's not ignoring me
I say this when I don't want to talk the girl but don't want to burn bridges.
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Dating women older than you
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Does /adv/ have any experience with women older than themselves? I was always told to go with women a couple years younger than me, but I've started hitting it off with a girl in my work who's 2 years older than me. Does it lead to problems down the line?
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depends how old you are, if you're 33 and she's 35 its not a big deal at all, but she might be pushing to have kids right away
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>>17145862
As someone who had two older sisters I made it a personal rule to never date older women.
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>>17145862
I've dated a girl 4 years older than me and one 2 years older, also younger girls but those tended to be more short lived relationships of a couple of months.
I wasn't very much into the party lifestyle during college and generally got along better with women who had sort of mentally calmed down or had never been the party type. I also liked that the two older women I dated had a well established life outside of me, neither expected me to be their everything and the relationship was a lot less strained because of that. The first one moved for work and we ended it, the second one we fell out of love after a while. I don't know, I like people with some life experience under their belt and able to articulate what they want, so far in my life that tended to be slightly older women.
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Can you lie about a college degree when applying for work? How common is it to verify your credentials?
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That's such a bad idea. Normally they'll ask for a document file that shows it though
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>>17145850
>That's such a bad idea
Are they going to reject my application if they find out?
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>>17145855
Are you serious?