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>>17153681
Sounds uninteresting. If I want to get sleepy I just keep screens off while the sun goes down.

have you tried getting high?

>>17153681
that is a nice picture of dan avidan

Bacteria, mites, etc. live in and feed off of dust so you may want to get a broom/Swiffer and periodically corral those dust bunnies before toy DO develop a respiratory illness or something, OP. Besides, living in a mess and not maintaining your home can contribute to depression. Take a few minutes to tidy up! GL!!

>>17153657
toy = they--damn spellcheck!

>>17153657
Thanks, anon. Haven't thought about a swiffer. I might buy that as it is cheaper.

Obviously. They're from Venus.

>>17153597
I know men which need 1 week to meet a girl (and a pretty one). He is not very handsome but he knows how to talk to girls.

>>17153597
>MGTOW
That, is a big problem. I've gone through that shit, quit it now. I've read PUA stuff, MRA stuff and MGTOW - after several years, after a lot of self-analysing, this material is very toxic, useful to no-one.

Maybe it is. Just pray one day every thing just fixes its self.

>>17153580
>first world country
if thats true, get a fucking flat, your country will provide one

temp work no interview just show up work get paid same day. profit. as for a place buy a tent go to a church/shelter tell them a short story get food.

>>17153575
It might be pancreatitus (sp?)

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>>17153575
Go see a doctor

>>17153575
Brown piss means there is blood in your which either you could be extremely dehydrated which you could tell so you should see a doctor

What advice are you looking for? Asking how to hook up with a 14 year old? Fuck off.

>>17153562
unless its legal in your country, dont do anything with her, you could get in deep shit. if its legal, have fun. 16 is legal here in england and i would definitely fuck a 16 year old if i got the chance.

>>17153569
i don't want to fuck her. i don't know to what can i do. never seen like this. if i want to fuck a girl i need to work hard for it. but this is seem so easy and not legal.

>>17153571
you right. not legal here. it's a good reason for me.

It's the fact that someone keeps posting it and obsessing over it.

the fact that i'd bury my dick in it

>>17153371
I know it's late here in the US, guess that might be why the board in kind of slow.

regardless, bump.

>>17153395
It couldn't possibly be that your question is so mundane that people don't care enough to reply.

>>17153397
Yeah, could be that too.

Well thanks anyway.

Perhaps I should note that I could have talked to her while I was there, but I'm essentially a hopeless retard when it comes to social interactions.

I was going to use that to rationalize my decision not to message her, but I've come to realize that while I had the chance to get to know her better at the time, I just wasn't comfortable doing so in that situation. Very loud, tons of people.. it's just not conducive to the kind of interaction I want to have (with her).

>>17153299
"Hi, you played the piano at my cousins wedding and I thought you played it very nice. I'm a big fan of Chopin and I wondered if you could teach me how to finger your asshole on the rythm of his nocturnes."

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>he fell for the college meme

>>17153293

You'll be fine. You're graduating at a time when the economy is at an upswing.

>>17153293
You can use others as a metric of where you want to be, but once you start to dwell upon and obsess over the comparisons you're going to tear yourself up. Even if you're the best at whatever it is you do, it's going to be temporary, and there's going to be people who are better than you at basically every other aspect of life.

Try not to focus too much on comparing to others, but on comparing to self. Are you better than the you of yesterday? Have you grown? If so, you're not failing.

I'm 23 and not out of my undergrad yet. I went into a physics program, got 3 years in and basically had a break down. I was faced with the fact that to do anything in the field I needed a doctorate, and no one was letting me into labs to do research (which is needed for grad school), my girlfriend had left me, I was injured and couldn't properly do the athletics I loved. It was genuinely hellish.

I came home, applied to the local university for a kinesilogy/ electrical engineering dual major and since I've been here I've had straight As. I'm likely going to get a research position with a professor who's the most prominent researcher on campus and I should be graduating in a 2-3 semesters then heading off to graduate school for biomechanics.

Just do your best, that's all anyone can ask for.

You were diagnosed with this?

If so, what were you prescribed for it?

>>17153295
Abilify and effexor. Don't ask me what the medical names are. The pills make me feel better but not good enough to stop me from wanting to die.

Without them I can have panic attacks.

I don't understand why you can't clean? Everyone has had trouble eating I think. Eating too much or too little. What's this nonsense about "can't clean?" You can.
You can and you must.

>>17153290

the logic sounds about right yeah. i wouldnt wory about it at all, jut go for it. like you said, worst case scenario your life is exactly the same as it was.

if she asks how you found her just say you were doing XX class (whichever class ties in most to the one you shared last semester) got reminded of her, and thought you'd look her up.

await response, talk casually, than transition into 'we shoudl catch up, are you free XX for YY' ?

good luck

>>17153294
>>17153302
I'm doing it bros. wish me luck.

2/2

At this point, I honestly think we're only friends because we share an interest in a very specific hobby and live in an area where said hobby is uncommon. Our morals don't really align well, and while it hasn't happened in a while, they've stated that they were "worried about me" because I wasn't Christian, and had the gall to speak for my partner (who used to have more Christian-aligned morals, but has not for several years) on the matter as well, despite not actually knowing my partner that well at the time.

None of this would honestly be a problem or even be up for debate if it weren't for one simple thing:

I'm their only real-life friend.

They've brought it up on numerous occasions that they're kind of the "throwaway" friend, and that they've lost nearly all of their other friends because they "grow bored" of them. More than once they've stated that they expect me to leave them as well, which makes me feel like absolute shit for even thinking about dropping them.

They've talked to me about how they've gone through times of depression where they had suicidal thoughts, and I'm afraid that if I attempt to end the friendship, they'll wind up offing themselves. I feel obligated to remain friends with them, despite the fact that I don't enjoy their company anymore. It shouldn't be such a big deal considering that I don't see them very often (we live a few hours apart), but every time I do, I just get less and less patient with them.

TLDR; My friend is awkward, embarrassing, and annoying as fuck but I feel guilted into staying friends with them because I don't want them to kill themselves.

The fuck. You're being emotionally blackmailed by this toxic shitbag. But you already know that.

Do what you have to do. Just gradually stop seeing this person. Don't have a breakup moment. Toxic people like this thrive on confrontation. Just be busy and unavailable to hang out. Wait a couple weeks and remove them from social media. They'll probably take the hint.

If they text you trying to tell you some shit about offing themselves know that A) they probably won't do it and B) if they do it, it's not because of you not being friends with them, it's because all of their other problems that are NOT your responsibility to fix. This person isn't family, they're a friend that's not been a good friend to you. You don't have to have this cancer in your life and in no way is it your responsibility to fix this scumfuck.

Just keep your boundaries firm (you don't want this person in your life anymore because they are toxic) and if they get in your face state that they're a toxic influence in your life at the moment and that you're worried about them and really think they should get counseling. If this person harasses you with suicide attention pleas or you really think they're going to commit suicide then call the police and they'll be placed under involuntary psychiatric hold. That'll be the start to them getting the help they need.

That's all very fucking extreme though and I doubt it'll come to that. Most likely this person is just a dirtbag who isn't above using their own depression to manipulate other people.

>>17153282

My additional concern about dropping them is that I'm not entirely certain they're doing any of this on purpose.

They're honestly a really nice and sweet person when they aren't doing anything I listed above. They're really giving and kind, and I even used to tell people they were the sweetest person I knew.

I don't think they'd ever argue or fight me about me trying to leave the friendship either. They'd just quietly let it happen and probably mumble something about how they knew this was going to happen under their breath.

I guess one plus is that neither of us really have social media, so that's one less thing to cut off from them.

Last I heard, they're actually getting help from a therapist, though I don't know how long this has been going on, so I can't say if it's improved their behavior or not.

have you tried your local nintendo and comic book shop?

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>>17153122

>>17153122
you clever bastard hahaha

>>17153112
Try getting out of your comfortably zone anon

>>17153100
might be best to talk to your doctor about this, but I really doubt after 3 months you're so far gone that you need to worry about the more severe symptoms of alcohol withdrawal. It'll most likely just really suck for a while then you'll pull through.

>>17153108
I dunno I've got a very strong suspicion that this delayed hangover thing is a symptom of physical addiction. I already told my doctor about a month ago what I was doing and thats who warned me of seizures and the reduce consumption thing.

>>17153100
i've been through alcohol withdrawals. you won't get serious withdrawals at that level of drinking. go cold turkey, you'll probably just have low energy for a couple days and be irritable that you're not giving your body alcohol. physical addiction should fade in a week tops for you (probably more like 3-4 days though). if you have a mental dependence you're going to need to put in some work to stop.