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How do I overcome inner feeling of pressure? My grandmother left me an estate in toronto and all my family members are coming down to try and con me into giving it to them. I feel so distort, my solicitor has told me that im not obliged to do anything, wtf is wrong with them
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Blood is thicker than water, until money comes into play.
They're a bunch of sharks smelling that blood in the water.
Give them nothing
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>>17181065
how do i deal with my mental state? anyone got any tips i feel so fkd
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>>17181065
original quote has the opposite meaning
>the blood of the covenant is thicker than the waters of the womb
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One of the professors on my campus has a policy where she gives 10 points extra credit for attaching your name to the anonymous surveys we give at the end of the semester. Is this worth bringing up with the administration? Every student, of course, would jump at the opportunity to get extra credit but now giving a shitty review would now be impossible since she's still preparing your final grade and you'd have to be fucking stupid to give a bad review when that's up in the air.
Am I crazy for thinking this is a huge breach in confidentiality?
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Yes, this is definitely worth bringing up with the administration. You can tip them off anonymously if you want and they can confirm by asking random students, that way your name is not attached to this business.
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That's a huge ethics violation
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I'm not opie but can you guys explain why this is a violation? I don't see anything wrong
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Just broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years. I haven't cried or anything yet, just kind of numb on the inside. How do I move on?
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Get a hobby and focus on self improvement. If you don't like something about yourself, and it's something you consistently don't like about yourself, take steps to change it. Identify the things you like about yourself and build those parts up stronger.
The relationship stuff sucks and it will for a long time - I've been told that it takes about half the length of a relationship to get over that relationship once it's over with. It's not terribly accurate, but it's accurate enough for a rule of thumb. Point being, don't expect yourself to feel good about it any time soon.
If you're concerned about your emotional reason to breaking up, preemptively visit a mental health professional. With decent insurance it's not very expensive and if nothing else, you'll come away from the experience knowing that you're in relatively good shape.
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Also watching some anime did wonders for me, curiously enough. I had two relationships back to back that lasted in total a bit over three years, and when the second one fell apart, the baggage from the first relationship fell out of the metaphorical closet. Took a long time to sort through all that shit, but I feel like I'm in a good place now.
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Good luck OP . Its been 5 years for me and I still see her in my dreams. We don't even talk or anything. I think I seriously need help.
Just confessed my feelings to my cousin and she said she likes me like a younger brother, and not as a lover. I don't know how to fucking cope guys. I think I'm losing it. I've been infatuated with her for over a year, and my pre-existing depression and suicide ideations have increased tenfold. I feel like shit and don't know how to cope with this heart break. I can't sleep and my appetite is just gone. I think I'm going to commit suicide in a year and die as a young kissless virgin.
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Post your cousins body for reference.
How old are you?
Why are you infatuated with your cousin?
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And unlike other girls, this is my fucking cousin. You can't pick and choose who your family is, and it fucking sucks that I'll never be with her romantically. Before you guys are quick to judge, we only met once in adulthood, so I became very attracted to her.
I don't know what to do. I'm desperate for answers. I'm just desperate. I'm so miserable that I can't even cry myself to sleep. Instead I'm just crying and doing a half-assed job at trying to sleep.
I'll never be with her and it hurts.
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>>17180969
1. No
2. I'm 18, she's 19
3. We only met once in adulthood, so the Westermarck effect never developed.
Any of you have experience with taking xanax for non-recreational purposes?
I've been having pretty bad anxiety problems for the past two months more less after a good six or so months of heavy drinking and not sleeping much. I was feeling alright about 3 weeks in but fucked it up by getting drunk a few times. Was feeling alright last week until I started getting sick on Thursday. Beforehand I'd been taking about .25 mg xanax twice a week when things started getting rough. Every night since Saturday I've been having an anxiety attack and have been taking a small amount of xanax to calm down and go to sleep. The attacks seem to be decreasing in severity as I progressively feel less sick but are still pretty overwhelming.
Do you think if I continue to take a small amount of xanax every night until I don't feel sick I'll get addicted?
Also anyone deal with a months long bout of anxiety and get better without too much meds?
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>>17180952
the people I know who have used Xanax for fun now live in crackhouses in philly and have been raped by black guys at parties.
Hope that helps!
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>>17180952
I should add I usually have a fairly consistent amount of anxiety and derealization normally but it's usually managable.
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>>17180954
I could imagine. Ive never taken it recreationally.
So nearly a year ago I met a famanon through the r9k tag on omegle, I was 18 and she was almost 22. I was a sheltered literal khv neckbeard (a cute one) until I traveled to America to spend a week with her. Before meeting and me she had done a variety of drugs, kissed people, sent nudes and blew one guy multiple times. Meanwhile I just sat in all day playing videogames. I went to America twice for her this year and both times it was clear we were very much in love, she hasn't had another human on skype or left her house for social reasons since we really started speaking. However I could just not get over the fact she's done all these things before meeting me and even once when we first met. I could never let go and always got angry at her for her drug use and whatever else. Why am I suddenly an asshole for putting down for her drug use when it's so morally wrong? or wondering what she was doing getting with a neckbeard like me when she could of had anyone else and had already kissed countless people? is it natural that i'm mad and insecure about it? am I crazy? she seems to like telling me so. Despite her telling me she no longer loves me and me ending up hospitalized after a suicide attempt from her rejection we still speak every day on skype and she still gets jealous of other girls I look at. Is she just trying to hurt me? Is this really all my fault for being so immensely lame and out of touch? literally autistic btw
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>>17180943
yes
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>>17180964
how so? is it because she's a woman therefore the blame is entirely on me despite her being an asshole in her past with absolutely no regrets?
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wow you are really fucking stupid
>conversing with a girl for probably hundreds of hours
>girl doesn't even meet your crazy standards so you resent her
>don't even get basic physical intimacy
>get dumped by her after you travel thousands of miles
>take it so badly you want to die
>STILL being her shoulder to cry on and letting her run riot in your mind
this is all your fault. you should have known better on so many levels
get rid of her and find a local whore to cum in to and you will feel so much better
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How to move on and forget your ex gf.
She was the only one I had.
Our relashionship wasn't the best but she was the only one that ever made me happy in a relashionship.
I feel like she hates me a lot and that they're will be no turn back from her.
I may have lied abt stupid things but nothing relevent or i never cheated or talked to other women on purpose when we were together.
Only thing she hated about me is that i was asking too many things and she wanted peace because she came out of a long relashionship .
Sorry for bad english and again thank you for your help.
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Give her time. She'll come back if you were good to her.
Otherwise, it's time to move on.
DON'T meet other people, especially NOT women, it's gonna get worst.
Best you can do is stay alone.
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Don't give her time
women are a dime a dozen and functionally the same as any other beyond physical appearance. The girl you lost out on is replaceable.
Pursuing her makes you look weak. Go after other women, and work on your dominance markers.
Usually exes try crawling back after they see you being successful and getting other women; ignore this and push that ex away forever. She's a loser with poor decision-making skills.
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If i didn't care abt her, i'd be with other women already.
There are women talking to me and stuff but I just don't feel like going out.
It's just that with her, i don't have to be someone else, i'm myself.
How violent can a relationship be before it's a problem?
Context: Two male roommates with a brief history of romantic association and several years of friendship/sharing living spaces.
The more physically dominant of the two hits the other frequently ("playfully" but also in coercive or reproachful ways), pushes him around, calls him a faggot, etc.
Not serious violence, but consistent low-level pain and occasional minor damage.
Is that an acceptably normal style of intramale interaction?
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I think it depends on tone more than context. If it doesn't feel cool it's probably not cool. If the roommate being pushed around doesn't feel comfortable with it, it's not cool
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Any action becomes a problem when it is non-consensual. People consent to different things. Two people in a bdsm relationship could hit each other heavily and it would be ok as long as it's consensual. Does this hitting looks non-consensual to you? Can you identify other signs of abuse?
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Uh, it's me, so yes, I can say it's nonconsensual. I hit him back to "play along" a lot recently, and a couple of times have lashed out more seriously, but I weigh 115 pounds and he weighs 250+ and is much, much stronger than me. He's pretty deaf to complaints too, or telling him to stop. Kinda just does whatever he feels like, and often lately that's hitting me.
I don't know if it's really a problem though or if I'm just being a bitch. It's not like he's a bad person, he just has some issues.
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I'm a virgin, but I usually don't care about it until a friend mention they had sex or anything about it. I just get uncomfortable about me being a virgin in does moments.
I don't want to have sex just to not be a virgi, but evertime sex is brought up I just get all awkward and sad
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Same Bro, it means sex nowadays is not only an activity but also social status. You should try to improve yourself in other ways
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>>17180834
Just lie about your sex life like everyone else.
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>>17180834
Your friends are all lying. Join in.
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Alright. I've been struggling with acne for 9 years and I thought I'd grow out of it, but it's getting worse and I'm 19 now so it's embarassing. I'm not talking about a couple pimples here and there, they cover my entire forehead. I've used everything, but it's like my skin won't work with anything because it's so damn oily you can see little drops of oil covering my face, especially my nose, but when I wash it with anything, even water, my face will peel the next day while still being oily. Fucking hassle, I don't know what to do. I use moisturizer too but it makes it worse. What am I suppised to do?
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see a doctor. It's hard to treat acne that severe with natural or over the counter remedies. Improve your diet if you haven't already, and try not washing your face more than once a day, excessive washing may cause your skin to actually produce more oil.
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>>17180809
T 3 mycin find it apply
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Yeah have you ever looked into acutane? It's worth it to see a doctor now before you get more scars, I wish I'd gone years ago
How does one balance school, a job, and a social life? Seriously, I was chilling with my friends, and all of sudden I get a call from work asking me to go in tomorrow at 7:00 in the morning. The manager that I was talking to just laughed when I was talking and said welcome to adult life. Holy fuck, is growing up as fucked up as everyone makes it seem. I'm 18 by the way.
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>18
Yeah. Adult life is a lot more challenging but can be more rewarding.
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>>17180772
next time you're chilling with your friends and work calls, don't answer the fucking phone. and if you are going to answer, be prepared to say that you're out of town and can't make it into work at 7am tomorrow morning
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>>17180772
>all of sudden I get a call from work asking me to go in tomorrow at 7:00 in the morning
What's unreasonable about this?
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This might sound retarted, but im so angry about it i have to share this.
My ex-GF used to love handsome male actors. I didn't find the picture for you, but one time she posted a picture on the facebook with a crying man accompanied with a text something like 'i would leave my boyfriend because of Outlander'
(Outlander is some super handsome male actor)
So, i know this sounds retarted but i got fucking angry because of this. We are already broke up (not because of this exact reason), but i'm somehow still very angry about this and occasionally i get just so mad and hurt because of that memory.
/adv/ what the fuck is wrong with me? Is it reasonable to get so angry about something like that?
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>retarted
Didn't read further
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>>17180740
Outlander is a television series. Your gf posting that picture probably has more to do than just the handsome face. She's enamoured with the plot and how the male actor (probably the main male protagonist) interacts with the main female protagonist. They have some really steamy scenes. She probably wishes she was the main character in the series (a time-traveller hooking up with some medieval hottie).
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>>17180754
i know. This is ok to have fantasies. I have many sexual fantasies with hot girls myself.
But is it ok to post a picture with a text like that to facebook?
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How do I be more intimate with my mother?
>inb4 wincest
Let me give you a brief summary of my mom
>She came to the US from China when she was 20 something year old to marry my dad who was 30 years older than her
>She did this because she wanted to get her family into the US
>However, she did try giving my dad a shot at loving him
>But my dad was still in love with his first wife (who died from cancer) and never trusted my mom or gave her much freedom
>this lead to a loveless relationship, eventually divorce
>her own family that she was able to bring to the US through the marriage used her and abandoned her
>tonight, when I came home back from a semester at college she cried to me how alone she feels
>told me how we never talk as much, how I'm always in my room playing games
I feel so shitty. I wish I was a better son and could be more open and communicate with her. But I honestly am not good at spending time with her. Mainly because we have no similar interests and the slight language barrier (she can speak English, but some things she doesn't understand because it is not her first language). I want to spend more time with her, but I just don't know what we can do. I'm terrible at having a conversation with her, I don't know how normal sons and moms interact.
Do college kids spend time with their moms alot? I kind of thought the dad and mom kept themselves company. I feel like it's my duty now to keep my mom company because my dad isn't here for her.
>tldr: How do I spend time with my mom without feeling awkward about it?
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How about threating her with homecooked meal? Talking might not show enough affection but actions speak more than words.
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>>17180721
That's a good idea. I'll try that.
My mom wants to go on evening walks with me. I'm not really into that and I don't know what to say when we do. I just feel uncomfortable at the thought of hanging out with my mom. And I really wish I knew why.
She once planned a trip to Hawaii with just me and her. I felt really weirded out by it, so I was able to convince her to bring her god daughter along who is closer to her age. I don't wanna do vacations with just my mom, it's weird isn't it? Isn't it weird?
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>>17180780
Go on a walk with her. Dont go for the activity/food/event, go for the people.
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I'll green text it to make it easy.
>I am 23 years old
>I have been dating a girl for 6 years. we live together. she is reasonably attractive and sexually openminded enough. she is studying to be a chemical engineer and marrying her would mean (more) wealth for me.
>I rarely feel emotions so this relationship works pretty well. especially since she's okay with my lack of emotions and she does all of the housework and cooking.
>Stumble upon girl I used to know's Facebook.
>Havent' seen her since we were 10.
>First crush.
>Immediately become irrationally infatuated with her current photo
>I know that I don't know her. I know that these feelings aren't real.
>But I really want to get to know her again and feel like, romantically attracted to her. And I didn't think it was possible for me to feel that way.
So what do I do?
I'm not opposed to going behind my girlfriend's back, I just don't know how I would even be able to do that. Our relationship is very public.
And I know it isn't worth it but it's been a week and I can't shake this feeling.
Help me /adv/.
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>>17180648
She's probably not into you and won't ever be into you. So tell me, did you like her because she's pretty? Did you even know her? Do you like her now because she's pretty? That's not the basis for a relationship, if you're actually serious about her you're going to have to break up with your girlfriend first, give her a chance to find someone who deserves her.
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>>17180654
Well, she used to like me back then.
And while she is 'pretty', that has very little bearing on my situation. I know plenty of 'pretty' people.
As for my own odds, there's no reason she wouldn't be into me. I'm very good looking, wealthy, and charismatic.
To clarify, I have no interest in 'hitting it and quitting it' with this girl. I'm interesting in getting to know her and deciding how I want to proceed from there.
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Marry both
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What the fuck should I do with my hair? I literally just walk in and go "you're the expert" every time and it's very hit or miss. I'm not socially awkward, I just always got whatever haircut my dad told them to give me. I live on my own; that was the last thing I always had my parents do. Now I want to make my own choice for hair and I have no clue.
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Instead of cutting your hair you should cut your fat. A haircut won't boost your appearance nearly as much as losing some weight and getting rid of that mess on your face will.
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Your hair, even the pubes on your face, are way too long. Trim all of that shit. In fact, you should probably get rid of the facial hair altogether if you're not going to put daily effort into it.
And like the other anon said, losing a few pounds would make much more difference than your pubeface.
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skin fade on the sides, lose a little length on top, invest in some pomade to style it. and tweeze your eyebrows. they're almost touching. i'd also take some length off the beard if it were me but i'd never tell another man what to do with his bear.