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>>17182615

Be an adult. If she's genuinely good at what she does, hire her. If she isn't, don't give her a pity job.

Would be as impartial as I could.

>>17182615
Give her the job if she's a good candidate. If you're planning to get back with her you might actually have a chance now that you changed.

Grow up and get over it

Top kek, even if he did leave her for you, he'd dump you within a month when he realised how annoying you are

It really tickles me when I see things like this.

Why would you want someone that would leave a healthy relationship, and for what?

You see, you're mind is so clouded that you don't see that if he had this mentality, he would do the exact same thing to you, or do you think you're special and can keep him?

The guy you want would hop from girl to girl after he is bored with them.

Observe and respect the loyal man in front of you, maybe you'll be lucky and snag a single one down the line.

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>>17182481
>I have never done chemical compounds

It can mess up your mind.

>>17182481
>how do I test if my research chemical is real?
eat it. Your drug dealer isn't going to poison you, that's a retarded meme. These RCs coming out of labs are more pure than street shit anyway, since they're using legit labs with legit chemists. Don't be dense.
>Sitter needed?
no. If you've done shrooms and were fine, you'll be fine on acid. faggot pussy.
>Don't touch LSD
If it's already absorbed/dried on the paper, you'll be fine. Keep it in a dark, cool, dry place so it'll last longer. the fact you're exposing it to light tells me you're a faggot who doesn't know how to do drugs.
>tips?
take it all and stop being a faggot.
>experiences?
I've unwittingly taken RC psys before, tripped for days, and am fine. stop being a pussy

>>17182462
Get wasted, but not too hard and go chat to people. Remember to be positive/happy/whatever (i dont know how exactly to say this, non-native english speaker). Works for me 90% of the time.

If you drink, then drink your ass off and have fun. If you don't normally drink then don't drink a lot just drink as a social thing. If you don't normally drink don't get to drunk and make a fool of yourself by doing something stupid or end up getting sick. And if you smoke then smoke. If not. Then don't. BE YOURSELF! And make small talk with LOTS of people not just a few. Somebody is bound to want to keep talking. But congratulations and Graduating!

were just on such a party last friday. First i sat quite for some time, but after the night progresses you get more intoxicated and then everything will feel more natural. tl;dr just drink with the flow

>>17182418
Some states have strict cyber bullying/stalking laws these days and their police department websites have forms and information on what to do, what types of things to save for evidence, etc. Recommend looking into that first. From your post it seems you're very angry and looking for revenge, I would refrain from that and make sure everything you do is legal, especially since it seems he has power and influence.

>>17182418
you cannot undo what your gf chose to do in the past. she stayed with him and if she wanted to punish him only she can. I understand your fear though. She may go back to him.

>>17182435
Are you retarded

That is not at all what I mean

She was forced into the relationship. He could hurt her family if she chose not to. He is a maniac.

I am not afraid of her choosing to "go back to him". He is hardly an ex. I am afraid of him stalking us and trying to hurt us!

>>17182432
He can bribe the police, it has happened before. I'm going to do everything I can to avoid him but it is only a matter of time until he finds out about me.

>>17182330

go tothe store and buy a 'starbucks energy drink'. i usually get mocha.

lay out a couple of movies or even better, a tv show that you've been wanting to watch.

you should have two shows. one erally serious and focus worthy. another more comedy and light that you've seen before, and can listen to while doing other stuff.

you keep your lights on, and you sit in a computer chair. you watch the serious show and/or play the serious game until you are way too exhausted.

then you put on the funny show in the background mostly to listen to. and you also turn on a lighter more fun game. enable cheats for unlimited lives if you have to. play that.

also helps to have a friend stay up with you if you can.

dont lay in bed its a trap.

>>17182337
caffeine doesn't really do anything for me, i've been drinking coffee since i was a kid

also... my bed is so waaaaarm....

>>17182345

do it anyways. better than nothing. also consider mixing coffee with soda, thts what i see em do in nightmare on elm street.

a starbucks energy shot is way more extreme than a cup of coffee. also invest in 5 hour energy if you must. load up and experiment.

>also my bed is so waaarm

so? you asked for advice not cheatcodes.

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>>17182307

>will i be able to get accutane

depends on your insurance but generally yeah.

Acne isnt as simple as parents made it out to be. if its only in one location its usually caused by a specific problem (for example (thisi s wrong but for example) acne on the nose would be a dairy issue). I had acne on my chin only, and thats a hormonal issue. however i cannot fix that as a dude (whereas women could just take birth control etc).

there are two approaches that worked well for me. the first is how i went from pic related to second pic related.

>tretinoin in the morning
>salicylic acne wash in the shower
>moisturizer after / as needed
>erythromicin at night

tretinoin is prescription but you can order online as well. you rub it on to your skin and it peels it fast, causing your acne to fall right off. thats.

salicylic acne wash is basic acne wash you can get at most any store. i get mine at rite aid.

moisturizer stops your face from drying itself out, which prevents your skin from getting damaged and/or over producing oils which makes more acne.

erythromicin topical gel is an antio biotic used to treat acne, however instead of applying it your stomach, you apply it to your face before bed. it attacks the bacteria right on your face, killing acne before it starts.

I used all 4 together and it wokred pretty well, but it was annoying. way too much of my day was dedicated to treating my acne, not eating foods, trying to find ways to scratch an itch without touching myface. if i was making out with a girl and she happened to rub her fingers across my face, you can bet your savings that id have acne on the part of my chin she touched.

i got so frustrated i went ahead and started taking accutane. i was nervous but within the first month i had no acne. i had to quit one week into the third month (of 5 months) but my acne still hasnt returned and for that im grateful. i can sleep face down, scratch my chin, eat whatever i want. its awesome.

>>17182307
You should have already been seeing a dermatologist if acne had been a problem from your teens. There are oral and topical medications that can help. On top of that, experiment with changes in your diet, facial cleansing regimen, change your sheets and pillowcase regularly, cut your hair, change your shampoo regimen, stop touching your face.

>>17182317
>On top of that, experiment with changes in your diet, facial cleansing regimen, change your sheets and pillowcase regularly, cut your hair, change your shampoo regimen, stop touching your face.
Yeah well I already pulled those "natural acne healing methodes" for 1.5 years now. Got better, but isn't fully gone and I want it gone. Can't do this torturous regiment anymore no normal human would put up with anyways.

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>>17182233
>stop watching anime
>improve yo self
>hygine included
>promote not only your success
>but your flaws
>get grill
>profit

>>17182233
I have accepted i'll never be happy but it changed nothing.
Acceptance is not the answer, anon. Wish i knew the answer though.

>>17182233

>never have a gf

people say this, but when you say
>i will never have a gf

what you are really saying is
>i refuse to have a gf

you can have a gf if you wanted to.

>>17182196
fuck your mates, you do whatever the fuck you want. the wholepoint in going on dates is to find someone you like, and part of being a good person is acknowledging and accepting when they don't like you the same way.

Just keep doing what you're doing and don't be a little bitch about it.

>you're going on dates

you're already 30 years ahead of all the whuny virgins on /b/ for example so be proud and fuck loud.

stop being such a fucking beta.

if you want a girl, get ripped (eyecandy)

talking to people might also help.

>>17182245
>if you want a girl
Gay, 58 year old man*

>beta
I'll ignore that for now, since I'm clearly getting out there and not hiding behind my excuses/computer.

They can work if they keep contact to a minimum. Friendzoning girls work better over the long term than friendzoning guys.

>>17182084
It's fine. Depends on the people. I have platonic relationships with a lot of people of the opposite sex, it's not weird unless you make it weird.

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cannot work out unless you are repulsed sexually by grill or sex friends.

At least that's been my experience...except the sex friends part ;_;

>>17182064
Why are you worried about this?

You really shouldn't be bothering yourself with shit like this. Why the fuck do you think people like Wittgenstein constantly tried to tell his students to study something other than philosophy? Accept that life is the way it is and live your fucking life

>>17182064
dont think about it. me and my ex used to talk about this. its depressing to think about but the key is to pretend that free will does exist.

>>17182039
you're a social retard :- ) guess you're not too intelligent after all

>>17182039
*tips fedora*
In all seriousness though, it's how a lot of people cope with social inadequacies.
Not sure what advice you're looking for.

I used to. It is fucking retarded. You don't have a hard time socializing because you're so smart. You have a hard time socializing because tough can't sell yourself. Being smart is a positive thing that people like and admire. Just use your intelligence to be creative and do something fun.

>>17182014
You should kill yourself for abandoning a friend over something that would literally make zero impact on your life.

>>17182014

dont go. you abandoned him for being a fag, so why bother trying to help him you know theres no cure.

>>17182126
I agree op is beta fag can't handle a guy liking dick because you're in denial about liking it yourself

>>17181940
Singing.

Don't fucking smoke, it's not worth the health issues. You can train your voice. There are people you can pay to teach you that.

>>17181940
Vocal coaching.

>>17181962
I do sing, that's why I'm asking.

I could sing Cherubino's part in Figaro's Wedding and that's not very manly.

You need to find meaning in thinks that perhaps you don't currently or never did in your past.
>make friends
>get a hobby
>get further into an activity you already enjoy doing
>get a pet
>get really into music

>>17181788
Go to doctor / psychiatrist / psychologist... Start with whichever one of those is most convenient, they can refer you to another if it's not optimal for you

>>17181788

start shopping for a therapist.

also what do you want to do assuming you had motivation?