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Especially any parents, can you please give insight as to why my long-distance boyfriend's parents are being increasingly hostile, disrespectful, and harsh to him?

>I'm 24 he's 18. We live in different USA states
>I have known him since before he was 16 so a really long time. We didn't get official till about 2 years ago. I know. I'm not worried. We kept it on the DL. He's 18 now anyway
>met online via mutual vidya and mutual friends

At first perhaps his parents didn't know about me. But I think gradually they became aware that -gasp- their young man was doing what young men do and get girlfriends. I believe they hate me and do everything they can to keep me and my boyfriend separate.

I'm scared that they'll get hostile enough that they'll prematurely kick him out of the house. He doesn't do anything wrong. He doesn't backtalk them unless he's cornered and needs to fight. He does his chores. He is extremely hardworking. It's not like he's being a rebellious person. Mostly because of obvious reasons, boyfriend avoids parents/family and stays in his room. Contrary to what they think, he doesn't play vidya a lot. He mostly spends time with me, as we talk and hang out daily or as much as possible.

I do know that my boyfriend was an unplanned and unwanted pregnancy. And I know for a fact that my boyfriend's parents had a set idea of how they wanted him to turn out (some jocky sports player) and we're obviously disappointed when it didn't happen. Could they simply be just harboring that resentment still?

One last crucial information: a long time ago me and my boyfriend's family had a run in with the police. Having to do with domestic violence. It's even on the news. Basically some deep shit happened and I believe my bf's parents harbored an intense grudge on him

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Hey /adv/, what are the pros and cons of moving away to college? I'm heavily considering leaving everything here (though not in a spiteful way) would like some advice. Also, are long distance relationships really not worth it?

Thanks in advance!

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>22 female virgin
I'm depressed, slightly suicidal, and unable to speak because I'm upset. I tried the suicide hotline online chat and they told me to go see a therapist and stopped responding.
>mfw the suicide prevention hotline doesn't even want to talk to me

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Is it normal to feel depressed after drinking? I spent the afternoon and part of the night drinking with my friends. It was ok, I had a good time but I had some expectations for the day that weren't filled. Now that I'm home I just feel so depressed. Looking back, everytime I stop drinking and come home to my empty bed I just feel this way. Now I wonder if this is how I should be feeling everyday, since I never had no one ever to spend the nights with me. Is this something that stops if I have a girlfriend or something? I just feel so bad for being alone, but I don't know if being alone is the real cause. Maybe I'm just doomed to feel this way after drinking.

I don't know. What do you think? I'm not drunk per se, but I'm not in my normal state either. I really don't want to sleep, but I feel so tired. My expectations never die; it is like I'm still waiting for something to happen to make me feel better.

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There was this guy came to my shop every Thursday afternoon to have lunch. Sometimes with his colleagues sometimes alone. It's been awhile and now every Thursday i became waiting for him to come. I think he's working around this area and I assumed this was his break time. I only work at the shop on Thursday morning so this was the only time I have a chance to see him. I think i had a crush on this guy. and it's so weird that i think he has something on me too by the way he looks at me. So what should i do? Should I believe in my instinct?
My job was to talk and to be nice with people there was no way that I couldn't realize that he just being nice to me.
Am I having an illusion for this? I need some help.

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Where I am right now in my life relationships are the slice of cake when you're watching your weight. I really want it, but I know I shouldn't.

The battle between my desires and my self-control causes more stress than I'd are to admit. Now I'm looking to change my mindset on relationships.

What's are some good ways to stop desiring a relationship?

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Just recently started having sex and condoms feel too tight. Like, it's an effort to slip it on and roll it down. I've never considered myself a big guy, but could it br possible I need thr bigger size condoms? Should they be this tight?

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>gf of 3 yrs dumped me for another guy
>sleeps at his house, sucks his dick
>says its really tiny and he came in two minutes.
>wants to fuck me on the side and date him
>monday
>comes to my house fucks me
>cum all over and in her mouth
>she goes and kisses him after she leaves my house
>today
>fuck her and cum on her face
>choke her with my dick
>fuck the shit out of her
>make her cum twice
>she goes and kisses the boyfriend again.
when should i tell the boyfriend he is being cucked big time? theyve been dating for a couple months and she says he sucks at sex and has a small dick. i wanna crush this guy so hard. id really like to tell him in person how his apparently faithful gf is a slut

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I need to hide that I'm in summer school.

What excuse for being busy Wednesday nights is reasonable? I can't get a part-time job for this-- I'm taking too many hours.

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Ok, /adv/, what should I study in college?

Currently a freshman with flexible study program (applied physics, Eastern Europe)

I love biology and know much, but hate chemistry.
Chemistry doesn't make sense to me, I learn reactions only by heart. I'll try to improve it, but I don't feel I like it at all. Organic chemistry is hell.

Math, physics and programming are kinda interesting, I can understand them if I work on them enough time.

Now in addition to core math and physics I study chemistry and biology.
Should I drop them and pick signal processing, circuits, C/C++ programming, etc intead?

Is my choice important or I can fix it with graduate/doctorate?

If I switch to computer engineering-like program, I will be more closer to get medical equipment engineering, I guess. Is it cooler than math applications to biology?

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I'm a poor lowest-class third world cyborg frog .

I'm also dumb, slightly retarded and easy to troll and trick.

I am plumpy, have a painful hunched back and severe nearsightedeness among articular pains and maybe parkinson and dyabetes.

I'm a geeky nerdy outcast animu lover.

I Iove lolies and i am afraid or disgusted of adult women, except it they are petite or happy go lucky .

Since I was a child I never cared for other deaths or sufferings.

Its like I have a natural talent to get hated or laughed at.

Sometimes I would like to trade my life for a nuke that could wipe the country I live in with all the bastards I hate.

Since just killing myself would be so banal ,trivial and cheap and would give satisfaction to those who hate me.

I have been motivated by rich businessmen on youtube to get rich.

But, considering i'm dirty poor, ill, autistic and genereally hated, will I succeed?

I passed most of my life playing vidya, wasting time on the internet or getting even with assholes.

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I'm not expecting much help, but I want to get this off my chest: How do I stop being so terrible?

I dropped out of school twice in the past three years due to constant anxiety and motivation issues. I moved back in with my dad and work two shitty food service jobs, both of which I suck at everything outside of dealing with customers. It's funny, really: I'm the most personable cashier in the city in front of customers, but around my coworkers I'm an irritable, lazy ass who vocally despises any and all work. One of my bosses, whom I get along with extremely well and who often praises my 'work', just told me today that he needs to talk to me about multiple complaints about from other employees. I haven't worked at my other job for them to take issue with my neuroses yet, but it's only a matter of time before they find me insufferable as well.

I feel in my gut everyone around me - from random passerby to, and especially including, my close friends - mocks me, hates me, or even just feels off when looking at me simply by virtue of the fact that I exist. I look and dress in a fairly unassuming manner, sans the occasional band shirt, so the constant stares of drivers boring holes into me during my daily walk to the bus worries me to no end. My friends almost assuredly explicitly express such exhaustion and disdain given that they actually deal with me - my unreliability, my leeching, my obnoxiousness, my (occasional) belligerence. All but a literal handful don't even talk to me unless I actively reach out to them or have drugs, and I can't see how the handful who does would want anything to do with me.

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Why date a real girl? me and MaryJane have such a good relationship.
She helps me understand all about the world and people.
I feel so relaxed when I'm with her.
Food tastes better, orgasms are better, music is better - it's all shit when she's not there.
Also, and I'm not the violent type, but she would never cry if you hit her.

tell me why a real girl is better than drugs when you have friends and shit to splurge you emotional bullshit anyway.

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How great is it to have a big cock? First hand experience only?

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Hello, /adv/, how hard is it to self-educate electrical engineering, if you are majoring physics?