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where in Florida?? flordia mostly a hellscape other than Miami witch is still a hellscape but maybe 10% less of a hellscape. And by hellscape I don't mean the weather...

>>17183657
Probably around Jacksonville.

>>17183716
dunno too much about Jacksonville but I'm from Miami and I'm trying pretty hard to get out of this state...

>>17183616
You're going the smart route. Always take the core classes at CC, then transfer to university for the big stuff. The real question is, what are you going to school for? You don't want to end up with a useless degree after all that hard work.

You're taking the poorfag route, not the easy route.

When you transfer to a big school you'll be fine but might miss out on the freshman dorm experience. If you're OK with that, it's better off this way. You go to CC until 20/21, then go to a big school and you can buy booze. Going around to parties underaged getting sloshed isn't that great.

>>17183616

This is smart. You're honestly a dumbass if you think paying more money for core classes is better at a university. CC's are typically better at providing more one on one than a university where your merely a number.

murder her kids. That'll show her

>>17183626
This board gets worse and worse.

>>17183615
Just break up with her. Single moms are gross, especially when they try to dump their kids on you to go party. You aren't their father, are you at a place in your relationship where you should be raising them?

>>17183531
Depends the kind of music for me, also depends if it's a true rave. Some raves are 21+ or 18+ usually 18+ can still have kiddies that sneak in and are just sluts and don't appreciate the music. Just listen to the music try to understand and flow with it. You can try dancing, but most raves are just chilling, talking to people, dancing when something comes on that's worth dancing too, doing stuff. Meeting new friends. Every rave is different, any more info on the one you're looking at. Undergrounds are the best but since this is your first I don't think its an underground.

>>17183627
By doing stuff I meant drugs.

>>17183627
>>17183633
I see. So are you saying I should stay away from underage?

just date her, you might find you like her

>>17183466
If you don't love them- don't bother. You'll hurt everyone involved.
There's nothing wrong with having standards, if you're not happy with the person you're seeing- keep looking until you are.

You need to realize that there are more people out there for you and her. You could go for it, but it sounds like you're pretty convinced you're not really into it, and that's fine.

But do yourself the favor and go meet more people, you totally deserve to be stoked about whoever you're with.

What's the problem? Is she cute? Is she smart? Does she have a decent job? Is she responsible?

If you're getting cold feet because you just don't want to commit, grow up.

>>17183476
I hate to say this, but, she's my first girlfriend. I really don't know if this is going too fast or what.

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>>17183440
Is there a serious flaw somewhere deep in your relationship? Is there some life goal that being attached will hinder completely? What have you been waiting to do, that you think this commitment will prevent you from accomplishing?

You need to seek, ask, and answer these sorts of questions before you go making a hasty decision. You need to sit down with yo girl if there is anything like this going on and get real. Don't take the cunt's way out by doing some fade-away shit, and contriving bullshit to get her to want to leave you, you won't be doing anyone any favors.

Maybe the real thing that makes you not consider committing is that you are even considering something like this in the first place, that would give me pause to doubt for sure.

You're right to feel this is a big decision, don't treat it lightly.

Ask her. She's the only one who knows.

>>17183434
she said it was weird because it was deep and meaningful.

>>17183429
Maybe she meant "weird" as in unusual. That makes the most sense to me.

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>>17183436
chakras have nothing to do with satan, get a better pic.

>>17183428
Nah no kiss is better than a forced kiss. More importantly is if she knew it was a date. If you just asked her to hang out, chances are you were just hanging out, especially if you weren't flirty and mostly talking.

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>My trust and faith in people is shattered. I'm not one to be dependent on people in any way, but I am pretty fucking alone right now. I dread coming home from work now. This place doesn't feel like 'home' anymore.

>I've literally only been going out just to get drunk and fuck girls I meet off of OKC. However, I don't want to do this anymore. I don't want to invest myself in anything that intimate right now. It's too painful and I just need a friend.

>The only person that is around, reaches out to me, and consistently extends their support is this ex who is begging me to take her back and stay...

>I want to move. Most likely to move into NYC b/c I love 30 mins outside.

>Yeah, I know NYC is a big fucking city. but there's people everywhere else.

>Regardless of where I plan to move, I have no idea on how I would make friends. I've tried to meet guys on OKC platonically but they all turn out to be gay or not actually looking for 'friends', they just listed it.

>I feel like that weird internet guy I never thought i'd be.

>I need a new friend or squad to distract myself from all the noise in my off time.. The past 2 months have been okay for decompressing and reflecting, but it's getting to a point where I need to occupy myself differently..

How does one make new friends?
How have you guys done it?
Have any of you transplanted somewhere else and made new friends?
How so?

I'm in a hole...

bruhhh.

get a job or something.. find people through there??

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>>17183560

>my relationship is miserable because my girlfriend sucks

>worrying about the state of my miserable relationship being jeopardized by a trip to her parents' house.

Dump. Her.

>>17183437
I don't want to break up quite yet sorry I miswrote that. But its getting to that point and if she is hiding this from me then I think I will have to, but how can I continue working at the same place with her.

Bump. Also I made a mistake in the OP i don't quite want to break up yet.

>>17183376
Yeah. Twice in fact. It sucks, but the first time is the worst. Just work out a bunch, find a hobby, and keep on keepin on. Someone better will come along. IMO It's one of those things where every person should go through it at least once in their life. People can be sleazebags, and the more experienced you are with them, the better off you'll be.

>>17183376
just found out 2 months ago this give i've been with for a year cheated on me with a guy (was a close friend) i've known for 10 years.

it's the most devastating thing someone has ever done to me. i've been beat up, called racists shit, ostracized, etc.. but never a betrayal like this.

i lost my shit when i found out, went into a deep depression and got completely wasted on a substance binge for 2 weeks

where am I now??

well my friend group/relationship is kinda fucked. i'm better and sober, but i'm still depressed.

I've literally only been going out just to get drunk and fuck girls I meet off of OKC. However, I don't want to do this anymore. it feels sad. I don't want to invest myself in anything that intimate right now. i don't want to hurt anyone. It's too painful and I just need a friend.

meanwhile, this girl is begging me to stay, telling me she wants to start over and shit. claims i'm her soul mate and she's realized where her heart lies and what's important to her... She even says she wants us to move somewhere and maybe get married. She wants to marry me lol.. idk

i just graduated from college and i'm trying to figure my shit out.

overall, i'm anxious and depressed on a daily basis. i'm still hurting and am trying to heal. it sucks

>>17183376
>>17183622
my current situation
>>17183427

It is but that is definitely a beta move.

>>17183357
This poster is "right", even if he's got no clue if what he's talking about.

The better thing to do is to just do the thing you miss. Ignite a conversation that will lead to you guys talking like you used to.

This is the same as guys asking /adv about whether they should tell a girl that they like her. Unfortunetaly /adv is a bunch of clueless idiots for the most part, so it ends in bickering between "yes" and "no", when the obvious answer is don't tell her - SHOW HER

>>17183357
>>17183380
Thanks familia. Gonna just try to get a convo going instead of being a beta about it. Even though she does like the fact that I'm sensitive and shit.

Life might suck but beats not existing. Find something you might like a lot but can be completely useless and hold it. Drugs are not allowed though.

>>17183295

Alcohol

Mix it up.

Unless you were born rich, you need income to survive.

Do what you can with what you have.

>look at me i'm depressed, i take meme drugs so i can sleep, it's like a trophy in form of chemicals

Don't take them. Find a way to avoid drugs.

>>17183271
But they really seem to help.

>>17183251
It might help if you give some sort of information about her (what you do with her, her hobbies, her personality... shit like that).

You'll want to give her something that'll make her remember you everytime she looks at it. Something that she can show her friends and make them jealous. Something that she'd identify her own personality with, which shows you actually know her and care about her.

Picture in a nice and reasonably small frame. It sentimental, reminds her of you and all sorts of other shit like that.

Why bother?

You might as well buy a meal for a homeless person.

She probably won't care about the gift anyway.