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>>17185681

stop fucking her. it makes you feel worse. i know you think it helps to have her there, but also BAIT.

>>17185688
no b8, I promise. I'm so pathetic I dont have any other friends so I spend all my time waiting for that couple hours every other day I get to see her and it makes me feel wanted, even for the wrong reasons

should I keep acting unaffected by this but deep down I am very affected?

>>17185665
So try again? Not in this topic though because every post in here will be to tell you to stop being a bitch.

If you want good advice don't go to 4chan. This board alone is riddled with trolls, cucks, and attention seekers. I think you know this though and are an attention seeker yourself.

>>17185665

hard to say without telling us what the problem is. generally you have to make sure you word advice correctly.

but one thing you have to consider is that many people come here saying they want advice, but in reality they want a magical option that fixes everything.

the phrase 'you cant have your cake and eat it to' came about because cakes were considered pretty, something nice to look at. cakes are somewhat of a decoration for a party. you cannot have your cake (as in there, to look at) and also eat the cake.

everything comes with a sacrifice. saying 'how can i ask out a girl without risking my friendship with her' is impossible.

many times when a guy asks how to do something that is considered extremely basic like 'how can i get the courage to ask a girl out' it literally is a matter of 'manning up'. same for things like 'how can i get my co worker to stop being mean' or other things.

Neither.

Just prove to us you're not a waste of oxygen.

>>17185662
>she thinks she's so mighty because males want to stick a dick in her hole
lmao

>>17185662
what makes someone not a waste of oxygen?

I understand you, but I would consider other options in your case. Since you pretty much have godlike pretty over him, you can mold him whatever you want him to be, and yes that includes being not a clingy loser. You have great power, use it well.

>>17185638
*power, not pretty

you can't stay with someone out of obligation.

what are you going to do pretend to be happy for the rest of your life? and you cant so you'd just be passively upset with him as opposed to directly.

no matter which way you slice it its a bad situation. so whats best, staying and faking it and destroying him when he learns his whole life is a lie? or breaking up with him and letting him cope while its still a fresh relationship?


men like to say 'you make me a better man'. but you only make him a better man if hes still better when you are gone. otherwise you only make him a fraud.

you cannot date someone hoping the wont kill themselves. everyone dates. everyone breaks up. if you are willing to break up over a relationship of just six months, then you are not healthy enough to have been dating to begin with.

just break up with him. as bitchy as you may seem from the post, it is life that people are going to break up with you. you are not responsible for anything he does.

>>17185565

you stick your penis in the vagina.

>>17185565
Jerk off a bunch before seeing her; you need to be able to last longer than 5minutes. Do a lot of foreplay as well.

The right home is the middle one between the belly button and the pooper. Insert your peepee the and move back and forth until you cum.

>American
>No Debt
pick one

>>17185567
">No Debt
Yep. I'd rather go to Japan and work as an English Teacher than be weighed with the siniste burden of debt. Fuck creditor calls and fuck those looming bank ceos with their highfalutin ways. Fuckin' cunts m8."

anyways, back to the topic at hand

The idea was to have this all sorted out before you graduated because schools that accepted your application would have a lot more helpful information regarding your finances there

Recent music grad here. You have some options. Managing websites, making your own, working graveyard shifts, are ways to avoid scheduling issues and still have time to practice. However, it may not be the most reliable source of income. I personally go for the 9-5, practice when I get home and occasionally play gigs at night or on the weekend.

>>17185476

>excuses

people have done a lot worse and given it their all. this is kind of why adults hate millenials, cuz you act like you simply can't do something, but until recent history it didnt matter if you couldn't 'comfortably' do your best.

you had to work two part time jobs while also finding ways to study in between customers while also doing your work. yes it was hard. yes it was difficult. it took a LOT of adapting and doing things you'd never done before.

this is what is called 'life'.

you have to 'give your best' no matter what the odds are. thats how all the successful people make it.

the rest of us just say 'OHHH I COULD BE THE BEST IF ONLY I COULD DEDICATE MY WHOLE DAY TO THIS'

then proceed to shitpost on 4chan for 3 hours instead of squeezing in what they can.

>>17185507
Where can i find a website management job?
>>17185525
this doesn't help me, i understand that maybe i don't seem enthusiastic about having to work, but i'm doing this, i'm just seeking advice on how to do it

>>17185451
If that's you in the picture, you could obviously do escorting.

You could be a paraprofessional and work with autistic kids, either in school or as a tutor.
Or you could just suck it up and driver for uber, which isn't the worst way to make money, but drivers are starting to make less now.

>>17185451
Babysitting one kid with special needs, or two typical kids, easily brings in $20+ hr where I live. Look for a preschool with a morning program (many run from 8 or 9-1) and advertise availability in the afternoons?

>>17185443
You know her better than we do. Or maybe you don't? In that case, get her a 24" dildo because she's a dirty little slut.

>>17185443
>implying all girls are the same, so we'll magically know what yours likes

Fuck, dude, mine would be thrilled if I took her on a day trip to her favorite fishing spot.

You're going to have to tell us wtf your girl is into and not into if we're going to give ideas.

OP here
first of all she is a very tender girl.
she is also very romantic but not in that way that she has to show everyone her feelings.
she loves nature, being outside, doing stuff, taking pictures, singing. after all she is quite extrovert.
and the girl about we are talking appreciates culture and other cultural stuff.
do not suggest me to give her a ticket to some city or book a hotel because she already expect it

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>>17185408
>cont'd
Then she went to college. Had a party and did a little dance in front of this fucking guy RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME. I confronted her and she said "no, that didn't happen". And that was that.

I hate her, but I'm mostly mad at myself for letting her get away with this shit.

Eventually I got tired of her horseshit and broke up with her. We were separated for a year before we got back together. She eventually blew her brains out. Currently pissing on her grave.

>mfw her family played "all the single ladies at her memorial"

>>17185408
>>17185428

Oh look, another cuckbait thread. I look forward to the day when Cuckfags all embrace their homosexuality or kill themselves.

>>17185408
Sh8 b8 m8 I r8 .8 out of 888

Expect nothing but hope for everything

It could be a movie night
It could be cuddles and some company
It could be insane sex all night long

Girls are strange creatures that never say what they mean in a clear way.

Nobody here can tell either.
Why do you have to know? I understand why you'd want to. I'd also appreciate if someone gave me the courtesy of showing me their intent but we can't expect that sadly.

Your place or her place?

>>17185341
if you had oral sex you're not a virgin

oh also, no escort is going to come back to your place they'll always either do it at their place or neutral ground like a hotel room

Why not. Tell her beforehand you're a virgin so she will know and be able to put you at ease.

probably not unless you style it that way

i have a mix of curly/wavy/straight medium-thickness hair and mine is barely that puffy when it's that length unless i put some product in

Generally speaking, hair gets wavier/curlier when you cut it short because obviously you don't have the added weight of the rest of the hair pulling it down.

Try taking a look at your shorter hairs and see whether they tend to be frizzy or curly, and take a note of what other family members have curly hair.

Also, that actress is wearing a wig, just so you know.

Your local drug store has probably got DOZENS of different brands of jells, mousses, potions, and concoctions that will add body to your hair if you need to.

>>17185302
being more paranoid/anxious no
being slow yes

try going to a doctor and getting a referral to see an actual specialist instead of your mother who could be doing more harm than good since you guys don't know your actual issue.

>>17185302
Stop taking it. I promise it will fuck you up. Please do some detailed research on this med. look up the actual drug, not the brand name. Start reading the forums on quitting these meds, and you'll see what a soul crushing mind fuck it is. Your anxiety pales in comparison to what these will do to you if you continue to ingest toxic biological poison.

>>17185320
get the fuck out of here with your hippy dippy shit, proper use of the medication causes zero problems.

>>17185226
As long as you're grateful and honestly apologize and do your best its going to be fine

I had a gf thst i had to stop from killing herself, tell her everyday that i won't leave her and thst she can stay at my place as long as she needs

Its poison yes but try to realize he's not lying and he obviously loves you

>>17185226
If you want to keep him then get the fuck out of your broken head and talk to him. He loves you. Just be honest. You'll let him out his penis in you but you can't talk to him? What the fuck, society?

>>17185226
Wait until he eventually dumps you (he will), then find another mentally unstable person you're attracted to and then enjoy and suffer each other's madness.

the only way

also don't listen to these fucking normies above me, they don't even know what they're talking about
they think mental illnesses are cured by "just being urself bro"