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Im on the same boat, 19 and my hairline looks just like yours, maybe a bit more sharp. Im also boyish looking and cant grow beard, so either embracing the manly balding hairstyle with beard or just getting a clean cut wont work for me...

>>17185897

hard to tell since you cover your face, and we kinda gotta see your face to know for sure what style would suit it.

but yeah that is an unfortunate hairline. i have one too, not as bad as yours but it is / will get there.


you should consider starting a savings account and putting aside al little money each month. hair transplants arent all that expensive compared to the other nonsense that exists in terms of plastic surgery.

i hear about 4000 dollars to fill in major gaps or something. im not sure. you'll have to look into it. but ultimately not a bad thing to spend money on.

consider going to your bank and taking out a personal line of credit. mine was 5000. if you can do that and pay it off its great. but if not im sure you can pinch some pennies and save up for a year or two depending on your station in life. you might have to sacrifice but worth it imo

>>17185916
It's fucked up, man. I couldn't have afford it in million years. I'm currently in college and I'm glad when I can get me some food from time to time. Sure I'm gonna have some job at summertime but still...
>>17185912
Sorry to hear that. I can't grow a beard either yet, but I doubt that it'll fit my face. Can't even shave my head because of fucked jawline.

As long as your mother supports him you can't do anything.

>>17185896
>suicidal
Sounds like the problem can work itself out just fine if you stop resisting it. It'll hurt, but it's less of a lingering hurt.

>>17185898
She won't stop supporting him.

So I should suppress my anger towards him and just let things carry on as they are?

>>17185847

there are ways and i will list them, but the majority of people simply say

>that would never work cuz id just find a way around it

and that is true. advice is not magic. it is simply advice. you still need one tiny spark of motivation to get it done.

here are your options the further down you go the more effort it requires but the less easy it is to slip back

>put porn blockers on your web browsers.

they exist

>take the door off of its frame

hard to masturbate if you cannot close the door

>put the computer in a common area

when we were younger our houses had like 1 computer and it was in the living room so you couldnt really masturbate except on special occassions. this might help.

>get rid of the internet.

most people dont need the internet on a computer anymore, your phone will do everything you need. you might also have to cut out things like netflix but yeah, it'll stop you from looking at porn


also, dont save any files no matter how hot and hard to find that particular file was.l

>>17185853
>>put porn blockers on your web browsers.
>they exist
Oh shit, I totally forgot about this sort of thing. Thank you!

The rest are kind of an impossibility - I need my laptop for school and work.

>>17185858

whatever works.

I'll have sex with you and your pimply butt

1. pay special attention to washing your ass. perhaps get an exfoliator -- i use this: http://www.lushusa.com/Buffy/9999902127,en_US,pd.html

it makes your ass super soft and you can use it all over your body if you want

2. cotton underwear

3. less tight shorts/pants until the problem goes away

>>17185766
It's not actually acne, it's folliculitis. Listen to >>17185775 . It'll clear up in a few days to a week.

Seduce and sleep with her, then get her fired. Afterwards, drop a small hint so she remembers who you are.

>No way in hell am I gonna forgive her

You probably just should. Don't go through life holding grudges. I talked to one of my biggest bullies from childhood about what happened and he apologized profusely... then he tried to have gay sex with me.

>>17185841
>>17185865
So OP should just hate fuck this girl?

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Pregnancy is possible, but unlikley.

>>17185604
damn, boy

you're like the holy spirit making virgin woman pregnant.

could be just a late period, it happens. could be not. buy a pharmacy preg test and find out

>>17185604
Congratulations daddy.

get comfortable with your body

>body is under construction

Wait, we have this shit already?

Where did you upload your mind while you wait?
I want to be the robot.

>>17185512

go to nudist events. learning to be casual is kind of the same as learning to be confident.

the thing is that nudist events have some ripped people. but also a lot of fat or ugly people. you will be somewhere in the middle. by going you get used to showing off your body and realizing that it doesnt matter if you got a little extra meat here, or arent as toned here, or your gut sticks out just the tiniest bit past your chest. you learn that not every single person in the world is sititng there and judging you and that you are generally on the better end of things.

this kind of confidence carries over into your entire life. if you can be normal when you are naked, you can be confident when you are clothed. its pretty awesome. changed my life to be honest.

also, consider not acting like you are under 'construction'. becuase we are ALWAYS under construction. there will likely never be aday where you wake up and say 'THERE MY BODY IS FINALLY COMPLETE I CAN DATE NOW'

begin putting yourself out there now. immediately. talk to everyone you see. not just hot chicks, but old ladies and dudes and anyone you can. just learn to talk to people. learn to randomly approach people (or rather, strike up conversations with whoever yo uare around). that way when you do approach hot women its no big deal.

but dont act like you are in a cocoon. thats a bad mindset. cuz you will always be scultping, never feel ready, and likely end up quitting because 3 years in you'll have results but not the results you want / the supposed end game.

You should clarify what you have been acting like to us. I assume you suck at most of your job, and to compensate your a negative nacy/hyper critical of everyone else's work. Is that right/did I miss anything?

>>17185356

Yes, I do have some difficulties at my job. People also rated me as being disorganized, which I agree 100%. I'm working on that.

At the workplace I'm very quiet person. I find it very difficult to connect with people there and when I'm facing a conflict - a healthy discussion -, I tend to impose my way of thinking in an arrogant way.

I also have a problem with the way I articulate my way of thinking. When someone disagrees with me, I act with impatience.

I also tend to be very selective with the people whom I talk to.

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I think that the font of this arrogance of mine comes from the fact that I don't know how to socialize.

My life is so messy right now that I don't feel this huge need to be a fun, cheerful person, who likes to talk to everyone, about everything.

OP here. I typically have pretty severe limitations when talking to women casually. Like voice paralysis and shit or my mind going blank.

Today I was mighty though. Even mores I than I imagined. I talked to a woman casually no issues. On the bus with others in earshot. Other people being around makes me faulter really bad but today I withstood it.

Before I spoke to her, I felt the demob of fear on my back telling me to just ignore the opportunity. So many times this happened... But not today. I casted it out of my mind and was able to take this opportunity. It was a good moment. My mind felt so free and more confident after.

I feel better.. I know this won't be the last I hear from fear but I will be ready to cast it out again. This day marks a day when I was mighty and fears and anxiety could not hold me back.

Remember these days. Forget the weak ones.

I was following your OP, op, but then you talked about talking to a grill on a buss being mighty. Okay, I get that it's all relative, but raise your fucking standards.

>>17185363
>talked to a woman
>I AM POWERFUL

Your ancestors are laughing at you.

Yes but you should try talking to him first.

>>17184837
Look up local sound ordinances in your county. There's usually an hour in the morning and evening that you can't do anything before or past that creates a certain level of sound

Additionally, stop being a fucking pussy. He's not just staring at his bike. He's listening to the engine idle and throttle to make sure there's nothing wrong with it before he gets on. It's called saftey .

>>17184848
So every time you get in your car you run it and rev the engine to make sure it won't randomly fall apart?

a very intense allergic reaction, get yourself to the hospital

get to a motherfucking hospital before your throat swells and you die you lil shit

>>17184748
what the fuck is wrong with you anon, stop being such a fat fuck and get your ass to the hospital instead of consulting 4chin

>>17184732
go for the shy ones, they're usually really clingy once you ask them out, or the ones that hate their bodies, but that ones not as easy to spot unless they're fat.

you don't like asian grills?

>>17184744
How do I find these grils mang? I like seemingly shy and innocent girls. Asian girls can be qt too, but I want that novel white poon who has a major Asian fetish.

>>17184831
I'm a white woman, I have yellow fever.

You get them the same way a white guy would, by being confident, relaxed, and well groomed. I'd hit up educated girls if you can instead of white trash. So college functions would be your best bet.

Does anything you do make it worse/better?

>>17184694
Well I have exams next week and I have been studying my ass off. I get up around half seven, go to community college till about 4 come home at 5.Eat and study till 9. I then shower and play vidya for a while.

>Ireland

Have you been drinking?

Also Fuck you captcha I'm not typing that shit

What is love ?

>>17184614
Baby don't hurt me.

>>17184588
I think that love is a very strong, real, possibility in someone's life. It's when you finally find someone that compliments everything that you are as a person. When you feel so comfortable around someone that you can take a shit in front of them and it doesn't matter to either party involved. Someone that will kiss you while you're making that shit and smile. Someone who you feel makes your heart grow and become something indescribable. You just want to share your entire life and all that you will experience with this one person. You want to curl up beside them and somehow morph into them. That's what I think about love.

men are told they have to achieve things and be interesting to get women. women just have to look pretty

>>17184269
because women have turned into the breadwinners and roles are reversed. most of the worlds top chefs are men...
plus most women have this i cant be fucked mentality, and leave somebody else to do it instead of doing it themselves

>>17184269
Be the exception.

I'm also 18/f and I'm training in automotive mechanics. I'm in a class of seven and there is only one other female. I have the least experience overall but I'm out performing the lot on our tests because I pay the most attention and apply myself.

My trainer even put me forward for an apprenticeship (as well as two of the boys) and I was the only one so far to get a call back.

All you have to do is try harder than they are, be more passionate, consume more information and be confident in your abilities.