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>be 24
>finish my bachelor degree
>figure I'd do a master on top of it
>pick something accountancy related
>I don't get it at all
>the switch year took to 2 years instead of 1
>I finished all subjects of my master in 3 years instead of 1
>my thesis still isn't done yet
>am 30 now
>unemployed
>live with my parents
>still only have my bachelor degree because my thesis isn't done yet
>all my friends have houses and kids
Woopsie. I feel the problem is I can't focus when I don't enjoy something. And I hate the thesis. Especially because everyone around me is pressuring me to do it I can't even focus on it. It's not happening.
Should I just drop the master? I feel like I'm chasing the whale. I've wasted too much time on it. My life is a mess and I feel I need to fix it. Getting a job, a house and a family should be my top priority.
My brother also asked me to start a website with him. If I get a job I can't do that and my thesis at the same time.
What do you guys think? Should I just admit my failure and move on?
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I don't understand, did you put your whole life on hold for this masters or something? I also don't understand why it took you 6 years to realise that maybe this isn't for you
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what shit school lets you flounder around for 6 years??
>Should I just admit my failure and move on?
yeah.
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>start at 24
>took 3 years instead of 1
>be 27
>time warp to 30
>woops i dungoofed
I think the real problem might be the drugs you're on OP.
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I really like olives, but I ate all the olives I had in my penthouse.
I can't go out to buy them, because all the shopping malls are closed because of a volcano alert.
What can I eat that is similar to olives, but not olives or caviar?
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>>17252676
suk dic.
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eggs they are kind of oval shaped like olives.
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grapes drenched in salt water.
I hear though, that testicles are a decent substitute.
Or you could just get over it and hold out because im sure you have food moron.
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My bottom lip has a split in my middle and is irritating me all day now, how can I make it more bearable?
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Use some fucking lipbalm
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>>17252666
Speak more quietly for the next few days. Stretch your lips less (don't exaggerate your 'Es')
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>>17252666
drink and eat a lot of things that have Vitamin C including things like Oranges, sure it'll sting like a bitch for a day or two but it'll be fine.
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> first girlfriend
> 6/10 face, lovely girl
> she little chubby, but not handsome enough to complain
> she's in love with me
> I don't know how to properly tap someone kinda heavier than me, and i'm not /fit/ faggot, I'm pretty skinny honestly
> How the fuck do I properly please her while having so many apprehension about her body ? (+ not wanting to show her that, don't want to shame her or give her a complex about it)
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>>17252652
>she little chubby
No she's not, she's a fatass. If she was merely a 'little chubby,' then you wouldn't have trouble fucking her
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>>17252669
Meh. I'm 55kg and she's probably 60-65 which is pretty chubby for her size but it's not that huge matter of fact I didn't notice it that much. I just don't know how to handle her.
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>>17252680
55 kg? Jesus, kids should stay out of this place.
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Hi /adv/ im a 22yo guy and i have a pretty fucked up problem. My father has been an alcoholic since i remember, not that he would become physically agressive against anyone in my family, but he has totally destroyed his body over the years. He now is 80% disabled and needs day and night care. I personally also have a huge drinking problem which i really cant control anymore.I dont live at my home but i feel its kind of my duty to care for him. On the other hand i had a time in my 16-20s where i was permanently living with the thought of him dying soon. What do you guys think of my Situation? I have often thought about asking someone but never had the balls to.
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>>17252635
You're doing the first step man, I don't about your father his situation is way more messed up than yours, what's done is done. But you, you admit being an alcoholic and caring too much about your father.
This is nice, now that you know where you're stepping, let's slowly change.
> How's life ? Studies ? Work ?
> Have some discipline, don't sleep too late and wake up early, a cliché as it may sound it will stop you from drinking early in the morning.
> Set yourself some goals, change your daily habits, busy yourself with activities so that you don't be all day drinking.
> Anyone who cares about you ? Tell him/her how you feel, talk about your situation and what do you want to change and how you will do it. Saying publicly your goals will help you following the right path to do it, you might even get good advice
Plus this drinking addiction seems to be triggered by your situation, you need to fix your context otherwise every action you will do against the drinking problem will be nullified, go get a good psychologist if you have the money, or even the alcoholics anonymous. RELY ON OTHERS
Anymore questions ? I'm a student in psychology I know some stuff
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Its not that im aware of my whole problems recently but i cant think of a good start. My studies are doing meh, i never did much for school and mostly made it to where I am by learning not more than 2-3 days for my exams. Its that I travel between the place where I study and my hometown mostly on the weekends and when im at my hometown im mostly around friends which leads to me going to bed early. During the week I try to eat better than the past years which works most of the time. It's not that I'm drinking every day, I don't even feel the urge to but when I go out on the weekends 1/4 times I get so fucked up that I dont know how I came home. I did go to the gym regularely for 3 years but I haven't been there for almost two years now. I talked about this with some of my closest friends but they are not really a big help, can't tell you why. What would you do in a case of internet addiction ? I need my pc for studying and exams are in 3 weeks. I also think a lot about my father being dead, although he is still alive.... I can't really do anything with him besides talking about some unimportant stuff.
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>>17252684
First time posting on 4chan so I didn't know how to use the reply function
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So im not sure how to go about this, I feel like this girl does like me and she did seem interested, but she doesnt respond. Any idea what I should do?
Story:
I asked this girl at work out after a few weeks of flirting. Shes always smiling and making eye contact with me. When I asked her out (Last Sunday) for this weekend she said she was busy all weekend, so I asked for her number and she gave it to me and we joked a bit before she left. Later that night I texted her my number.
The day after I asked her whats up, but she never replied. But I saw her the next day at work, so I played it cool. Four days later (Last Thursday) I asked her again when she would be free this weekend (I knew she was busy from the first time I asked), she replied that she was busy with work and saturday she had to go to a party and sunday had to spend time with family. I said its all good but asked what days she thinks she will be free next week, but she never replied. I saw her again on Friday, but I didn't want to bring up that she never replied to me, but she was still smiling and making eye contact with me, and had a little small talk with her again and that was it.
I wont be at work until Friday this week so the only way to ask her is texting again which she doesnt seem to reply to. Is there any way to ask her straight up if shes interested or not or how long should I wait before I ask if shes gonna be busy again? Should I say anything if she doesn't respond again?
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From her perspective
>this guy cornered me at work
>asked me for my number, couldn't think of an excuse that wouldn't make working together awkward
>ignoring his texts, hoping he'll get the hint
>keeps asking me out, I keep making excuses
>holy shit, he still doesn't get the hint
>have to act civil at work because, you know, it's work
>how the fuck do I get him to leave me alone??
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>>17252643
Maybe, though she did say yes when I asked her if she was interested in going out for lunch some time before I even asked for her number. Should I just leave it be?
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>>17252681
Not the dude but my advice would be :
Yeah you could leave it be, or even be sincere about it.
Irl or even by a text message.
> "I suppose you read my text and didn't answer to avoid rejecting me, I seem to understand you don't feel the same way I do, I am really sorry I thought we could hang out and we will forget about that and keep it professional "
Something along the lines of this, mine is roughly done so change it up and make it smoother
Let's be clear, that is not getting you the pussy, but it's helping to get a better relation out of your awkward trap. And that is making it safe for another time to try when she changes her mind. She might even understand that you're a nice dude and come back to you after months of work together who knows, but let's not fool ourselves right now.
Is someone being too ghetto legitimate grounds for not dating them?
She's a really nice person and I like her public self, but in private, her family is ratchet as fuck.
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>>17252631
The apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Don't do it. You'll regret it. What if she gets pregnant?
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Yes.
And holy fuck that's a hot gif of Dwayne
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>>17252631
Is it just her family that's ratchet or is she like that too? She might be fine, don't dismiss her for her family.
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>looking for apartments
>go on Craigslist and email everyone
>emailed 20+ people
>literally only 1 of them has even emailed back whatsoever
>it's been about 1 week
>tour the place real quick
>they never even message back after that
What the fuck am I doing wrong?
What do I do? Like what am I supposed to say to people in the first email? Is there some reason nobody is responding? The listings are still up
All in all I'm super easy to get along with because I'm clean and keep to myself. Have a decent job and everything.
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>>17252624
>What the fuck am I doing wrong?
trying to rent as opposed to buy
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>>17252624
Maybe you look poor
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>>17252624
>go on Craigslist and email everyone
>Craigslist
There's your problem
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Retard here,
I havent had a gf in 3 years and im generally pretty independent and self sufficient. Right now,my focus is to,get into grad school.
Anyways there is this grill who i started talking to out of the blue because i thought she was cool as fuck (she is also gorgeous). We have good rapport, and i casually mentioned things that i do, and she said "id like,to check that out sometime" or "id be down to go" does that mean shes into me and wants to spend time with me? Im completely oblivious when it comes to this.
As an added plot twist, she recently left the country for some school things. Should i maintain contact through email? What do i say?
Im aware i sound autistic as fuck, im generally not this autistic, but the whole not seeing her for a month to ask her out and gauge her interest was a real curve ball thrown at me
Thanks in advance
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>>17252621
Just send her a text, or if email's better do that, every once in a while. Not everyday, just every so often through the month.
Some people may or may not take this interest in contact as a want for a relationship. Either way it's good for you if you want a relationship.
Bring up things like "How's it going over there?" or "I went to this place" or "I checked out this [thing]. Thought you might like it too"
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You should look within yourself for the answer.
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>>17252765
That is the most non-answer out there you fuck.
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Im mildly schitzophrenic and I applied for disability but I have been denied. I want to become a truck driver but I hear that you cant be on any medications which make you drowsy and on top of that schitzophrenia is a disqualifying condition. But truck driving seems like the only job I could really do. Im fat and lazy and look like white trash so I probably wouldn't fit in in an office. And I really cant do much physical labor because Im too fat. So what should I do?
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You're diagnosed right? How the fuck did you get denied with schizophrenia.
If that's the case take it as a sign to be thankful. If you're denied disability the government is basically saying 'we don't think you're hopeless'. Schizophrenia is fucking horrible and comorbid with not-as-bad things like depression. So instead of giving up and going for the most isolating career you can find, fight it. Don't isolate yourself and don't settle for mediocrity.
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You should follow your objectives and try your best.
Not trying would be worse.
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>>17252602
I really think truck driving is the only thing I can do. I suck at talking to people. Im shy and socially awkward and pretty white trashy and im fat. Really I think its the only carreer I could get into where people wouldn't be judging me because Im soo quiet and I look like white trash and don't have any marketable skills.
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I just got a call from an unknown number. It was a well spoken Indian who knew my address and my whole social security number. I didn't confirm it was mine, I had it on speaker and whispered "holy shit" to my cousin. They hung up after that. I put a freeze on my credit, checked my reports and no inquiries have been made or any new accounts created.
Will I be alright?
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Pls guys
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you are going to die in 7 days
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Give him what he wants.
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Hey /adv/ i don't post here often but i really need help now
I've always been awkward around girls but i still hung out with a few
my 21st birthday is coming up and i would like to lose my virginity to one of them
ive been texting her for the past few weeks
she seems to really like talking to me and tries to stretch the conversation as long as possible
but i can never keep the conversation going
we talk but it dies in a few minutes all the time
i text her the usual hey, whats up, what you doing
and that shit isnt getting me anywhere
any tips on how to keep a conversation going
or anything to further my chance of sex next week?
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>>17252563
You've become her texting buddy.
Most likely isn't going to happen brother. You have to make your intentions sexual from the get go or nothing is going to happen.
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>>17252573
How would i even make my intentions sexual?
not even good at flirting, how do i intrigued her?
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Have you tried asking her out? Also "can I lose my virginity to you for my birthday" is never going to work
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Posted this in the girls ask guys thread, but I decided that this sort of needed it's own thread.
Boyfriend is getting more and more distant and it's scaring the shit out of me.
In the first couple months that we started seeing each other, he was literally obsessed with me, we talked all the time.
Now that we're nearing month six, getting him to talk to me is like pulling teeth. He has all sorts of serious emotional baggage in his past (was raped, molested, beaten to a pulp in school, was never close with any of his family, ect), so I understand that he's probably terrified of having a real emotional connection with me, it's probably why he makes up lies and excuses as to why he can't talk to me.
...But he gets so fucking happy when he drops me off or when I leave (it's long distance, two-hour trip). Like, ecstatic. He's really happy the whole way to drop me off. Last time he dropped me off, he was grinning as he kissed me goodbye and fucking fist-pumped "Yes!" as he was getting back into his car. I don't think he knew I was watching.
Recently it's been seeming like he's been coming up with excuses not to see me when I try to make plans with him. Last time it was something along the lines of "I'm not sure I have the money to spoil you", he usually takes me out to all kinds of places whenever he can when we're together, which is also concerning in itself, because I've talked to him about him not needing to blow all kinds of money on me, yet he insists on doing it anyway. That's a different story, though.
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I talked to him today about getting together later this week, said he's broke and won't have enough money for gas, so I told him I'd make the drive up this time. He usually picks me up because I have Aspergers and ADHD, both factors that make me shit at driving. He made these weird moans and sighs almost the whole time while he was talking to me, like making conversation with me was agonizing or something he really, really didn't want to do. I asked if there was anything wrong, he said he was fine several times.
Money has never been an issues before, and I'm not sure why he gets so happy when I leave. The last time we hung out, we had a great time and nothing came up, so I don't understand why he'd still be so happy to let me go. We have fantastic physical intimacy, but I've been suspecting that he's cheating for a while, and I'm sort of close to finding out by my own means if he's been faithful (not disclosing what, exactly).
But we've made future plans and he says that he's never going to leave me, and he still tells me that he loves me. I'm just not sure I can take any more at this point.
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>>17252548
>In the first couple months that we started seeing each other, he was literally obsessed with me, we talked all the time.
>Now that we're nearing month six, getting him to talk to me is like pulling teeth.
Things were great in the honeymoon phase and now that its over your relationship has fizzled out. First you're close, then you drift apart.
It happens all the time. Sorry.
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>>17252554
I really don't think that's what it is though. Like I said, I've given him several opportunities to back out of the relationship or to leave, I still do sometimes. He's chosen to stay every time.
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How do I know wether I'm gay?
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Hey \adv\, so my problem is, I(20m) never really felt any affection towards women, and I'm not sure if thats a sign that I'm gay?
Like I even feel some kind of disgust towards them? Idk, how to describe it. And no I'm not a mysogonist , I think I may feel like that cause my mother has some legit psychological problems.
For example when I browse \hm\ I feel a tingly feeling in my stomach, but when i browse \s\ nothing really. On the other hand maybe I just masturbate too much?
When I am on nofap I have the urge to fuck some women, but its my dick speaking, no real feelings involved, like the tingly feeling mentioned above.
So How do I tell?
No I'm not a virgin and I'm relatively attractive, so that isnt the issue.
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4chan creates yet another faggot.
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you could be demisexual
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>>17252611
Why do you think that?
>>17252523
Nah this time its not 4chans fault...I think
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How can I fix pockmarked/minor acne scarred skin? Male/27.
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>>17252481
My forehead in particular.
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Is it actually indented, or is it spots of smooth discoloration?
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I've heard dermabrasion might work.