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>>17281503
Women box too, fag.

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i would suggest learning the absolute basics before going to a boxing gym and trying to get yourself in. there are many tutorials on youtube that can really help you out

though, if you want to become more of man, and you dont really love boxing, i think it would be much better for you to give yourself an exercise and healthy living regimen. there are DEFINITELY many videos on how to start that on youtube. you dont necessarily have to box to be healthy and know how to fight. if i had to give you the advice on how to start it, i would tell you to start with cutting out very obviously unhealthy foods, and bodyweight exercises, such as pushups, squats, beginner stuff, etc. and work your way from there

would i go to /fit/ for that? i dont know

>>17281577
But boxing is still very manly isn't it.

>>17281618
Are you saying this from your own boxing experience?
>bodyweight exercises, such as pushups, squats, beginner stuff, etc. and work your way from there
Obviously.

I'm wondering more about boxing itself though, what it's like starting out.

No, it's just that some people aren't completely selfish. The most important thing you can do in life is to ensure the existence of your family in the next generation, and raise those kids to be even better than you were. It's literally the reason we're here. Get over yourself, you can handle a little frustration. Tell me what else you're doing with your life that's so important

>>17281521
>Being so self centered you think out of billions of people it's your responsibility to reproduce
>Being such a narcissist that you think your bloodline has earned a place in the future based on some hand-wavey, spooky idea of "purpose"
For many people, the best thing they can do for their kids is not to have any. More people need to learn this.

Your sister just doesn't have any control over her kids. It's because they don't respect her. This is either because she appeases them and doesn't discipline them, or because she isn't around enough. Her kids don't have any sense of respect, nor do they have any sense of independence or personal responsibility.

The best thing you can do for your kids is support them in their pursuits, encourage them to push through and face obstacles, act as a guide, and not just do things for them. Show them how to do things, then make them figure out how to do those things. When the kids learn to be successful and gain confidence in their own abilities, they'll respect you more, especially if you make them face the consequences of their own actions.

>>17281430
Looks like you still got a chance to me

>>17281430
She feels bad, and is just trying to smooth over the situation so that you don't hate her. She rejected you, so she's not into you. If a girl wants to be with a guy, then she'll be with him. This one wants to stay on friendly terms, but that's it.

>>17281510
Or she wants him to do a better job at building attraction with her.

You know, like someone not a loser who understand women better than you naturally would think.

"Goes there"

It's a fragmented sentence. Where is there?

Also you could either remove the word "recently" or put it before the word "opened" although I think that is just personal preference.

Nobody goes there anymore, since they opened the new Walmart recently.

^ sounds better to me.

>>17281422

What if it were "Nobody goes to Walgreens anymore after..."?

Fencing has lots of homely looking autistic girls, although maybe only 1 or 2 per club. Besides that, can't say, but you can often spot the vulnerable girls with no friends on the street, and you can try them out.

>>17281395
College conservatives

>>17281395
Fencing actually sounds fun, but I didn't think it was popular enough for a club?

>>17281351
Do things. If you're missing them that's fine, but if you're sacrificing too much of your time and thoughts on them, then you should probably realise that there's something wrong with you.

Go out and do a hobby, chat to people, do something that actually uses your brain. Mindlessly browsing the internet does not help.

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>>17281351
You don't

>>17281376
kinda hard, my work keeps me in the same place doing practically nothing from 9 am to 7pm, and I'm alone too, so there is no one to talk to, no hobbies. when i come home I go out with my friends, but I still feel this strange melanchony.
And I have lots of hobbies, and Lots of people to talk too when I go out (I'm really social and make friends easily). I'm even getting hit on by many, even If I always decline their offers.
It's like I'm living in a bubble, waiting for the day we'll be togheter again. And I only feel really alive when we're togheter.
It's not something that's tearing me apart, I can live with it, but it gets worse and worse everyday and I'm starting to become frustrated.

Adorable. So what kind of personality disorder do you have?

How old are you?

>>17281382
I honestly don't know . What does it sound like to you? I was thinking Stockholm syndrome because I've lived with my boyfriend since the day i met him

Think about that shit you're listing. You have to be able to fist fight? Think about the fucked up kind of values it takes for a woman to care about something like that. Are you really losing out on anything? Fuck no.

This hispanic girl I was interested in some time ago was accused of "dating white" or whatever, when she never exclusively dated white men. She's currently seeing an arabic guy. She prioritized reasonable values, like fidelity, honesty, and other good shit like that. Go for women who care about shit like that.

Don't waste your time on women who are interested in glorified gangbangers.

t. white guy so white he's glow in the dark

>>17281348
You are buying into stereotypes and letting them give you anxiety/fear.

Real life isn't really like that

>>17281368
I understand. I just can't women like that. Maybe my area is just too ghetto? I will admit, I am a black guy and I just can't date ghetto women but that's all that's around here. Then I gotta deal with stigma. Which means dating while women leads to weird situations. I am 26 abd never had a girlfriend as a result of this.

People think it's unheard of to be a black guy my age and not have had a girlfriend.

>>17281344
Realize that people are assholes. Read some Marcus Aurelius. Stop giving so many fucks.

>>17281346
Realize that not all people are assholes, but you happened to have dated one.

Realize that the person who cheated on you was scum and better off out of your life. It may suck to miss them, but just remember that the person you're missing is not the person that they are.

The biggest and maybe toughest part is to not let this influence your trust in others. Everyone is different, don't paint them all with the brush of a shitty person.

Really sorry to hear, I've been lied to before over and over and it's devastating. But you can't let it stop you, the moment you do you'll stop being happy.

>>17281344

Damn that's a beautiful pic OP. Reminds me of smoking up with friends and just laying back. Good times.

if shes happy with u stay with her. u feel insecure about urself. u could be worse. you could be me. please stay positive i cant be cuz im an ugly fst foreveralone.jpg but u have her. enjoy her. like she enjoys you

>>17281326
Only do it if you feel like you can't talk through things and fix them. Talking through your differences might be one way to solve your issues and you both might be able to come to an agreement. If all else fails you tried at least and if you're going to break up with her do it in person and don't blame her. If it's your differences say that its your differences and you fail to agree on so many things now and it makes you unhappy. Pointing out how positive she is will hurt her and is completely not needed, being positive in life is a rare trait to have so please don't squash that in her.

if you are going to do it, then you need to break her heart so bad that she will never want to think of you again, or she'll be constantly wondering why and if she can get back with you.

if you cant bring yourself to do that, then i guess you have your answer

Stop porn all together for a while. If you really have to, rub one out with your imagination and of course don't try to think about cuck stuff. If you do imagine cuck stuff in your head and masturbate on that, cut it off and wait longer before fapping again.

Porn feels like a slippery slope where you want more and more of the hardcore stuff (instead of just vanilla). Porn in itself is already bad as it is.

I kinda know exactly how you feel and am on nofap day nr. 8 now, since I read about stuff that it might increase your overall libido and sexual drive with real women, thus increasing your social drive etc.

Worth giving a shot at least.

>>17281393
Also, if you get the urge to fap/open porn, immediately switch to another task and go do something. Learning how to meditate (clearing your mind from thoughts) can help with this.

>>17281393
Do you know for sure if this works or is this hypothetical? How will I know if it goes away or even return

>>17281286
AFAIK they can't force you, but why not go and clear your name?

What is there to be gained from not showing up?

Also
>not browsing 4chan every waking hour to give yourself an alibi through isp records

You don't have to show up, but

CALL A FUCKING LAWYER RIGHT GODDAMN NOW

TALK TO THEM ABOUT WHAT YOU SHOULD DO

How bad is it? What did you get it from?

>>17281255
>enough to where I'm on sleeping (knockout) pills
>extended exposure to evil rock music

1) Sleep with a fan on. It's just enough background noise to keep your mind off the EEEEEEEE and not distract you from sleep.
2) Keep your mind busy with other things.

why are you still seeing him? he sounds so unwilling to do small mundane tasks. also that he doesnt care about his personal hygiene is a big sign turn off.

seriously, its not your fault if you end up leaving him, he might end up having you mother him everyday of your relationship.

>>17281200
he sounds depressed as shit, this happened to me in a pretty similar situation (moved to a new city for a shitty job, gf a few hours away, general feelings of isolation)

If he wasn't always like this and If he is someone you really want to keep seeing ask him if he's been feeling depressed and maybe find some examples of symptoms online (lack of libido is a pretty obvious symptom of depression) get him to go to a doctor, he might need medicated or maybe he just needs someone to chat to who he doesn't know personally

>>17281470
This.

Allow it to happen, go have a nice day without her when she ain't on time. Give her 5-15min to respond and do something else

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You're neurotic. Get help. Why do you care about this stuff? Pic related, it's you

If it will placate your autism just text her with some excuses as to why you can't go.