Is there a way to get a burger job without ever having to deal with a customer? I don't mind flipping burgers 8 hours a day but I can't talk to people. My voice gets all low and mumbly (even in relaxed situations with people I know, they often correct me on this, though I can't even "hear" it) and apparently my face has a mopey look to it, just by default. My fake smiles are really creepy, too. There's really no happy medium.
Anyway, what places should I apply to? How do I navigate the situation to increase my chances to get put in the back? What signs should I look for in places that would indicate one way or the other? Like would busy places make this more likely, or slower? What other factors should I account for? What other steps should I take?
If it's a thing that's determined after getting hired, what steps can I take in terms of interacting with my boss/coworkers to increase my chances of being put in the back? Is it appropriate to just be upfront with the boss? Also, is there a way to earn juice with my kitchen coworkers to get them to step up and deal with customers in emergency situations?
28 Posts / 3 Images
View this topic
>>
Anon, this board is about sex/dating advice. This is off-topic.
>>
>>17291852
Just do it , over time it gets better and you get use to it.
>>
>>17291889
No, it's not. What are you smoking?
File: 1452100390479.jpg (126KB, 480x608px) Image search:
[Google]
126KB, 480x608px
My wife and I are getting divorced. Everything is happening in a friendly manner, we are unhappy with the situation of course, but figured out together that it would be the best for both of us, since we already tried to 'resurrect' the relationship a couple of times some years ago and it didn't work out.
The thing is, I'm really desperate about the idea of being a divorced man. I'm still relatively young - 31 years old (we were young when we married), but since it's been a long time since I've been alone, on my own, I simply have no clue about how things are going to be. Any advice you guys could give (especially divorced people). I mean, things like:
> How long until you get used to be all by yourself.
> How to cope with the loneliness.
> When I should begin to hang out with friends again or eventually dating.
I ask this because one of my closest friends have been trying to cheer me up, saying things like I'm still young, that there is this girl that is interested on me, that I should try to move on, but I simply have no idea what I'm supposed to do about that. I feel that I'm a failure and want to stay locked inside my house.
> How to know if I'm getting depressed and what should I do to avoid it.
> Do people will begin looking down on me because I'm divorced?
> Are divorced people considered a failure or something like that? This really bothers me, I'm really unhappy with the situation of being divorced,
> What about my family. How will they react?
I've always been the "good son", I have a brother who is already divorced and I feel that my family will never forgive me. I simply want to disappear for some time because I don't know if I will be able to look then on their eyes.
11 Posts / 3 Images
View this topic
>>
>falling for the marriage meme
Sorry man.
>>
File: 1437258539931.jpg (6KB, 169x250px) Image search:
[Google]
6KB, 169x250px
>>17291798
I didn't want to grow old alone and the idea of having kids and grandchildren around me as I grew old always appealed to me. Shit happens, and now I feel miserable.
>>
31 is still young, you will need to wait to heal before dating other people, don't rush into another relationship.
Living alone takes about 6 months to adjust to but it's still a shitty way to live and the loneliness can easily creep in if you stay inside all the time and never leave your place. My best advice; get outside even if you're just going out alone. Do not stay inside all the time, it will eat away at your sanity. I've been there and trust me when I say you don't want to go down that road.
People will always find a way to look down on you for any reason. It's how they make themselves feel better about their shitty existences . Just stop giving a fuck, you will feel much better.
Failure builds character, people who have never failed in life haven't lived. Divorces happen, people who were right for you when you were in your early twenties might not be right for you in your early thirties. People changes, needs change, it's just life.
Your family needs to take their idealistic sunglasses off. Life is full of trials, it's not some bullshit movie. The people that stay in broken marriages and try to play it off like there are no issues usually are the people that blow their fucking brains out for "no reason" and everyone that knew end up saying shit like, "they had such a perfect marriage with beautiful children, I just don't know why he would do that". It's fucking life man, this isn't a movie, you did the right thing by getting out before your confliction consumed you.
File: 01-mother-and-child.jpg (33KB, 800x560px) Image search:
[Google]
33KB, 800x560px
In this day and age, how would one find a good, intelligent virgin woman who wants to raise a large family and be a stay at home mom without being Christian? If you're going to reply "why would you want one?" or "wow, it's not 1950" just keep it to yourself.
68 Posts / 9 Images
View this topic
>>
>>17291673
Is this another troll post?
If not, are you adverse to all religions?
>>
>>17291673
A girl who plays MMORPGs then hand her a book.
>>
>fedorafaggotry
You realize that having Christian values came from Christianity and the rise of secularism and atheism is why women don't care about doing things the Christian way anymore?
You're literally the root of the problem.
Anonymous
Just fought my best friend, feel emasculated 2016-06-25 13:42:22 Post No.17291589
[Report] Image search: [Google]
Just fought my best friend, feel emasculated 2016-06-25 13:42:22 Post No.17291589
[Report] Image search: [Google]
Just fought my best friend, feel emasculated
Anonymous
2016-06-25 13:42:22
Post No. 17291589
[Report]
[View this topic]
Fuck guys. My best friend is about 4 inches shorter than me but is way stronger than me because he was a state wrestler. I'm a skinny 6'0 145lbs lanklet. I've never been in a fight, and I'm an introvert. He's an extrovert.
This is gonna be a long story, please bear with me.
>Let's call him C
>He calls me and asks me to pick him up 40 mins away at a party
>I'm with our other friend, J, and J's friend, B
>Say okay and go get him
>He says he'll be out in 20 mins
>Call him again and he says just another 20 mins
>Repeat x5
>Everyone is frustrated Bc we're waiting for him
>Finally shows up
>We go to the gas station
>J is handing me dollar bills, saying they're 20's
>Keep telling him no, and to give me the twenty so I can get gas
>Casually toss the single back at him(Not even in an aggressive way)
>B tells me to watch wtf I'm doing, that's shits disrespectful
>C steps up and tells B not to talk to me like that and starts defending me
>They keep telling each "Let's fucking go"
>I calm the fight down, we're outside the car at this point
>Tell C it's not worth it and to let's go
>C, out of nowhere starts punching himself in the car
>In the cheek, multiple times
>Don't really notice Bc I'm driving
Cont.
34 Posts / 4 Images
View this topic
>>
Well cont already
>>
You feel emasculated because you lost a fight? Why? Men lose fights all the time; they also win sometimes, but no man ever goes undefeated for very long. Especially when the other guy is trained and you are not.
>>
File: 1437977955925.png (163KB, 780x818px) Image search:
[Google]
163KB, 780x818px
Switched to my PC.
Cont.
>He texts me "You should've let me fought him"
>"You're my life bro, I'd take your side over anyone, I got your fucking back"
>Tell him that I know that and I really appreciate it, and that I have his all the time too
>So we get to J's house
>J is drunk and is going to bed, I tell J that I'm gonna walk home since I only live 10 mins away and I need to be up in two hours
>C tells me I'm not going by myself
>Tell him that I'm fine and I can handle myself
>Tells me that he either comes with me or I go to his house(10 mins away in opposite direction)
>Say no, and I'll just walk home
>Start walking and he keeps telling me no and starts pushing me
>Tell him to go away jokingly and that I'll be fine, but I appreciate the caution
>He starts getting really physical and I tell him to fuck off
>We eventually start shoving each other
>Keep telling him to let me go
>He grabs me and pulls me to the ground
>Starts wrestling with me
>He puts me in a bunch of different holds as I struggle to free myself
>Rolling into parked cars and on people's lawns
>All this time I'm telling him to just let me go
>Keep telling him "Do you know how emasculating this is for me, I've never been masculine in my life why are you doing this"
>Keeps telling me to go to his house
>Tell him that I'm not his ragdoll and he can force me to do whatever he wants
>Literally has me in holds where I can't get out(Remember the strength difference)
>Manage to free myself a couple times and tell him I'm gonna call the cops if he doesn't stop and let me leave
>Tries grabbing me and I run to a house and start knocking on a door
>He grabs me and throws me onto the lawn and is putting me in another hold
>Telling him that if he respected as a man and as a human being he would just let me go
>Keeps telling me to go to his house
>I start kinda crying, I felt like the biggest bitch, but fuck I felt so powerless
>Tell him to please stop and to let me go
>He doesn't
Cont.
Anonymous
ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything 2016-06-25 08:28:30 Post No.17291200
[Report] Image search: [Google]
ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything 2016-06-25 08:28:30 Post No.17291200
[Report] Image search: [Google]
File: symbols-017[2].jpg (102KB, 600x399px) Image search:
[Google]
![symbols-017[2].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/8in7ndc.jpg "symbols-017[2]")
102KB, 600x399px
ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
Anonymous
2016-06-25 08:28:30
Post No. 17291200
[Report]
[View this topic]
Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out. This is something that cannot be explained. You either have learned to intuit this or you have not. If you have not, the only way to learn is experience--there are no shortcuts. So it comes back to: Just ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online. Don't complain that this isn't helpful; stupid questions deserve answers like this.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't fucking know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>Brandon, that one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
322 Posts / 18 Images
View this topic
>>
>>17291200
Girls, why are you usually against guys who don't fight/try to resolve things peacefully?
>>
>>17291219
>don't fight/try to resolve things peacefully?
It's unmasculine and make me drier than a desert.
>>
>>17291200
> I'm single
> recently broke up with 10/10 gf.
> thought she deserves better than me.
> Back in dating game.
> In college history class
> See 2 white QTS with big bootys
> I walk up nervously and say hi
> they don't even look at me
> finally get thier attention and they give me one worded responses with attitude.
> I say "fuck this!" and leave.
> I give a second shot at them and again fail miserably.
Where did I go wrong?!
File: i-tried-anon.png (23KB, 412x412px) Image search:
[Google]
23KB, 412x412px
Why is it next to impossible to call people out without causing a fight?
Recently, I started hanging out with a friend, let's call him A., I hadn't seen in four years. We were both away at college. And it's been really great and fun to catch up with him.
But we were at a party recently and another friend that I've known for two years, let's called him B., joked about us, saying "Nice to see you're dating <celebrity that Friend A. apparently looks like>." I took offense to it since I've been together with my boyfriend for three years, and A. has been married for almost two. So I called B. out on it right away. Which ended up starting an argument that led to others joining in for either side. As a result, B. asked me to never speak to him again and cut all contact.
I didn't expect I would lose a friend for doing this. But I didn't know how else to handle it. Someone offended me, so I made myself heard and shut them up for it. You're supposed to call people out in these cases. Yet every time I do, it just causes a rift between everyone involved; often straining relationships. And when I asked mutual friends of B. and mine, they tell me he just needs to cut out toxic people in his life these days. Because apparently I'm the toxic one in this situation. And lastly, a number of friends involved that night expressed how disappointed they were in me. What the fuck... ._.
18 Posts / 2 Images
View this topic
>>
wat
>>
>>17290891
You can call people out, but don't be an asshole (like you probably were) about it. Basically learn to human.
>>
You usually pull people to the side and address these offences quietly. Not turn it into scene where everyone can watch or listen.
File: police_pointing_gun.jpg (41KB, 876x493px) Image search:
[Google]
41KB, 876x493px
So yesterday at around 5pm PST, I was returning home from the supermarket when I noticed a police car tailing me. It was after about 3 minutes of this that I changed lanes to see if he would follow me. Immediately, he popped his lights on and pulled me over into the parking lot of a nearby ihop. I figured it was some sort of traffic stop and reached for my wallet to get my drivers license. It was just then that I looked up in my rear view and see four cops with guns drawn, yelling at me instruction on how to exit the vehicle. In a sheer state of panic I heeded every command shouted, lest I be shot. I exit the vehicle terrified as I'm being held at gunpoint, searched (with my permission), and handcuffed. I repeatedly asked what I had done wrong, with no explanation given. I gave them permission to search my vehicle and was escorted to the back of the squad car, with windows up in 100 degree weather. I sat bound with sweat stinging my eyes as I watched them search my entire vehicle. I was then read my rights. Afterward, it was then explained to me that a person in the area (that matched my description) was breaking into a vehicle nearby with a screwdriver. I explained in great detail that I went to the grocery store and was returning home. He then asked for someone he could contact to verify my whereabouts and corroborate my story. He called my grandmother and confirmed that indeed I was not the perpetrator. The other cops had left long ago by this point and the police officer that detained me, told me to get out of the car. He took the cuffs off, gave me his contact information, and left....
Needless to say, I'm kind of still in a state of shock. I also feel violated. I need advice on how I should legally take action or if that isn't an option, then what? I just can't let this go.
180 Posts / 32 Images
View this topic
>>
Im guessing this is in America with the overkill of cops with drawn weapons for a gta?
Dunno american laws are all outta whack coz anyone can carry a gun.
I dont live there but id assume theres not a whole lot you can do. And it might cost you more than its worth.
>>
>>17290881
You 'feel' 'violated'?
How about you put on a little black dress, put on some lipstick, and suck my dick, or stop acting like a fucking woman.
You cannot take legal action, as they were textbook. So, stop acting like a woman, and understand that you, and your vehicle, appeared similar to that of a serial GTA offender.
Besides being a bitch, you are also stupid, as you voluntarily agreed to a search; therefore, you are a stupid bitch. Never do that, even if you have nothing to hide, as your rights matter, despite you being a blubbering, sensitive, pussy.
>>
Murrica, just deal with it faggot.
File: tumblr_n6d8rtCy2Y1r41iwko1_500.gif (599KB, 500x500px) Image search:
[Google]
599KB, 500x500px
So I'm a virgin male strongly into BDSM and I'm getting a little desperate. I'm pondering the idea of hiring a dominatrix on backpage. I looked around on there and found a few younger ones in my area. Is there anything I should know before hiring one? Has anyone here ever had any experience with this kind of thing?
19 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
Bump. Looking for the same info
>>
OP here, another bump.
>>
>>17290736
Any decent dom will have a long talk with you first, to see what your fantasies are and what level of pain/humiliation/etc you are most comfortable with (and then she'll push you just a bit beyond that comfort zone)
If she doesn't insist on having this talk with you first, you're dealing with an amateur who might seriously (and not enjoyably) harm you.
This afternoon i was working on something in my garden while sun was at the top.It took about 1 hour.Then this happened to my arms.
What should i do, it is painful and long process, ıs there any danger?
32 Posts / 5 Images
View this topic
>>
>>17290326
Aloe lotion bruh or aspirin crushed and made into a paste and apply. Damage has already been done just watch out for any mole growth
>>
>>17290342
I used norwegian formula hand cream because it is the only thing i have at the moment kek ı will google this aspirin solution hope it will work for me, thank you
They looked so fucked up^^
>>
>>17290326
Aloe. Drink lots of water, too; you'll be losing moisture through the sunburn.
Wear sunscreen next time. Wearing sunscreen any time you go out is really the best way to keep your skin young, burn or no.
Is it normal that I'm 20 but still pretend to be driving a car sometimes? As in, when I'm alone I will sometimes make vroom-vroom noises with my mouth while moving my hands back and worth indicating the scenery passing by.
It's pretty annoying, sometimes I get the desire to do it but people are around and they'd probably think I was weird. How do I stop?
8 Posts / 2 Images
View this topic
>>
File: AutismChallenges.png (341KB, 726x542px) Image search:
[Google]
341KB, 726x542px
As long as you only do this by yourself, it's OK, but it's definitely super weird and you should stop.
>>
Have you ever driven a car? If so, how often?
>>
>>17290187
A few times, but I don't have a license. I also imitate train sounds sometimes.
>>17290186
Yeah, but it's so addicting.
File: 1466657253373.jpg (210KB, 750x928px) Image search:
[Google]
210KB, 750x928px
If she asks if my potential gf has to be of the same ethnicity as me, what is she doing?
42 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
Finding out if you have a racial preference for dating partners. Why, is she a different race to you?
>>
>>17288451
she wants the D and she doesn't want to waste her time
>>
That depends. Does she kbow your ethnicity?
How do you deal with loneliness? I literally have no friends, like I talk to some people, but I don't feel close to them to consider them friends, they are more connected between them.
56 Posts / 5 Images
View this topic
>>
>>17287073
I eat. Please find another way to cope with loneliness, my way really isn't smart. Also, why isn't there a contact group for lonely people somewhere? This really seems like a simple solution for this problem.
>>
>>17287073
When I was lonely, I went on walks and started reading in public. It'd made me feel like I was in another living room or school court yard just minding my own business.
>>
You just become numb to it. Though it's harder if you live in a metropolitan area. It's a lot easier when you live in a sink estate.
File: what-is-cancer.jpg (14KB, 350x281px) Image search:
[Google]
14KB, 350x281px
Does anyone here work in hospice? I have terminal cancer and I can't stop worrying about my final months where I can't walk and will likely vomit all my foods and poop myself.
I heard hospice removes liquids and food if you can't tolerate them but you will be on morphine. Is the pain great for this since you basically starve to death?
66 Posts / 6 Images
View this topic
>>
Holy fuck anon. Shit sucks.
If I was in your situation, I'd just ask them to literally drug me out of mind.
>>
I've heard morphine kind of separates you from the pain so its like you still feel it but your separate from it.
>>
>>17286696
That's the plan. No cpr, tubes, resuscitation and what not. I'm deathly afraid of the pain.
>>17286701
Ah then it's fine then. I guess the onlookers will be more scared and shocked than me being dozed not really feeling much of anything.
File: over 25.jpg (31KB, 976x549px) Image search:
[Google]
31KB, 976x549px
Who /25+ virgin/ here?
How can a guy at this age lose his virginity?
269 Posts / 31 Images
View this topic
>>
Just wait until you meet the woman that's right for you. We're all on different journey's here. Don't judge yourself by the perception of what other people think you're supposed to do a certain ages.
>>
Hey man, I'm there with you. I don't stress about it much anymore. I know I can't wait forever but I have some other shit to tackle first before I'm emotionally ready so I'm handling that as quickly as possible. In the meantime, if anyone asks me in person, I have a lie worked out. I don't plan to tell the first girl either, I imagine that would freak most girls out.
Worst case scenario, I go to Nevada and get an escort. Best case scenario I meet a girl and she looks past my awkward sex and lets me get better at it with her.
Anyways, now that you know I'm no authority on how to get laid I'll just fade away...
>>
But seriously, just go with the flow in life. Things will happen if you remain open to them and show a modicum of respect to the women (or men) you meet/know in your everyday life.
Anonymous
Write letters to people who won't read them 2016-06-23 03:19:00 Post No.17283621
[Report] Image search: [Google]
Write letters to people who won't read them 2016-06-23 03:19:00 Post No.17283621
[Report] Image search: [Google]
File: letters2.png (37KB, 460x459px) Image search:
[Google]
37KB, 460x459px
Write letters to people who won't read them
Anonymous
2016-06-23 03:19:00
Post No. 17283621
[Report]
[View this topic]
Last thread: >>17261273
317 Posts / 21 Images
View this topic
>>
To this guy from the last thread: " Initials?
Six years is a long time, and it can suck a lot wondering about someone you haven't heard from in that time. If he has forgiven you, you should try to forgive yourself just a little so that you could reach out. You might not be able to step right back into a relationship, but it might allow you to start a friendship. Though, I know how that can sting too."
Ordinarily I wouldn't reply in a new thread like this but I wanted to explain something. Grant will never talk to me again, doesn't even want to catch a glimpse of me, which i understand and respect. I don't really want to see him, either, because dredging up feelings from six years back is a terrible idea. I just have been thinking about him lately and it's very strange.
Granted, it seems like a ghost comes back every year, and perhaps he's this year's ghost. If I really want to know how he's doing, i ask a mutual friend. Haven't talked to her about him in a while, however. For all I know he's serious with the girl he was dating last I heard. All that matters is he's happy, you know?
>>
I love you. Please tell me where we stand. I need to know.
>>
Is that what you really thought about me all this time? Why did I waste all that time with you.? You're no better than the people you despise. I thought you were better than that.