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I have a wonderful girlfriend i am happy.
But i still think of a girl i met years ago.

My relationship with her was quick (she moved to live in other country ) but i just can not forget her and i often dream about her. (like this day)

I need to forget her but i can't.

Does anyone from you guys felt this way?

Any


I know that
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>>17293129
Maybe she made a huge impression on you and it just takes longer than normal to get over it, which is totally normal. Just stick with your current gf and regret nothing, if you would really call it an ambition to chase the other hoe than it would most certainly just drive you against a wall.
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>>17293168
no i dont want to chance her .I know i lost her for ever. I know what kind of person she is (no a bad one) But i could see though her and i realized that i am not the one she needed.

And still i dream about her.
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>>17293228
I understand how you feel and i think i've felt like this a very long time ago. What actually ended me thinking about her was that i took a different view on her, i simply wasn't impressed by her person as a character anymore. My friends stood behind me and everyone just knows her as bitch even today.

It is maybe not an easy thing but deal with the flaws and rejections she had shown you and forget about it. Try to find room to improve your current lovelife.

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I hate myself and I don't want to die but at this point there seems to be no other choice.

I'm 25 years old and I can't afford college, I've tried working but no one will hire me because I'm weird.

Feel free to paste the suicide prevention thing like that's going to fucking help anything.

You can't help me no one can. I don't know why I'm here but I don't exactly have anything better to do with my life.

I've been on these threads before and all people seem to do is say retarded shit like "go travel anon see the world"
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>>17293119
Post a picture of yourself on here.
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Stop being an attention whore

Do it or don't, but stop bothering us with your woe-is-me bullshit
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>>17293119
>go travel anon see the world
yea thats a bullshit excuse. traveling is expensive. any fun at all cost at least 8 dollars.

so you cant stay in college and that makes you want to die. pretty lame reason to be depressed.

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Should I text my ex I miss her?
I've got nothing to lose. She told a friend of mine that it's not that she didn't like me, she just didn't want a relationship at the time. She also said I was a better person than her other exes.
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Now then. Do you want honest advice or have you already made up your mind and are just looking for others to pen what you want to read?

Honest advice is no, don't text her. It does nothing but devalue yourself in her eyes.

If you are concocting some plan to fan her embers, then make a natural opportunity to see her in person. Keep the conversation brief and don't linger. A basic "hey, how are you getting on?" is a good start.
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Desperation is not attractive. She'll smell it and dump you again.
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>>17293093
When girls say they dont want a relationship at the time, they're lying and really dont want to be with you.

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Does weed actually mess up your learning ability and memory? (only wanting to try it once). Should I still try it if I don't want to f up my life? Also, should I feel bad about trying it?
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this is the most innocent thing i've read. no, nothing will happen if you smoke weed once. you need to smoke it a fuckton of times for something to happen.
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>>17293091
If you do it regularly, yes. Once, no.
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Im a daily weed smoker who plans on quitting for the fall school year.

I find it makes me lazy. Nothing cognitive though.

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Can one become a Police Officer given he made a graffiti at the age of 19?
The one was depressed, homeless and this was out of his character.
The one was bullied and isolated for 2.5 years by his relatives. The one lost his independence by migrating to Australia, and lost all of his friends. An ultimate abuse that crashed his mind reporting him as a suicider refusing to eat while he was trying to lose weight. He ended up locked.
When was released he escaped from his abusive uncle to another part of Australia, with just 5000 AUD in his pockets.

The one became depersonalised and lost the sense of identity.
That soulless body made a graffiti, sucked his own cock, became a public hole at gay-saunas and spent 5 months at streets.

After that, he moved back to his country and lived with his old friend for 1 week.
His soul started coming back.
Now, I am 50% me, half-awake. And understand that I want to be a Police Officer. I wanted to be one at age of 17, when I arrived to Australia.

I dont expect to live to the day when wider psychology will be taken into consideration by Law.
But the one who committed that crime was not me.
I just have those memories, like HDD. Operational system controlling my body was not me.
I would never do such thing in my life. I was always being proud of myself being over drinking, smoking, listening to rap, skating or doing graffitis.
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>>17293014
They don't care about the details.

Unless you legally had the criminal record removed from your record. Application denied.
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You are insufferably stupid and no department would hire you even if your record was clean.
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>>17293038
Finished school with A's and B's. Can go to Law school or study programming. I simply want to be a cop.

so dated girl for three years. she dumps me for this new faggot with a small dick. fucks me on the side for a couple months. I meet this new girl who I've slept with but not fucked yet. my ex is telling me she wants to fuck this mutual friend of ours who I've known a long time. I don't really care about the sex. but the fact hes kinda my friend bothers me and he's fucked a lot more girls than me. she's like I heard he has a really big dick (mines 8.3 inches) and unless hes like 9 inches which I doubt hes probably similar to me if anything. should I be bothered by my ex who I still love going and whoring her pussy out. but if I even sleep and cuddle with a girl my ex gets all in her feelings about it but expects me to be okay with her fucking other guys
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Grow some fucking pubes before posting here. You don't know the first damn thing about love.

Adults don't mingle with their ex's. They pack their bags and move on. Who cares what they do after you've split, not your concern or interest anymore.
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>>17293054
/thread imo
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>>17293054
/thread

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>be talking to really nice guy for awhile online
>I like him
>things hit off quickly
>says m'love
How do I break things off with him?
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what if he was being ironic
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>>17292987
>he said g'morning to me the first minute he woke up
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>>17292985
This is how girls shitpost everyone.

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I cant stop overeating.

what do?
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>>17292902
Stop buying so much food.

stop making so much food.

Discipline yourself.

I can't understand why so many people struggle with this.
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>>17292902
Eat less. Being thin feels better than any food does. Once you haven't eaten in a while you get used to the hunger and it makes you feel more productive, it's like a runner's high. You just got to get over the initial slump.
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>>17292932
>>17292926
omg i am skinny af and dont u think ive tried to 'eat less'.

what is this? ck?

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I'm gonna start off by saying that this will probably be a bit jumbled but I'll try to state it as clearly as possible.

So for about ten years now, I've felt uncomfortable in my own body because of my gender, and I do understand how ridiculous that sounds. Recently I found out that there is an actual name for it and other people who feel the same way, and I've seen that some of them take hormones and have surgery to try to fix their problem. But as tempting as that does seem to me I know it won't actually fix my problem. So my question is; is there any way for me to just get rid of these feelings altogether?
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>>17292861
Remember the grass always seems greener on the other side.

Also if there was a magical painless, side effectless, reversible way to change your gender i would say go for it Hell i would try it out for fun. But that is not the world we live in. It is painful, aesthetic only and there is not going back.
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At the risk of sounding like /pol/ shitter, but aren't post-op trannies insane? Like, suicidal, the whole nine yards. I'm sure some of them transition just fine, but they seem like the minority.

There's an expression that goes "wherever you go, there you are".
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>>17292927
not op
>"wherever you go, there you are".
cool

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I've been in a long distance relationship (2 and a half hours apart) for about 4 months. She's more into me than I am into her, and desu I don't find her sexually attractive 'cuz she's fat (but we still have sex when we see each other).

We see each other ever weekend, taking turns about who drives to see who. This weekend is my turn.

I don't feel like spending the time and money going out to see her this weekend, but if I tell her this she'll get super upset about it and cry. Should I go to spare her feelings?
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Why are you even with her if you don't like her?
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>>17292813
Just tell her you have plans to hang out with your buds
Give it a week to think it through
If you feel the same after 2 weeks, then give her the talk.
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>>17292813
>Should I do something I don't want to do in order to spare some fat bitches feelings?

The answer is no every single time in your life that the fat bitch isn't your mom.

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How do i date women when i'm too much of a coward to approach them and ask them out?
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>>17292789
You don't
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By getting over yourself

>B-but muh feelings

We all take that risk. There is no painless way
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>>17292793
I don't believe that.
You're only ever hurting yourself.
It IS something that you can control.

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Are there any interesting/unique good movies available on YouTube?
>inb4 stream/torrents/Netflix/Hulu are off the table tonight and I wanna watch somethin cool
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No?
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There are tons of documentaries and the like.

Finding movies has been a lot harder since they started selling them on Youtube.

Why is streaming off the table, exactly?
Youtube is streaming.
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Oh, and if you're into cars, you could check out Might Car Mods. I think they've got about 2 full feature length movies they've made about them going around the world and modifying cars.

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I just realized for the first time in my life after getting rejected yet again by a girl that I assumed was into me but just being friendly, that I am truly ugly. And it's depressing. I had initially put it on the backburner, but after countless rejection it's finally gotten to me.

At one point I spent my life at the gym, getting muscles and losing fat to the point where all I wanted to do was walk around shirtless. I got a new haircut with some hairgel. I changed who I was. That lasted, maybe less than half a year before I realized that this isn't me, this isn't who I am, and that my life was boring. Maybe better, but boring. I got a job, gained back some fat, and became average again.

I'm not about to go full cringey "I hate women" but I really just want to sleep all day now. What do I do?
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>>17292772
show a picture.

Chances are you arent actually ugly but the problem lies somewhere in your personality.

Girls don't care that much about looks, unless you are truly deformed (and I assume you would have known that)
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>one girl rejected me so I've got to be ugly
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>>17292801
He said he's been rejected many time. Maybe if you actually read you wouldn't come off as stupid

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I am a 21 yo male student and in '15 fall I met a girl in a dorm. I kinda liked her instantly. She’s beautiful and everything, has a nice personality but there is a little problem(it’s not a problem really, doesn’t bother me at all no matter what), she has a 2yo boy. I am a fucking manlet and she’s slightly taller than me…
>this was just some backstory, my problem is explained below
I think I fell in love with this girl. Never ever in my life felt this for a woman, never. (I also never spent this much time with any) Our sex life is really good, we get along well, very little arguing. Most of the fights (if you can call them that, disagreements maybe) are about we getting serious. I mean a real relationship. She disagrees with me because fuck me, she’s taller. She told me she feels nothing for me, yet in the last 2 weeks (we’ve been seeing each other less because school is almost over and we only got exams) she has been calling me like 5-6 times a day, talking for hours, sending me pics of her little boy, etc. A month ago(maybe more) she started spending nights at my place. So, we know each other since October and have sex since march. I never thought that I would grow to like her so much(at least not to the point of thinking I want her in my life in the long run). Every time I talk about caring about her she goes silent and changing subjects tho last weekend I got mad about me getting nowhere with her and told her that I want to end it. She did not accepted it and we continued to talk and have sex. Now, we’re not going to see each other for 2 weeks, then we’re going to have a summer break until the end of September. The distance between us is like 150-200km at best. I can easily travel that weekly and on top of that I have a apartment at about 30km of her home city.
What should I do? How do I end it eventually?(if I need to) It really started to cause me emotional distress.
>pic not related
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She. Doesn't. Want. A. Relationship. With. You.
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ok, i kinda get that already but why call me all the fucking day and insist spending nights?

Also, how do I get out without hurting her (she may feel something eventually...being rejected does that) and without feeling guilty after? I really do not want to continue this if it gets nowhere. Other than sex I haven't gained one thing and sex is something i can get elsewhere without any emotions.
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>>17292999
Leeching

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tl;dr help me seduce my physics teacher in one week.

So i have a huge crush on my physics teacher. I don't know a lot about him except that his master thesis was something about light extinction, that he's 34 (i'm 23) and he made an x-men reference once. He always keeps it very professional and he's also kind of autistic so he won't take the first step. I thought about giving him my phone number in binary on the last day i'll see him because he's huge into numbers and he knows that i'll be an IT trainee when his course is over. I know it's a super lame idea so pls help me /adv/, i'm just a stupid art historian.

Pic unrelated from my phone
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>>17292764
You have great taste in music for somebody so basic and naive.
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>>17292778
Thanks fampai, but i wouldn't say i'm basic. Maybe a little naive and also kind of autistic since i rarely get crushes that huge. Got anything more helpful to say?
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>>17292764
private liaisons is your solution.

Go and ask him if he can help you with some psychic tasks or something and bam you have a chance to seduce him

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