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/adv/, something really bad happened today, yesterday my dad asked me to pick up my sister from her meeting today and I have never gone outside the apartment complex driving by myself and I only got my license last month and I was really scared. I couldn't sleep because I always get nervous and can't sleep when I have something important to do for the next day and I was really sleepy all day and I was scared because I knew I would get in big trouble if I accidentally fell asleep. I tried my hardest to stay up but I couldn't and I fell asleep and when I woke up my mom and dad and sister were all freaking out and texting me because I was 40 minutes late and she called my dad to get her but I talked to him and he asked me if I could still get her and I said yes so I was really scared and I grabbed all my stuff and tried driving and I messed up the directions because it was my first time using a GPS and I was crying in the car on the way there and there was construction and I got stuck. I got home but my sister is barely talking to me and I know my mom is going to be really really angry and I'm really scared and I don't know what to do and I can't stop crying. People keep making me do these responsible adult things but it never works out because i always mess up because I'm just a little boy inside still, I'm not ready to be an adult or do adult things. This feels like sometimes when I have nightmares and something really really bad happens and I feel like I just want to go back to before this happened and usually I wake up then but its not happening now. What do I do now? My head really hurts
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Nice blog
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>>18632120
Jeez dude why are you so feminine? Join a boxing gym please.
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>>18632120
Anon, I know where you're coming from. I used to hate driving when I started out, and I would be anxious all day until I got behind the wheel. Is your family aware of your anxiety?
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Is omegle still the go to place to talk to randoms online? It seems spammed to shit. Did a good alternative ever come along?
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>Did a good alternative ever come along?
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>>18632113
eh the spam generally comes from retards who think girls actually browse it
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Annoying flatmates watching HIMYM 2017-08-17 09:10:32 Post No.18632097
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Annoying flatmates watching HIMYM
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I have 2 flatmates (a couple) who take up a lot of space in our 2 bedroom flat.
While we have a decent living room which we could easily share between the 3 of us, they always have the habit of fooling around in that place, as if I'm not even there. I’m not talking about occasionally kissing and stuff. I’m talking proper make-out sessions, fondling, climbing on top of each other, plus a lot of cringey pillow-talk and a shit ton of giggling to top it all off.
I wonder how someone can fool around for so long. Surely you get bored after a while. But no, they just sit there and watch How I Met Your Mother (seriously how long is that thing? They've been binge watching 3 episodes a day for half a year now), while giggling and making out in front of me.
As you can imagine, this is making me very uncomfortable around them, up to the point that I barely ever hang out in the living room anymore. So I ended up sitting in my tiny bedroom, where I lean forward to my laptop on a small coffee table, which has given me some serious back pains lately.
What do I do with these people? How can I persuade them to stop acting like this and give me some space? I signed a 1-year contract on the rent, so I'm stuck with them for a few more months.
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Stop caring and sit in your living room. And if you want to use the TV, ask them.
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>>18632097
himym is a cultural icon you fucking normie scum
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That guy is having a threesome without the chick knowing.
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On job applications should I not put white male?
Should I just bullshit that I'm "Hispanic"?
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Why are you putting your race on job applications...?
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>>18632089
Because I live in America where you are asked for race and gender on applications.
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Are there any HR people here?
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fuck that that other thread,
>start fapping every now and then a year ago
>6 months ago lose boner halfway through fap
>beniniststuck.png
>start lose arousal at about 5 mins
>nowadays cant even bring myself to try fapping
basically lost all libido in the span of 6 months.
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what do?
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>>18632080
would you like to talk about our lord and saviour viagra?
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>>18632188
I cant fucking start using viagra for the next 80 years.
I also dont find the idea of forcing arousal appealing
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Alright guys, I'm at a loss as to how to move forward with my life. Here's a rundown on my situation:
>24
>unemployed with high school education, dumb and unskilled
>living in rural as fuck area
>living situation causes depression and anxiety
I have no savings, no friends, no one outside of immediate family. Anxiety is causing me to isolate myself from the outside world. Depression is keeping me from doing anything at all. No energy, no ambition.
I'd rather not go into detail on my living situation but it's abusive to say the least. I KNOW i'd eventually be able to get my life back on track if I found a way to leave that didn't involve being homeless, which would be the only thing worse than living here.
I'm afraid of leaving and going to a shelter because most only allow stays of 3 months or under, and I don't know if I'd be able to recover and pick up my life in that amount of time.
What the fuck do I do /adv/. Is suicide my only option?
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>>18632073
Monitoring this thread cause I identify with OP. Can't help you but hope someone appears to help us both.
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>>18632073
Focus on getting a job for now. Limit internet time to only 1 hour a day and start reading more. Take cold showers and stop masturbating as well.
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>>18632073
Join the military
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Going to college for the first time and feel like it's time to try out getting sexually intimate with people.
Where do I look for good sexual advice? Who do I talk to on advice on getting a girl off--not by penetration, but the general playbook? I know it differs from girl to girl, but while I'm a virgin, I still wanna look like I have even the most remote clue of what I'm doing.
All I know is to not imitate porn and don't be a mong and shove my dick in without getting her aroused enough first so I don't hurt her. Don't ignore the clitoris, but be gentle and don't go too far with it.
How much help do I need from what little I've shown I know? I'm really worried about the "first time awkward sex" thing since I'm a good bit older than most first-time college students.
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>where do I go for advice on women?
Don't listen or ask women for advice on other women.
If you don't have friends you can ask just look online. I use to go on RSD and they have some pretty helpful threads about this. Don't worry about it being awkward the first time. Chances are it will be but if you're with someone you're with then it shouldn't even be an issue. How old are you btw? Will you be living in the dorms?
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>>18632085
28, sharing a male-only apartment with two other guys. Both have gfs.
Looks ain't too hot but I'm not uggo, and I get along with people quickly and tend to be decent at getting a laugh out of people, so I'm not worried about that and am understanding that it's gonna potentially be a while before I get anywhere. I just wanna be prepared for when it comes.
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>>18632095
I was in a similar situation last year. Ended up becoming pretty good friends with my roommates and we went out a lot. If you don't have friends just go out with them and meet the friends of their gfs.
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What would cause someone to habitually sabotage budding relationships with women? Why do I feel both relief and abandonment dread when it's over?
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>>18632070
You fear commitment.
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>>18632070
Think about your mom. If the first thing that comes to your mind isnt overwhelmingly positive you could benefit from therapy. Congrats, go waste time on another board because this is the only answer you're going to get that you can implement into your life and fix this problem.
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I love my mom but the first thought that comes to mind when I think of her is a nagging, miserable, hypercritical woman because that's what she was when I was growing up. She's not that person anymore but it's hard to shake the impression.
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Do I want to be her secret.
Long story short, me and this girl, S have had a thing for a very long time, and were even friends for longer. We're close, the chemistry is clear, and I have feelings for her, and she has feelings for me too. But, she and her ex, J, are going to get back together, she even cheated on him with me for a long time before their break up. She says she loves him too, and wants to ride things out with him, but is unwilling to give me up in the process and although K has strictly forbidden her from seeing or talking to me, we're still sleeping together and seeing each other.
I'm stuck on what I want to do, although I do have feelings for her, do I really want to be her secret? I've already pointed out that what she and K are doing is extremely unhealthy and that she has completely disregarded their new found relationship by continuing to see me regardless of his wishes.
Should I continue to see her and be her friend, or should I drop her and move on, no matter how much it hurts the both of us. I love her, but is this really good for any party?
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>>18632050
>Whore wants to have her cake and eat it too
>falling in love with gutter trash
lol
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I want to learn to lucid dream, but I really like normal dreams and don't want to sacrifice them 2017-08-17 08:53:50 Post No.18632046
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I want to learn to lucid dream, but I really like normal dreams and don't want to sacrifice them
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I feel like normal dreams are great ways to learn about myself, I also love their imagery and content and I feel like it wouldn't be nearly as good if I could control what happens.
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>>18632046
You won't sacrifice normal dreaming by lucid dreaming. You'll just be aware and if you want normal dreams, stop thinking and let stuff happen...
Dreams either come from your subconscious or from some other dimension, probably you'll go somewhere similar at death (but more heavenly)
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>>18632147
But that's the point, I don't want to be aware I am dreaming in normal dreams
Also I don't really believe in an afterilfe and think that's kinda unrelated
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>>18632165
I know, I was just injecting my opinion
You would have to relax, it's hard to explain but dreams are thoughts so you stop thinking and you stop dreaming.
I've done this before.
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What do I do with my family? 2017-08-17 08:52:11 Post No.18632039
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What do I do with my family?
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>senior year
>Bosnia and Herzegovina (Europe)
My family is very dysfunctional. My parents as a group: They raised me and my 5 year older sister very strictly while abiding by the rules of islam. Also they taught us that only islam is correct and they never showed any other opinion. (I am an atheist and yes, they don't know). Enough about the religion part.
They used to physically punish us as kids by whipping us. I'm not sure of my sister but I was always afraid of what people thought of me and if I was good enough. It's because as I was growing up, my parents always compared me to other kids and told me that they were better than me. Not to say I didn't have a privileged childhood, I did have it. My parents bought me whatever toy I wanted and they showed love and care a lot. It's just that they made me think I wasn't good enough.
Enough of my sob story: This is their character breakdown and what usually happens.
My dad: 58 year old, religious, soon to be retiring engineer (they don't earn that much here) with diabetes and an unhealthy heart. He cares for the family but he doesn't do nowhere near as much work as my mom. He uses his heart as an excuse.
My mom: 54 year old doctor (they don't earn that much). She works like a slave. Honestly, she is the only person keeping our household clean and our family healthy. I love her the most because she invested everything she had into me and my sister and loves us a lot.
My sister: An ignorant, arrogant 22 year old medical student with many complexes about her stomach and her looks who lives in another country. (She's a bit fat and she's way too worried about it). She always grew up as more of a golden child in their eyes than me cuz she always had straight A's but I didn't have them in high school. Nowadays she flunked freshman year 2 times, she has been going to medical school for 5 years and she's still in year 2 of 6. And no, she doesn't have a job, she is fully funded by my parents.
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Still covering my sister: And when I say complexes about being fat, I mean REAL complexes where she gets sad and almost starts crying after looking at her stomach. Then she gets so crazy and bitchy that she accuses my mom of making dishes for fat people on purpose just to make her fat. She even starts yelling. I am not shitting you.
Basically, this is how they all behave: My mom and dad never hit each other, they never got physical. But I doubt they love each other even one bit because they have verbal fights EVERY SINGLE DAY. I often wake up to the sound of my mom screaming at my father for doing something wrong and not following her orders. They never show affection towards each other and my mom thinks he is cheating on her.
My parents will start a fight with me whenever I disobey their rules of religion. They will start a fight with me whenever I get a bad grade instead of ever encouraging me that I can fix it. They always criticize me, no matter what I do. They stopped physically abusing me when I was 14 but at that point I wanted to run away from home and start a new life, I even dreamed about killing my father. I don't know why i was so fucked up then, probably my hormones. I had very bad relations with them from 13 to 17 because I was also influenced by music a bit. But in the last 2 years, I've tried fixing my relations by showing that I love them and I truly did realize that family is important in life. They showed love back.
Now, they always had fights with my sister because of how she chose to dress and what diet shw chose and what kind of man she would fall in love to. Those are all stupid topics to fight about, but tjatjuat how they are. Just the other night, my mom found a small pair of tiny jeans in my sister's closet. They started to fight with her over the clothes ahe wears even though she is an adult.
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Now, what my sister does. Even though she wants to lose weight, she ia crazy about some food (I know, it's insane). Whenever we have a meal with her, she runs to the table and starts a fight with anyone who chose her e.g.part of the pie. She is also a very vocal person, she starts screaming as soon as something annoys her.
Now, my mom and dad worked like this: my mom- bad cop, my dad-good cop.
My mom was the one who always gave punishments, the one who always gave me beatings and she was always the leader of the house. She taught me discipline and the importance of knowledge. My dad taught me similar things but he always there so I could have someone to spend fun time with. But he and I had our shares of fights that got physical when I was in puberty.
I just want a normal family. A family that I can be proud of being mine. But it feels like I can never talk to them because they woukd always undermine me foe being the youngest. Also, I don't know what to do with the fact that I'm an atheist and they are very religious.
What do I just do in general? How can i fix my family, I've been trying it for years? (Also, I'm moving out as soon as I finish high school)
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It really sounds like me, I really see myself reflected on your life. I am still on that situation but my thoughts have changed.
First of all, your parents will die, unfortunately,(or fortunately) you won´t have to put up with that anymore.
Following which, family grows, when your household grows as you have children, your family will be you, your significant other and your children, that´s it, as well as your children won´t be your family anymore when they grow up to have children and so on.
Now about your sister, encourage her on a healthy diet, try to explain your parents in a religious way, not based in science, as they won´t understand otherwise. It seems like your sister has some kind of mental problem concerning her body image, coming from such an exigent family (you, yourself said you thought you weren´t good enough) so, summing up, your parents can´t be fixed but your sister can.
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I got pulled over for driving with a suspended license in va. This is my second offense. Does anyone know what im most likely looking at for consequences?
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your insurance rates are about to be total shit if they aren't already
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how about you stop driving with a suspended licence you dumb cunt ?
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>Does anyone know what im most likely looking at for consequences?
No less than what you deserve.
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I feel like politics have ruined my life.
I went from being happy playing video games, working on hobbies, enjoying life, to being pissed off at the world, unable to enjoy hobbies, and believing I'm a loser because I don't have a house, wife, and kids. I'm 26.
Any tips on how I can bluepill myself or just be able to let go of all of it and be happy again?
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>>18632034
I went abroad this summer and I didn't go on facebook or check the news for a few weeks. Nothing changed. It made me realize that so much of what we hear is just noise that doesn't really matter. I use to be get so stressed out hearing about some affairs in the world. I'd pull my hair listening to the news sometimes because some people were so retarded it pissed me off. Now rarely check the news and I'm happy I did. That being said, I can't really keep up when others talk about current events as much as I use to but I don't mind the trade-off.
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>>18632034
You're fixated on politics despite having no sway in any of the events that unfold in this world.
It's absurd to even think about it. It's all going to happen whether you're staring at it or not.
You can either devote a large portion of your existence to it, or you can forget it's even real.
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Need to cut person out of my life but i can't. 2017-08-17 08:38:50 Post No.18631993
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Need to cut person out of my life but i can't.
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So here is the situation:
>Move to new place away from home due to job, both parents died in 1 year and gf broke up with me
>Treat it as a new beggining,finally had a job i liked plus lots of friends
>Girl that lives next door works with me,we hang out, she comes over my house for a smoke and we start getting close
>She tells me she is with someone already but they aren't going that well due to distance(she was dating a 21 year old she is 30)
>At first i dont care but we get closer and closer and eventually we fuck
>She tells me not to get anything out of this, that she doesn't want a relationship and regrets doing that with me
>We keep having sex for some months,and we are getting closer,this weird thing like being in a relationship but not really,everytime we fuck she says that she really appreciates me as a person but doesn't want to be in a relationship
>We do have an amazing connection,literally staring each other till morning, things i never did with my ex of 3 years i do with this girl that i've known for months, fall for her really hard
>One day she cuts off the sex,tells me to find someone else and that she met some guy at the beach and will go out with him
>I get pissed and tell her that she isn't ready to be with me but she is ready to be with some random guy who doesn't even know her
>She goes pissed and tells me it's her life she can do what she wants
>After some on and off periods of not talking and talking to each other she tells me she never went out with anyone(confirmed this)and she just told me that to push me away
>I give her an ultimatum, that if she doesn't want to be with me i want nothing to do with her because i'm in love with her and i can't be friends with her.Block her from facebook and delete her from everything, just say hi to her at work.
Now i know i should have held my ground and keep ignoring her but every time i bump into her i go full fucking beta. cont.
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>After all this happened i accidentaly bump her door the first day i return from leave and she had a guy inside
>At the same day meet her while biking and ask her if she wants to ride with me, we go around sightseeing and then tell her i need to go
The worst happened just now though. She works at the communications department of my job and i'm an officer(coast guard), so basically she answers phones all day.I had to brief some guys on some shit some days ago and i had the meeting at the call center because everyone was there. Basically everyone gets in that call center to fuck around and desu it's annoying because the operator has to answer phones and file reports at the same time, and having 100 people over your head isn't helping. Today before we went out we had the same fucking around and she said if you don't have work to do then please leave. She got into a fight with another woman over this which i didn't witness because i was waiting in the car, plus i didn't want to take part because i'm still ignoring her. Later i heard she was crying over this.
I beta'd up. I wanted to console her so badly even though i shouldn't. I bumped into her before entering my house and she told me that she feels really bad about the fight and she said my briefing a few days ago pissed her off. I immediately agreed like a good cuck that it was unthoughtful of me and apologised, and told her i learned what happened and she was right.I tried to calm her down but she didn't want to talk anymore. Just before i entered the house she asked me if i deleted or blocked her from facebook, which i said i blocked her. She said fine, then let's keep it typical between us.
It was then where i fucked up. I told her i blocked her for my reasons, that i don't have any negative feelings against her, that it's my fault that it came to this, that it really hurts me that we don't talk anymore and i really miss her company. She said to give it more time and that it wasn't time to talk about .
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How can i stop fucking up like this? I can't stop fucking thinking about her. I hit on other girls and some even like me but all i think about is her. I try to some new activity every week to keep my mind of her but i can't truly enjoy it. I know i should tell her to fuck off because it will never work between us but i can't. I feel alone even though i go out more than i ever did in all my time in this place. And the worst part is that she knows she has the upper hand in this, she can find someone in an instant. I arranged to visit a friend this saturday that is kind of a slut but she invited me to sleep in her house and she is very touchy feely whenever i see her so i know she is DTF but i know i'll fuck it up because i'm hung up on that girl.
And i know one day soon she'll find someone that she calls baby and goes to dinner with him and all the things i wanted to do with her but she didn't because 'she didn't want me getting too attached'
She is fucking playing me like a fiddle and i can't control myself. How can i cut her from life?
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yep
you fell for a girl who repeatedly said DO NOT FALL FOR ME
maybe in the future youll learn that love is optional and you, and only you, can control your emotions
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Open University Courses 2017-08-17 08:32:15 Post No.18631971
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Greetings all,
I'm in my final year of high school and am considering various extracurricular courses for the sake of extra UCAS pts and learning.
I want my choices to allow me to be flexible should my chosen career path fail me and so that I account for probable job redundancies in the future.
There are various courses on offer, but I am leaning towards business management courses and a language (between mandarin and german)
I mainly want to know whether one or two of these choices would allow such flexibility and would be viable. I also wish to know of any better alternative to gain experience or a better chance of uni.
any of this would be greatly appreciated
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>>18631971
The best overall degree is one in criminology for law enforcement
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>>18631971
I'm grabbed my minor in mandarin over the summer and it definitely is worth it. If you take the language I highly recommend studying abroad if you get the chance. I'm not sure where you're from but don't you have to select a major?
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>>18631988
North West Britain, technically speaking we don't have an "explicit" one but mine would be history