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I'm getting older and older and I still couldn't get accepted into university yet. I'm 24
After what point does it become too late for me and it stops being something worth pursuing?
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My sister is almost 30 and doing a degree at University. Never too late.
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>>17349100
What do you mean you couldn't get accepted?
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>>17349122
Well in my country to get into university you have to like take a test, then you get ranked based on that test
So say if there are 40 openings your grades on that test have to be on the top 40 to get in

There's also places where you can just pay to go yes but they get a bad reputation and I can't really afford it

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>get tinder
>get 11 matches in the first 2 days
>week passes by
>haven't spoke to any of them
What form of autism is this? I'm a decent looking guy and kinda feel bad for the girl that thinks, "he's cute, cool we matched" and then never gets messaged. Does anyone else do this? pic unrelated
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>>17349074
Wtf where do you live? I tried tinder in my small town and I got 0 matches in days

I even bang hot chicks sometimes so I don't think it should be that low
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>>17349094
Southern US, small town but halfway between 2 somewhat large cities so all my matches are 40 miles away
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I tired tinder once and the only matches I ever got was when drunk swiping and liking fat chicks. The next day when I took a sober look at them I would get pretty depressed that those were my only options. Then started talking to them when I got drunk again. Only ever hooked up with one and she was a stubby olmeca that stalked me for the next few weeks

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my boyfriend doesn't put effort in. felt like this on and off throughout our almost year and a half relationship

he barely talks to me sometimes. sometimes he will go the entire day not talking to me.I'll text him and he barely responds. he never texts/calls me just to talk. whenever he's upset or stressed out he'll tell me, but he won't say why. it makes me feel like he's emotionally distant.

I was away for a week with family, when I came back i expected to see him a lot. I've been back for a week, I've seen him 3 times since but for all those times, we didn't see each other till 9pm or later, we basically just slept together. he made time for me on Saturday earlier, but I was looking for a second job and I couldnt hangout till 830, but he was hanging with his friends too and wanted to be w all of us not just me. even if I was free, I would have to hangout w them too

on the first night i came back, he demanded to see him when he got out of work at 12. I thought it was a bad idea, I should make him wait to see me during the day and spend time with me, but I missed him so I saw him. he asks me twice this week (on top of the other days I saw him to sleep) to sleep over when he gets out of work at midnight but I said no because I don't want him to supplement our time with sleeping together, and treat me like a booty call

he doesn't rally take me out much. sometimes it goes one month of us just chilling at his house not going anywhere. we haven't been on a date for weeks now, he doesn't make plans to. sometimes Hes sweet and a dream, but it doesn't last more than a week or 2.

I told him today I felt lonely. he said I was blaming it on him when it's my fault that we never hangout bc I wasn't free on Saturday (one day.and he was with his friends anyway)

i am lonely, spending all my days alone/with barely any communication
w him. I know I have other options out there and sometime it makes me mad bc I'm turning down other ppl for somethint unsatisfying (cont)
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>>17349065
(cont)

I usually get rewlly attached to people after a while and it's hard for me to let go. i also don't want to regret anything.

we're going on vacation in two weeks, and he bought my plane ticket and is going to be paying for most of it since I haven't been getting hours at work. and I appreciate that but I feel like that doesn't mean in the meantime I should feel neglected/not cared for.

he also sleeps a lot and sometimes i think hes really doing other things and just doesn't want me to know so it seems like he spends most of his free time with me.

I'm really lonely and sad. I don't think I want to be with him anymore. what should I do?
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>>17349069
If you don't want to be in a relationship, you don't have to be in the relationship. There's no reason you should ever feel forced to do something you don't enjoy.
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also, I think I felt extra bad today because yesterday I asked when I Could see him again and he said today on his one hour break from work (which again, seems sleezy way to spend time with me) and he didn't even text me/ask me about it today. he didn't work till 4 either and makes no effort to see me before work ever. the excuse for the longest time has been that he's sleeping and doesn't text me till after he gets to work at 430, and I've been telling him lately, "wow. I feel like you sleep a lot. I don't think we've hung out/ice talked to you before like 5pm for a year" and since then he's been "awake" at like 12am ish. it just makes me feel like I said before; that's he's awake doing stuff wirh his friends and doesn't want me to know :/ I mean he told me recently he hung out w his friends fuck buddy and I just didn't get when bc I usually know what he's doing and he seems to never have time ..

>have barely any friends
>Most are online
>Generally just became fine with myself
>Never dated anyone
>Go though years of this perfectly OK with all this and always having a straight face
>People always give me that "you would make a good poker player" saying
>One day co worker asks me out
>I say sure
>Was really just interested in this new experience called dating
>Turns out I don't like it
>Really can't be bothered to hang out
>When I do it's a forced smile
>But at the same time I have feelings for this person
>But ultimately, I just wanna read,study shit, and play vidya

Fuck, conflicting feelings. What do adv.
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just make sure you have lots of kids, okay, b?
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Holy fuck, if there is one thing I'm not ready for its kids.
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>>17349070
2 l8! grill + semen = babbies

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How hard is it to get into Western Washington University? I did the minimum requirements in school and have been graduated for 2 years.
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It's not Harvard, heck it's not even UW.
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Just call the admissions office and ask.
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>>17349012
The admission application has three questions.

1. Are you from Washington?
2. Have you the money?
3. Are you breathing?

Any 2 out of 3 gets you in.

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If someone comes up to you and feels your torso, butt or arm in a sexual/flirtatious, are you allowed to beat them? Especially if it is a girl who does it.
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>>17348994

Not in a civilized country, psycho.
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I'm in the US, I am concerned with the laws. Even if I do not feel in danger, but just really annoyed that a stranger is feeling me sexually. I know in Germany a woman can have a man arrested for touching her.
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Try a half-serious shove.

Best friend broke up mutual friend's relationship by hitting on his girlfriend and taking her away from him constantly, leading her to fall for him.

She eventually broke up with her boyfriend at which point my best friend started sleeping with her and saying he loves her but then in public admits he'd be happier if she wasn't around and she's ruined his friendship.

In other words, friend is colossal douche and it took me until yesterday where he tried strangling her while drunk to consider him no better than scum.

Unfortunately, she's a friend too because I've known her as long as he has and she acknowledges the relationship is toxic and terrible but she keeps saying she can't change her feelings.

It's gotten so bad she asked everyone at the party to not tell him about his attempted strangling because she wants to try and make it work, he woke up hungover and has no recollection of it and she stayed at his house and cleaned everything and is just the obedient slave.

I don't want to just pack my shit up and leave them in a shit show, any advice from people who've been in similar situations?
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>>17348976
Nigger learn to fucking type.
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>>17348976
Your "friend" and "his" girlfriend are both scum. Worthless no good for nothings by the sound of it. Why wouldn't you just pack up and leave? A stolen girl and the scumbag who stole her from his "friend" aren't very good company, especially when that scumbag does a 180 and starts shit talking and abusing the slut.

How fucking nuts do you have to be to want to stick around?
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Drop both because they are trash, unless you are trash yourself as well.

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Can a relationship between a guy who loves to party and drink and a girl who doesn't drink work out?
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No, sorry.
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Yep. trust. next.
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>>17348966
Nope, she'll always think you go out and fuck sluts behind her back, causing her to go out and cheat on you out of revenge

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My girl has been really short with me through text the last week or so. It all started when she asked about my parents and I told her they didn't seem to have a high opinion of her (they haven't met yet). In person she's normal, but over text she doesn't seem like she even wants to talk, with a bunch of two word texts punctuated with lol.

She doesn't really joke much and she barely responds to compliments with more than a "thank you". It wasn't always like this. She'd be really funny and flirty before this. I don't really wanna ask her like a needy bitch so any idea why this may be? We talked about my parents in person and she isn't too interested in trying to impress them.
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why do they not have a high opinion of her?
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>>17348961
They had found out I had sex with her before they even knew we were dating (we had dated before though) so they think she's a slut who jumped on my dick the moment she met me. It's more my mom, but apparently she didn't see me as the type to hook up. Little does she know I am.

Side note because it may be relevant: we haven't been dating long this stint, only two weeks, two months including the first time around. If it's confusing why they think she's a slut, you're absolutely right.
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>>17348971
Your mother's a fucking retard if she looks down on her for this, but not you.

Any advice on how I can get my naïve and innocent GF to let me lick her butt?

We haven't had sex yet, but we've been going out for a while and getting to that part of our relationship, and butts are literally my favorite part of a woman (aside from their faces).
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Give her orgasms first. Then make your demands known.
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>>17348943
Not a bad suggestion, but as I said, she's very naïve. Even if I please her to that extent, she could still just be disgusted by the thought of someone licking her butt.
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>>17348953
Butt, or butthole?

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I'm back in my hometown for the summer from college. My dad starts throwing a fit because the internet went out, blames it on me because I'm the computer guy in the house and it was fine until I showed up. Restart router, internet magically works, but he's till yelling at me for it. I was so frustrated that I told him accusing and treating me like that really pissed me off. Was too emotional to realize I just fed the fire. He tells me to stop bitching, which makes me angrier. Mom comes over "what's going on its 1am". Dad says "Tim screwed up the internet," at that point I just yell fuck you for the first time ever. He says next time I say that he'll knock my teeth. Now I'm in my room crying over the whole thing. Last time something like this happened was two years ago, ending with us actually hitting each other which felt horrible. I don't even know what to think right now, I'm 21 dealing with something that happens when you're 14. This is the second day since I left.
>inb4 shit grammer, I'm aware
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>>17348928
Get out of there.
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>>17348949
In what context, and why?
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>>17348928

A) Who the fuck is Tim, anon?
B) If anyone knocks in your teeth you knock in their fucking skull - my dad broke my thumb when I was 17 and I hit him so hard in front of a crowd of people that he'd never dare touch me again. He's bigger than me, but fuck it. Don't let someone do that.
C) Tell him you didn't break the fucking internet and he doesn't understand how it works. Explain it, if you want.

Also, stop crying. You're a big boy. You can be shot in war, you can even buy your own beer. Stand up for yourself. Wipe off your tears, even though you don't want to. You have a backbone, I promise.

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Hello guys I have a question about switching jobs.

A little backstory:
>5 years ago being me a depressed autist
>get into autismbux because of autism and depression
>now 5 years later im 'fit' to work again
>have a job driving trucks, but am not really happy about it
>the hours suck and I have these bosses and colegues who annoy the fuck out of me
>its starting to eat me and i dread to it more and more
>thinking if I should go back to old job I had 5 years ago where I was happy but quit back then because of depression
>they need a referal if they wanna invite me to an interview

how the fuck am I going to do it without my current job knowing I dont like it there and I wanna go and how the fuck do I make sure my old job takes me back?
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>>17348898
i mean it took a whole lot of trouble getting my current trucking job because of my history. Its understandable companies arent excited about me with my backstory. However I was good at my old job. Now I drive trucks, I used to drive smaller vehicles and I was more happy there so I wanna go back.

But yeah if they wanna invite me to an interview they are gonna know about my backstory (having autismbux and not working for 5 years) and my current job is gonna know i dont like them and im planning on switching

how do I fix this without ruining everything?
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bump

thanks alot guys I really appreciate it
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Anyone?

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Need advice.

My ex and i lost our virginities to each other about 6 months ago and broke up shortly after. She went and talked shit about how bad i was to her friends and it got back to me. I've had casual sex with girls since then and she hasn't been with anyone since me. How should i go about bringing up a casual encounter with her? (not so much because i care that she talked shit, just because i want to fuck again.)

I wrote a text to her but haven't sent it, any help is appreciated.

>you talked a lot of shit about me when i lost my virginity but now that i actually know what I’m doing i feel like i should get a chance to prove you wrong.

>pic semi-related: its a girl i fucked last week
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Your approach may work, but I think your chances of success are better if you don't imply that you care about proving anything to her.
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Why would she want to fuck you, even casually?
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>>17348893
>fucking niggers
Not even once

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I'm dating this new guy and things are going great. However, I requested I go to play a game with one of my old friends for about 4 years now (which means a lot, because I don't have many friends) and he seems to be worried about it. Even though he has my Skype password, he still believes I am going to cuck him, which is not the case.

Background info on my friend, yes at one time him and I had a crush on each other. It was for awhile, but we managed to realize a relationship wouldn't work out for us because of many factors, but decided to stick around because we're practically best friends.

This wasn't even a full-on relationship - just a "you're cute and wow you're so great, but I don't think we'd work" type of situation.

I love this guy I'm dating, and I'm not interested in my friend. Why should I feel bad about playing a game with my friend?
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>I had a crush on this guy at one time
>And now I want to go talk to him and make my current partner not feel bad about it

GEE IT SURE IS A MISTERY.
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>>17348908
>feel bad

Sure is a childish thing when they can easily login into my account and see how harmless the messages are. And considering the fact the crush was years ago and the guy has a gf now.
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>>17348938
introduce your new guy to your "friend" first that will show respect for the relationship instead of immediately trying to make your new guy the bad guy in order to be with your old guy

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I hate to sound like an edgy high schooler but life really doesn't feel like there's much in store outside of work, sleep, buy shit to cheer you up, repeat. I cling to the hope that maybe later something life changing will happen to me but I'm getting to the point where I'm just bummed out all the time so it doesn't seem worth it and the urge to end it is sounding more efficient than sitting through it

Does anyone else feel like this?
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Why do you think we entertain ourselves?

There really is nothing else. Even meeting new people gets boring after a while. Every problem that everyone has repeats itself in different times ad infinitum.

I'm seriously considering suicide later this year. But I'll stick by and try to help people I guess until then
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That's why I joined the Army.
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you sound pretty depressed. Nothing is fun like it used to be, and life is pointless. that's how i feel a lot of the time because i have depression myself, but i know it's not supposed to be like that. don't kill yourself, try to get rid of your depression and it will change your viewpoint to a more positive view about life

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