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I masturbate a lot, but who wouldn't? I haven't had a good sexual experience in my life. I've only met a handful of women in my life can honestly say I'd be really be comfortable with, not just find attractive but have a connection as well. I would say I have a much lower sex drive than most men, the idea of settling for something I don't have much interest in is really unacceptable for me. I grew a toxic belief about women that they were all mostly selfish and insecure, but I attribute that mostly to the fact that I personally have had no success with them. I feel like men constantly have to settle for less cause we spoil women them with attention/affection. Guys have to make the first move 99% of the time and have to be quite persistent and convincing to be successful in an attempt of seduction, which results in women having a "Midlife crisis". I believe that it's just women coming to terms with how good they got it when they were young because of their looks but now that they don't have easy looks they have to try harder. You don't see older attractive women with the same problem. Girls tell me I'm cute and I know I'm not bad looking, I've had girls approach me quite a few times but I was never interested in them, the only time I was interested was once with a girl that is "polyamorous" and didn't get involved with cause I knew I would get my heart broken (remained friends with her cause of work but ultimately had heart broken anyway), and the second was with a girl I met at a bar I frequent but she was having trouble with her boyfriend and was having an episode (multiple times she tried to kiss me during the night but I refused cause I knew she had a boyfriend, to which end she took me aside and proceeded to dump emotional baggage on me, haven't seen or heard from her in 2 weeks.

SO, WTF do I do /adv/, I refuse to settle for less but am lonely as fuck.

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c'mon /adv/ say something, suck it up or something, don't leave me hanging

alright back to the bar I go, no one gives a shit

>>17381661
I personally hate cats, but here goes:

If you love your pet, treat it as you would a member of your family. If your mom had a busted up hip, would you take her to the doctor? Would you foot an x-ray for her?

If you answer yes to 1 or more of those questions, then take the booger to the vet. He could have broken bones, and you must understand animals do not respond the same as we do, they will lug around on that shit like there's no tomorrow; unlike us, we'll lay in bed moaning and groaning.

The longer you wait to find out, the more expensive the repairs (if any) could cost you.

>>17381665
.... it's def not broken. He's still jumping, and walking. And letting me touch the area.

>>17381680
he's probably fine.

Maybe he just twisted it or something.

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>>17381659
>Scared to work

Go apply, dumbass.

Welcome to adulthood

Go to a store
ask to see the manager
ask if you can leave your resume
rinse and repeat.

It's only for month, son

>>17381655
I have never seen so many "and" in a row.

>>17381655
You must be over 18 to post on this site.

>>17381655
It's okay OP, you got on her radar; she knows you exist. Chalk it up to a funneh blooper and don't sweat it.

If it's mentioned to you in a demeaning kind of way, say "Omg, that's so funny. I was waving to someone behind you guys also. HAHA"

Thats why I never wear condoms.

Are you new to condoms? If so, get your dick used to them. If not... it happens. Especially if you were drinking, take a pill as a backup.

>>17381654
Condoms kill all feeling. It's barely worth having sex with a condom but if you do have sex, you need it.

>eating a girl out

This was considered a shameful act in old Greece and I find it disgusting. I don't know why anyone would want to go down on a girl they could be fucking or fingering instead.

>>17381595
Growing out of reality was easy enough. Growing back into it was the hard part.

>>17381601
2deep4me

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how can you grow out of reality


that doesn't even make sense

if you think that you grew out of it all you did was change your perception of reality to something that makes you feel like you grew out of it


when in all actuality you didn't grow out of it

you just deluded yourself in believing that you did

Thats creepy unless you have both previously on multiple occasions expressed a mutual interest in such a thing.

Yes.

>>17381569
This.

/thread

>>17381558
Amsterdam? Also, are you sure you want to participate in such a meaningless act of 'love'?

>>17381650
Prague

There are worse ways to get aids

>>17381505
Any chance you can move out? Move in with non-smokers? The temptation is tough- I've been there, lived with a smoker after I quit. It was really tough, I had a lot of relapses and false starts. Finally managed to kick it when I moved out to a new place.

Vaping seems like a better alternative to smoking if you really don't think that you can hold out.

It may cause you to peg/jones even more as you realize you aren't getting nicotine out of it, so this is something that you have to really think hard about yourself.

All I can say is, is that if you relapse then you should get an e-cig, then taper down till you get to 0, you don't need a sub ohm fog machine, just get an e-leaf istick 20w battery with a nautilus mini tank, then get whatever nicotine level you require for the amount of cigs you smoked. 10-15 a day is 12mg for example.

There are guides out there on how to mix liquid to get the right concentrate of nicotine you need, so if you wanted you could go down 0.5 mg a week till you get to your desired goal of 0mg.

stay strong and move out when you can

Just wanted to say that I kek'd. Thanks anon.

No idea how to help you.

>>17381523
Holy shit. That made me lol hard

Please think of my body of the one of another woman

Obviously she doesn't value your opinion of her anymore and is seeking outside attention, either you've done something to push her interest into another direction or she's genuinely losing interest and you're better off going your separate ways.

Or if she means a lot to you try and clean up your mess by hitting the gym, eating better and being a bit more self concious of how you look and making sure you constantly look good, she will appreciate that and notice it, if she doesn't a lot of other women will, it's a win-win scenario.

>>17381460
Continued a bit,

She is from the city, I am from the country. Every girl I have met has been from the city and from very rich families. Her had owns a literal mansion in the middle of one of the largest city in the world where she lives. She pays "rent" but it's only $150USD a month. My ex's have all been rich as well. In fact, every girl I have ever talked to have rich families (like yachts, mansions, businesses, vacations several times a year)

I grew up on a farm where the first few years of my life didn't have running water. As in, we had an outhouse and pumped water from a well. When I was about 4 my parents got a new house in "town" but my grandma kept the farm. We stayed at the farm most of my life until 1997. I say "town" because there were still only about 7000 people in that county. When people think of "poor" America they think of middle class for reason. I am not middle class. I am poor.

I was accepted to a fancy school with a full scholarship because of my abilities. I graduated with a bachelors and proceeded to get work around the country. I have lived coast to coast. No one would ever guess my past. I was raised as a hillbilly, went to school with a high rate of well-off kids and work in an industry of rich, liberal people similar to those in college. I stick out like a sore thumb.

I have the build of scottish-nordic ancestry. I am broad, thick, and taller than most (6ft). I played sports my entire life and football in highschool. I am a big guy. I do not have the kind of build that you "tone" to have abs. When I work out I just get HUGE. I weighed 265lbs in highschool where I worked out 8 hours a day in the summer for football.

I lost weight (and muscle) since then. I got down to 180lbs in college but gained weight because of depression. I got back to 220lbs (when I met current GF) but have started losing weight so I am at 205lbs now. I want to get back to 180lbs (I look thin and scrawny at 180).

>>17381473
I am honestly trying. In this post I mentioned a bit >>17381481 but my body type is not one of a runner. I could squat 350 (probably 400 with a lot of work) and bench my own weight. No matter what I do, I look fat. My chest is just huge and my body goes straight down from there. My legs are thick as fuck.

The last time I timed myself was just as I got to college. At 260lbs, I ran the 100m in 14 seconds. That's at 260lbs.

I biked everywhere for years. Despite my size I can run faster and further than she could hope to. But I'm fat. I don't know what to do.

She got on my case when I ate a ham, provolone, sandwhich, spinach sandwich. That's all I had on it. No mayo, oils, seasoning, anything. Wheat bread. Had a couple "light salt" (my blood pressure is fantastic) pretzel crisps with them because I don't like greasy chips.

For breakfast I have something light, like applesause (no sugar, but I do add like a tsp of honey). It can't be more than 100calories. Or I'll eat a plain apple. I like apples. A lot.

Once we watched a movie together and I brought a fun sized candy bar to eat. She got on my case for that as well.

She doesn't eat any better than I do. She drinks coffee and puts sugar and cream in it. Like A LOT of sugar and cream. She goes to starbucks and has a frozen frappe that's pure sugar. She eat's greasy market food.

Even when she wasn't as "fit" she was incredibly beautiful to me. I told her that everyday.

She has always changed her friends. Her two new BEST FRIENDS are a girl she works out with (a girl that is obsessed with looks. She also fucks men while her BF is away because "I just have to have sex".) and a gay guy that only talks about fucking other men on tinder.

You're probably already dying.
Seriously though, toss em if your concerned

>>17381448
my concern may be misinformed, see anti vaccinating parents. i'd rather get some informed opinions.

I found this online


Can PET bottles that are left in a hot car or put in the microwave release dioxins?

PET is the clear, lightweight form of polyester that is extruded or molded into plastic bottles and containers for packaging foods and beverages, personal care products, and many other consumer products.No. PET does not contain dioxins, nor can it produce dioxins, and no dioxins are created in the manufacturing of PET. Dioxins are a group of compounds sometimes formed by high-temperature combustion (over 750 degrees F.) and certain types of industrial processes involving chlorine. Dioxins can't be created without the presence of chlorine, and PET does not contain chlorine. Consequently, dioxins can't be produced when a PET container is heated or microwaved, exposed to sunlight, or washed and reused (all urban myths)

Tell her you would like her to have a better hygiene down there. Including, but not limited to, washing and trimming. Also, a doctor's visit won't do any harm.

If you don't want to deal with it, dump her.

Fucking leave

>>17381408
Yeah that is gross as fuck, take her filthy ass to a doctor.

Shameful Self Bump
Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you

there is nothing to discuss here. you pointed out yourself, that it does not feel right. leave this shitty place and go where you feel compfortable.

>>17381405
>On the other, I can see that turning down this opportunity to move down to London and experience new things is quite a cowardly thing to do - but to be honest, I don't really want to do it

You've got your answer. Leave London and go back to NZ

Be responsible, stop trying to buy people's appreciation and respect. It doesn't work that way.
Setup an account you cannot get access to while out. When you get paid put money in it.

Take as much money with you as youre willing to spend, and just leave your debit card at home. Easy enough

>>17381402
Generosity is a good quality OP, but you can't be generous to a fault. When you go out have a budget and stick with it, instead of trying to buy peoples love and appreciation, instead be the life of the party.