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Is work meant to be this boring or am I just spoilt?
It seems like every single human being is perfectly content with just working. spending 8 hours of the day creating wealth for someone else, only to blow it all on car fuel and rent.
I don't understand how you people do it. I've been tackling it for a few weeks now and I just want to jump off a cliff and stop living. I'm not depressed! It just seems like a far happier choice than to go to work.
But MILLIONS of people work their ASS off. they sweat, strain, snarl and shriek every single hour of their days and they don't question it.
TLDR How do I not be torturingly bored at work like everyone else is?
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by realizing that the alternatives are worst
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>>17382082
Being a doctor is pretty exciting
Do something you like and don't find boring, perhaps?
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>>17382085
And what are the alternatives?
>>17382090
I'm trying to be a graphic designer, but thats just because I'm kinda good at it. I don't really enjoy it. I don't really enjoy anything anymore.
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I had an interview for a retail job, im confident speaking to new people and one of the girls was speaking to before the interview said she fakes confidence said she isnt confident at all, how the hell do you do that?, she did well in the presentation which was too the managers and other candidates, i didnt appear near as confident as she did. Then it was one on one interview normally id be confident, but my heart was going like the clappers , want the job so bad prepared for weeks for it, I am more confident than my friends. Why is it I get nervous and do shittier than im capable of in these situations? others are so natural at it?
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>>17382058
first wtf with the pic..
second.
yes you can fake confidence, she can be very good outside but inside she is extremely nervous she just know how to handle it, maybe because she has more experience.
i think its all about experience. maybe you just need to get used to it.
you are good in this kind of situations but when its something more important, you cant handle it, because you want it to be perfect instead of loose yourself and just do it.
im not sure if i make sense.
sorry for my english im learning
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>>17382058
She's had more practice faking it to make it than you have just going natural into an interview. That's it.
Also, don't equate confidence with competence.
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>>17382096
^ this basically..
There's this girl at the gym I want to talk to. She's always there by herself so I think she's single and she's looked me in the eyes before. I want to talk to her but I don't know how. I want to spot her with her squat and bench.
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>>17382035
>She's always there by herself so I think she's single and she's looked me in the eyes before.
Do you also believe waitresses are interested in you?
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>>17382039
The point is I want to find out if she likes me
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>>17382048
she doesnt, shes probably getting checked out by 20 dudes daily
move on
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I'm three years into a useless meme degree. If I go to college for like a month and then kill myself will they refund the tuition to my parents
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There is no such thing as a useless degree.
And no, they will not.
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Whats the degree and why is it a meme?
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Unless it's women's studies, you should be fine.
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I need advice.
4 days ago I started talking to this hot chick on Tinder while I was at work. Ended up coming over to her place after my shift and we fucked until the morning. She seemed like a cool person, slightly awkward, shy, nervous, and quiet, but she was really kinky and an expert cuddler. Whether she was being honest or not, she told me she's never done this before. I'm inclined to believe her because she was super nervous and I had to carry all of our conversations.
But. She is super hot. Extremely cute. And I faced the awkward "having to get dressed at her place and possibly leave before or with her" moment. And... She seems pretty chill, but I haven't really heard much from her since. I texted her later that day told her it was nice meeting her and that she is actually really awesome and that I wouldn't want this to be a one time thing if she'd be open to the idea of having sex again.
And her response is, "I'm not saying I don't want to do it again, but I'm not saying I do if that makes sense?"
And of course I lied through my teeth and told her that I'm cool with that. Since then I haven't heard from her and I am about ready to accept that I'll never hear from her again. Which is an odd feeling, because she REALLY enjoyed the way I ate her out, played with her, and fucked her.
I've been trying not to make this awkward for her, but I am literally screaming internally and I'm not sure if I should just wait it out for a week or two, or if I should continue to take the initiative and ask her if she'd be down for another round.
I honestly have no idea what she meant by "I'm not saying no, but I'm not saying yes either." It's confusing as fuck. Help adv. What do
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>I honestly have no idea what she meant by "I'm not saying no, but I'm not saying yes either." It's confusing as fuck.
It means "I'm a woman"
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She doesn't want a relationship and some clingy faggot, maybe you gave that impression at some point?
Throw out a feeler DTF message and see if she's down.. if not, move on and see if she hits you up at a later date.
Chicks tend to CHASE when ignored and hate CHASERS.
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>"I'm not saying I don't want to do it again, but I'm not saying I do if that makes sense?"
translates to
I feel bad for acting like a whore, but i may wanna fuck again MAYBE.
Basically if you wanna fuck again you better make some effort to make her feel less like a booty call so her ego can handle it.
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I applied for a job and they want to hire me. However, I also applied for another job but didn't hear back from them yet. I'd prefer the second job tho.
How do I deal with this situation?
Also, what if I decline a company's offer now - would it be weird to apply for a job at theirs in the near future for a new/different position?
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>>17382000
accept current job offer because MONEY.
If other job offers you job quit and switch.
This is what normal people do bro.You are gonna be on probation anyways so they really wont care if you leave.
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>>17382005
I would do that if it was a dumb sidejob, but these jobs are relevant to my career. it's at a major company and since they seem to like my profile, I'd rather stay on good terms with them for the future
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>>17382113
Your thought process is right. In the end it's a gamble, only you can really evaluate the risk/reward on this.
Think how much dk you want both jobs, how can you rise on your career with both, how they will impact your life, if you can change in the future and how you can; consider stuff like that and consider the risk of having neither and make your decision.
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I went out on a date with this girl, and we seemed to hit if off quite well. We made out a few times and everything was grand.
Now I have no idea what to do. I don't want to look like a clingy fuck and text her constantly, and I have no idea when or where to go for a second date.
I'm so close to actually succeeding with a girl, I don't want to fuck it up now
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Just text her and tell her you enjoyed the date. Then let her know that you would like to go out again some other time. As for going out to a second date go to the movies or to people watch. Hell go to a picnic.
Don't text her too much. Just wait for her to reply and go from there.
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I would simply ask her what her thoughts are about how the date went
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>>17381985
She said she had a good time. Hopefully she's telling the truth and not just trying to make me feel better.
I'm thinking Monday would be a good time for a second date, but is that too soon?
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What's the cheapest legal way to obtain reliable Internet connection in urban areas?
Yes, one could use Wifi hotspots which are free. But they aren't reliable - they aren't found everywhere.
3G and 4G seems attractive, and that's what I have been using so far. But I'm getting it from a mobile subscription, which is rather expensive.
Any ideas?
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>>17381967
Well, that depends where you live... For instance, I live in London and here you can get a 3 (Three) Mobile chip with unlimited 4G for £25.00 and it's very reliable and fast.
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>>17381967
italianfag here, used to have a mobile data plan for my second apartment, 30€/month for 20GB of 4G, good but 20GB is not that much (probably is if you're alone, i shared with a roomate).
now i pay 30€/month for 7mbps ADSL, again, not that good but it's unlimited and anyway is enough for basic needs
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If you're in Canada, you're shit out of luck :^)
has these pop up on my leg and 2 on my arm over the last 2-3 days
any idea what they are? i'm hoping just mosquito bites but fuck i'm worried
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No one here can clarify as we are not doctors. Go see one anon.
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>>17381957
maybe someone has had experience with bites
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Judging by the coloration of your skin around the hair follicles, it looks like you're dealing with the same shit I've been dealing with for years. They seem to be spots where the growing hair has problems getting through the skin. The hairs are becoming ingrown because they can't break through the top layer of skin.
You can avoid them by using body wash and scrubbing every day as you shower and exfoliating regularly.
I have a sleep disorder and it's ruining my life. Been to countless specialists. No improvement. How do I live like this? I dropped out of college. I can only work 5-6hr a day.
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Details?
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>>17381932
Go to a doctor, try to meditate, asmr? less computer, any type of devices before you go to sleep, walk, small exercises,
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>>17381932
Think about THC, it will get you psychically addictet after a long term but thats way better then pills with physically addiction and Cold turky
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I'll try to keep this short and sweet.
I was at work and my manager fell on me as well as the lady in the kitchen. At first I thought he was trying to do this thing he does with mostly only the girls at work, where he bumps into them on purpose. So I freaked a little and ended up kicking, as he says, six times. He pulled me to the side to explain it was an accident and not one of those times where he was just trying to bump me because he fell on the lady in the kitchen too.
So after work I told my bf about the event, which I thought was more so funny because he dubbed me jackie chan for kicking the shit out of him, but instead of my bf joining in for a laugh he gets all defensive and pissy because he saw it as more than just an accident. SO, am I being to chill about this or is he over reacting to this? He also claimed he'd come to my job and start shit just because of this. pls help adv
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>>17381872
You kicked your boss 6 times and he was ok with it?
Your boss said it was not 'one of those times'?
What the actual fuck, there is not a single sane person in this whole situation.
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>>17381880
They were light kicks..and he didn't say that EXACTLY word for word.
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>>17381884
Doesn't matter, the only normal person might be the lady in the kitchen but considering how everyone is imbalanced i bet she make him fall.
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how do you cope with the fact that you'll always live a low class scum lyfe?
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The same way all low-class scum have since forever: booze. Lots and lots of booze.
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>>17381828
but it tastes gross
wat do
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Low class scum life, sure. But if you you see things a bit differently and imagine what it'd be like to live that glamorous high class lifestyle, you'll noticed that the grass just looks greener from the otherside and unless you're fine with being alone, you're always going to be surrounded by shit. Although I suppose it's easier to control your environment and keep scum out if you had the means to live high class but then you're just going to be swimming with sharks. Take solace and comfort in things money can't buy. IE. health/fitness, artistic ability, knowledge, skills, etc.
Hi,
Does anybody here has racing thoughts? How to get rid of them? I'm frightened, because I ended up thinking about my past, got anxious, can't do anything because I don't have will to do it. And how to recognize is it neurosis or schizophrenia because they do have similar symptoms?
Sorry for the lack of English.
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Any opinions are welcome
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It's probably just good ol' anxiety.
Either:
-Go see a doctor for meds
-Learn to meditate
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>>17381811
Schizophrenia is far more severe. You literally hear and see things not there. Its anxiety, you are just self conscious and nervous. Take up exercise and eat/sleep proper.
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can someone help me to understand if I am a girly boy or transgender?
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>>>/lgbt/ can
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>>17381809
>girly boy or transgender
Just be yourself and people will hopfully accept you do the stuff that you enjoy and don't think about wheather you "should" enjoy said things
If you really are unhappy with who you are and think you would like to change your body go and see a doctor and they can find someone to talk it through with you.
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If you take a look at whats between your legs then that should determine what your gender is. Trust me, medical professional have been using this diagnostic technique to identify the gender of newborns for centuries. If you feel you should surgically reassign your gender then you better prepare yourself, not so much for the surgery but the hell you are going to face afterwards.
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PLEASE help.
Two weeks ago me and my gf had a terrible, terrible week. She was PMS'ing horribly and I was coming off anxiety medication and having a terrible rebound effect. We were both irritable as fuck and argued all week, then eventually made peace, and had a great time last week, perfect, up until sunday. Sunday we went to a show, she did something that ticked me off, we fought again, kind of big time, but made up. Ever since then something's been feeling kind of off though.
I know I shouldn't expect everything to feel normal after so many repeat fights, but I'm still feeling the effects of the rebound (they say it can last up to a month) and I feel like I'm dying, I'm super anxious every day, RIGHT NOW, over nothing. She told me the day before yesterday that she's with me, body and soul, and she has no doubts. Yesterday we had a good time together, lots of laughs, got along like usual, but then I had a really vivid dream where she said she didn't feel like hanging around me anymore after all that happened and woke up extremely anxious. My brain is destroying me here.
How can I stop feeling like she's slipping away and leave all this behind me?
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>>17381803
Have a cup of tea and cuddle together in bed.
Hugging and cuddling releases oxytocin which lowers your blood pressure and cortisol levels which the hormone responsible for stress.
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>>17381803
>She told me the day before yesterday that she's with me, body and soul, and she has no doubts.
Christ you don't really think that means anything do you?
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>>17381808
How do you mean?