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Is working at Amazon really that difficult? Should I take that job at all?
Also, what jobs are very easy to find with a high school diploma? I don't care if the pay is shit.
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people work at Amazon? wtf i thought everything was done automatically by robots while John Amazon just sits back and watches and makes tons of cash
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Good pay for highschoolers but its alot of manual labor (mostly moving boxes to be shipped)
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>>17430855
They're actually recruiting massively in my area.

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I got into a car accident a week ago. I walked away from it fine.

However I now get a throbbing pain in my neck. It comes and goes and it ranges from a minor ache to so painful I want to cry.

Should I go to the doctor? My dad said its not worth missing work and I should man up and deal with it. But I don't want this to continue.

Pic is my car.
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You probably have whiplash, or worse. Go to a fucking doctor.
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>>17430896
Is he dragging or is he rushing?
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>>17430909
SO YOU DO KNOW THE FUCKING DIFFERENCE

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How do heterosexual men not like loli hentai?

Don't give me the pedophile crap.
I know you just avoid it just for moral reasons.
The "I can't even try this, because i might like it" mentality.
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The pedophile crap
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It's a stage you get when you masturbate too much. Connect the dots.
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>>17430809
I think all anime is gay as fuck, you are a faggot if you like that japanese shit.

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Ok I usually browse pol/ or b/ where everything I say I am called a faggot and I am fine with it. No matter what you may think, it is useful to have someone pointing out how miserable and stupid you are. Today I want to try something new, so here I am in adv/ to ask your opinion about this friend of mine.

She's a grill, being in a long term relationship with a guy a met a couple of times. Used to hang out a lot with here alone and I really enjoyed her company. After a while I realized I liked her and made my move. Long story short she cheated on her boyfriend with me, several times. Now I am a bit puzzled, she did not dump her boyfriend but still hangs out with me (every time we make out or have sex). From time to time she says "remember I still have a boyfriend..", to be sure I think that I do not start to develop some sort of strong feeling for her (which I'm not atm).

So what do you think, she's a cheater and everything but I really like her. Should I try to have something more or should I just enjoy the ride until it lasts and then forget about her? Also what do you think it's on this girl's mind?

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Shameless self bump
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>>17430805
Self bumping is not a crime
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>>17430805
buuuump

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/adv/, is it bad to think about things that scare u? i struggle w anxiety n dissociation, n i tend to ruminate on thoughts that scare me- mostly shit about reality n existence n stuff. i find that ignoring those thoughts helps me stay calm, but isn't pushing them away bad? should i b confronting them?
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>>17430785
Yeah, it's bad. Face your fears, it's the only way you can be free of them.
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>>17430994
how do i do that tho? without thinking about them?
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Thinking about them isn't good but actually facing your fears is better. If you're afraid of heights, it's only feeding the fear when you think about how scary it is to be up high.

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I have one day home alone (for the first time in like six months) and I would ideally like to have sex. I'm a girl who hasn't had good sex in a while, and I am hoping that the alone time will help with that.

I've been dating around and people are very flakey!!

There is this one guy who I told about this day weeks ago, and how I want him to come over, and he has been consistent that he plans to come over, but I'm still concerned he's going to flake, since he has occasionally before.

There's also a few other guys that I potentially have as options, but I'd really prefer that first guy.

Do I set something up with a second guy? Or should I put all my faith in the first guy?

I feel like I'm going to be crushed if the first guy flakes and I don't have a plan B...

What do?
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what state?
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>>17430783
I'm in Illinois. Are you getting the oatmeal?
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Why can't you arrange for a night in a hotel?

What are the perks of being an asshole?
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+10 Vitality
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Define asshole? Because I wouldn't say Kanye is an asshole, maybe a douche, definitely cocky and a jackass. At least his public persona.
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>>17430755
I probably should've said the pic was unrelated. I don't really think Kanye is an asshole, I just love that shrug. Anyway, I guess being arrogant for example. What benefit would be from that?

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Just got caught by my mum mausturbating and I'm really not quite sure to handle this situation.

Just some details:
She's an extremely nosy person who enjoys opening my door all the time without knocking no matter how many times I've said (Along with constantly barraging me with questions, always trying to find out about me through other people and ferreting around in my room when I'm not home) I was fully clothed and didn't have any sound on. My desk is also facing the door and I would've been quite obscured by my two screens though she probably most definitely saw it. She just snuck up and opened the door for a second and as soon as I noticed she closed it and walked off.

Do I talk about it or just pretend it never happened and hope like hell she never tells anyone? I'm an irrationately private person (Largely caused by her being so nosy my entire life) so if she did I don't know what I'd do.
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>>17430710
sounds like what happened to me, just go along with your life as if nothing happened and its the most normal thing ever. If she says something tell her to stay the fuck out of your privacy.
I don't think she'll tell anyone desu. Why would she? My parents are nosy fucks and they tell each other private stuff they dig out from me but they don't tell other people as far as I know.
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Hopefully this changes things and she realizes not to be as nosy. Guys look at porn, it's natural. You shut your door for a reason.
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happens to everyone at some point kid

don't bring it up unless she does

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My moms job is counseling women about to die of breast cancer. Lately its been taking a toll on her, especially since one of her patients, a beautiful 27 year old passed away. How do I convince her to quit and get an easier job?
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She's a social worker?
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She's a social worker?
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She's a social worker?

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There is a woman I have met twice. I am really crushing on her, but i don't think i will actually meet her again even though she lives in the same town, since we met through a unique work issue. We didn't have any major conversation but there was some back and forth laughter, I think she at least finds me attractive, and i know she's single.

Would it be weird to add her on facebook and ask her to go out to dinner with me? I would really prefer to meet her a few more times and ask her in real life, but i just don't think it's going to happen.

So is it acceptable to do such a thing? Thanks /adv/
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>>17430657
No, it would not be weird
Yes, it would be acceptable
Especially since Facebook friendship can be (and usually is) based off of the smallest connections but still provides a solid means of communication
Go for it, OP
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>>17430671
Hmm alright, any tips on how to ask or what to say.
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>>17430759
Well, I don't know your or her age (whether or not asking to hang out would seem weird, wording-wise etc.) but it shouldn't feel formal at first, you want to see her a few more times, effectively ask if she wants to hang out with you sometime or go out somewhere with you. Doesn't necessarily have to be dinner either.

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How can I be happy knowing I'll never experience love? Knowing no one will ever be attracted to me or want me, even if I did manage to get a relationship, I can't see them truly wanting or being in love with me. I don't know how I'm supposed to be happy missing out on that. Everything is fine apart from that, lots of good friends, good hobbies and career, but I can't ever have the one thing I want more than anything.
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It's like play a singleplayer game on the hardest difficult.
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Same
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>>17430639
Happiness comes from within and is shared between lovers. Love does not create happiness on its own.

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So my problem is as follows:
long term boyfriend, who is kind of insecure lately, got scared that i will leave him for other people (when i would temporarily live abroad sometime in the future) and dumped me in the most onesided and faggy way ever, through text. And then he ghosted me.

The breakup came as a complete shock to me and with no reason as to why. I had to figure it out later through other people and through analyzing the past and his behavioral patterns. When my boyfriend finally decided to talk, he was really cruel and blamed me for a lot of things that, if he would have said that they bugged him so much, we could have mended them before they grew (and he never really did say that something was bugging him, he was pretending that everything was fine and i decided to trust his words).
The whole discussion was weird and i felt like everything i was saying didn't reach him.

I noticed that there was this invisible wall building up lately but i thought we would be able to overcome it, and i constantly tried to reach out and be open for him. We were both going through a stressful period in our lives, and i thought that waiting and dissecting this wall after this period ended would be for the best.
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>>17430551
Now, the thing that surprises me a bit is that, for an avoidant type, he was able to be vulnerable with me, and we had an amazing relationship. Now i keep thinking that maybe if i could help him, he will realise what he did and we could somehow overcome this, even if not as a couple. But i know this is selfish and i should also try to not give a fuck after what he consciously put me through.

I try not to blame him that much, though, because he did what he thought was best for himself at the moment, but i kind of want off this rollercoaster of feelings. I thought that figuring out what happened would help me accept and move on, but now i don't know anything anymore.

I know that he can't be 'the one' if he cracked at the slightest taste of adult relationship hardships. I know that no matter how much i love him, if he loved me he would have returned by now. I just can't comprehend it and accept it fully.

Partially i wanted to write this down and put it out there.
How do i accept that it happened and just stop thinking about the why's and how's?
How do i really let reality sink in and stop torturing myself?
Please talk to me

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>>17430552
>>17430551
He did the right thing. Long distance relationships don't work and you would have cheated on him with some foreigner eventually. Women can't help themselves. You rea opportunistic sluts to your core.

Move on and go ride the cock carousel.
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>>17430578
You cheat if you're insecure and have no self respect for yourself or your relationship. You always have a choice.

I have acne; not severe but persistent and cystic.
Accutane has worked but never permanently.
Benzoyl peroxide doesn't seem to work, nor does antibiotics.
Healthy diet and lifestyle doesn't seem to prevent it. Avoiding dairy didn't help.
What do? I think the main culprit is stress.
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Try tretinoin, in a gel or cream, along with 2% salicylic acid.
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>>17430548
Is that the kind I'd need a prescription for?
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>>17430571
Yeah, salycilic acid can be bought over the counter though and might help in the meantime.

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Can people tell if you've been checking their facebook profile?
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>>17430435
Yup.
If you aren't friends with them, you show up in the friend suggestions.
I don't know if something happens when you're friends with them.
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>>17430440
>If you aren't friends with them, you show up in the friend suggestions.

Really? Even if you have no mutual friends? Shit.
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>>17430444
Yes. Especially if you have no mutual friends.
I checked the facebook profile of 3 online friends (I told them I was going to) and I showed up in the suggestions for all 3 of them.

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I need help asap. Is it true there's online therapy? I'm in danger of killing myself but I really don't want to. I want to give one last chance... Like I need help NOW
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suicide hotline
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>>17430363
Call the suicide hotline right away.
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I'm kinda at work guys. And I've called there and and it only made things worse. The guy wouldn't let me talk. He didn't listen to what I had to say. He just said some generic run of the mill stuff and it only made me cry harder

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