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What can I do for her? 2016-08-10 12:45:56 Post No.17447218
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My friend is having bad times, her world collapsed around her. I'm faraway from her right now.
So what can I send to cheer her up? books? I don't know.
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>>17447218
We'll need more info than that famalam.
Otherwise we can't help you.
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>>17447511
we are high school friends. she is an university studen right now. 19 yo.
and she is very smart intellectual girl. But I really don't know what should I send her. I wish I have an handicraft.
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How about you give her a phonecall?
Are there jobs over minimum wage that are good for people with generalised anxiety disorder? Asking because I have anxiety and can't even get a enough hours at my cashier job that I have held for a few years. I need to find a new job but one that is not too mentally taxing. Am I better off financially if I try to get on disability payments instead? I'm Australian btw.
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>>17447210
Anxiety disorder will fuck you up if you don't face your fears. Otherwise, find a job in which people around you are loving and caring = any badly paid job with a 'mission'
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>>17447210
They don't give dole for anxiety her m8... your better off jumping infront of a bus and sueing...
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>>17447257
Being poor is exacerbating my anxiety condition so doing anything that pays less hourly than my current job isn't really an option even if there are nice people to look forward to working with. I just want a career idea for something that isn't too mentally exhausting for someone with a long term mental disability.
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Just rescued this little guy
He's not moving at all, but he's alive
What should I do? There's a nest nearby but it's way too high for us to reach, and the neighborhood has a lot of cats so we'd rather not leave him outside
Also I never cared about biology much back in school, so I don't even know what species he is
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I hope you didn't touch it, I heard birds with human scents are avoided by other birds or something. Or was it just the babies?
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take him to the vet and ask what to do with himb
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>>17447183
This is a myth
>>17447185
This is the correct answer
Is it more harmful to be an alcoholic or underweight? I never seem to manage to keep any weight on unless I'm drinking.
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>>17447159
Alcoholic is way more harmful.
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>>17447159
Take up something like drinking soda or high calorie meal equivalent. You just arent getting enough food.
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>>17447164
My problem is I fucking hate eating. It's a boring obligation.
Soda is an okay suggestion, I guess.
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Ok /adv/ SO
I`m 22 years old and have never been able to cum outside of a wet dream. I went to a urologist a couple months ago and he suggested wanting to do a procedure that involves shoving a camera up my urethra and anus.
Fast forward another month and im just fapping to a girl on chaturbate and out of nowhere I made myself cum for the first time ever. So I figured I just sucked at fapping and nothing was ever actually wrong with me. Unfortunately I haven't been able to cum via sex or fapping since. I just pee everywhere when I feel like I should be cumming.
So /adv/ should I get a camera shoved up my cock for a problem that might not be physical or is there something else I could do/wrong with me?
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>>17447106
>I just pee everywhere when I feel like I should be cumming.
The valve in your prostate that's supposed to block off your bladder and allow ejection of semen, isn't working properly. Either you have nerve damage or it's an anatomical problem.
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>>17447112
Christ, that sounds like its going to require surgery to fix...
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Anyway, yes, you should get a camera shoved up your cock.
Sorry man.
Hello /adv/ 1st post here.
I am with a relationship dilema.
I'll try to make this short, feel free to ask, I'll be here.
Im 30, I have a girlfriend, she is 24.
I am her 1st sexual partner, she is totally crazy about me, she loves to cook, she takes care of the house etc. A role model girlfriend, if you ask me.
Yet the sex life after few months started to lack, and now is a complete disaster.
She is extremely insecure, even though she is pretty (maybe a bit too skinny, but i dont mind that) and every single bed activity looks exacly the same. I tried numerous times to change something, for example I bought her sexy lingerine on valentines day, he put it once that evening, and never wore it again, even after my numerous pleas. Also I tried to convince her that she is pretty and I love her the way she is, but no amount of flours/compliments/etc seems to make any diffrence.
We had recently some fights about our sex life, since my sex drive is almost gone, we fuck like 2 times in a month, and even then I am feeling like I am doing somekind of a domestic chore.
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The second part of the problem is my female friend who recently broke up with her boyfriend. To make story short, lets say there always was sexual tension between us. Yet before, when I was single, she was a gf of my mate, so I never advanced that road. Recently we started to hang out with the gang more, and one night when I was drunk as shit, I kissed her and asked her if she wants to fuck. She said "sure" and only because all the frends were in the same party, we didn't do it. I felt like shit about that later, since I've never cheated any of my gf before, even with numerous occasions. I just feel that this is a very shitty thing to do.
I just want to highlight this to you: this is not some juvenile booty call. I had by fill of pussy in the days, but me and my female friend are very alike.
The problem is that she is recently she is starting to fall into category of "damaged goods" She is telling that she dont belive in a long lasting relationships anymore (but I dont know, maybe it was just drunk talk after her recent breakup) she cheated on her previous boyfriends at least twice. She is a gamer chick, which on the first glance is good, cause I game a lot also, but addictive gaming is a dangerous vice and I've crawled out of it, got to shape, got a great job. I fear I might get hooked itno it again.
This whole situation is exhausting me mentally and I need to resolve it in some way.
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>>17447102
You cheated on your gf and failing to communicate properly to your gf, both in helping her confidence and your sexual needs.
I wont lecture you but you messed up. Break up with the girlnand find someone else. Or at least tell her what happened and take responsibility for the aftermath.
A girl with self esteem issues is a problem and if anything you should have used her lack of sexual experience as an opportunity to explore kinky fetishes you could both learn and enjoy.
Essentially, confess to gf and avoid second girl.
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>>17447102
OP here.
the options I see:
1.Repair the sex life and relationship with my current gf. I you have any ideas, I am all ears. That should improve our bont and I'll be able to ignore the gamer chick.
2. Fuck the gamer chick. Break the rules for which I always standed for, feel like shit, feed the dog within me. Treat it as a one-night stand and leave her, since she is no gf material.
3. Dump the current gf, since we cannot fuck anymore, and the decay will continue, and try to get the gamer chick, even with varous numerous red flags.
4. Dump the current gf, since we cannot fuck anymore, and the decay will continue, fuck the gamer chick, and treat her as one night stand since she is no GF material.
Any comments will be welcome.
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So, I kind of fucked up, in a manner of speaking, and I need help to think this trough.
Basically,
>year long relationship
>out drinking with girl & friends
>i feel shes into one of my friends but make nothing of it
>her ex comes by, i consider him a friend
>notice them exchange 'significant' smiles several times while joking, obviously enjoying their time
>b-but im right there..
>feelsbadman.jpg
>later that night tell her i feel i need to be alone (otherwise we watch a movie or some shit)
>dont explain why
>she acts like shes a mess and cant understand my distance
I feel like utter shit for not being able to let go of these feelings/perceptions, i guess it comes down to my distrust. Can I be repaired or should I just let go? Be brutal please, i need to fix this asap.
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>>17447042
bamp 4 /adv
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>>17447073
random bump
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Why do so many anons on here get personally offended when a woman says she wants to delegate the child rearing to her willing husband, as if they feel a woman should not have time for herself? Nobody bats an eye when a man delegates the child rearing to his willing wife.
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>>17447010
>child rearing
fuck off faggot
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>>17447010
>Why do so many anons on here get personally offended when a woman says she wants to delegate the child rearing to her willing husband, as if they feel a woman should not have time for herself?
It's the implication of totality: delegating ALL of the child rearing to someone else. This is one of those duties that needs to be shared. It requires the sacrifice of some personal time, even when shared, but not all of it.
>Nobody bats an eye when a man delegates the child rearing to his willing wife.
It has been decades since that statement was last true, at least when taken to mean total reponsibility for child rearing.
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>>17447010
>so many
>literally no one
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Yesterday I told my best (female) friend I'm starting to fall in love with her. I didn't want a relationship, she's not looking for anything either. So I didn't really want to develop all sorts of gooey feelings but what can you do..
I'm worried I damaged our relationship, but I didn't want to lie to her and get sucked up in all sorts of negative feelings by pretending.
So here I am, mentally preparing for heartbreak.
Is it possible to ever be just friends again or will it forever be awkward mixed signals and reading into things when you should just take em at face value.
Thinking I fucked up pretty bad.
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>Yesterday I told my best (female) friend I'm starting to fall in love with her.
And yet:
>I didn't want a relationship
Dumb liar. Learn to be honest with yourself or spend the rest of your days slave to internal drives you don't even understand.
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You did the right thing.
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>>17447026
He quite obviously fucked up. Best case scenario this primes their dynamic for a relationship down the line, worst case scenario it alters their interactions in a way OP has little if any control over.
Either way, he should just continue on and not make a big deal of it. Doesn't even matter, he's got his own shit to do and shouldn't make it seem otherwise.
Should I try to date people I don't like?
Honestly, I'm inexperienced with dating even though I'm in my late twenties. Of the last 4 girls I asked out, 3 went out with me, but only once.
Two of them I actually talked to quite a bit before the date, and really liked them. It made the rejection much, much worse.
I've heard people say dating is a numbers game, but I only want to date people that I'm interested in and know on some level beforehand, which has only been like 4 people in the last year.
So, my question is, is it flawed thinking to only date people you're interested in?
I don't want to be alone anymore.
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>>17446986
No, it's not flawed thinking, it should definitely be what your number one priority when choosing a partner. You had 3/4 girls you that you asked out actually talk to you and go out with you in the last year, thats pretty good stats, i assume you have friends so all it takes is to meet a person that you get along with as well as one of your friends and the feeling being mutual. Keep trying and don't settle, you'll be miserable in the long run.
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>>17446996
I don't really have friends and I just got fired from my job. I know I should be focusing completely on finding work right now, but since I live alone, not having work to distract me has made me extremely lonely as of late, like I'm tired of facing the wold alone.
Thank you for your encouragement though. I'm a grown man, and I honestly cried and felt helpless today. Even having one anonymous person on the internet say something positive to me made me feel a little better.
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>>17447017
Yeah just work on both at once, try find a new job and keep looking for dating opportunities, i assume youre using some kind of dating site or app, otherwise 4 people in a year is really good for random meet dates, just keep slugging it out you'll find someone that like you for you, the 2 girls you liked that rejected you after the first date are just 2 in 3 billion.
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every weekend, when my bf goes home, i´m really exhausted. not physically, but mentally. he´s not demanding or anything, i´m just a fucking recluse and social interactions are draining to me. what do i do? we don´t spend that much time together and when we do i don´t feel like this, only afterwards. what is this and how do i change it?
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>>17446981
Is the relationship new? As you grow more comfortable with the person this feeling tends to go away, i'm an introvert too, i get exhausted after being around too many people for too long, but with my girlfriend after a few months of being in a relationship i never get this with her anymore, shes almost part of my "alone time".
It's likely a comfortability thing, you're putting up a front or trying too hard so you're wearing yourself out by being around him. I'd also suggest talking to your boyfriend about this, tell him you only feel it after he's gone and it's just part of who you are, he will have to learn eventually.
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>>17447008
we´re dating since 10 months.
i have thought about it since i posted my op and i guess you´re right. it´s probably a comfortability issus. i´ll talk to him about it and see if we find a solution. thanks anon
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>>17446981
break up with him. and gimme your location/number/anything to contact you.
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All in all, my gf has said so far:
>I love her more than she loves me
>If we were to break up, or me to disappear, she'd get over me and move on because that's "realistic"
>when we first met two years ago she was using me to get over another guy, which didn't work out, so she dumped me then (I was a bad replacement basically)
>she doesn't feel excited about coming home to text me at all (she tried to save this by saying "I like it better in person" but it didn't work)
And I'm sure there's more comments like these I can't remember. Then, she gets mad at me when I feel offended/down by one of them, or unloved at all.
Is this considered emotional abuse?
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Yes. Break up.
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Today it might feel like shes all youve got, and that you will not find yourself in a better situation. you will be in a better situation after a while if u just break up and find someone who is actually good for you.
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>>17446968
I'd consider it emotional abuse and maybe a warning sign that things won't end well for you. When I first started dating my ex she was super in love with me, but over time she stopped loving me and was cheating on me. Near the end she said things similar to what yours is saying. She said I loved her more and she didn't think she could ever feel as strongly about me as I did about her. She also said she could picture a life without me in it. She also did the distance thing about not wanting to text me, but in addition she didn't want to spend time with me in person either. Maybe she liked her alone time, but then again my ex told me the same thing to placate me so that she could spend her alone time with another man. It sucks man but just be ready for when the shit hits the fan.
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Hello all,i'm getting laid for the first time 2016-08-10 10:03:09 Post No.17446962
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Hello all,i'm getting laid for the first time
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So this Saturday i'm gonna loose my virginity. It's with a girl i know since 1 year and we are really,really close (she told me she loved me 1 week ago and i told her the same but we ain't in a relationship for now because of something pretty crappy) but she fucked 35+ guys before so i'm afraid that i will not please her and fuck shit up. How to please her good and how to get her into the mood? I can't really turn on her. She loves sm,bdsm,domination (i will dominate her she's my bitch) and i like that too so that's fine. I've noticed that biting her ears and licking them turns her on but i don't have the courage to do it. What should i do guys?
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>>17446962
The first thing you should do is get her tested for STDs.
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>>17446966
Already done,she has nothing and we will fuck with a condom. She fucking loves cleanliness so she always took her precautions with guys & girls
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use a condome. .!
maybe u should tell her , I know for sure some girls like to take virginity; )
A girl thinks I'm cute and got my number yesterday, but hasn't contacted me yet.
Now it turns out she flew away today and will be back in ten days. I guess this is why I didn't get a text from her yet. She also didn't respond to my friend asking if I could have her number today, but I attribute this to her being busy with vacation stuff. Still, I'm wondering whether I should expect anything when she's back or maybe it's better to forget about her and continue wallowing in my despair.
This is a continuation for my thread from yesterday.
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You keep acting like that you're gonna come off as desperate.
Don't expect anything, continue your life like normal.
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where did you meet this girl exactly. honestly you shouldn't be thinking so deeply about this theres plenty more fish in the sea my friend
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>>17446932
Woah dude you're over thinking like crazy, it's a miracle a girl even asked for your number.
Just chill the fuck out and let her contact you if she wants to, its 10 days, im sure you're not going to be in a committed relationship by the end of that so just chill out and let things happen. You don't need to "forget about her and continue" because you dont even know the girl, theres nothing to forget or move on from.
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>Traveling with two other girls
>One girl told me how she kept in contact with the people she met at a hostel a year ago
>A roomate we had also told us how he became best buddies with the people he met at a previous hostel
>Me and the people I am traveling with did not keep in contact with any of the people we met a hostels
I really want to befriend other people, but it looks like we failed at that. How to feel better about this?
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>>17446925
What do you feel bad about?
It is not necessary to stay besties with everyone you meet on a trip.
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>>17447191
Not befriending people I have met. I am looking for Portuguese-speaking friends and I am now in Portugal.
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>>17447239
Then what's your issue?
Befriend many people and keep contact with them. Some will become stable friends, some won't.
It's really a non-issue.